#genderqueer stereotypes

[rjalker]

[ID: The "Okay, but that's worse" meme from The Good Place, edited so that Eleanor is now saying:

"Everything a nonbinary person wears is inherently a fashion statement and inherently outstanding because being nonbinary makes you weird and quirky.".

Chidi responds, "Okay but that's exorsexist. You do get how that's exorsexist, right?" While Eleanor frowns, trying to figure it out.

End ID.]

[confused-disaster32]

i wanna write horror or stories with almost horror like themes or scifi themes about being trans not particularly because being trans is something horrible and terrifying but bc there's something to me about the ideas of stuff like being trapped within ones self, about experimenting and making things beyond human comprehension, about tearing apart a human, about sometimes tearing apart something that others have deemed 'beautiful' (even if you have not), about looking into a void, about coming out of something changed to your very core that resonates with me on a deep level as a trans person and to me reflects on my own thoughts and experiences whilst I was figuring out my identity

[homocidalpotat]

ok but shoutout to the afab trans mascs/neutrals who are look like a "stereotypical hot woman" or similar who dont want to look like a women or a hot person. they wanna be a bog creature fuck u

[queerism1969]

[mamawasatesttube]

heres how t4t timkon can still win.

[thefleshyougoveggie]

mag 65-binary my beloved<3

[biceratops7]

I’m low key thinking about going by Eli instead of Elliot cause ngl minding my own business and then seeing “POV: Elliot 🌼🌈🍄🍃 approaches” or “POV: Elliot 🌹🌿🍀🍂 is TRIGGERED!!1!1!!!” Followed by a depiction of the most unfathomably annoying person on planet earth every 2 seconds legit gets to me

[carlyraejepsans]

didnt you get like a weird amount of backlash for drawing frisk with stubble or am i remembering wrong

not backlash, but quite a few people misgendering them by using he/him. which stung, as you can imagine

[just-sp-in-inginthevoid]

Reading TokRev you'll think since it's talking about gangs and stuff there must be (toxic) masculinity everywhere but then

Boys in heels (Inupi you king)

Boys in skirt (might not be in the manga but it's still an art made by the mangaka himself)

Boys with makeup

BOYS KISSING ?! (the one thing you absolutely did not expect and yes I know there's a 'heterosexual explanation' given but here me out. You don't kiss your sleeping best friend because he looks like his sister whom you're in love with)

[andthespidersfrommars]

I truly can’t believe I have to say this but I am so so sick of some people my age (namely those who are tiktok users, and therefore are deeply influenced by “woke” stereotypes about queer people and queer identities that are often perpetrated on that site) telling me that it’s weird to talk about growing up as a female or about experiencing sexism because I’m not a girl? and that it either “makes it seem like I’m not really queer” when I talk about my connection to girlhood or that these things “shouldn’t concern me.” because they very much do and that’s such an ridiculous and inconsiderate thing to say.

I was afab and whether I wanted it or not I was treated like a girl and experienced childhood as a girl. I am not out to many people in my life and in their eyes I am a girl.

as a genderqueer person I still experience and feel very connected to my girlhood and the solidarity that I have among girls and women because of shared experiences despite not often identifying as a girl myself. this is because of many factors including socialization, oppression and personal identity. truly can’t believe most people I know (and quite a lot of people online as well) still don’t understand that the oppression I have experienced as a queer person who was afab and the oppression I have experienced being seen as a girl are interconnected and that we have to address multiple layers of discrimination simultaneously if we want anything to change. this is. not new information. I can’t believe people don’t get this.

[lesbiansanemi]

I think… I have figured out the reason I never get gendered as a guy anymore and it’s making me have…. A lot of really complex feelings

[rjalker]

"this thing is inherently transmisogynistic because a lot of afab trans people like it"

so does that mean that something is inherently transandromisic if a lot of amab trans people like it?

no?

that's an objectively absurd claim to make? so you agree the first claim is also patently absurd?

glad we settled that then.

[girlwiththegreenhat]

am i cringing out of my own skin because a man just had the audacity to flirt with me, or because he referred to me as a woman while doing so? who knows! ✨ just ace ??gender things

[neverendingford]

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[la-cocotte-de-paris]

I just saw the worst take ever that complained about some blogs' requests for "men dni" and I'm like...have you seen some of the cishet men that harass blogs in the kink community on tumblr? THAT'S why so many users have "men dni" in their bios/pinned posts. You fucking fool.

[oathofkaslana]

see yeah hc-ing non-human (albedo, scara) characters as trans is a bit of a stereotype but they’re also soooo trans