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psychic-waffles · 2 years ago

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Alan Cumming Emcee my beloved

#im having a good and normal one and berry saying hei xiazi emcee was the final straw #cabaret #alan cumming #emcee #i am so gay and trans about him

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just-your-average-tangerine · 2 years ago

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The line between binary and nonbinary trans people is nowhere near as clean as some of yall think it is

#transgender #trans #nonbinary #like i guess i would be considered a 'binary' trans man #i wouldnt consider myself that for two reasons #first because the idea that gender is binary is bullshit to begin with so why would i identify within it #and second because i am a man only in that i am a gay man #i dont identify outside of manhood im terms of gender #but my gender is so linked to my sexuality that it cant be neatly tracked onto a binary view of 'man'#but because i am a man other consider me 'binary' regardless of how i feel about it #and yet will still refuse to use he/him pronouns in favor of exclusively using they/them #but thats a different discussion #op

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miraculouslumination · 14 days ago

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You know sometimes it just hits you that so much of queer "discourse" is basically one group of queer people trying to cultivate a subcommunity for themselves and their identity while another group of queer people cry and scream about how that group, who is just trying to exist and have their own bubble, is the cause of all their own group's problems

#Jean mumbles #This is about asexuals and pansexuals and bisexuals and mspec lesbians and aspec lesbians and mspec and aspec in genera #It's about neopronouns and xenogenders and trans men and transneutrals and trans women and nonbinary people #And multigender people and genderqueer people and he/him lesbians and she/her gays and intersex people and so on and so on #And yes. It's about kinksters too. Because kink belongs in the queer community too.#You know what this isn't about. I am on my knees begging you to not say the most blatant “EXCEPT FOR [redacted]”#Because we know. We fucking know. Those people aren't welcome here. Stop making every queer inclusion post about those people #They aren't part of the community and they never will be so cut it oooouuuutttttt #Anyway. Yeah. So much queer discourse is basically ''you exist in a way that challenges my preconceived notion of queerness-#- and that makes me very uncomfortable and upset so. Kill yourself?? Please? :pleading_face:" and people think they're somehow morally righ #For doing this. Like actually grow up. Actually grow the fuck up before you pipe up.

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zerodaryls · 1 year ago

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Pete Burns of Dead Or Alive in the music video for Your Sweetness (Is Your Weakness) [1990]

#pete burns #dead or alive #i made this for myself just so i can look at him O_O #the amount of PRETTY. the amount of GENDERFUCKERY. stop i'm already queer 😭❤️#i'd heard You Spin Me Round and seen the video which is iconic of course.. but i didn't realize how fucking GORGEOUS he was #like holy fuck i'm so. O_O #also he's quoted as saying: '[people] always want to know... am i gay bi trans or what? i say forget all that.'#'there's got to be a completely different terminology and i'm not aware if it's been invented yet. i'm just Pete.'#unlabeled queerness makes my heart soar #he's just Pete <3 #ANYWAY.. WHY THE FUCK DON'T MORE QUEER PPL TALK ABOUT HIM????#he was doing this shit in the 80s and 90s???#HELLO???? j'adore <3 #my posts #my gifs

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snailimp · 10 months ago

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This is how medic enters a room O////O

#medic #medictf2 #tf2 #team fortress 2 #dr ludwig #burly beast #trans headcanon #i am so normal about him #i am very gay

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starwikia · 8 months ago

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suicide cw

look i have been in this area before mentally. it sucks and i wouldn’t wish this on anyone. but, and this is going to sound callous, but i don’t feel any sympathy for james somerton. even if i hope he’s like. not dead. But thats all the amount of goodwill im willing to give him. The more i think about this really, the more angry i am.

ngl this entire situation is another example of how white people weaponize their mental illness to avoid consequences. Im seeing it in real time.

this man has a continuous habit of using self-harm as a get-out-of-jail-for-free card. in both of his apologies, he has worded his supposed attempts in ways that were clearly meant to guilt people who displayed his plagiarism and overall horrendous history of racism and misogyny. i say supposed because, while i’m not saying those are lies and this would he such a fucked up thing to lie about that i don’t want to think he has, unfortunately, it’s been proven again and again that his word can’t be trusted, as he’s known to lie to try get out of consequences. Hes a proven liar. him lying about this is actually the best case scenario, because no one should go through this entire situation, wouldnt wish this on anyone, but you can only do this so often before people stop sympathizing with you. is this callous? Yeah, but like. I’m actually fucking angry he cant straight up take no as an answer. that this is how he reacts realizing he cant be one of the Cool Kidz™️ on youtube anymore. he acts like he DESERVES a career, like its not a privilege hes lost due to his own actions.

He lied about apologizing and forgiving people, he lied about giving the money to hbomberguy to give to ppl he ripped off (yknow, instead of doing it himself), he lied about the jessie gender situation and rewrote the narrative to make it so he isnt the bad guy, and hes the victim all along actually!

you can’t tell me that supposed last message of his isn’t meant to be a 13 reasons why esq attempt to deflect the blame “look i’m going to kill myself and it’s all YOUR PEOPLES FAULT for not letting me achieve my DREAM of being filmmaker IN PEACE!!! I just wanted Nick’s (the guy who I have thrown under the bus again and again) portfolio up!! Im just being a good friend dont you all FEEL BAD” he refuses to take ANY ACCOUNTABILITY of any of his actions and he IS STILL trying to shove the blame over to other people again.

it’s also pretty ironic people are like “uhhh well hbomber’s fans harassed him!!!” like hbomber outright told people NOT to HARASS JAMES!!! ALSO acting as if james doesn’t have a very real documented history of STRAIGHT UP sending his fans to harass and threaten smaller creators, more notably women, trans, and bipoc creators. especially after he’s stolen typically very personal anecdotes so he could profit from them. so why can he do it but the second people are like “hey this guys an actual piece of shit.” and he can’t handle it suddenly people are trying to white knight his shit? like no he doesn’t get that. he doesn’t get that at all just because he couldn’t handle the consequences of his actions.

what? were supposed to stay quiet about a man profiting off of other minorities because he wanted to be the spokesman for all gay people? people tried to solve this on a smaller, more private scales for YEARS and he kept doing it. it was clear that the giant public video was the ONLY way to get people to notice. HE WOULDVE GOTTEN AWAY WITH STEALING 87 FUCKING THOUSANDS WORTH OF DOLLARS. HE CANT HANDLE THE FACT HE CANT GET AWAY WITH IT.

am i supposed to feel bad for the guy who basically threatened a trans woman with the police? i don’t care what anyone says, it’s so fucking obvious that he threatened jessie by implying he was getting the police involved in their conflict. what am i supposed to act like that didn’t happen? are we supposed to pretend like he didn’t glorify nazi’s and outright said that gay people made up a good chunk of the nazis? That he didnt say america joined ww2 bc they were jealous of the NAZIS. WHAT WOULD POSSESS YOU TO FUCKING SAY THAT. but then? He gives women (not even women most of the time, he misgenders nonbinary ppl constantly) shit for writing mlm. are we supposed to act like he doesn’t straight-up sees himself superior and better than people of color and steals their works to put himself on a pedestal? Are we supposed to act like he didnt spit on our elders by saying “only the boring gays survived aids” like man! Fuck you! He BLANTANTLY MAKES UP HISTORY TO PUT HIMSELF ON A PEDESTAL!! HE ACTIVELY TRIED TO REWRITE LGBT HISTORY TO SUIT HIS FUCKED UP NARRATIVES!

yes this sucks ! no one deserves this but no one should be making him a martyr. Thats what he fucking WANTS! He wants to be immortalized as a victim!! (again, supposedly, it was reported hes alive but its not confirmed).

The shit he got isnt near the amount of fucking callous behavior hes done again and again. Again, to drill this point, EVEN IF HE DIDNT CALL THE POLICE HE THREATENED A TRANS WOMAN INTO THINKING HE DID!!! The fact he tried to use a head injury to justify years of the outright ghoulish shit fucking astounds me. Why the fuck did anyone in his life thought it was a good idea to let him TRY to come back. in the end, he had options. he didn’t need to try to make a comeback. HE DIDNT NEED TO FUCKING LIE OR IGNORE THE SHIT HE WAS CALLED OUT ON the reality is, he wanted to come back thinking he could shove it under the rug, was told that no dude, you’re not allowed to be a youtuber anymore. you’re done. you need to move on and went full nuclear. it’s not on anyone’s hands but his own. HES BEEN DOING THIS TO HIMSELF!! But nah man we cant call his shit out bc hell may or may not kill himself. Fuck the other minorities who have the same issues but worse and sometimes BECAUSE of him. This is going to SUCKKKK so bad when other ppl, specifically white gays, are going to weaponize this shit to get away with their stuff.

#warning: do not read this post if you want me to be nice to james somerton. i am extremely mean in this post.#before anyone accuses me of shit i legit never contacted him myself or anyone involved. i am someone who witnessed this behavior repeatedly #again. i hope hes alive and well. the fact is him lying about this WOULD BE THE IDEAL SITUATION. BC NO ONE SHOULD GO THROUGH THAT. but.#he HAS to forever be the victim in his eyes. attempting doesnt automatically mean youre free of sin.#its just terrible to see that regardless whether or not he did do it #its very clear his attempts to run away from his consequences are working on some people #we need to acknowledge that if your shitty ex friend can weaponize a threat to kill themselves #so can this internet person after being called out for horrendous shit #like what was the alterative? what were people supposed to fucking do? be nice about it?#yeah as if poc and trans women arent historically given shit for being 'too mean' about wanting justice.#this isnt just the plagiarism this is the fact a white dude has been parading himself as THE speaker for the gays(tm) but has been using hi #gayness to shield himself from his misogyny racism transphobia and antisemitism #its very clear regardless this means that ppl r going to side with him and then give him benefit of doubt #if you cant handle the heat stay out of the fucking kitchen dude. this is the consequences of your fucking actions.#hes a disgusting person who cant handle being told no so hes going to drag everyone down with him #like. idk this entire situation is frustrating to me.#its also frustrating ppl trying to be moral abt it like 'see! i knew this was bad all along!' no you didnt. shut it.#for the record im like mainly talking abt twit watching those spineless uwu cutesy ppl basically saying hes done noting wrong #oh and also alt righters who are clearly weaponinizing this where u know they wouldnt give a shit if a right ytber did this.#james somerton #idk might delete this later its just. ugh...

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uncanny-tranny · 8 months ago

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Something I realized (which was obvious to me subconsciously) is that... The family that vehemently didn't accept me when I first came out but now do accept me are still the same family that I am most unwilling to be open about things I feel protective over.

I remember that my dad reacted so poorly, not to my coming out, but to my transition specifically that my therapist was the one to ask if I wanted to put it on my file that I wanted nothing to ever be shared with him about my health after I broke down multiple times due to my anxiety that I would never transition. While there are and were protections for me, I was incredibly fearful at the time because I was a minor, and I was so worried that he would have prevented my transition that I couldn't have said for certain what (if any) lengths he would have gone to to prevent that.

He's grown a lot as a person, and made some commendable strides. But he didn't find out from me when I medically transitioned the second I turned eighteen, and I think that's among the things that truly made him realize the scope of the issue.

I'm not here to guilt trip parents, guardians, or other members responsible for the care of the children or teens or young adults in their care.... but this is a cautionary tale. You aren't saving the people in your care when you do this, you simply reinforce an idea that you will never care for them, never want them as they are, would rather them be shoved away.

When you give people reasons to be secretive, they will behave secretively. When you give people reasons to doubt their safety around you, they will become sneaky, defensive, and withdrawn. When you give people reasons to doubt that you value their life, they will believe that you don't care if they live or not.

#queer #lgbt #lgbtq #ally advice #transphobia #transphobia tw #i always feel the need to preface that i have a rebuilt relationship with my dad specifically...#...but that my experiences with them have served to me in many ways to illustrate... well... what NOT to do if you are in his situation #i do still grieve that my relationship with him looks very scarred and that it took a long time to get to where he is now #but i recognize that in many ways this is a product of the world and culture we live in and that he lived in #in a world he grew up gay was used as a slur. would i expect that trans people would be treated better?#and he was responsible for how he reacted but also... it's nuanced as to why he reacted so poorly #and i want people to AVOID being like he did if they EVER want a decent relationship with the other person #i want this to be a cautionary tale and that my ending is unique. not all of us are even ABLE to repair a relationship that was THAT broken #some of us die trying. some of us never get closure. some of us are in active danger because of those reactions #and that's the more common reality i have found. most other queer people have no-contact with families who pulled the shit my dad had...#...and that's - frankly - a good idea in 99.9% of cases. i will never judge someone for the way they go about dealing with that #i'm just emphasizing that i am unique in the sense that i was able to somewhat repair that

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crypt1camoeba · 8 months ago

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Hi I really like this man

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compulsiveobsessing · 2 months ago

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queer people with conservative christian parents: if you've come out to them, how'd that go? if you haven't, do you plan to? what do you say when others tell you 'you know, you'll have to come out to them eventually'?

#im really tired of stressing about this. of imagining the hypotheticals. i cant imagine it going well based on the way they keep talking #about me and others #and i get so annoyed and a little angry when people (both other queer people and allies) tell me ill have to come out #like okay how do YOU think i should go about this hmm??#they still believe gay and trans people are sinful and gross. my dad grimaced when i told him public health focuses on #health equity. which includes considering lgbtq care. like this is where we're at #i dont want to be a downer :P i actually enjoy being queer im so happy i am but this is. a stressor #exvangelical #personal

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b4kuch1n · 2 years ago

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more sk8. I think the cindereki stuff is extremely stupid but I am not immune to trying to conceptualize a princess gown in any setting

#sk8 the infinity #kyan reki #hasegawa langa #renga #if ur wondering yes the first gown I uh. pulled? from the brothers grimm version's idea #which I do prefer to the perrault/disney version. specifically bc there's no fairy #there are three balls happening on three consecutive nights and each night cinderella gets a gown and accessories from a tree #growing on her mom's grave #(the version I grew up with (translated to vietnamese) actually wrote it to be her dad's grave instead I literally dont know why)#and the wording is like. ''rain gold and silver on me'' or something like that? which is why all of the dangly bits in that design #(dont worry about the rest of the brothers grimms version. thats not important. dont think about it its not in the room with us)#also in this post: future!renga bc of fucking course. who do you think I am. who do you think I am #I see a character I love I immediately try to imagine a good future for them it is Simply my ways #ft. the lethal combo of being three kinds of queer + adhd + a teen #may just be bc I myself don't go to college lol. but I can't really imagine reki going to college. he'd get apprenticeship somewhere #like immediately. on sight. some uncle in nago would snatch him up a sentence in #I waffle on langa but him just getting out of the biggest shock of his life + severe depression would Not let go of his loved ones #so tbh I can't imagine him leaving okinawa either. at least right after high school #langa has the advantage of not giving a single shit about ''his potentials'' so he'll be chasing life's pleasures for a hot second thank you #also I believe in reki speaking at least passable conversational english thank you. he's trans and gay in asia #he's just also the kind of guy who has to think for a hot second to remember which way the written number 3 faces #''nailed the logic just plugged the wrong number in several times'' kind of guy #while langa's the ''doesn't understand the fundamental concept of puzzles'' kind of guy #man. this is like having two homunculi implanted in my brain. welcome boys come join leon pokemon #talk to each others while I do my job ok? thank you #that said. the comm queue should be finished up soon #(funny thing to say about three comms I know. but I will say it anyway)#and I'll take a few days break to unclench my brain and then get back into it #every day I learn new things about the dip pen. its great #okay. nap now tho. anything else can wait

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lucydacusgirl · 4 months ago

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I love reading essays about bisexuality but it is crazy how we’ve been have the same conversations for over thirty years. Bisexuals have been critiquing the ‘straight passing’ narrative since the 90s (and I’m sure longer) and yet I still have to see it any time bisexuals are mentioned in queer spaces. Like.

(From ‘Challenging the Stereotypes’ by Amanda Udis-Kessler, Bisexual Horizons 1996)

I find it really striking that she says that biphobia from within the community ‘gets in the way of bisexuals working for lesbian/gay rights and dignity’ because I see a lot of people talking about how biphobia from within the community isn’t oppression and I’m not gonna argue about whether it is or not but it absolutely does deny us our dignity.

People constantly make fun of the way that bi people are desperate to affirm their queerness like mocking bi girls who talk about liking women and being bisexual while having a boyfriend with no mention of the fact that that insecurity is based in the constant belittling and ridiculing of bisexual people within the community.

Bisexuals are always always seen as traitors or tryhards or both. We cannot win we can’t do anything right. (Except decide that we’re actually gay or straight)

#bisexuality #and like I find the ‘oh I’m attracted to all women and one guy’ schtick irritating as hell.#i think if you’re constantly posting online about how you would never date another man if you broke up with your current boyfriend #or how tragic it is that you’ve ended up with a man instead of a woman that’s kind of shitty to your partner and rings very hollow #but I understand where it comes from. and I think it’s unfair to pretend that it’s something bi women came up with for fun #‘why do bi women talk about being queer all the time when they literally have a boyfriend🙄’#well probably because their bisexuality is important to them and their queerness is part of their identity and likely their social circle #and that doesn’t go away because they’re dating a man.#idk. my trans bisexual partner is not straight passing. even when people read him as cis they read him as gay.#more and more I am not straight passing and have been yelled at for being gay by strangers on the street.#‘bisexuals have straight passing privilege’ is such a crazy generalising take and it blows my mind that I still see it so much #and says much more about what you think about bisexuals than it does about actual bisexuals

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halfusek · 1 year ago

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happy pride month to all the sillys :3

#pride month #pride 2023 #halfart #fursona #its a me #100%#intersex #trans #transgender #nonbinary #pansexual #asexual #polyamourous #gay #YIPEE YIPEE YIPEE #okay so if you care for an explanation why there are so many flags #im intersex #and its very hard for me to label myself and as for my identity technically publically i go as a trans man with he/him pronouns #but honestly i've always felt like im nonbinary and discovering that im intersex is funny because like #wait. am i *canonically* enby?? fjkfdjdf cuz intersex is. yeah. so. yeah. ive been thinking about that a lot #ive just stuck to the trans man identity and he/him pronouns because i wanted to get away from trying to be pushed to being a girl #so it feels more comfortable when strangers address me like a man #because they respect me for who im telling them i am and not who they think i am #the other flags well pansexual and asexual are there at the same time because im uh. im pretty sure i am aroace but i dont #i dont really feel like that captures the fact that i can date people of any gender. and the way pan is defined makes me interpret it as #a kind of synonym for bisexual aromantic fbgjhdfbgfdhj #also idk if the drawing conveys it well (i am aware theres a lot going on in it but i had FUN so i dont care)#but the shirt my sona is wearing is the lgbtqia+ progress pride flag :3 #and yes my sona has 6 arms. someponys gotta hold all these flags

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protectoroffaeries · 8 months ago

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y'know for someone who vocally is not a lesbian, people sure do like to call me a lesbian

#no disrespect to lesbians i think yall are fantastic but i am not one #nor am i in a lesbian relationship bc i am a man hope this helps #my very well meaning coworker did argue with me about this yesterday bc he kept calling me a lesbian #i love trans men lesbians they are my lovers and my brothers. but i am so bisexual it's my gender as well as my sexuality #him: -you're a lesbian #me: oh i'm bisexual but i'm in a relationship with a lesbian #him: yeah but you're in a lesbian relationship i mean #no <3 #altho i do prefer this to oh so you're straight? i am not straight do not disrespect my name like this #while we're at it i don't prefer the word gay either #you may call it a queer relationship. a fagdyke relationship.

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fogwitchoftheevermore · 1 year ago

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woe trans fwhip headcannons be upon ye. not pictured is fwhip going home and immediately taking the empires equivalents of an "am i gay" and "am i trans" quiz.

[Image ID: A three panel comic on a light blue background.

Panel 1 shows Fwhip, a young white trans man wearing a victorian lolita dress that is black with a white breast panel, black lace, and a red brooch. It has a high and ruffle-y collar. He has a short red bob, green eyes, and freckles. He has a neutral expression and is looking to the side. There are two arrows pointing to him with text. The first arrow reads: "Fwhip, 16, visiting Pixandria for the first time." The second arrow reads: "Hasn't figured it out yet but [drawing of the gay flag] + [drawing of the trans flag]".

Panel 2 shows Pix, a young tan person wearing a long tan jacket, copper shoulder armor, a brown undershirt, and gold dangly earrings. They are also wearing a pointy copper crown. He has dark brown eyes, dark brown hair that is kept in a ponytail draped over their right shoulder, and a beard. They are smiling and waving. There are two arrows pointing to them with text. The first reads: "Pix, 21, certified pretty boy (gn)". The second arrow depicts the aro ace flag and the agender flag.

Panel 3: Fwhip is looking up at Pix with star eyes and shocked expression. Pix is looking down at him with a smile. There is an arrow pointing to Fwhip reading "just had multiple awakenings". There is an arrow pointing to Pix reading "knows full well but is gonna let this happen naturally". End ID]

#empires smp #empires season 1 #empires fanart #fwhip #pixlriffs #empireshipping #just to be safe even though this is SO tame #hes not even blushing #i have so many thoughts about the emperors and the fact that they are All trans #pix is the oldest emperor so he has caused similar awakenings for at least four other emperors #(scott's gay awakening+joel's bi awakening+sausage's trans awakening+katherine's trans awakening (in the other direction))#he also helped jimmy unlock his full gender potential but in a different way from them (just talked to him about it a lot)#it's also important to me that you know that fwhip cut that bob himself #he used to have crazy long hair like gem but impulse cut it and his dad Hates it #(i have so many thoughts about young fwhip+young roseblings in general)#also you’re not allowed to say anything about any inconsistencies in this #i made it from 1:45-3:15 am ish i’m allowed

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smile-files · 1 month ago

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it turns out we were all the gay cousin

#melonposting #the 'gay cousin' thing is very funny to me considering how many of us in the family are queer #i am... so are at least two of my siblings... and now one of my cousins is trans! wahoo #i'm reminded of something funny though #my synagogue holds a 'queer shabbat' every june. quite nice of them #among other things they try to have more queer people participating in services. so my brother read torah that day! yay!#but for getting someone to carry the torah around the synagogue they asked my other brother #...who is not queer #and he asks me in a hushed voice during the service if i can carry the torah instead of him #and i'm like um? i don't know how?? i've never done it before??? what if i drop it????#and he's like no it's fine it's not even that heavy #and i was like why do you want me to do it so badly anyway???#and he's like... it should be someone who's ACTUALLY QUEER #i almost cracked up. he said it so bald-facedly lol #i was too nervous so he ended up doing it. i bet he felt rather silly about it though

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elvenmoe · 2 months ago

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I have the strong desire to reverse 1999 au danganronpa because maybe then I could get well written lesbians. If no else will do it I will do it myself I NEED AOI AND SAKURA TO THRIVE AS MY OG DOOMED YURI SHIP I SHIPPED THEM BEFORE I WAS INTO FANDOMS

I should calm down. Or should I??? 2.2 has me enraged and danganronpas fandom ignored yuri so I want to make everything more tragic so everyone shares my misery. (Why am I having a villain monologue rn? I am unwell) I AM IN PAIN. Physically and the only thing that could bring joy is making tragic yuri more tragic.

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