#i also need more haters in my inbox i love being a hater with people

[impishtubist]

Favorite anons?

So I actually don't know who all my anons are! They might be the same person or multiple people. Of course, I am kissing my Temeraire and Hawkeye Pierce and Remus Lupin breeding anons on the mouth. I still have a soft spot in my heart for the Moonchaser breeding kink anon (who then revealed their identity to me). I'm always glad when someone comes into my inbox in defense of canon Sirius, and also when someone also agrees with me re: fanon Sirius and fanon Remus. I love the anons who bring me prompts or headcanons or crack ideas. I had some Blackcest and Sirry anons in my inbox for a short period of time. I enjoy when people pick up on the Ineffable Wolfstar AU that @lynxindisguise and I were building and send their own thoughts in. And of course there were the series of anons a year or so back where we spun a tale about Remus marrying rich men and murdering them and then being like "oh no" when he got to Sirius 😂 Oh, and my McKirk anons! Someone (I think I know who) likes to leave Bones McCoy headcanons in my inbox and those are always fun.

I honestly don't even care about the hate anons! I have been here for far too long for hate anons to bother me (also I have blocked so many people that I don't get many of them). But the hate anons just give me something to laugh at.

[lover-of-mine]

it’s so interesting that with previous love interests, it was normal and fine to not ship them and to still want buddie in the future, but now, we have to sit down and shut up and accept that it’s never happening and B/T are forever

oh no wait, it’s not interesting, it’s annoying and confusing and frankly just weird. misogynistic and borderline fetishistic

shipping non-canon couples, especially ones with 6 years of history and love and shared experiences, is the norm in literally every fandom, but now suddenly it’s wrong and how dare we

a fair few of the people saying this are also, conveniently, the ones implying that B’s bisexuality is tied to T and T alone and if we don’t ship them, we don’t support bi!B

how. very. interesting! /annoying/confusing/weird

So interesting. Dude, I got called homophobic because I didn't immediately look at them in 703 and decided they were true love. In 703. Because I didn't look at the shoulder touch and immediately started shipping them. Homophobic with all the letters. I got yelled at. After 703. Legit almost deleted this whole blog over some of the things that got sent. I was legitimately crying with friends who are not in the fandom if I was being unreasonable or insane or whatever else I got called for not jumping in instantly and to ask if I was actually doing something wrong. People were saying we were being weird about queer storylines. That we needed to shut the fuck up and enjoy the way Oliver Stark was gonna make out with a hot guy. That not being on board the ship meant that we had an unreasonable and ridiculous necessity of making sure Eddie was the only guy for Buck. Literally every single person in this fandom hc Buck 1.0 also hooked up with guys. Most people never acted as if Buck needs to be guided through his queerness by this hot older guy. Oh, wait, no, they did. With T. People automatically decided that Buck needed a queer Yoda. That he needed someone to hold his hand and be a guide. They added a fucked up power dynamic from the get go. With no information, Buck was already a baby that needed his hand held through his own sexuality. And let me tell you one thing, I know for a FACT that if it was Eddie, the automatic reaction wouldn't be putting T in this idealized experienced gay guide position when that would've made more sense (not that I think any of them needs a guide) because Eddie is the one with the body count you can count with one hand and a weird relationship with sex. But somehow I'm the one who's weird about Buck's sexuality. I don't want Buck to explore. I need Buck to only have loved Eddie. Sure. Look, I don't wanna multiship. The same way everyone is allowed to ship whatever the fuck they want, I'm allowed to not ship whatever the fuck I want. If it was a woman no one would've been in my inbox basically demanding I make the same level of analysis I make for buddie for them (let me tell you one thing too, if I made the level of analysis I do with buddie with bt, no one would like what I have to say ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯) but I'm still getting asked for it for some reason when I never indicated I ship the two.

But I'm not allowed to have any critical thoughts about anything involving bt or else I'm being weird and that's the mild term that's being used. I can't point out the fact that T left Buck in a curb and failed to communicate shit properly even though it happened in canon. I can't say that I think it felt kinda callous for him to say "they had henleys in the 80s" to Buck being upset T didn't dress on theme (also, the job requires them to change into a uniform by nature, he could've put a colorful shirt and indulged Buck a little bit there without it interfering with the way he was on standby but I can't say that or else I'm a hater). There is no criticism allowed in the ship but somehow I'm the one being weird. I don't think Buck should be in a relationship. I think Buck is still exhibiting the same patterns when it comes to love interests. And yes, I would feel the same way if it was Eddie. Buck doesn't know how to be happy alone and he will never be happy in a relationship until he learns that. I was saying that when it was Natalia and getting praised for my understanding of Buck's character. Now I'm locking Buck onto Eddie. Buck's bisexuality is only valid if he's actively kissing a guy for some people but I'm the one being weird. BT have so many visual parallels to bucktaylor, but if I say that's a bad sign I'm being a hater. I need to sit my ass down, ignore six seasons of buildup, accept that it's over, and that now making Eddie queer and getting buddie together would suck because it would destroy the friendship they built so bt are endgame and gonna get married and somehow I'm the one who's being weird about queer relationships and attaching Buck bisexuality to a person. The fandom lost its fucking mind when they saw Oliver kiss a guy and, yeah, it does feel misogynistic and borderline fetishizing. But somehow I'm the one getting blocked by half the fandom when I'm not even pointing everything I want out. I lose at least one mutual every time I even suggest maybe we should look at things a bit more critically. I have to sit here and justify things to an insane degree while people's reaction to any of the criticism is "uH BuT T Is hOt aNd hE Is a gUy sO It iS DiFfErEnT oKaY?" Critical thinking skills went out the window because now there's a guy involved and that's fucking weird. People are straight up erasing Eddie, the actual main character of the show, Buck's established partner of years, Buck's best friend, the only person in canon who never left Buck in any capacity, because some guy kissed Buck and, he, uh *check notes* treats Buck as an actual human being? so that means he's perfect. It's nuts. The bar is hell.

Yes, I know this is not everyone in the fandom and I know this is not everyone who ships them but if what I'm saying feels like a personal attack to you maybe you should do some thinking. Anyone can ship anything, you want to ship them go off, power to you, the weird part here is the way some people are demanding other people ship it too. We could all be coexisting if people didn't get weirdly comfortable demanding shit from other people in the fandom and deciding their opinion is the only one that matters so they need to call out anyone who thinks differently, but alas, that's too much to ask.

[itsblasttothepast]

To my fellow Chequistas/Checolovers: you are all amazing, and I know this has hit us hard, unexpected (even when we felt it was leading this way) and poorly handled by a team that doesn't care about their drivers.

Checo looks at peace, happy and relaxed. He is different than when he lost his seat in Racing Point, perhaps because this time it was his decision, and this has been cooking for a long time. Remember when we said Checo had been more outspoken about the team's issues with the car and the failures? When he yelled at Bird? When he marked the mistakes over the radio? Checo knew he had to make a choice for himself, instead of just staying and being miserable.

I'm happy he decided to put himself first this time, and even when there's the possibility of retirement after this, I feel he wants to retire in his own terms and with a different taste than this 2024 left.

So if you need time to regroup, to feel better and assimilate this, we are going to be here for you. If you decide you had enough and move on to other things/fandoms, that's okay too, and if you want to come back we are here with open arms. We are a supportive community, Checo has taught us the importance of being positive, never give up and keep our dreams.

For my part, I'll keep posting Checo things, updating about his social media things, and making joked about the drivers. I'll still ship Chestappen, Chewis and Hulkenrez, and I hope the authors who write amazing fics about them continue, because they're amazing and your stories cheer me up a lot.

Also I met amazing people here, and I want to continue with the conspiracy theories with my buddy @simplywrong, and having tag conversations with @your-ace-cousin-clover; I want to see @selfishpresley's posts about Checo's dick and headcanons of how to get it, and @baby-alien11 and @kirasworldofwords posts about different opinions regarding everything F1 related; I want to keep exchanging fanfic ideas (particularly Chewis) with @wishfuldivine, and seeing the Strollonso content @aston14s and Lance content @11nevergiveup11 post with some Checo appearances; I want to read @lunarprophetuwu posts about the importance of mental health and ending stereotypes, and @cherriebbyyyy posts about Carlos (I'm becoming a fan). I want to understand @vegasgrandprix Checo posts and puns, as sometimes I get lost, but it's so much fun! and see the wonderful pictures @bluebirdy04, @coffee-bulls, @rojasnn post, and exchanging opinions in spanish with @yolixpan. Seeing the amazing fanart @saicoon shares, and the sense of humor of @luna-sibuna-trying (your posts/reblogs, even when they're not F1 related, cheer me up).

And to those who are new and feel you missed the best Checo era, don't worry about it, the best is yet to come, and in the meanwhile, the Chequitas/Checolovers community will keep the Checo fever, because he's not meant to be forgotten, even the haters keep barking even when he's out of RBR.

This post is to thank you all for your amazing impact in my journey here in tumblr, I have so many people to mention, but I'm getting a little emotional and I'll ramble as usual. You made being a Checo/F1 fan a fun and wonderful thing, and I hope we can continue despite of people celebrating Checo's leaving, well, guess what? The fans stay and will continue loving him.

To those who stay, see you in the dash/inbox and messages. Those who leave temporarily, take as much time as you need and we'll be here when you come back. To those who decide to move on, I wish you the best in your journey and if you want to come back someday, we are a tag away!

Baby model Checo for all of you!

¡Gracias por estar!

[writingquestionsanswered]

How do you stop being insecure about writing and how do you become less sensitive to criticism?

Confidence in Writing, Less Sensitivity to Criticism

While few writers are ever completely secure in their writing ability (confidence can increase or decrease with mood, project difficulty, and other factors), your confidence in your writing will grow naturally as you write more and more. In other words, it's not something that just happens. You have to spend a lot of time writing a lot of things, and your confidence will build as you go.

You can help the process along by:

-- reading a lot -- writing a lot -- honing your craft via learning about writing -- seeking feedback from writing partners/beta readers/editors, etc. -- learning your weaknesses and improving them -- learning your strengths and embracing them

Becoming less sensitive to criticism is a little bit trickier, especially because there can be complicated things that play into it, like past experiences, present mood and mindset, Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, etc.

However, if you're someone who is sensitive to criticism, I cannot stress enough how important it is to simply avoid reading reviews and comments left by readers. If you want feedback you can learn from, seek that out through a qualified writing friend, critique partner, beta reader, editor, etc. and let them know in advance that you're sensitive to criticism so they work with you to give you the feedback you need in the least upsetting way possible. And even with feedback from a qualified person, remember that writing feedback is rarely truly objective. People always bring their personal preferences and own ideas into the feedback they give, so just because a qualified person criticizes something you wrote doesn't mean they're absolutely right or that you're a bad writer. Feedback is there for you to weigh and use only if you agree it will benefit your story.

Something else that helps to remember is that even the best, most critically acclaimed writers in the world have people who hate their writing. Tolstoy, Dickens, Poe, Hemingway, Steinbeck, Austen, Woolf, Christie, Angelou, Atwood, Gaimen, King, Morrison, Allende... every single one of them has thousands of 1-star reviews, critical reviews, and people who just can't stand their writing. Yet, they're all popular writers known the world over, with millions of books sold, and universally loved. All of these names appear on lists of the greatest writers of all time.

And, something else... the degree to which criticism bothers you will decrease as your confidence increases. Not just because confidence naturally thickens your skin, but also because you learn to tell the difference between haters and people with genuinely good points.

I hope that helps!

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[dereality-existence]

*poof* i’ve entered ur inbox again bc yes >:)

Do u think that Adam is just kinda dumb, or is he more than he is letting on? As in, he appears immature like a 5 year old, but has the ability to be mature?

i always got the feeling that he was a lot more than just being a plain ol’ dummy, maybe cuz i wear a tin foil hat like an overthinker every time he’s mentioned in a conversation e

(hope i uh, dont bother u too much with the asks tho, i just like entering in ppl’s inboxes)

Well, it's not just overthinking. Some could make an assumption that Adam is just a dumb-dumb plain villain. But if you wanted to make him remain a plain dumb-dumb villain, why add this tender smile at the end, as if showing his true self?

Not just a smile, but throughout the whole season, the bits of his humane side could be seen right from the first appearance.

(Due to my nature and my struggles, I dunno if I will ever make a full analysis of him, so I will talk about him here as I can!)

Right on his meeting with Charlie, he's showing a constant lack of self-confidence. His constant yapping about how awesome and cool he is doesn't prove anything about him actually being that. Count how many times, while speaking, he looks at Lute, as if gaining a validation from her that he's doing everything right. See how he addresses her, with hope that she's going to cheer him up. How he is always turning to her to see that she's cheering him up, so he can continue his behavior.

The moment with: "Right, Sera…?" is the same thing with self-confidence and uncertainty. In the same court scene, his true nature could be seen at the moment when he stopped his excitement and apologized to Sera.

I know a couple of narcissists IRL, and I can surely say they never apologize. Even if they do, they only pretend to, and it could be seen. Plus, even after apologizing, they like to add EVERY TIME something like, "…but you made me do it. I'm sorry, but you started first", blaming you in the end.

Adam really felt sorry, feeling discomfort for getting too far. And hey, yes, he knows boundaries. It's shown when he got surprised at Lute's violent comment about Vaggie, with his: "Chill, Lute, fuck.". He knows what "getting too far" is.

Also notice how he is always accompanied by someone who can support him. Lute hanging out with him in the free time, I bet, so he could feel safe and protected, besides actually enjoying being with her. He's always relying on someone.

Even when he cheered up his army of exorcists, there was that brief: "Ha-ha, yeeah!" as if for a second he was afraid that he didn't manage to get them hyped with his offer with bucks for them. Like he gets excited that they reacted positively to him struggling with offering them something good for their job, relaxing that he succeeded on that and did not fail.

Did we even see him alone besides the finale? Where you know, he dies. See how he is slowly losing when he is left alone. His self-confidence fades; he's getting angry, not being able to do anything successfully, starting to behave erratically and stupidly.

He's a follower, lacking self-confidence, hurt, and probably not knowing how to live without others guiding him how to.

Haters love to flood all the blame on him for everything when they turn a blind eye to who's actually in control and who let him do all of this shit. Those who let him do the things he did and who allowed him, who cheered him to do it—they are at the same responsibility for everything, if not fully responsible actually.

So I would say he's a poor, uncertain, immature man, rather than dumb. He is more than what he shows on the outside. Give him to the right people, and he would be normal; a man needs therapy, that's for sure.

(no, you never bother me, everything's okay <3) (you personally have something like a "special free pass" from me to ask, messaging me and etc so never worry hehehehe ≧◡≦)

(omg i swear i tried to be brief, why is it so long lol)

[marlsswrites]

you're absolutely disgusting for glorifying fascist characters

james married lily and they would both vomit at the idea of being anything close to friendly with a death eater

Okay this is so stupid but I feel like I should speak up about this because it is HORRENDOUS.

Also really? An anonymous hate comment? Thats just sad, if you’re going to be hater at least have the guts to say it to my face.

I actually laughed when this came into my inbox. They are wizards! Fictional wizards, to clarify. We know next to nothing about regulus, james or lily! So, if i want to make a post about jegulus, i will make a fucking post about jegulus.

You can’t go around calling people fascists just because you dont agree with their opinion, it is so childish and it takes the meaning from the word.

I respect everyones opinions, you dont like jegulus? Thats fine, i respect that. You ship jegulily? Cool, I don’t massively ship it but id never hate on someone who does. You ship jily? Yay, me too! So how about you send a prompt to my inbox and ask me to write a jily oneshot, you dont need to flood my inbox with stupid hate while being anonymous! If you really want to say something, you wouldnt do it anonymously.

There is so much to this fandom, so many headcanons and so so many opinions. And everyone has the right to their opinion, I really dont give a shit that you dont like jegulus, but calling me a fascist is just so pointless.

How on earth do you want me to react? “Sorry, I will stop shipping the couple that have offered me comfort on a daily!” Or “oh wow, you’re being pointlessly stupid, that is such a good point!”

No, because at the end of the day, no one reacts like that. No one will listen to you if you act like that! If you dont support me for liking jegulus, get off my page, honest to god. If you dont like jegulus but you like wolfstar, just skip the jegulus content. Its so easy!

If you want less jegulus content on your feed, maybe stop actively searching for jegulus creators to hate on?

Jegulus brings me so much comfort, if im having a bad day I can just do some writing, or make a video, or read some more of the fanfic i was in the middle of. And you are calling me a fascist simply because i seek comfort in a couple of fictional wizards? Just let people be happy, it really isn’t difficult. And if you cant understand that, you really shouldnt be commenting on it, because you are obviously uneducated and not mature enough to be saying and speaking up about things like that.

I am literally just a another human trying to have some fun and find happiness in the things that I love, and you are some random person online who clearly only finds joy in trying (and failing) to make people feel like shit, get a life. And again, if you have a problem with this post, please DNI, hate is not wanted and is really not needed.

Anyway im off to write some more gay fanfiction about said ‘fascists’, bye!! 🫡

[ask-detective-toodles]

You got an items that missing and needed someone to helps you find it? Well, you're in luck because Detective Toodles is on the case!

[This is a Toodles blog! Where you can chat with the one and only Detective Toodles in Dandy's world. Inspired by one of the skin where Toodles wears Rodger coat and hat.]

"Oh! Did you lost something!? Well, you don't need to worry about that because Detective Toodles is here to find your missing items! Clues are already waiting to be discovered by the amazing detective, haha!"

What is Dandy's World? Dandy's World is a Mascot Horror Survival Multiplayer game where you must team up with fellow Toons to complete machines and descend deeper into Gardenview Center.

Who is Toodles? Toodles is the youngest of Dandy's World. She often wants to be a part of the fun, and loves proving that she is capable for her ability of helping out!

Seems like you got wander into this little blog, haha! Welcome folks, to the one and only blog for Toodles from Dandy's world! I've been having interest with Dandy's world and i can't help in wanting to make one character blog about them, especially Toodles. Her unique cheerfulness and in wanting to helps catches my interest, especially when seeing the detective skin had me in hook! But beside that, in this blog there would be a bunch of sillies, chaos and many more! Maybe a little angst and dark stuff into it, hehe.

But before we're moving into the others, why not we do a little rules and how it work here, hm? Let's goo!

The Rules

Please do not send an NSFW (lusty) ask, remember that Toodles is a minor and probably too young for that so for this sake, don't.

Do not spam my inbox, please! I want all of you to be patience with the reply as i have a life on my own outside internet, i am not a robot that always needed to 'satisfy' you.

If i suddenly got uninterested with the roleplay, please respect it and don't force me to roleplay it, if i say stop and don't want to continue then please respect it.

Anon Magic is allowed but don't be too crazy.

You cannot kill them but you can harm them a little, just don't kill them.

No OP character, please- this isn't anime or some crap like that.

Don't be a hater or rude people here, be friendly (talking about me and others that's having fun)

Info of the Roleplay

This is Toodles speaking

" " This is their talking

` ` This is their thought

[ ] This is Mod Ghost talking

This is Mod Ghost speaking

Now that we're done, time for what Toodles look like and also headcanons!

The Character

[This is Toodles appeareances, inspired by the detective skin in Dandy's World.]

Headcanons

Toodles is 8-9 years old in this blog (no sexual stuff, please.)

Toodles admired Rodger like a father figure and wanted to be just like him when she grows up, reason why she loves to pretend to be a detective.

The detective hat and coat were given by Rodger when Toodles always seem to stared at it, causing Rodger made one for her.

She have magnifying glasses aswell but more smaller that Rodger gives to her.

She can get too much into pretending to be a detective

An ankle biter-

A bit mischief but a sweetheart!

Toodles sometime calls Rodger as 'Dad', 'Father, and 'Daddy', showing her close bonds with Rodger as parents-child relationship.

Toodles would sometime drags other toons into her adventure, which can causes them to be her babysitter or watcher for the time being-

Too curious for her own good.

And that's all! I will wait for your guys askes in my inbox and i'm sure that our dear detective also can't wait for your request for her helps!

[transbeeduo]

Hey! Welcome to my Blog! Call me Crunch! I'm fine with whatever pronouns, but I mostly alternate between He/She/They! I identify as Asexual, Ambiamorous, and Panromantic! Also I’m an adult 👍

Alt Tumblr: DM TO ASK FOR IT TIMES I HAVE HIT POST LIMIT: 35 🎉

https://linktr.ee/transbeeduo (I also have a Discord, which Mutuals are free to ask/dm for!)

I'm primarily a MCYTBLR blogger! I mostly tend to stick to the DSMP side of things, although I'll often post about OSMP and QSMP, and occasionally dabble in other MCYT related fandoms! Along with that I post about Five Nights At Freddy's, Pokémon, or whatever else I'm interested in at the time!

SYSTEM TAGS (Not used super often due to mostly just being me here)

⛏️ : Posts from C!Crunch (NOT Crunch Transbeeduo!! Two different people!)

🎸: Posts from Monty (Montgomery Gator Fictive)

📼: Posts from Cassette/Cass/Ran/Ranboo (Generation Loss/CC!Ranboo Factive. DON'T FUCKING NOTIFY RANBOOLIVE ABOUT THEM BTW DON'T DO THAT SHIT)

🪓: Posts from Ares/Techno (DSMP/OSMP Technoblade fictive)

📺: Posts from Lolbit (Lolbit Fictive)

🎁: Posts from Ophelia/Oleander/FMAN (FMAN122 Fictive)

🔥: Posts from Pyro/Sapnap/Saps (C!Sapnap Fictive)

🌋: Posts from Groudon (C!Tubbo/Groudon/Q!Tubbo fictive)

☁️: Posts from Bo (Pine AU Q!Tubbo fictive)

���️: Posts from Bucky (Bucky Beaver Shipwrecked 64 Fictive)

🐺: Posts from Artemis (Fox Furry Joker P5 Fictive, Black Fox Therian)

🐾 - Posts from Ranboo (C!Ranboo Fictive)

🌴 - Posts from Sal (Flygon + Other Stuff You’d Have To Ask Privately About Fictive)

♥️ - Posts from Shadow (Shadow the Hedgehog Fictive)

Anything not tagged: Almost always Crunch Transbeeduo! Just assume it's them!

(LINKS TO A PRONOUNS.CC PAGE WITH MORE INFORMATION COMING EVENTUALLY)

I quite like every DSMP character, so they'll all tend to show up on this blog, but the most discussed here are C!Beeduo (if it wasn't obvious), along with Michael + my Fankids for them! (Found under "#Bug Posts" and "#Wizard Posts") but I also quite like The Eggpire/Badlands, The Syndicate, and Las Nevadas!

For OSMP I'm usually going to stick to O!Beeduo, while for QSMP I'm quite a fan of Q!Tubbo and Q!BBH! (I don't watch QSMP, only really absorb it through the dash! I do have plans to watch it soon though!)

(Credits for these!)

CC Banner: @////tmmyhug (X added by me)

Beeduo Banner: @////cannosoup

Loves Beeduo: @////thedialup

Technoblade, Sootings, and Parasocial Blinkies: @////block-toad

Michael Feed: @////doodlebloo

Genloss Banner @////Pathtrick

Tommy/Tubbo/Phil: @////Offishly

QSMP Eggs + Theory/Analysis Blinkie: @////etoilesbienne

Alliumduo/Peerpressureduo Banners: @////theenderwalker

Koraidon Banner:@///sweetpeauserboxes

Quackcicle/Ranboo Banners: ???? (Couldn't find the OP, if anyone knows please tell me!)

All other banners: Mine!

BOUNDARIES/BYF UNDER CUT (please read!!):

If it's not incredibly obvious, I do NOT want you here if you support the CC! DTeam or William Gold/Wilbur Soot. Get outta here go. Scram

I AM NOT A CC SHIPPER, I AM NOT SHIPPING REAL PEOPLE NOR DO I CARE FOR SHIPPING REAL PEOPLE IN A SERIOUS MANNER. Everything I say shipping/headcanon wise is about FICTIONAL CHARACTERS.

I block somewhat liberally!!!!! Please do not follow me if ur under 15, I post suggestive things on here sometimes!

PLEASE ask if something I discuss needs Content/Trigger warnings!

I'm not the best with words, or articulating the things I'm thinking about really well. If I say something that doesn't make sense or is confusing I'm sorry.

Please do not be weird in my Inbox. Don't ask me about discourse, don't spam me or ask me to follow you or promote your things, don't like be weird to ME. (Also please don’t ask me anything personal, I am uncomfortable sharing that kind of information online)

I AM NOT A DISCOURSE BLOG!!!!!!! I'll discuss it sometimes but that's just because I like being a hater sometimes. Don't treat me as a discourse blog

PLEASE don't send me C!Beeduo /neg shit unprompted, or if you do at least tell me it is.

[horansqueen]

i know theres still almost two days left to the poll i posted but after 66 votes, I don't think there will be any more people who will give their opinions.

I made a few decisions based on the answers from the poll i got so here they are.

1-I'm starting a new Niall story called Dating For Dummies. It will be updated every saturday (no specific time) and it's a smut, comedy and romance story (as usual). there is an update list where you can add your username and i will notify you when its posted. 2-there are a few Niall stories i want to continue and hopefully finish. the main ones being : Babygirl and Headlines. I do not give up on them and i will try to update them from time to time too if people are interested. 3-I will continue my Louis story called I Almost Care because i love Louis, i love the idea of this story, i know exactly where it's going, and I'm thinking of making it also a weekly update. 4-i want to write a Nouis + ofc story but i'm leaning towards a oneshot or a very short story so if you want to give me your opinion on that, it would mean a lot. 5-if you want me to stop writing... seriously just unfollow me and ignore me. keep being a hater, no one cares :)

i'm trying to get back into writing. i miss it, i love it, and its a big part of me. that being said, writers need readers so if you read and enjoy, please like, reblog and comment. you guys have no idea how much it means to a writer. even just a "i loved it!" is enough, trust me.

and finally, i would love your opinions and thoughts on those decisions i took, my inbox is open! Thank you!!

[fieldofdaisiies]

hey, how are you! hope youre doing well 🤗

i just wanted to let you know that a couple of people who interact with your posts that claim they are pro lucien and eris are also ic haters, and the are quite mean to people who like the ic and rhys. even unprovoked, they reblog pro ic and pro rhys posts and go on a rant on how rhys is a sexual abuser and how he sa'ed feyre and hate on these fictional characters who are not real.

just wanted to let you know to make sure you are safe on tumblr because, well, no one told me and the people i follow, and.... they reblogged our posts and literally wrote whole novels on how rhys is the worst with pics and screenshots from the acotar books.

and we dont even like rhys that much, we just dont hate any characters. so... yeah we were bullied relentlessly and talked shit about 🫠🫠🫠 i can smuggle you the names of them in private if you want.

be safe out here love 🫂

Hey Anon!

First of all, thank you so much for this message and for looking out for people in your fandom space.💛

Secondly, I am very sorry that you and your friends are experiencing hate and bullying, this is never easy and if you need someone to talk to or to encourage you keep going despite the hate, my inbox is always open.

Once again a huge wave of hate is crashing down on certain characters, on the fandom, on writers…I am so tired of it. As you said, they are fictional characters, and some people still dedicate their life to hating on them.

I made a post a few days ago, addressing exactly this. We are all one fandom, brought together by the love for a book series. If you don’t like a character or ship, just move on and ignore, don’t become hateful and destroy the fandom peace.

None of the characters are flawless - Rhys isn’t, Tamlin isn’t, Eris isn’t, Azriel isn’t. And it is okay to point out their flaws and not paint them absolutely perfect, but hate is useless, and can be extremely harmful especially when directed at people who write for these characters.

These males in the books are morally grey for a reason, but they are not real, these books aren’t real life, this is fantasy, this is literature.

But the moment you start hating on people, bullying them, it becomes real, and actual people are hurt. And that is when the fun really stops, because then actual people get hurt.

I joined this fandom to spend time with people who like the same things as I do, to share opinions, stories, art etc. and just to find a place to escape the "real" life and have joy. All I want is for my mutuals is to have joy as well, to enjoy being here and to feel safe.

Please, everyone, be a little more mindful and careful with what you say to other people on here (and in real life). Don't waste your time on hating, and rather just enjoy being here. Stay in your space, and ignore things that you don't like. It'll make life a lot easier for you as well.

I hope despite everything you are alright! Don’t let them discourage you💛

[celorangeine]

HELLO!!!!! I don’t know why i’ve never asked you this before, i seriously love your ocs… i need to know how they would feel about mine. i beg!

(Not every oc of course, that’s up to you! i’d love their thoughts on anyone. They desperately need to be interacting. I will foam at the mouth.)

HEYY!!!!!! happy to see you in my inbox, I LOVE YOUR OCS TOO!!!!! excuse any mistakes because I'm writing this at class 😜 I might go to your inbox and ask for your thoughts on their interactions back... if you don't mind!

This is pretty long. buckle up!!!!

Marcus:

- seeing as he's deeply scared of greasers, Marcus would be scared of Yuudai. the worst part is. Yuudai likes the fact that he's scared of him; it feeds his ego 😎

- Yuudai thinks Marcus is as nerdy as the others but he doesn't hold any grudges against the nerds clique in general so he's actually pretty neutral with him (even though it might not seem that way by his glares. it's natural). I think the fact that Marcus doesn't have a good relationship with the nerds clique earned some respect from Yuudai. it still doesn't stop him from being an asshole to him though 😢

- I think the only time they get along is when Yuudai finds out that Marcus doesn't like Bif. he's the #1 preppies hater so you can imagine how that goes. Yuudai doesn't know the words to do it but it's pretty obvious he wants Marcus to hate on Bif more. he's funny like that

- I feel like Marcus wouldn't like Bennie that much since he hangs out with the jocks (before getting expelled). and it's also because Marcus has become victim to Bennie's pranks way too many times. he thinks his reactions are hilarious

- aside from that, I think Bennie would like Marcus, finds him pretty cool. and when he finds someone he likes, he'll be extra loud around them

- ALSO! Marcus liking hockey is such a coincidence because Bennie only plays a few sports, which is hockey and track (I don't think I've told anyone that yet!!! LUL). Bennie would find Marcus at the bleachers at some hockey game and he'd recognize him: "Hey, that's my dupe!!!"

- they both wear dark glasses. that is awesome. Bennie has tried stealing Marcus' glasses before and tried them on to mock him (in all good fun!)

Rudy:

- as always... Yuudai is an asshole, so he wouldn't like Rudy at first, especially when he's a jock. for some reason he warms up to the guy and I think Rudy would become one of the only jocks Yuudai is fine with

- I don't think they'll interact that much , but I think Yuudai would like to watch the jocks play and eventually they'll run to each other more

- maybe he'll even try to give Rudy his homework answers since... people here seem to appreciate that, it's one way to treat a friend, right....

- I think Rudy and Bennie would get along pretty well 😜😜 especially before he got expelled. they team up a lot in their football games that they've been scolded before to start helping their other teammates beside each other

- Bennie has always been known as a troublemaker and Rudy may have snitched to teachers and prefects a few times. Bennie gets in trouble but he doesn't hold any grudges...... until he gets expelled

- when Bennie becomes a townie, I don't think they'd interact much, but Rudy would still be in his good favors. besides, Bennie never gave him those 5 bucks he promised to pay back.....

Vohn:

- I doubt Vohn and Yuudai would purposely interact since he's a townie. I think they'll become friends out of pure accident. I think they'd meet when Yuudai goes on a ride to town to chill (he just got suspended for a few days) and ended up meeting Vohn

- Yuudai's first impression on Vohn would be that he is such a sad old man!!! doesn't get why he's paranoid all the time

- but the thing is, Vohn and Yuudai have a lot in common and I think they'll become friends. they mostly hang out quietly while smoking n stuff 😎

- Yuudai would call Vohn an old man a lot. despite him being only two years older

- Bennie freakinf loves Vohn. a guy like him is the best kind of guy to mess with because he'd never react to his pranks and it's hilariouse

- Bennie actually wants to be friends with him so bad. but I think he's too loud and flashy.

[my-mt-heart]

So how worried should we be about leaks when TBOC comes out? It was bad with S1 and the haters presenting everything in an anti-caryl way. Now with them blaming Carylers for TOWL spoilers, they're gonna be out there for revenge. And it'll be even worse if Caryl happens to go canon. They're gonna present every spoiler in the most terrible way, pushing the Darabelle agenda and making stuff up to hide canon if it does in fact happen. I'm tired already :(

TWDU has pretty much been turned into a competition to declare a certain show the indisputable anchor of the franchise, and it isn't a particular group of fans who are to blame. Fans of different shows add fuel to the fire if they think raising up their favorite show/actors/characters also means having to tear others down, but there really needs to be a stricter policy on who gets screeners for one thing. AMC should be aiming for bigger media coverage from bigger outlets, not simply more coverage, which means they need top-notch content and top-notch creative voices who also try to create safe spaces for their audience. If the leaks are coming directly from inside, they're either sanctioned or unsanctioned, but the ones being filtered through people who hate Caryl/Carol are obviously intended to hurt us. I would love to see circumstances change before we get close to TBOC's airdate. In the meantime, just remember that you don't have to be a part of any blood bath on SM. Find somewhere safe to root for explicit Caryl canon. My inbox is always open.

[thestobingirlie]

Hello to start with I was concerned about where u went but then realised oh new username excellent crisis averted...

ALSO the main reason I'm in ur inbox is I need a little shitty steve characterisation vent so here goes:

I keep coming across (accidentally) those characterisations of steve (in steddie context) where he's like "i love to be subby and give up control bc I've always had to be in control and it's a relief to take a break from this." And like. canonically steve is the one whose autonomy is always the most hijacked like he's just dragged along with the major plot decisions everyone else makes - i remember a beautiful piece of meta i read a while back that summarised its point in a line like "steve hasn't made a single decision for himself since he chose to go back in the byers house in s1."

Also i believe you've discussed a bunch in the past (or one of your mutuals did?) that he is very much a take charge kind of guy, taking as an example all the russian base shenanagins and his role in those.

And that plus societal/peer/parental pressure (particularly during 'king steve time') to be a certain kind of guy and live a certain way makes me think in fact he would be the complete OPPOSITE??? In regards to needing to give up control if anything I think he'd want to take it back (both in a life decisions and potentially in Sexy Situations kind of way).

Optional extra point that i change my mind on back and forth, in the particular context of steddie I'd almost put eddie (if you had to place them into this specific d/s retaking/giving up control dynamic which you absolutely don't have to) into that characterisation of feeling relief in not having to be in control, as he's the one always having to constantly push back against society and assert his "freakishness."

Long rant over, thank you for always being the blog I can click onto and scroll if I want to read a salty accurate take about fandom characterisations!!

glad you were able to find me again! honestly it’s still kinda crazy to me that people like… recognise my username and seek me out lmao.

i will always be here for some salty takes. you know that post that’s like, what if my hobby is being a hater? literally me.

oh i love that line! yeah, i think it’s really interesting how steve has increasingly not had any control over the direction that his life is going in. he’s a character that is very much so at the mercy of others. like, thinking about the last two seasons, he was tied up and beaten, then strangled and eaten. even looking at the very way that he’s getting injured, it’s all something that he couldn’t fight against!

getting back on topic tho, yeah, i really dislike the super subby idea of steve that is incredibly pervasive throughout the steddie fandom. it just feels so out of character. like, obviously sexual preferences don’t necessarily have to align with a persons personality, but they just really aren’t writing about steve anymore.

yeah no i agree, steve has admitted that he went along with shit in high school because he wanted to be perceived a certain way, so i think it would make more sense that he would want to take that control back in any way he could, be himself in a way he couldn’t before. also. not to get crass, but steve just seems like someone that really enjoys giving, even in the bedroom. like, he wants to make sure the other person is having a good time. and so, i think it makes sense that he would want at least a little control over that.

yeah, i do not think d/s dynamics make sense for steddie’s relationship, and i think it’s kinda weird that people feel the need to make their sex very restrictive and kinky. but also i agree that i think it makes more sense for eddie to be… the not in control one. i also think eddie would like the feeling of being desired. like, eddie is an outcast, he’s a freak, even if he’s welcomed that role. i think he would definitely enjoy king steve being the one, kind of, reaching out and going after him, in that way.

but yeah, i do not like subby steve, and i think it’s weird the extent to which people have decided that steddie’s sex life has to involve kinks that often directly contradict their characters. obviously, enjoy what you enjoy and have fun writing smut, i just do not like it.

[bnhaobservation]

Regarding your post "My two cents about Episode 146"..... I think if you have those feelings about this episode, I hate to inform you, but I think you are done with the series. I've been there with many a series too, but yeah, don't force yourself to watch something you hate

Dear anon...

You honestly confuse me because you seems to think you’re being kind by telling me all this sort of things, so I hate to inform you of this, but you’ve a horrid reading comprehension, the sort that makes me think you shouldn’t be left unsupervised in the net.

How can you mistake “Some things are definitely great some… not so much so I'm gonna list here all I've loved and all I wasn't so fond about” for “I hated the episode”? It’s not such a difficult sentence and I’m not even sure how you could miss all the times I said I loved something in the episode.

I genuinely hope the problem is just you are not a native English speaker and that you only need a better translator device.

Also, rest assured I’m not forcing myself to watch anything. I’m old enough to know what I want to do, I’ve been watching anime series by ages and I know that sometimes in anime the quality of episodes will vary a lot as different people work on different episodes and other factors which might influence the quality of a single episode, never mentioning no episode can come out as perfect.

Honestly you sound more like a hater in disguise, trying to discourage people from watching the anime. In this case I’ll suggest you not to try it with people like me who have devoted a sideblog to the series and therefore are clearly fans. We like the series even if we don’t feel the need to worship every detail and sometimes we criticize something because that’s what happen when you’ve critical thinking.

Said all this, if you only genuinely were meaning to help… thank you but rest assured help wasn’t needed. I didn't hate the episode, please, check better what people wrote before dropping this sort of messages in their inbox.

[marunalu]

You're just a hater what you post isn't even an official translation, also ochako talk about her crush in past tense and call himiko cute, just stop lying, ochako moves on.

Big words from a coward like you, who isnt even brave enough not to hide behind anon like everyone who has at least a tiny bit of selfconfidence! You call ME the hater buts its YOU who attacks me in my inbox! Hmmm who is the hater here I wonder.... 🤔

So you think a girl calling an other girl cute means she is in love with her? Oh man, seems like Im in love with a lot of people then! How old are you even? You sound like a 8 year old who thinks girls can get pregnant by kissing a boy! 🤣

Rukasus translations have always been acurate and no ochako is not talking in past tense. There is absolutely nothing in the chapter that shows that! She literally explains that at first she wanted to become a hero to help her parents, but after a while she wanted to help other people too and ALONG that development she fell in love with izuku. Thats NOT in past tense my dear, but keep pretending it is if it makes you happy! There is absolutely NOTHING in the chapter that confirms that ochako "moved on" from izuku. The whole point of the last two chapters is to hammer down that thanks to toga she is now accepting her feelings for him and can be more open with it now! Its beyond me how the easiest plot points in a story can be so terrible misread by people! But like I always say, shipping goggles make people blind, you are the best example for that! 😉

So ochako "moved on" you say? Please then show me the EXACT moment or sentence out of ochakos mouth that confirms that! Show me the EXACT moment ochako tells toga that she is in love WITH HER! Because as far as I know telling someone that they are cute is not a romantic love declaration, its a complete neutral statement that can mean anything you want. I call dotzen of people cute and I guarantee you Im not in love with them! And dont even start with "ochako offers toga to drink her blood for the rest of her life!" Because in which way does that confirm romantic feelings??? Ochako is trying to help toga to be able to live a normal life, if that means toga needs to drink her blood for that so be it. She even tells toga that she is aware that she will never be for her what the lov members are for her aka her real friends and family! She is still offering her friendship, because you know what??? Friends can love each other without it being romantic! Shocking I know! Ever heard about something called PLATONIC LOVE?! Guess you havent! God forbid if a girl is friends with an other girl and compliments her looks without it being meant in a romantic way (same goes for boys).

Im not a hater, I have nothing against togachako or its shippers (but congratulations, thanks to you Im starting to see them in a negative light 👏🏻 or wait, are you actually a bkdk shipper who copes very hard right now?), I simply dont wear shipping goggles like you which make me blind for what the story is actually telling me. But if it makes you feel better about yourself, keep calling me a hater, see how much I give a fuck! 😘

[goldenalbum]

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Babe, cracking delusional eggs is my daily act of charity 😇 so don't be a hater, dear, while I help the less fortunate 🙏 coz you are actually fkin nuts if you're falling for the bullshit of y'all being legit besties with a dude who doesn't even know you and believing you're more important to him than his own mother and ppl he does know 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 😂 He lays the fan bait and your dumbasses chomp, buy and stream on command.

Apparently, according to one of the other crackheads in your circle jerk, there's too much war going on in the world and it's our job to fix it to it so why don't you go spend your time and money there instead of some rich fkboi who's spinning you tall tales to bleed y'all dry? 😄

🤔 where did i say we are more important than his mother and that im his bestie? i specifically said it doesnt have to be that deep and could be a hyperbole, but that army is integral to his perceived identity as JK (the performer), which is literally something he has spoken about on multiple ocassions, and that that doesnt diminish his bonds with the actual people in his life and his needing/loving army isn't mutually exclusive to his love for his personal relationships.

youre a real fuckin weirdo for being this obsessed with jk and people who like him. its genuinely shameful for jm to have stans like you. 🤨

as for your message about shit jk akgaes have done, i also never said otherwise. literally any bts akgae can eat dirt. what i SAID is that the jm akgaedom has some of the loudest people in it. which is a point youre clearly proving by spamming my inbox like your life depends on it. 😪 you sound actually unhinged.

all your bitching in my inbox wont change the fact that jungkook loves army and loves jimin and loves bts and that army and jimin and bts love jungkook. 🫰 cry about it.