#gift giving

[lifewithchronicpain]

Just a little gift giving PSA to all secret Santa’s, I know it can be hard if you don’t know the person well, but don’t default to perfume or cologne because you can’t think of anything else, especially if you’ve never smelt a whif of anything on them. Said on behalf of a scent sensitive mom who always got perfume in any secret Santa.

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[vroomvroomwee]

If I ever give you an interesting rock without uttering a word, you should know that that is the highest form of love I am capable of displaying and the highest honour I can bestow upon you

[undead-knick-knack]

And of course he fucking loved it 😭🖤💜

[artytaeh]

THEODORE NOTT HAS A LOT OF MONEY. and even though that's a relief that indulges his own impulsive spendings to pamper himself, it still doesn't feel like he properly makes use of it.

the large bookshelf on his bedroom, at the nott mansion, might suggest otherwise.

( what? theodore enjoys special editions; no, it's not silly to want a first edition of one of his older favorites, or a hard cover version with a better illustration, really. much less having paid more for a book on his native language, given that he's in london, a bit too far away from the city he was born, millan. )

but then, ah— there it is! the reason why his family's ridiculous wealth makes sense, now!

because what theodore nott lacks in a few matters, such as communication or spending a lot of time with you, when he needs his time alone, he'll compensate like this.

one might perceive this as a heartless, uncaring way to press bandaids over emotional wounds; believe me, it couldn't be farther than this.

theodore just likes to see you smile, and given that his black card is a means to such an end, well, why not?

things are just things; but things do bring happiness, so yes, you can buy happy feelings!

theodore would love to know if you collect something— mugs? he's bringing a new one for you, now paying extra special attention to crockery themed stores. snowglobes? there's this one he found, with a charm to it! if there's a comic series you like, theodore would discreetly surprise you every week with a new volume.

only for you to go and break his heart, standing in front of his door with his gifts in arms, extending them for theodore to take it back.

cluelessly, and looking a bit like a kicked puppy, theodore frowns. are you angry at him? isn't this the type of thing you like? should you reassure him that your only issue is the excessive money spent on you, theodore feels like a weight left his shoulders.

huff; so, he does know how to please his girlfriend and what she likes!

... but why are you rejecting him? 'hey, bella, don't offend me— this isn't going to empty nott's vault any time soon.'

should his puppy eyes work, well then, you're doomed.

because theodore will use this same excuse over and over again, when he brings another thing that reminds him of you. what? you mentioned that you like coats like these! it's a color you like to wear, and you'll need warm clothes like that in a matter of weeks!

do you not like his gifts? theodore will give you a look that, if you didn't know better about his cynical shenanigans, you'd believe that his heart was being shattered to pieces.

that's the reason why dates at hogsmeade are so dangerous. i'm being serious— you might as well keep your eyes on the road, stare at the snow beneath your feet, because if you spend more than four seconds staring at something inside a shop...

there isn't time to process anything else; theodore's mind works fast. you saw it, you seem to like it, he's buying it. in a blink of an eye, theodore already has his card between his index and middle finger, nonchalantly making his way inside.

'can't a man spoil his girl? goddamn it, dolcezza.'

clothes are almost worse. if he sees something that you're staring at, and likes it, theodore is putting so much (discreet. not so discreet,) effort into convincing you to let him buy it for you.

'you'd look good in it. see, it's a color you like, it would look really good, given your skin tone.' and then, he takes a different approach: 'trying it on doesn't hurt, right?'

a cruel plan, you see, because then you fall in love with this dress, as much as theodore fell in love with the idea of you wearing such pretty clothes.

his arms embrace your waist, like a snake slowly trapping its victim; the fabric feels right under his skin, the dress looking as if it was sketched for you, fitting better than a glove.

theodore rests his chin on your shoulder, holding back a smirk as he sees you mourning the idea of leaving the dress here— it's just so pretty! and theodore's compliments don't help!

🗯️ : but teddy, it's really cold these days. i wouldn't be able to wear it, anyways.

t : and that's why we learned simple warming charms during third year.

🗯️ : sure, but— i don't have where to use it, so it's not worth it if it's just going to look pretty in my dresser.

t : no worries, bambina. i'll think about a perfect date for you to wear this, looking so pretty for me. bellissima, la mia bella ragazza.

NO USE IN ARGUING WITH HIM; theodore nott always wins these rounds. the battle is won, and the war is benefitting his side.

even if you do not let him spoil you with such impulsive thoughts and freedom, theodore would never, for the life of him, let you pay for a single coffee or meal while you're with him.

lunches at hogsmeade are a favorite of his. obviously, he's paying. this slytherin doesn't joke about the topic; will give you the biggest side eye if you take out your wallet.

who do you think he is? his mother raised a man that knows how to treat a girl right, and a good boyfriend! no way in hell is any soul at hogsmeade, scotland, europe— hell, galaxy!— considering that he's not taking care of his amata ragazza properly.

ALL IN ALL, THEODORE FINDS IT SWEET how much you worry over it, and insist that he could spend this same money on things that he likes.

but that's what you fail to understand— what theodore likes, more than a new book with a promising synopsis, or an exquisite astrolobe— is seeing you smile for something that he got you.

﹙★﹚ won't give you gifts to earn his forgiveness earlier, though. he wants his presents to feel like he genuinely thought you'd like it, not as a bargain or bribery.

anyways, i love this man. 🌷

[gaiussleechtank]

Arthur’s love language is gift giving, always has been. He realises this when he returns to a modern Albion full of all these new terms and words and definitions. Back before he died, he didn’t have the time to properly make things for his loved ones as he was the King and he was incredibly serious about his duties.

Yet when he returns to a modern world, he finds himself crown-less and with a lot of spare time. Cue discovering YouTube and google, how-to-tutorials, craft books and step by step guides.

Back in Camelot, Merlin was a nightmare to get things for, nothing flashy or expensive or Arthur would have his ear nagged off about wasting money. But now? Paper and paint seem to be limitless to Arthur and he’s just learnt what origami is.

Merlin comes across him one morning to find the returned king fast asleep and surrounded by hundreds of painted paper dragons. It’s the best gift the immortal has ever received.

[sincerely-astra]

☁️Stardew Valley: love language headcanons☁️

(P.S. This is just the bachelors and bachelorettes, but I decided to add Sandy for fun. ^^)

Harvey-

Giving: Acts of service

Receiving: Words of affirmation

Haley-

Giving: Words of affirmation

Receiving: Receiving gifts

Alex-

Giving: Physical touch

Receiving: Words of affirmation

Abigal-

Giving: Gift giving

Receiving: Quality time

Elliot-

Giving: Physical touch

Receiving: Acts of service

Emily-

Giving: Gift giving

Receiving: Quality time

Penny-

Giving: Gift giving

Receiving: Acts of service

Maru-

Giving: Acts of service

Receiving: Words of affirmation

Sam-

Giving: Quality time

Receiving: Words of affirmation

Sebastian-

Giving: Quality time

Receiving: Physical touch

Shane-

Giving: Quality time

Receiving: Quality time

Leah-

Giving: Giving gifts

Receiving: Quality time

Sandy-

Giving: Physical touch

Receiving: Receiving gifts

[somedayillbepeterpan]

I just know that Penelope would be the most spoilt wife in Bridgerton because Colin’s love languages are both gift giving and acts of service.

[theosbaby]

❥ draco as his love language: gift giving

— boyfriend!draco who loves to spoil his girl with lots of gifts, buys her dinner in the fanciest restaurants and takes her on expensive trips every other month because she deserves the world.

[theroundbartable]

Yule

Arthur: here, this is your present *holds out small ticket*

Merlin: *reading* you'll do what I say for one day?

Arthur: yes. Use it carefully

At Camlann

Arthur: *dies*

Merlin: alright, asshole. You told me to use it wisely and I'm using it now! For the next 24 hours, you'll do as I say. And my first order is, don't fucking die before I do, you stupid prat!!!!!

1500 years later

Arthur: I feel like that was one enormous present I got you there. One of the best you've ever gotten, I might add.

Merlin: I swear to god, if you give me another gift card this year, I'm gonna fucking divorce you.

[aventurineswife]

I have 2 requests if you dont mind. 1) their reaction to receive flowers. 2)making them pick a number from 1 to 50 and kissing them to that number. (You can do any character if it gives you ideas. Just please let Aventurine be in✨)

Flowers for My Love!

Synopsis: You give your beloved flowers, what are their reactions?

Tags: Gepard x Reader, Aventurine x Reader, Sunday x Reader, Jing Yuan x Reader, Fluff, Established Relationship, Gift Giving!Reader, Slice of Life, Emotional Vulnerability (in Aventurine's part), Thoughtful Gestures.

A/N: These are such cute reqs!! 🤭 I'm making the first req first, I hope you don't mind. I'll make the second req seperately!

[Second req]

Gepard Landau

The floral arrangement you chose for Gepard was simple yet elegant, much like him—bluebells and white lilies wrapped with a silver ribbon.

When you handed it to him, his eyes widened, a faint blush spreading over his cheeks. "These… are for me?" he asked, stunned yet touched. He held the bouquet as though it were a rare treasure, a quiet smile breaking through his normally composed expression. “Thank you. I’ll keep them close.” he said, his voice soft with appreciation.

As he placed them in a vase on his desk, you noticed his gaze drift toward them during every pause, a visible reminder of the warmth you’d given him.

Aventurine

You surprised Aventurine with a bouquet of wildflowers, vibrant and full of life, each bloom a symbol of the spontaneity he cherished.

He took the bouquet with a laugh, twirling one flower between his fingers. “Flowers, hm?” He raised an eyebrow, a smirk playing at his lips. “A bit sentimental, aren’t we?” But he couldn’t hide the glimmer of fondness in his eyes as he placed them on the table beside his cards. “I’ll admit, they brighten up the place.” he said, watching you with that enigmatic gaze.

Later, you found him admiring the bouquet, his expression softer, almost vulnerable, as he traced the petals thoughtfully.

Sunday

Handing Sunday the bouquet of soft pink carnations and white roses, you watched as he gazed at them in silent wonder.

His fingers brushed over the delicate petals as though afraid they might shatter. “Such beauty is a rarity,” he murmured, his eyes reflecting the gentle hues of the flowers. “It’s like a glimpse of the paradise I wish to create.” He held the bouquet close, his fingers lingering as if absorbing the calm and warmth.

Then, with a tender smile, he placed a single flower in your hair. “In this world, you are the rarest blossom.” he whispered, his hand lingering as he looked at you, his gaze softer than ever.

Jing Yuan

When you presented the bouquet of lotus flowers to Jing Yuan, his face softened, and a gentle laugh escaped his lips. “You always bring something unexpected.” he said, taking the bouquet with his usual calm grace.

He placed them beside him, letting their fragrance fill the room. "They remind me of the patience and thoughtfulness you show me every day." he murmured, eyes warm as they met yours.

Reaching over, he tucked one lotus behind your ear. "Now, I have two things worth admiring." he said, smiling as he pulled you close for a quiet, grateful embrace.

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[thatsbelievable]

[whereshallweend]

acts of service is the softest and most tender of love languages

[artytaeh]

mattheo actually craves love and attention, if you give him a egg with silly eyes drawn on them he will be attached to it like its his kid

regulus would love poems, idk if its common sense at this point but for me Regulus is REALLY into literature

draco would love hair dye

blaise would love that little handmade gifts that has the spotify thing to use the qr code on, he's really into music, change my mind

UNIRONICALLY, i feel like mattheo is one of my favorite incorrect quotes. it doesn't matter if it's silly, or would give him a slightly less tough, masculine look; mattheo quickly becomes attached to whatever you gave him and proudly brags that it's his. a present from you. to HIM.

mattheo: what's this bullshit?

reader: ah, you don't have to keep it—

mattheo: [hugging whatever you gave him close to his chest, turning his body to shield it from your grasp] back off. it's mine now.

⭑ ⋯ ⋯ ﹒ 🪻 ’

as for regulus, you gave me an epiphany?! that sounds so much like him. regulus + love poems made my heart ache in a strange way ☹️✋ nevermind what he says, i know that regulus would be able to write the most gut wrenching, painfully beautiful poem ever. tragically beautiful type of writing.

⭑ ⋯ ⋯ ﹒ 🪻 ’

draco receiving hair dye made me laugh because at first he'd be offended. would look at you as if you had rapped a whole song insulting his family, from his ancestors to his future children.

(he'd still keep the hair dye. no way in hell is he wasting it.)

but depending on how close you are to him, and if you don't make jokes about him bleacing his hair, draco would be so grateful. specially if you bought it because you noticed that his stock was nearly ending. to him, it's the fact that you payed such close attention, and care for him.

⭑ ⋯ ⋯ ﹒ 🪻 ’

AND YOU'RE SO RIGHT ABOUT BLAISE. i totally see him as the type of person that has ten different playlists, for ten different things.

playlist to make out, playlist to shower, playlist while he's working out, another one to study too. would make you a playlist for your first month together, and even one with songs meant to cheer you up, if you're going through a rough week.

would love it if you made a playlist about your favorite songs, because that allows him to discover more songs that he might like, while also getting to know you better. 🗯️