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this is why i don’t believe the majority of women who say they didn’t see the red flags before they got married/had kids. you did see the signs. you saw them, chose not to take them seriously, and got married/had kids anyway because you thought you could “teach” him to make him behave better. the fact that he got pissy because he had to wrap his own mother’s gift IS a red flag and this woman shouldn’t be engaged to him anymore. call me alarmist lmao but I don’t care. this is the tip of the iceberg and once they get married it’s just going to get worse.
#and this is not to victim blame women!!#but women who choose to partner with men need to actually start acting like their life is at stake when choosing their life partners#bc it literally is#mentally physically emotionally#het marriage#radsplain.txt
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Megumi’s face in this panel fucking kills me, that’s the face of a gay man who did not ask to be the romantic pursuit of the straightest woman in the entire manga, this was basically the exact opposite of the “oh so it’s like that” scene with his “no not in that way”
#if they became canon I would have complained about it to the ends of the earth#sasunaru fans how do you do it you’re braver than any us marine for their het marriages#jjk 270#jjk#jjk spoilers#jinx talks
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sos month day 26: undercover / arranged marriage
based off of the tv show the americans which you should all watch btw
#my art#sasosaku#sakura haruno#sasori#sasosaku month 2024#tw blood#this is arranged marriage if you squint#the great part about the show is that theyre pretend married but they dont love each other theyre literally just coworkers with benefits#even had two kids to blend in better. who think their parents just work at a travel agency#and they love their kids it's so sweet :(#and it's set in the 80s <3#the man wants them to defect to protect the family they built but the woman is a hardline loyalist#who'd never betray her home country#they have to balance the line between being state assets constantly in danger and growing closer as a couple#but bc theyre both in on it together from the start its a way better premise#this is what i thought flopxfamily was going to be about imagine my disappointment#the only other het ship i was actually invested in please give it a watch
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Do the tumblrinas know about Le Nozze di Figaro (1786, Mozart/Da Ponte)
#fr though I feel like the tumblr girlies would love this show (18th century opera)#it has everything:#rich gross men getting their comeuppance#transgenderism#implied gay sex#genuinely adorable and wholesome bi-coded het couple#girl best friends#schemes#unexpected paternity test results#mistaken identities#an arch rival turned supportive mother in law#and a drunk bitchy gardener#also some of the most genuinely romantic moments in all media (to me)#have you ever tried to pull one over on ur boyfriend but he figures it out immediately because he would recognize your voice anywhere?#this happened to my good friend susanna once#opera#mozart#le nozze di figaro#the marriage of figaro
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#fyi Ian is gay#LGBTQIA+#fyi Patrick is cis het married to a cis het woman#Ian officiated Patrick’s marriage to now wife Sunny#BFFs#best friends#sir ian mckellen#sir patrick stewart#x men#magneto#professor x#charles xavier#erik lehnsherr#lord of the rings#LOTR#Gandalf#star trek#jean luc picard#LGBTQIA
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some of y’all really don’t understand that friendship is the basis of real romance and it fucking shows.
#‘why can’t they just be friends’ they are still friends if I’m doing it right#‘just be’ shush. your aunt and uncle who hate each other are not in a romantic relationship. they are in a situation born of social norms.#stop defining romance by the shitty het marriages you see all around that is not romance.
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Why women are happier single.
#male degeneracy#kam#het marriage tag#radfem#radfem safe#me posting#radical feminist safe#radical feminism#radblr
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i'm 60% into busman's honeymoon (enjoying it immensely) and it's so refreshing to read about a couple who adore each other and have endless chemistry, who follow each other's thoughts because they're both witty and intelligent... a couple who you read about and think, yeah, i get why they're together and why they're in love!
i'm allergic to m/f usually both because i prefer gay shit and because so many authors put zero effort into writing the romance in their novels (this is especially true in speculative fiction, from my experience). but when i read a romance like this it's really like wow. maybe i'm not as heterophobic as i thought maybe i just want a good fucking romance!! an amazing discovery
also, for the love of god, we need more married couples in fiction. i love slow burns and will-they-won't-theys as much as anyone else but. give me more husbands and wives. AND also exes
#currently reading#peter and harriet are sooo perfect truly#up there for me with nicholas and gelis (who will probably always be my favourite het marriage)#romance in fantasy is honestly so fucking bad so often. maybe it's good in other genres and i just don't know!#will investigate further.
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Having my weekly I should quit my job moment
#i KNOW this is all jobs and there is something about me that makes older women act this way around me#they want to correct my behavior. i understand this is going to keep happening#i'm young hot and free from things like het marriage kids wearing uncomfortable clothes and makeup#the need to constantly prove i'm worthwhile by exceeding the demands of capitalism#i just don't care about any of that#of course it grinds their gears. they had to go through all that why am i not anxious sad stressed trapped like they are#the truth is there's only so much i can do to be accommodating of their expectations when just my existence disrupts them#however. i promise we will get the work done even if we don't rush through every moment or if we smile at each other sometimes#jealous that my coworkers share about their lives with me aren't you
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the women are waking up pt.3
#particularly salient in response to the current discourse on here#the women are waking up#radical feminism#female separatism#het marriage#radsplain.txt
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idk how in 2024 ppl still playing vanilla awakening like i gotta make these bitches gay. im pairing the second gen girlies and by god. none of them should be paired with a man. these ladies are GAY and good for them. not my fault intsys couldnt see that in 2012 but i can now and i WILL do them justice
#ann plays awakening#anyways im trying to pick a girlfriend for noire 🤩#she has so many good options tho… its kind of sickening but in a good way#also like. kinda gigglingn. bc if it was vanilla game awakening most of my top picks for any of them if they MUST be in a het relationship#is inigo. aside from like luci and nah#hes getting screwed over bc i legalized gay marriage in ylisse… sorry bud#but also weve seen the second gen guys. lets be real would YOU settle for any of them. no#ok brady maybe actually but aside from that. you shouldnt.
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My grandma and uncle have been sorta trying to work on their relationship but my uncle announced he’s getting married to his longtime partner at a courthouse and my grandma refuses to attend or congratulate them unless they do it through the church so that’s pretty much a lost cause
UPDATE: JFKSHSKDJSKD
APPARENTLY HE DIDNT ACTUALLY TELL ANYONE ELSE IN THE FAMILY THAT HE WAS GETTING MARRIED BEFORE ASSUMING THEY WOULDNT SHOW AND NOW HES SURPRISED THAT EVERYONE WANTS TO PARTICIPATE IN SOME WAY
MY MANS YOU JUST DID A SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY THING
#my uncle is het they just refer to each other as partners bc they don’t feel girlfriend/boyfriend carries enough weight#they don’t believe in marriage either and r just doing it in case one of them gets sick so they know the person in charge will respect the#*their wishes
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realizing im kind of a weirdo about laios and marcille
#possramble#ignore this im just babbling but#the thing is that like. i don't ship laios and marcille together. their relationship is so so important to me in that laios comphets himsel#and THINKS that he might be in love with her but he isn't and that's my insane obsession#platonic soulmates for real but they're so sweet together that i fully expect them to be shipped together#like i get it. that's almost the appeal for me. if dungeon meshi were any other series there'd be an epilogue where they get married#convention dictates that they're meant to be together as the male protagonist and his beloved female deuteragonist#but dungeon meshi DOESNT do that and i love it so fucking much they're the comphet besties ever for my strange little brain#like if i ever did an arranged marriage au it would absolutely be laios and marcille having a platonic political marriage and then just#the most insane mutual pining with marcille and falin while laios and marcille struggle their way into becoming best friends#the imagery of the king and his beautiful court mage being tender to each other and everyone thinking they're in love is like catnip to me#like yeah they'd be like that and have no idea people think they should be together and the subversion makes me so obsessed#the more people ship them romantically. the more i enjoy their platonic dynamic it's like some sort of weird comphet fetishism idk#people think they're in love and im outside the window like YES... YES!!!#but also the second i see stuff of them kissing on the mouth or fucking im like oh god no i went too deep in here i gotta get out#don't wanna see that. i'll go feral over the idea of laios and marcille being arm-in-arm like king and queen but they would not fuck.#i want marcille to be his default comphet beard and dance partner/plus one at official royal events but they're not kissing.#she's there on his arm because he's scared of the other noble women tryna get him and being a baby about it#and people see them muttering to each other and laughing and generally being very sweet and think that they're dating but they're not.#she's actually covered in hickies from falin underneath her dress and is gonna get dragon dicked right after the party is over#like she's in her bedroom and falin's helping her take her ridiculous dress off while listening to her complain about politics#and falin is the person she goes home to the person she falls asleep to and wakes up with#they're a triad of utter devotion to each other but only farcille's side of the triangle is romantic#it's almost like an open secret because they're not trying to hide it at all but people assume and are surprised to find out#like people are so right about her relationship with the toudens but with the siblings' roles switched#love of her life & irreplaceable life companion. does anyone get it#anyway. i don't know what's wrong with me#it bothers me that they're not the undisputed most popular het ship for marcille on ao3#it's unnatural. marcille being paired with any other man should be a fringe case.
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Orville Peck and Trixie Mattel cover of Jackson just cause I think it's neat
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#orville peck#trixie mattel#johnny cash#this is the best version of the song imo#absolutely NO disrespect to johnny cash and june#but a gay man and a drag queen covering a song about a miserable het marriage just have panache nobody can match#Youtube
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If you cannot show empathy towards women you don’t like or who made different choices than you would and ridicule them by using the same misogynistic language against them that men do, you are a literal hack and your feminism stands for nothing
#word to menalez’s post that I can’t find#you can critic het marriages and het sex and piv and motherhood without being misogynistic to in real life women you fucking moron#radfem
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To the assholes conflating aromanticism to commitment issues, you know aros can and do get married right?
#a lot of people still dont know theyre aro or arospec (or acespec for that matter) and still get married. men and women alike in het circles#aros can choose marriage if they wanted kids and thats the safest way bc the world financially sucks#aros even date or are in relationships for many reasons. its just plain bigotry to be acting like being aro is a commitment issue#it really feels similar to 'if youd just give men a chance...' vibes but terfs and similar decided that was a great tool to throw at aros#like yall just have commitment issues with the opposite sex if this is how logic works 🤷🏼♀️💅👀👀#aro#arospec#aromantic#aroallo#arohet#aroace#my posts
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