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blueclouds919 · 4 months ago

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If you're gonna be a dictator, at least do it with style ✨💅🏻

#arcane #arcane season one #arcane season 2 #arcane memes #caitlyn arcane #caitlyn league of legends #caitlyn kiramman #dictator caitlyn #vampire caitlyn #arcane ambessa #ambessa medarda #ambessa league of legends #breakup so bad you become a dictator #how gays deal with a breakup

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oldbutchdanielcraig · 1 year ago

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have you ever seen two people more married in your entire life. please

#doctor who #twelveclara #so much to unpack here.#first of all the banter. just kill me.#the fact that he's helping her students on a regular basis. the intertwining of their lives to a dangerous degree #the fact that he jokes about their season 8 breakup as if that's something they joke about #the hug. THE HUG.#suggesting that physical touch is something they Do now #him admitting he missed her. not a huge deal but meaningful To Me.#the doctor who classic 'im never leaving you!' <- dies 1-3 episodes later. which will never get old #can we return to the hug one more time. insert joke about how i know he takes it from behind. and so on and so forth.#and last but not least the way he looks at her. man. stares off into the distance forever #i always forget about this little moment but it really is such a beautiful one

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erizabethgukgak · 2 months ago

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already mentally preparing for divorce era sambucky in avengers doomsday

#i hate it here #let them be happy #let them be gay #bucky got a dyson air wrap to deal with the breakup #how else do you explain that hair #thunderbolts spoilers #thunderbolts #thunderbolts*#bucky barnes #sam wilson #sambucky #avengers doomsday #mcu #mcu spoilers #new avengers

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bayetea · 8 months ago

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I think it's really annoying that leo has completely falsified memories of jason too and this is barely acknowledged in the books

#it is also barely acknowledged by the fandom but I blame the books for that #call me crazy but I think that's a big deal actually!#he grew up with nothing! no close friends! now his memories of his best friends are fake!#the whole tlh gang obviously become close in the end but I just think leo and jason in particular warranted more thought #rick clearly doesn't dwell on it with leo bc friendships and romance are not given the same weight #one of the first things pov jason says about leo is “if someone like this guy is my friend then my life must be messed up”#(not a callout of jason I think it was hilarious and understandable. he is So Confused)#but idk instead leo's reaction in the books is mostly framed as Ok finally I don't have to be the third wheel anymore #Wait fuck they're dating again anyway!#which is also understandable but I would love to also see him Struggle More with the fact that those memories aren't even real to begin wit #something something friendships are just as valuable and significant and consequential as romances #leo valdez #jason grace #rr crit #<- this is barely a fleshed out criticism of the books themselves but just in case #pjo hoo toa #I could say something about how people hate jiper for this same reason but I won't bc I don't care about jiper really #beyond my general feelings that the way their breakup was written was one of rick's worst writing moments

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thepoisonroom · 13 days ago

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this is going to sound insane but was hot mean tech lady in the effective altruism / rational altruism cult lol. i ask out of curiosity bc i think its so funny (tho bad) how it infiltrates so many like. polyamorous STEM social circles

literallyyyyy was and i didn't realize until after things ended between us because she was like 'oh i'm really into philosophy' and i was like hmmm pink flag but you are very hot..... i had read like a very neutral article about ethical altruists in some magazine years before so thought they were just kind of ultimately harmless ascetics

it's so hard to explain to people who haven't been in the bay area dating scene just how insane the ea/longtermism crowd is. i was also working at a bay area bookstore at the time so got a really good insight into their obsession with like. attached and daniel kahneman and whatever.

idk i'm literally presenting at an academic conference about their like apocalyptic cult freak shit just so i can talk about how insane it is. if you ever want to talk about this hit me up lol. or even if you don't this wired article was a really lurid wild tale abt rationalist shit

#it was so jarring to get this message because usually i have to explain the rationalist freak shit to people #i remember she asked me if i'd copyedit a blog post she was writing and it literally turned out to be for ssc......#i'm not proud of this btw but i was more ignorant then and also just coming off a bad breakup so was especially vulnerable to a hottie...#anonymous #ask and receive #i'm genuinely shocked at how little research and writing have talked about the role of ea rationalist freak shit in current ai funding etc #not to mention it's linked to prepper and eugenics movements in the states and is clearly a big part of el*n m*sk's whole deal #there's a lot of weird threads of eugenics and white supremacy and colonialism wrapped up in the whole thing #tho when i was researching for my conference paper i was heartened to see that naomi klein has written at least one thing abt it #sorry for rambling so much i just have a lot of thoughts but never get to talk abt this #because if you describe their whole deal it sounds too bizarre to be true

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t0ast-ghost · 3 months ago

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Say what you will, no normal non romantic inclined relationship in television would have Hannibal turning himself in for Will like that. Or trying to raise a daughter with Will like that. Or get Will out of jail after he tried to have Hannibal killed like THAT.

So say what you will, Hannibal was down so so bad for Will.

#he was ready to raise a child with this man after their first date (case)#like I don’t think you understand #he just wants will so bad #and will just thinks it’s all a manipulation for Hannibal’s own gain (which it can be and mostly is in s1)#Will cannot tell that Hannibal genuinely just likes him until s3 #and that was after Hannibal literally carved someone up like a heart and left it for Will #and then also tried to eat Will because he was so struck after their breakup that he genuinely did not know how to deal with it #anyway #uhhh they silly #hannibal nbc #hannibal #hannibal lecter #will graham #hannigram

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lambilegs · 2 months ago

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GUYSSSSS LOOK AT THE CUP MY FRIEND BOUGHT ME WHEN WE WENT OUT THIS SHIT BELONGS IN A MUSEUM LIKEEEEEE

#like I am currently miserable as FUCK over my breakup and a failed talking stage where someone I thought cared for me ended #+ up being super dismissive and invalidating and sort of springing back all these old feelings of my emotions not mattering haha...#BUT #yesterday I was like “you know what fuck it I don't even need a gf or partner like my friends pretty much ARE my lovers atp” LMAO #like in all seriousness I am so insanely grateful for my three close friends they truly dote on and spoil me like I'm their little princess #like yesterday I was with my friend (I've spoken about her before with the name A) because I was buying crafts for my birthday party #and whenever I saw something and was like “ah :( I don't wanna spend more money on that”#she'd be like “do you like it?? let me buy it for you OH MY GOD LET ME BUY IT FOR YOU”#I literally chased her down and ran from her in a craft store because she was trying to buy me these pricey 3D rosebud stickers #and she did! she so casually bought it then she saw this cup and said how she had been trying to hunt down the flower person for my bday #and when I told her I loved her the watermelon one she BEGGED for me to let her buy it for me as the last part of her gift #and she was so casual about both things and just kept telling me she loves me and I always do sm for her and 😭😭#then I got a text from my other friend asking if I'm buying a cake for myself for my birthday party of if she and my other friend should #+ buy it for me #AND BRO I JUST FELT SO GRATEFUL AND TOUCHED LIKE MY FRIENDS DOTE ON ME SM AND MAKE ME FEEL SO CARED FOR #AND THEY SHOW UP FOR ME IN ALL THESE WAYS WITHOUT EVEN REGISTERING IT AS A BIG DEAL AND THEY'RE ALWAYS TRYING #+ TO HELP OUT AND UGH #they've even been so emotionally supportive and comforting w all the shit I've been through lately and yeah I'm so grateful for them #and while I'm still in sm pain it helps to have them here and it reminds me that I don't NEED a romantic connection anytime soon #like friendship itself holds so much weight. not just because they do so much stuff for me ofc but just because it has the same level #+ of love connectivity shared interest and endless support we associate with romance #yeah I just love my friends and I just felt so taken care of #(also I'm dying bc I spent sm more money than I expected bc I spent $30 on crafts materials which ig I can still justify since #+ I'll use it all with future projects and my dyke march poster. but then I also bought medication for my brother and food so I spent SO MU #just ack :((((#anyways #🧿#s.text

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secondpersonpoetry · 9 months ago

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you’ve probably already read it before, but the poem Party by Kim Addonizio really got me tonight. first thought was “oh man. yeah” and then my second thought was “how can i make this about my hockey guys somehow………..”anyway! have a good one!

oh. oh.

#don’t think i’ve read this kim addonizio poem and it just blindsided me like a truck thank you so much #i. oh god. like yeah.#pour me shitfaced into your car i feel like you own a comforter extremely dysfunctional only in surface details like which person was the #black hole and the distant spark in space that might’ve been a star there’s something too with unrelenting mist / many-headed mist / missed #who knew mis(t)/sed had undone so many. while you keep an eye on the burner here’s hoping this flame doesn’t go out #the flame as in the spark as in don’t let me have pinned my hopes on you to watch it burn out again but also me. like please let me not go #and i think there’s something there too with the repetitive ‘i have just met you’ and i already love you that reminds me both of a story #colman domingo told abt meeting his partner i cry everytime i hear it right when he says ‘i think i love u &you’re about to change my life’#and i KNOW there’s another poem. and i feel like it maybe has a dog and it talks about how they don’t even know you but they love you #OH IT’S ALSO. OH MY GOD THAT’S IT. i mean not exactly so maybe i have read this before & it’s what has been haunting me for so long but #the opening line to tim seibles naïve is ‘i love you but i don’t know you’ - mennonite woman #the odds of that dog poem being a carl phillips poem is non-zero btw. his poems about dogs make me see shrimp colors (bertuzzi thesis)#ANYWAY. agreed. this is incredibly hockey and incredibly hurtful because they DO bond like this in 0.0001 seconds because if you can’t #you’re fucked. you have to just find somebody and fall in love with them and it’s the salmon and the triple cream brie like they got taken #out to some fancy meet the donors team night in their suits and one of them is dealing with a heartbreak and a trade and are the things #they think true or are they just missing what the used to have. jamie who used to empty and refill the ice tray YES sorry i have been a #little bit thinking that about the trevor dealing so poorly with the breakup and i wish i had another narrative (which i do) but it fits #trade deadline tragedy #and also the formation of a codependent rookies like. two guys that get drafted and brought up together and suddenly they’re doing #everything together and it’s your first time in the big show and none of your old college friends understand because they’re not there #and you can’t get it. like you think you know but they can’t understand and the loneliness and it IS guys taking care of each other #(alexa play harriet by hey rosetta! but specifically the bridge) and it’s just. i just!!! trying to fill up the missing pieces of your life #like i cannot convey WHOMST i am trying to pin this narrative to this is going to rotate for a long while i think #because it’s not a wild i fell in love with you at first sight it’s a you were kind to me when i was broken. and i love you for that.#like who is FALLING APART &happens to fall into someone else’s arms. purely for the partygirl aspect the devil (old hrpf) says ‘13 bennguin #who among us hasn’t fallen mildly briefly brilliantly in love with a stranger and imagined a future where you get everything you want #sometimes we love people for who they are and sometimes we love them for what we’re not and sometimes for who we think they’ll be #this was a very long way to say thank you for sharing <3 i will also be making this about my hockey guys <3 #OH MY GOD IT’S DPAIRS. WHO’S BEEN THROUGH SEVERAL DPAIRS #nonny <3

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buckevantommy · 8 months ago

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*heavy fucking sigh* journalism sure is dead, huh.

#.txt #i know it's for clicks but seriously how do they get away with this shit? how about #instead of pushing your fanon pairing and claiming the current mlm pairing will breakup bc you want your ship to be endgame #you do your fucking job and focus on the current narrative and all the good it's done for bi male representation and buck specifically #and all the juicy possibilities for THE CANON PAIRING instead of coming off like some deranged bob who somehow hacked the site #wanky thoughts #oliver deserves so much better than to deal with these clickbait asswipes

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jonathanssweatercollection · 2 years ago

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you still resent nancy and jonathan for getting together???? for “hurting steve’s feelings”??? despite the fact that he verbally supported their relationship like 2 hours after seeing them together. this from a season that released 6 fucking years ago. a season prior to him saying that he was NOT in love with nancy anymore. do you want me to call shawn levy and tell him of your dilemma. bestie do you need to rewatch the source material

#ppl will use ANY excuse to hate nancy and jonathan to prop steve* up #their flanderised ‘pwecious little babygirl’ steve who is a delicate little flower who’s still butthurt over his high school breakup #albeit s4 did completely surrender to this bs characterisation bc the duffers don’t know how to write a storyline for steve that doesn’t #involve him being a lovestruck loser nowadays. SAD #get me in that writers room i could give him something good thats not egregiously repetitive #funny that the post that sparked this was an ANTI MURRAY FANFIC?????? in 2023. bc him suggesting jon+nancy should be together was unfair to #fuckin STEVE??????#1) murray is literally a jokey funnyguy character. he’s a little guy it’s his birthday he makes risotto studies martial arts is a conspiracy #theorist who daydrinks and snores on airplanes. he’s SO unserious #if u want to hate on him thats fine good for u whatever but do it for. normal reasons. like encouraging teenagers to drink and have sex in #his bunker. like he was not normal for that i get it i used to kinda dislike him for that too but like. its literally not meant 2 be #that big of a deal. nothing matters there’s no point the show hasn’t been genuinely good for six years nothing matters go outside go to bed #anyways. happy 3 AM everyone im going to sleep love and what have you on planet earth #stranger things #nancy wheeler #steve harrington #jonathan byers #mine

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chamberbychamber · 18 days ago

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bones in the ground that i had never known,

mourned by souls no longer mine

decaying alone six feet below,

grief swallowing them like a vine

cadaver too young, life taken too soon

our hearts no longer intertwine

i still think of you in the light of the moon

#cadaver too young #poetry #poem #friendship #friendship breakup #uh oh!#no it happened a long time ago its fine #someone i was once really really close with just lost someone close to them #and im struggling on how to deal with it #cause we're still in contact but we don't have like. serious conversations like that anymore #so! im writing poetry about it. lol #this poem makes it sound like we were in love but we were best friends so we basically were

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itsstede · 2 years ago

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I really wish we could see the full list of Blackbeard’s crimes. It’s a pretty curious list featuring things like bootlegging, shoplifting?, impersonating who?, witchcraft?, plagiarism of what?, changing the word “god”?

✨But also!✨

Excessive mirth

Smart casual attire formal function

(I’m not sure if this 👆is one thing or two separate)

“Communism”

Unlicensed midwifery

#I mean really Ed? That’s how you deal with a breakup?#With “communism” and witchcraft?#ofmd s2 #our flag means death #ofmd #ofmd season 2 #ofmd s2 spoilers #ofmd blackbeard

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flash-from-the-past · 1 year ago

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