#genderfluid things

[cr1zz0]

today i decided to wear a lipstick. and it feels really really nice...

and putting on myself with nobody watching is soo fun.. the lipstick is soo dry but it's doable.

but midway tho i started to cry, alot.... i think i wet myself in tears XD.

it was good.. im a crybaby tho..

[genderfluidarchive]

positivity for:

all the genderfluid people who are girls/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who are boys/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who are nonbinary/adjacent today

all the genderfluid people who don't know their gender today

i hope you get a chance to do something nice for yourself today!

🌻🌻🌻

[r0tt1ngk1tty]

Me: I feel like a little girl who had to become a man and a little boy who had to become a woman. And yet, simultaneously, I feel like nothing at all. And these aspects of me are not neatly separated into boxes, but rather bleed into one another in ways that feel messy and shameful. Agender, genderqueer, a woman or a man, xenogender- all of these experiences are a part of my identity, but it wouldn’t just not be accurate, it would be inaccurate, even dysphoric, to describe myself as any of them in isolation- if I can’t describe myself as all of these things in tandem, I’d rather not describe myself at all. The edges of these aspects of my identity overlap and they chemically react with one another in ways that would take an hour for me to describe. My internalized transphobia has led me to feel repulsed by seeing this reaction occur within myself, but I’m responding to it by trying to see what I am as “gross” through an empowering, anarchoqueer feminist punk lens, as a sort of reclaimatory act.

The admissions person at the STI testing booth at pride who just wanted to know what the pride flags on my buttons meant: *stares in confused cisgender*

[johnlocked1827384]

I'm a girl in the same way a tomato is a fruit because sure technically it is but is it really though? it's not treated like one and no one really sees it like one except in specific discussions

[eastons-creations]

a round of applause for Nimona and the gender-fluid rep that made my heart so happy

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[tepli-mravenci]

The genderfluid representation I personally really want to see one day is a reoccurring background/supporting character in a movie/series that just sometimes presents feminine for a few days but then that same character presents masculine next few days, then one feminine day again then you can't even tell

and everyone just uses whatever pronouns for them and noone says anything about the changing presentation the character just exists there and we know it's still the same character and noone calls them genderfluid it's just commonly understood this character is fluid and it's no big deal no profound struggle no "true" sex or gender reveal it's just Sam from the coffee shop he makes the best lattes and she gives a discount to the main character for protagonist reasons

Alternatively every character that knows them thinks they're a different gender Stacy thinks Sam's a girl and has a crush on her, Billy is convinced Sam's a guy and does a handshake with him and they call each other bro, Max is too embarrassed to ask so they just always use they/them pronouns for Sam

It's never "revealed" which pronoun is right because they all are sometimes

[thallen-shipper]

[ding-a-derry]

things i want for christmas

• shapeshifting powers

• a binder (for when i’m too tired to shape shift)

• t4t relationship

• friends to cuddle & nap with

• de-executive dysfunction BEAM

• $2million in the bank

[strange-nd-creature]

Genderflor(en) label struggles :/

Being genderfloren means existing in a constant state of doubt whether or not to tell cis people you’re genderfluid or nonbinary (because they can’t comprehend the idea of being a gender that is a combination of both).

[cr1zz0]

Yesterday i came to an party.. my outfit is fine or meh ig..

but halfway through the party i realized..

i doo really want to dress femininely, putting on makeup and dress.. idc about the gender i just wanna be cute and pretty...

[genderfluidarchive]

to anyone who's pronounfluid and whose pronouns change over time: if people can quite easily call a drag queen by she/her pronouns while she's in drag, and use he/him when he isn't in drag, they can definitely use different pronouns for you depending on what you want them to use at certain times. you are not a burden for your gender expression or identity. it isn't too difficult or too complicated (even if it was complicated you still deserve respect and acceptance btw). you're awesome.

[fallenrain40]

guys why do i get gender envy from animation meme art styles especially ones made on flipaclip

[eastons-creations]

oh and don’t forget the gaslighting urge to cosplay Mother Gothle.

[im-secretly-a-frog]

All my summer clothes are femme. I'd go shopping, but I don't have any money until next week.

[thousandsofroses]

I just want to say it here because i have nowhere else to say it:

i have had she/they pronouns on my social media bios for like 2 years now at least because i’m afab and not brave enough to say they/she or she/they/he etc etc.

anywayyyys no one ever even uses “they” (classic ppl ignoring the they)

BUT recently THREE ppl have used it in person unexpectedly when referring to me and i cannot explain how seen and held i felt.

and one time i even said “oh she is ok” or “you don’t have to use they if you dont want” and they still did it anyway!!! 😭

the feeling i got just confirmed that i’m not “faking it” i’m actually so genderfluid and finally have been having these precious moments where i feel seen and loved for it for the first time ever and it makes me so emotional

i just need to keep reminding myself i’m valid. even on my girl days when i feel entirely cis and like i’m “faking it”

idk bro it’s so hard to love myself when i can’t even label what gender i am feeling sometimes. it makes me feel like i don’t know who i am, and i can start to feel very isolated from myself. but i just remembered these three moments that have happened and i it’s all i can think about right now i love those people for it❤️

anyway pronouns are important! i pretended publicly like they weren’t important to me but they are and they help me feel like me

[kingofgotham95]

Sees literally anything:

*Gender envies it*