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alright, I was originally gonna make this as a comic but I’m really busy so I can’t manage that. I swear, this is my last anti-fujoshi post and then we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled inane nonsense.
firstly, I’ve seen a lot of people saying that they dislike the term ‘fujoshi’ to describe these people because of its misogynistic origins. I find this to be reasonable, so I will be referring to them as maiali pervertiti instead. It’s Italian! Hope y’all like it xx That out of the way, let’s begin.
I have put real, genuine, actual research into this. I scoured maiali pervertiti blogs to find their arguments, their mindsets, their justifications. As far as I could find, there are four main arguments. These being the following: ‘It’s just fiction, not reality’, ‘Hating us is misogynistic’ ‘hating us is transphobic/homophobic’ and ‘hating us is racist’. I will be unpacking each of these, looking at them from both perspectives, and explaining why exactly they’re flawed perspectives. Hopefully, a properly researched and informed take on this will help to clear the waters.
Let’s start with the first take. The ever-quoted ‘it’s just fiction, not reality’. This is an argument you’ll find in a lot of places, mostly in any place which is in support of questionable things being treated as erotic. Pro ships and pro-shippers also love to tote this. Now, on its surface this argument seems logical. However it starts to fall apart when you think about it critically. When we consider how the brain works, you’ll see what I mean. To be concise, the human mind slowly accepts things the more it’s exposed to justifications for them, regardless of how reasonable those justifications are. It associates a bad thing with ‘but nevermind, it’s fine’ and you stop feeling shame or regret over time. This is why you’ll often see lolicons say downright atrocious things about child characters- they’ve justified it for so long that they don’t see a problem with it.
Now, on the ‘it doesn’t affect reality’ claim, let’s look at other groups for this. Think about how many studies have been done saying that men who watch rape porn are more likely to become rapists. Think of all the people raised on the ‘I can fix him’ mentality on tv growing up to get in bad relationships or romanticise abuse under the idea that they can make an abuser better by loving him. It’s no secret of society that, actually, fiction does affect reality. The most concise, albeit silly way I’ve heard it put was ‘But you’re still jacking off to it. It’s affecting your dick and balls’. And I think that sums it up.
Next, let’s look at the ‘If you hate us you’re misogynistic’ claim. The mentality behind this claim is that women in Japan were referred to as ‘rotten girl’ for liking yaoi and bl, and to continue that rhetoric of not liking them is the continuation of misogyny. Again, this is a take that seems logical right up until you pick it apart. First we have to understand that the reason these men were calling these women rotten was because they disapproved of them exploring their sexuality and reading erotic content at all. They don’t hate women for reading gay porn, they hate women for reading porn period. The gay people criticising maiali pervertiti on tumblr aren’t hating them for the same reason. We don’t hate you for reading porn, read all the porn you’d like, we just want you to stop fetishising us. The difference is in the context; the men who were shaming Japanese women were shaming them for exploring their sexualities, were shaming you for treating an entire minority of people like they’re a porn category and for spreading gross, abusive content of mlm because you think it’s hot. It’s also important to note that Japanese women mostly started reading yaoi and bl because of the culture toward female sexuality in Japan. They couldn’t read erotica of straight couples, or they’d be seen as perverts. They couldn’t read wlw erotica, or they’d be seen as lesbians and shamed. Their only option for exploring their sexuality became mlm erotica. You, Lindsey from California, do not share this same issue.
Next we have the ever-irritating ‘If you hate us, you’re a transphobe’ argument.
*deep, deep sigh*
stay with me, fellow trans achillians. We can get through this. This argument is based in the idea that transmascs, specifically mlm transmascs, might read yaoi to explore their genders through sexual content. Unfortunately, exploring your gender through erotica and having a fetish are two different things. I personally did explore my gender through gay sexual content. Mostly fanfiction and mental fantasy, but with the odd fanart or comic sprinkled in there for flavour. The difference is that I never had a fetish for it. Most maiali pervertiti seem to argue with a very subtle straw man by implying that reading mlm content is the same as reading the gross rape porn yaoi that ‘fujoshi’ spaces are steeped in. This is not the case- there is a clear divide. I personally consumed actual, healthy content of gay sex. To go further with this argument, I actually think it’s actively harmful to perpetuate the idea that young trans people struggling with their gender should be exploring it through the things that are spread in fujoshi spaces. I’ve read some pf this stuff mostly by accident or against my will and that shit should not be associated in a young trans person’s mind with their gender. It isn’t safe.
Next we have ‘it’s homophobic to hate us’ which is definitely. A take. The rhetoric here is that by hating on the fetishisation consumption of yaoi, you’re really just hating gay men.
this is just… can I drop the nuance voice here? It’s bullshit. It’s gross bullshit. Gross, steaming, cowpat bullshit. Okay, nuance voice back up, let’s explore. maiali pervertiti, please understand that it’s mostly gay people who don’t like you. This is, again, a straw man argument. They’re trying to yell homophobia so they can ignore the real criticisms. The problem isn’t the homosexuality, my dear sweet perverted little fucking weirdos, it’s the rape porn and incest and abuse. Just read normal fucking mlm content I’m begging you.
Finally, we have the ‘it’s racist to hate us’ argument. This is an example of what I like to call ‘the firemen diversion’. This name comes from an example where a person might take the statistic of their being higher fatality risk the more firemen walk into a burning building, and then using it as an argument to suggest that it’s dangerous to call the fire brigade if there’s a fire. There’s a tiny nugget of reasonable argument in there, but it’s backing up a complete and utter bullshit lie.
This is basically what this argument is. The idea here is that the term ‘fujoshi’ was originally a reclaimed slur, and that westerners are changing it to degrade women again and are therefore misunderstanding the actual language behind it.
Now, this is based in a little bit of truth. Westerners do, in all fairness, misunderstand the term. I can’t speak for the reclamation of the slur, considering how I don’t know if that’s true, but I do know that the way it’s used has been quite incorrect a lot of the time. That’s the true bit. The rest of the argument, however, is nonsensical. While yes, some people misunderstand the word ‘fujoshi’, it doesn’t mean that the criticism of the culture (especially the culture in the western world) is racist. Please, don’t cry racism when you see people asking not to be fetishised. You will end up making the actual movement against anti-Asian hate crimes (which have increased in recent years, need I remind you) look less credible. Once again, I am asking allies to shut the fuck up talking for the minorities they claim to represent while being batshit insane x
TL;DR: no, it is not misogynistic, racist, transphobic or homophobic when gay people tell you to stop fetishising us. Stop arguing straw men and just take accountability.
Also, maiali pervertiti are the female equivalent of straight men who watch lesbian porn. But somehow worse. That’s all, have a good day.
#mlm#achillian#nblm#anti fujoshi#fujoshi negativity#fujoshi discourse#fujoshi hate#tw queerphobia#racism mention#homophobia mention#transphobia mention#misogyny mention#misuse of left-wing politics
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you hate shuro because he was mean to laois. i hate shuro because he gets in the way of my yuri ship. we are not the same.
#THIS IS A JOKE. I DONT ACTUALLY HATE SHURO.#but it is funny any time he mentions his feelings for falin my brain is like BACK OFF !!!#and it hit me the other week i was like omg is this how fujoshis felt in the 2000s-2010s 😭#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#farcille#dungeon meshi spoilers#i guess bc i referenced the fight#into the microphone#hall of fame#tbh#i use this tag for any post that breaks 150 LMAO
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White dungeon meshi fans sound like this to me:
It's extremely fascinating and frightening to me how hateful some of you people are towards shuro, a man who is clearly depicted as japanese, (a man who could look like me or literally any member of my family in real life) for being a normal, complex, and flawed human being.
Why do you single him out for getting frustrated with and mad at laios when chilchuck and marcille do the same literally all the time? What's the difference between them and shuro?
Why do you feel the unnecessary need to protect these white women from a japanese man?
Do you expect that this japanese man is inherently going to have some kind of ugly negative quality that has not been once hinted at canonically? Do you know what that's called? Because i do and it's fucking racism.
You people get scared the moment a character that is a person of color isnt a quiet little model minority or a sweet mammy archetype. You grasp at your pearls the moment they are revealed to have complex personalities and histories; when they feel negative, big emotions that are literally part of the human experience. Or god forbid, when they show romantic interest in a pure, helpless, little white woman.
And when a person of color stops behaving good and docile the way you want, when they decide that theyre not going to put up with a situation that makes them uncomfortable or miserable or RIGHTEOUSLY FURIOUS, they become the bad guy. As seen countless times in the medias demonizing depiction of the Black Lives Matter protests and even of black people who get punished for just living their lives. It happens so often i shouldnt have to reiterate it to you but it somehow keeps flying over your head.
And when that dirty, conniving, perverted, slant eyed, buck toothed, stumpy little japanese man understandably snaps at the white person you guys are projecting onto and all you see is this:
So dont be surprised when i say that id rather kill myself than entrust the safety of my oldest aunts and uncles or my youngest cousins with any of you who act like this. Im terrified of what could have happened if people like you worked at the facility that my great grandmother lived out her final years in. Would you have seen her as a wild animal that needed to be subdued too when she had one of her many dementia-induced violent episode?
I will not apologize for saying that i find it deeply disconcerting to see so many of you happily posting hateful vitriol or even about committing acts of violence against a man that looks like me, solely because he was experiencing his humanity
#like especially after all the shit east asians but especially chinese people had to put up with after covid started#anyway listen to poc voices to stop being so fucking annoying#GO AHEAD LOOK AT MY YELLOW JAP FACE AND GIVE YOUR MADE UP JUSTIFICATIONS ILL EAT YOUR FUCKING EYEBALLS#ALSO WHITE FARCILLE WARRIORS: HE IS NOT GETTING IN THE WAY OF YOUR YURI SHIP#YOU BITCHES SOUND LIKE 2010s FUJOSHI HATING ON FEMALE CHARACTERS FOR GETTING IN THE WAY OF YOUR YAOI#BUT WITH MISOGYNY REPLACED WITH XENOPHOBIA AND RACISM#this is absolutely about how some of u fuckers treat kabru too btw#here i come bitches its the one thing that scares you more than a jap#ITS A JAP WHOS FUCKING MEAN#initially when i saw shuro i was like ooooh cutie! but then when i found out how tone deaf and racist some of you people are???#he immediately became my favorite character#like how asian diaspora kids at school form friend groups even when we dont share an ethnic identity#bc we understand each others experience better than any white friend we make will#shuro dungeon meshi#laios touden#falin touden#toshiro nakamoto#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon
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Oh my fucking god. You are so so so annoying. Your character is actually insufferable and has ruined this whole goddamn fandom. Gordon has never seen any fucking consequences for his actions because you're too much of a coward to give your precious god-character narrative challenges. You solve everything without a thought and it is so unsatisfying to watch because there are never any stakes. You are an obnoxious presence in the fandom and so many people are fed up, but you post about your sad little feelings when you get the slightest bit of criticism or pushback and your enablers flock to reassure you that your shitty character is good. You are a small, small person with so much growing to do. Your victim complex is pathetic and I have absolutely no clue how you were able to make connections here. The only good thing that you have done is exposing the fucking fruit cult as transphobes. You ruined Milton's character (Milton has been my favourite character to follow) and the whole thing feels really fujoshi on your end. Which shouldn't surprise me since you think child porn is an ok thing in the world. I am so fed up with your awful fucking character and your awful fucking presence in the servers.
-XOXO, Salty🧂
DL? DR 💅
#consciousgordiacea#THIS IS THE BEST PIECE OF HATE MAIL I HAVE EVER RECEIVED#I DON'T KNOW WHAT HALF OF THIS MEANS#SERVERS? WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. I ONLY WORKED AT A RESTAURANT FOR LIKE A WEEK#AND I'M NOT A FUJOSHI BUT I THINK I SHOULD BECOME ONE NOW. THAT SOUNDS RAD. I LOVE YAOI
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Kishimoto trying to write any interaction between sasuke and naruto
#one moment sasunaru are like omg ill kill u and the next moment they're kissing? being the sun to the other's moon? like kishi bro r u aight#like kishimoto u're a cishet man how do u keep moving like lesbian fujoshi authors in ao3 PLS#no hate to the lesbian fujoshi authors of ao3 i literally eat breathe and live the content yall write ily very mucho muah#but hahah omg kishimoto how r u that level of fanfiction author#sasunaru#sns
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Lawmane who cheered!?!?
They’re made for each other 😊 (he’s trying to get her convicted of mass murder and she’s in love with another man)
#l death note#misa amane#death note#I’m like those fujoshis who hate women for getting in the way of their yaoi expect it’s Light Yagami in the way of my boy girl Yuri#guys vote him off the polycule already#Lmisa#proud Lawlight hater except for the musical because they’re fruity to the max there#lawmane
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sorry for doing this again but how are ppl seriously claiming that rin and haru werent written with the subtext of having any romantic tension……… what the fuck do you think the association with sakura trees means in japan???? the power of friendship??? commodore between men?? it means gay sex fall in love. like come the fuck on
#read my ship discourse below boy#mh fans do this the most and its so unfair bc they are so stubborn abt meeting halfway#like i 100% believe makoto is in love with haru. like intentionally written to be in love with haru full stop#trouble is he does not reciprocate and this is made very clear by. everything he thinks in relation to makoto vs rin#and like obv we’re never going to agree on this but at least i can agree on SOMETHING#but so many mh fans it feels like are so dead set on the belief that haru has never thought of rin a day in his life#and rin fucking hates haru actually and only likes him for his swimming and forgets he exists when hes not swimming#like i dont expect fujoshis in a ship war to exhibit an honor code myself included but cmon that kind of bad faith reading just isnt fair#rinharu#rin matsuoka
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30 days of bl
Day 29: a bl with my favorite cliche
I think some of my favorite cliches are forbidden/secret relationships, soulmates/fated pair, and finally the trope where one person insists they won't catch feelings/is only soft for love interest/mc. My answers are:
Ore no Tsugai ha Thoroughbread Omega (fated pair), Love Is An Illusion (fated pair), Love Or Hate (forbidden/secret relationship), Cherry Blossoms After Winter (forbidden/secret relationship), Anemone Theater (forbidden/secret relationship), Limited Run (denial of feelings), and a million others I can't think of rn
Pls I would absolutely love suggestions for other bl's that have these tropes/cliches
I'm not saying all of these are my faves or anything just that I like the cliches/tropes in them
This user is not currently accepting judgment or criticism for his answers. please try again later.
#30 days of bl challenge#lezhin#tappytoon#yaoi#yaoi bl#bl manga#yaoi manga#bl manhwa#yaoi manhwa#gay manhwa#gay manga#manga yaoi#yaoi hard#yaoihard#yaoiverse#yaoicore#yaoi smut#yaoi love#yaoi couple#bl couple#fujoshi#fudanshi#yaoi recommendation#bl recommendation#limited run#love is an illusion#cherry blossoms after winter#anemone theater#love or hate#Ore no Tsugai ha Thoroughbread Omega
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maruki basically
#head of fujoshi nation iktr#he wanted a live action yaoi and they hated him for it. he was silly goofy and they wanted him dead.#i jk ik he’s a little cooked in the head….but he’s so funny lmao…#takuto maruki#shuake#persona 5
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obsessed with this little move nora does. shes so cute
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Girl help the fandom is himbofying Laios so much they're making him looks stupid
#dungeon meshi#laios touden#I kinda hate labru fans#Do yaoi ships psychically give fujoshis brain chemicals that make them overly mischaracterize characters or something
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imma be so fr rn i think its homophobic when people are fine with yuri but go up in arms about yaoi. like seriously. because its so fucking stupid to act as though yuri is somehow less fetishistic than yaoi when legit the entire fetish appeal of lesbianism in yuri is the fact that its "so pure and untainted by men". Straight men who consume yuri love it because they have a thing for purity in a similar vein as straight women love yaoi for being guys "sinning" and shit. I think both of these sentiments are foul in their own respective ways and its plain ignorant to act as though the "purity" of yuri is made out of a respect for lesbians instead of fetishistic appeal. And dont get it twisted rn and think im saying yaoi and yuri both suck; you know i love both of these genres, but i can criticize it without saying the genre as a whole is some evil demon shit. Straight erotica also houses a plethora of problematic themes and sentiments because every genre is going to have issues, especially when its lewd content. Lewd content is made TO BE fetishistic because well... its lewd; the problems that arise are not black or white matters and I think that if people are willing to enjoy straight erotic manga critically but unwilling to give the same grace to yaoi or yuri then thats plain homophobic. Because when people act as though yaoi and yuri having these problems means that the genres as a whole are unsalvagable while straight erotica can still be excused, it implies that homosexuals are obligated to be BETTER than heterosexual content to be accepted. It creates this idea that homosexual content is somehow inherently more dirty and needs to make up for this fact by being morally superior in other ways. 50 shades of gray and twilight can exist with a littany of foul tropes and problematic themes that are completely put into a fetishistic light, and yes it recieves mockery and is called cringe (because it is), but how come thats all it gets while some yaoi has the same shit going on and is treated like the entire genre as a whole needs to be exterminated??????? nobody has ever said that all shitty novels made for lonely women need to be demolished because of twilight and 50 shades of gray, and anyone who has gets called out for their misogyny because its fucking stupid to act like an entire genre of content should be killed for some cringe loser shit being mixed in with it. All porn has problematic tropes, and its so homophobic to act like specifically the genre of gay men having sex is the most egregious offender of these tropes while passing off yuri as fine because the problematic tropes it houses feed into the idea of purity.
Like oh my god, the majority of yuri is not made for lesbians. Even though it is made by women, these women are not fucking queer women. They're straight women who are feeding into the misogynistic ideals of pure, feminine women remaining pure and feminine by keeping untainted by men while exploring eachothers bodies. thats why yaoi and yuris problems mirror eachother in that you see an abundance of heteronormativity in yaoi (big semes, small ukes; with the smaller feminine one being lured into a tainted world of sin by being gay or whatever) while yuri has the opposite problem with a lack of body diversity because it focuses on ideal feminine ladies remaining untouched by "sin" by only touching eachother. Why do you think that around the same time yaoi was full of shit like junjou romantica bullshit yuri was also notorious for being boring as hell with two girls thats have no personalities making out together? Because BOTH of these genres had these issues much more severely in the 2000s-2010s. Yaoi was too crazy with that sinning fetish while Yuri was too boring with that purity fetish. Its also so stupid when people keep using examples from that era of yaoi as evidence that western mlm work is sooooo much better and superior compared to the entire fucking genre because its comparing shit from ten years ago to shit made now. Idk if you remember but literally ten years ago pedo bear was a normal thing that was goddamn EVERYWHERE online. Culture changes and i can assure you western gay media was not so squeaky clean during that time either; but this is a whole 'nother enchilada to be devoured another time.
Anyways in short; its homophobic as hell if you embrace yuri but shun yaoi. All you're doing is showing you have a fundamental lack of understanding concerning the roots of yuri and who yuri is actually made for. You're acting like gay men having sex is inherently "dirtier" than straight people having sex and that they need to compensate by being more morally righteous. I'm not saying that the different problematic tropes found in each type of erotica is good and shouldn't be changed, but its homophobic to excuse straight porn while refusing that same grace to yaoi. And it disgusts me seeing people continue to perpetuate the sentiment of gay men being seen as sin and lesbian women being seen as pure (in an almost baby-fying way) only wrapped up in a new convoluted form of packaging while acting like theyre protecting homosexuals.
#its like how r/adical f/eminism and t/erfs are so 'pro-women' that they wrap all the way back around to being misogynistic as hell and#closer to alt right ideology than anything else#im so glad people are more normal about yaoi now#but i still see anti yaoi sentiments sometimes and it makes me genuinely mad#i fucking hate white girls. its always white girls doing this shit.#or some 17-19 year old nonbinary person who calls me a perverted faggot and is apart of the reason i dont really feel attachment to the lgbt#community#i have a lot more thoughts about how people treat the word fujoshi and fudanshi too#but thatll be for another time#one thing though is that if you say that the fujo/fudan lable is inherently bad because fu = rot#then you are fucking stupid because uhmmm you ever used the word queer?#im a rotten man just like how gay people are queer 🗿
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Guys. I'm no homophob e becuz I LOVE yaoi but if I see one more post about alenoah IT'S ON SIGHT. Sure all gay ships are cute and unique but alenoah GETS ON MY NERVES. It's so annoying to look at and doesn't feel right. NOAH DOESN'T EVEN LIKE ALEJANDRO. And don't tell me "enemy's to lovers ❤" because I DON'T EVEN CARE. Alenoah lovers DNI. Unless you like coderra then you can interact <3
#fujoshi#yaoi#girlblogging#cody anderson#codybussy9#mlp#tdi fanart#noco#total drama all stars#td bridgette#girls against alenoah#alenoah HATE
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I think himejoshis hating on yaoi/fujoshis is cringe behavior. That’s your sister.
«But yuri is better-» TO YOU.
«But men are yucky-» that’s just like, your opinion, man.
«Yuri is more pure/the pairings are more devoted to each other-» good for you man, still doesn’t justify being cringe towards mlm ships
«Yaoi being more popular than yuri is because of misoginy-» oh my god shut up, it’s literally not that deep
«But fujoshis are just straight women who fetishize-» literally not true. Yaoi is liked by everyone. Queer men and queer women and straight people like yaoi, same as all demographics can like yuri.
#some of y’all’s arguments just sound like jealousy#or at worst just man hate#fandom wank#fujoshi#fudanshi#these are all arguments I’ve seen btw#yaoi#putting my hat in the ring because some of y’all are annoying af
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I’m starting to hate STSG so much solely for the fact that I cannot consume any content of my faves without them always being brought up or inserted into the conversation in some type of way
I just wanna hyperfixate on Hikara and Itafushi yet the most toxic and unhealthy ship is brought up more in their tags than them themselves
#jujutsu kaisen#anti satosugu#hikara#hakari x kirara#Itafushi#megumi x yuuji#I initially hated the ship but the anime made me appreciate the dynamic between the two more#however the fandom is absolutely ridiculous and I’m the most frustrated I’ve been at this ship ever#for the love of everything#please just stop tagging the other ships especially when it has NOTHING to do w them#we get it you guys love some shitty toxic cliche twink ship but please leave everyone else alone#what makes it worse is that the majority of the fandom is Fujoshi’s#leave it to them to completely ruin any bl y’all are gross#tbf tho#it’s not as good or romantic as y’all make it seem y’all love it for the tragedy and overdo it exponentially#Gojo was just obsessed w the one person who thought understood him and Geto decided to leave his lame ass I don’t blame him ngl#good for Geto I say I’d leave his dumbass too#Geto is more interesting and makes the dynamic but y’all ain’t heard it from me 😗
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"Fujoshis are harmful" I will smite you. My newest friend is a fujoshi ... What has the fujoshi community done to you to make you so hateful?
#fujoshi#fujo#jesus#jesus christ#jesus christ of nazareth#jedas#i shant engage in discourse. however#some of you are ... incredibly hateful. too much so to get into heaven.#enjoy the fiery gates of hell.
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