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If you're gonna be a dictator, at least do it with style ✨💅🏻
#arcane#arcane season one#arcane season 2#arcane memes#caitlyn arcane#caitlyn league of legends#caitlyn kiramman#dictator caitlyn#vampire caitlyn#arcane ambessa#ambessa medarda#ambessa league of legends#breakup so bad you become a dictator#how gays deal with a breakup
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have you ever seen two people more married in your entire life. please
#doctor who#twelveclara#so much to unpack here.#first of all the banter. just kill me.#the fact that he's helping her students on a regular basis. the intertwining of their lives to a dangerous degree#the fact that he jokes about their season 8 breakup as if that's something they joke about#the hug. THE HUG.#suggesting that physical touch is something they Do now#him admitting he missed her. not a huge deal but meaningful To Me.#the doctor who classic 'im never leaving you!' <- dies 1-3 episodes later. which will never get old#can we return to the hug one more time. insert joke about how i know he takes it from behind. and so on and so forth.#and last but not least the way he looks at her. man. stares off into the distance forever#i always forget about this little moment but it really is such a beautiful one
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I think it's really annoying that leo has completely falsified memories of jason too and this is barely acknowledged in the books
#it is also barely acknowledged by the fandom but I blame the books for that#call me crazy but I think that's a big deal actually!#he grew up with nothing! no close friends! now his memories of his best friends are fake!#the whole tlh gang obviously become close in the end but I just think leo and jason in particular warranted more thought#rick clearly doesn't dwell on it with leo bc friendships and romance are not given the same weight#one of the first things pov jason says about leo is “if someone like this guy is my friend then my life must be messed up”#(not a callout of jason I think it was hilarious and understandable. he is So Confused)#but idk instead leo's reaction in the books is mostly framed as Ok finally I don't have to be the third wheel anymore#Wait fuck they're dating again anyway!#which is also understandable but I would love to also see him Struggle More with the fact that those memories aren't even real to begin wit#something something friendships are just as valuable and significant and consequential as romances#leo valdez#jason grace#rr crit#<- this is barely a fleshed out criticism of the books themselves but just in case#pjo hoo toa#I could say something about how people hate jiper for this same reason but I won't bc I don't care about jiper really#beyond my general feelings that the way their breakup was written was one of rick's worst writing moments
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Say what you will, no normal non romantic inclined relationship in television would have Hannibal turning himself in for Will like that. Or trying to raise a daughter with Will like that. Or get Will out of jail after he tried to have Hannibal killed like THAT.
So say what you will, Hannibal was down so so bad for Will.
#he was ready to raise a child with this man after their first date (case)#like I don’t think you understand#he just wants will so bad#and will just thinks it’s all a manipulation for Hannibal’s own gain (which it can be and mostly is in s1)#Will cannot tell that Hannibal genuinely just likes him until s3#and that was after Hannibal literally carved someone up like a heart and left it for Will#and then also tried to eat Will because he was so struck after their breakup that he genuinely did not know how to deal with it#anyway#uhhh they silly#hannibal nbc#hannibal#hannibal lecter#will graham#hannigram
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you’ve probably already read it before, but the poem Party by Kim Addonizio really got me tonight. first thought was “oh man. yeah” and then my second thought was “how can i make this about my hockey guys somehow………..”anyway! have a good one!
oh. oh.
#don’t think i’ve read this kim addonizio poem and it just blindsided me like a truck thank you so much#i. oh god. like yeah.#pour me shitfaced into your car i feel like you own a comforter extremely dysfunctional only in surface details like which person was the#black hole and the distant spark in space that might’ve been a star there’s something too with unrelenting mist / many-headed mist / missed#who knew mis(t)/sed had undone so many. while you keep an eye on the burner here’s hoping this flame doesn’t go out#the flame as in the spark as in don’t let me have pinned my hopes on you to watch it burn out again but also me. like please let me not go#and i think there’s something there too with the repetitive ‘i have just met you’ and i already love you that reminds me both of a story#colman domingo told abt meeting his partner i cry everytime i hear it right when he says ‘i think i love u &you’re about to change my life’#and i KNOW there’s another poem. and i feel like it maybe has a dog and it talks about how they don’t even know you but they love you#OH IT’S ALSO. OH MY GOD THAT’S IT. i mean not exactly so maybe i have read this before & it’s what has been haunting me for so long but#the opening line to tim seibles naïve is ‘i love you but i don’t know you’ - mennonite woman#the odds of that dog poem being a carl phillips poem is non-zero btw. his poems about dogs make me see shrimp colors (bertuzzi thesis)#ANYWAY. agreed. this is incredibly hockey and incredibly hurtful because they DO bond like this in 0.0001 seconds because if you can’t#you’re fucked. you have to just find somebody and fall in love with them and it’s the salmon and the triple cream brie like they got taken#out to some fancy meet the donors team night in their suits and one of them is dealing with a heartbreak and a trade and are the things#they think true or are they just missing what the used to have. jamie who used to empty and refill the ice tray YES sorry i have been a#little bit thinking that about the trevor dealing so poorly with the breakup and i wish i had another narrative (which i do) but it fits#trade deadline tragedy#and also the formation of a codependent rookies like. two guys that get drafted and brought up together and suddenly they’re doing#everything together and it’s your first time in the big show and none of your old college friends understand because they’re not there#and you can’t get it. like you think you know but they can’t understand and the loneliness and it IS guys taking care of each other#(alexa play harriet by hey rosetta! but specifically the bridge) and it’s just. i just!!! trying to fill up the missing pieces of your life#like i cannot convey WHOMST i am trying to pin this narrative to this is going to rotate for a long while i think#because it’s not a wild i fell in love with you at first sight it’s a you were kind to me when i was broken. and i love you for that.#like who is FALLING APART &happens to fall into someone else’s arms. purely for the partygirl aspect the devil (old hrpf) says ‘13 bennguin#who among us hasn’t fallen mildly briefly brilliantly in love with a stranger and imagined a future where you get everything you want#sometimes we love people for who they are and sometimes we love them for what we’re not and sometimes for who we think they’ll be#this was a very long way to say thank you for sharing <3 i will also be making this about my hockey guys <3#OH MY GOD IT’S DPAIRS. WHO’S BEEN THROUGH SEVERAL DPAIRS#nonny <3
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*heavy fucking sigh* journalism sure is dead, huh.
#.txt#i know it's for clicks but seriously how do they get away with this shit? how about#instead of pushing your fanon pairing and claiming the current mlm pairing will breakup bc you want your ship to be endgame#you do your fucking job and focus on the current narrative and all the good it's done for bi male representation and buck specifically#and all the juicy possibilities for THE CANON PAIRING instead of coming off like some deranged bob who somehow hacked the site#wanky thoughts#oliver deserves so much better than to deal with these clickbait asswipes
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you still resent nancy and jonathan for getting together???? for “hurting steve’s feelings”??? despite the fact that he verbally supported their relationship like 2 hours after seeing them together. this from a season that released 6 fucking years ago. a season prior to him saying that he was NOT in love with nancy anymore. do you want me to call shawn levy and tell him of your dilemma. bestie do you need to rewatch the source material
#ppl will use ANY excuse to hate nancy and jonathan to prop steve* up#their flanderised ‘pwecious little babygirl’ steve who is a delicate little flower who’s still butthurt over his high school breakup#albeit s4 did completely surrender to this bs characterisation bc the duffers don’t know how to write a storyline for steve that doesn’t#involve him being a lovestruck loser nowadays. SAD#get me in that writers room i could give him something good thats not egregiously repetitive#funny that the post that sparked this was an ANTI MURRAY FANFIC?????? in 2023. bc him suggesting jon+nancy should be together was unfair to#fuckin STEVE??????#1) murray is literally a jokey funnyguy character. he’s a little guy it’s his birthday he makes risotto studies martial arts is a conspiracy#theorist who daydrinks and snores on airplanes. he’s SO unserious#if u want to hate on him thats fine good for u whatever but do it for. normal reasons. like encouraging teenagers to drink and have sex in#his bunker. like he was not normal for that i get it i used to kinda dislike him for that too but like. its literally not meant 2 be#that big of a deal. nothing matters there’s no point the show hasn’t been genuinely good for six years nothing matters go outside go to bed#anyways. happy 3 AM everyone im going to sleep love and what have you on planet earth#stranger things#nancy wheeler#steve harrington#jonathan byers#mine
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I really wish we could see the full list of Blackbeard’s crimes. It’s a pretty curious list featuring things like bootlegging, shoplifting?, impersonating who?, witchcraft?, plagiarism of what?, changing the word “god”?
✨But also!✨
Excessive mirth
Smart casual attire formal function
(I’m not sure if this 👆is one thing or two separate)
“Communism”
Unlicensed midwifery
#I mean really Ed? That’s how you deal with a breakup?#With “communism” and witchcraft?#ofmd s2#our flag means death#ofmd#ofmd season 2#ofmd s2 spoilers#ofmd blackbeard
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Which spy are you?
#totally spies#flash#before uquiz there were 'psychological tests' in magazines and on websites of popular franchises#and for girlier ones they all asked you relatable questions like 'what do you do if you friend falls for your boyfriend'#and 'how do you pick which movie are you going to see with friends'#'what do you do when you see a cute dress at the store' was also common iirc#and comforting friends after breakup and school-related stuff#and when it wasn't relatable questions it was stuff like this. come on girls. what would you do if you had to defuse a bomb#of course since many people taking these quizzes were like 11 defusing bombs was just a little less relatable to them#than dealing with relationship drama#(i got alex in this quiz btw)
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RAVIS BACK!!! OMG THE LOML IS BACK!!!! RAVI MAIN SEASON 8B LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
#if we don't get a scene explaining his absence/catching him up on everything he missed i'll be so upset#i've said it before and i'll say it again: NEED to see his reaction to tevan breakup and gerrard captaincy#the 118 will be like “eddie's quitting for good and moving to texas” and ravi will get trauma flashbacks to chainsaw buck#make it his personal mission to keep eddie on the team so he doesn't have to deal with the consequences#or he just won't take it seriously. “remember the last time eddie was QUITTING FOR GOOD BECAUSE OF HIS SON? how long did that last?”#911 abc#ravi panikkar
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and that line petey said you carry the hurt inside you when you're there too. something something grief is just love with no place to go
#my god it's so sad#i csn sit here and judge and be like oh they're weak they should just deal with life#but like what do i know about life? my world feels like it will end when i go thru breakups and#his WIFE literally DIED woah i cant even imagine how that must feel#it feels so scary getting old :/
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#and another thing. not to sound like a complete fuckin pick me but i'm generally not a huge fan of the way i look#and when i hung out with her my skin was peeling. bad. from a sunburn#and i was really not feeling like i was looking good at *all* and i said some really offhanded comment and she literally turned to face me#and was like 'you're not ugly. your skin is peeling. your body is healing stop being an asshole to it' and i Did Not Know How To Cope#and you know how you alwyas have that one friend who you really just trust? you just get it all out with? like i have my best friend who i-#-am undeniably closer with but whenever me and my crush hang out alone we always end up in really deep conversation#and when i start talking about the shows i like she listens. like she actually listens and she asks questions and she engages with what i'm#-saying#and she specifically asked what my favourite 1d songs were so that she could listen to them. and she's going to watch 911 as soon as shes-#-finished what shes watching now#and its like. i convinced one (1) friend to watch 911 and she only really did it because of 4x13 edit she saw on tiktok#this is someone who genuinely wants to engage with the things that i like. just because i like them.#and another thing i really didnt know when i would be over my last relationship because it was my first relationship and it was obvi a big-#-deal and this person was the only person who never made me feel like i jsut needed to get over it. two months after the breakup she was-#-still there for me still a listening ear even when everyone else assumed i was completely over it. and i mean now i'm over it ive moved on#-with my life but the fact that she was there for me when i really needed it counts for. so fucking much#halp. halp i'm in too deep#also. will i ever get up the nerve to ask her out? probably not. i have sincere doubts#although i hope i do it. one day i hope i do it because i really do like her.#txt !!
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#i talked with a good friend of mine from my old job over the phone because we said we'll talk and we never find the right time for it#and she had told me that she & her boyfriend for the last 7 years had broke up 3 months ago#and the only reason she hasn't told me about it is because she didn't want to make me more upset because i was dealing with my own breakup#and she also said a lot how there's stuff she can't tell her closet friends because they'd make fun of her or mock her but to me she can#and i just sat there and listened to her and gave her my advice as i usually do#it wasn't a long phone call but it made me feel better. to think she sees highly of me and that i can comfort her in a time of need#especially when other people can't.#i just. i feel bad i wasn't there for her when she needed me but again i told her it's her choice to tell me whatever she wants to share#i don't know. i just really love her#funny she's like. 7 years older than me but we get alone so fine 😭
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okay i'm normal again i will do these asks now
#had to feel the cold embrace of rage for a minute you know how it is#【 ❝ i will never stop complaining and that is a promise ❞ 】 ✕ ooc.#so sorry i came back from a year hiatus dealing with a fresh breakup i really don't mean to post about it so much#i just don't have anywhere else 🥹
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we've reached that time in the nano: the Week Where, Having Run Out of Music That's Thematically Appropriate to the Story I'm Working On That I'm Not Bored Of, I Go Back to My Old Standby: how to train your dragon (first film) original score
#girl im feeling so uplifted. so fun and optimistic and free#stream how to train your dragon original score for an absolutely whimsical time#its got ZERO to do with atwater and micah failing to deal with the fifteen-year-old fallout of their breakup#but it doesn't have to#it just has to be really nice music that i enjoy so much#nanowrimo 2023#writing tag#music
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i had this realisation and immediately pretended to not have it
it's okay this is the only way i know how to cope with the random outbursts of longing and memories it is a slow process but in like. a year? yes you will get over him
#im sorry ive no idea how to deal with (not) breakups all i did was bury myself in media and fucked up my marks and then with time i forgot#saumya baby <3
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