#fucka bitch

[3amclothesmonster]

Madam Armitox doodle

[fastepp]

Bracing myself to get another nasty territorial email tomorrow in response to my request to have a display promoted on fb <3 because the graphics department thinks they need to personally have a hand in all printed materials and ALL printed materials need to have the ugly ass anniversary logo on it. And since I did not consult them when making my book recommendation slips (they are cute<3), nor did I use the anniversary logo (which I don’t….have access��to….), I’m going to get a “you can’t do that and fuck you for doing it” email tomorrow instead of the sane person response of “oh sure! That seems like a good engagement project!”

Love working with the main library <3 truly they are a gift

[54prowl]

pacific rim's drift compatibility is still so much sexier than avatar's weird fiber optic cable sex

[idontknowwhyimhere102]

Fuckass classmates didn't clean up last Friday so now I had to sweep up the goddamn floor yet no one was there to see it

[pjackk]

Ok it was fun as fck chilling with the NJ tweek squad & making newark are bitch u crazy motha fuckas made me feel good for the first time in a long time epecially when we all got hi as fuck blowing clouds of that crazy cemical type sciantific shit in Leweys Luv Waggon spurting all night and sexualy wipping and slashing each other but i dont know were u left me and my phone is on 2% if u are reading this i mught be long gone but make sure to check the woods or some shit cuz i dont know were i am and the cemicals have not worn off they are feeling stronger now and im keeping tripping over and slamming my body on rocks im dented and not feeling good at all anymore it took so much effort when i fell in the puttle not to just give up and let the rust get to me but i think its all hopeless & over for me but if not let me know how to find my way back if u have a spare $20 bill i would like that to cuz im put of bourbon if i ever get home i need more since it helps me sleep

[dragonbornoflegend]

1. What is your nickname? 

my dad used to call me Sunshine. in hs/college i got called multiple variations of Stromboli lol. nowdays the bf just calls me any sort of endearing term that he thinks i wont enjoy 

2. When is your birthday?

october 22 

3. What was your longest relationship?

the current one, we're at 4.3yrs and ongoing 

4. What is your favorite book?

i haven't read them since the first time i did maybe a decade ago, so they may not hold up to time, but it used to be the Kingmaker, Kingbreaker series by Karen Miller 

5. What is something you're insecure about?

my everything abt me. lol

6. 5 Male celebrity crushes

Matthew Lillard, Jacob Wysocki, the entirety of the band Alesana, Steve Buscemi, Jon Moxley/Dean Ambrose 

7. 5 Female celebrity crushes

Rhea Ripley, Courtney LaPlante, Laura Jane Grace, Christina Tosi, Anjali Bhimani

8. What is your dream job?

farming dairy goats

9. What do you consider your biggest accomplishment?

i don't feel like ive done a lot. staying alive ig! 

10. What is a fact about you that nobody would believe?

hard to say. you should believe everything you hear about me unless it's something that's bad in an unsexy way 

11. What were your highs and lows for this last month?

highs include seeing some good bands live and getting to see some family that live out of town. lows include being severely depressed ig? idk if it's appropriate to just casually share lol. 

12. Where is somewhere you'd like to visit?

literally anywhere. i love to travel. i especially yearn for the sonoran desert after visiting it a few years ago 

13. How do you de-stress?

copious amounts of weed 

14. What are your favorite apps besides tumblr?

youtube and occasional spurts of pokemon go

15. Describe yourself in one sentence.

way worse in person 

16. What do you think makes you attractive?

according to prior statements from others, boobs. 

17. What is something you're really good at?

baking (allegedly) 

18. What is something you're really bad at?

singing. dancing. math. most things i try

19. A time that you told a lie. 

i tell lies literally all the time. i do not remember a single one off the top of my head for some reason 

20. What's a totally random and useless fact that you know?

the existence of the turnspit dog. they're extinct now but they're an incredibly old breed (that term being used very loosely here) of dog w short legs and long bodies that would run in giant hamster wheels that were attached to spits in pubs. to rotate the meats. there's some fascinating stuff abt them online imo 

21.Who knows you the best?

at risk of being a downer, the ppl in my life who have most deeply known and understood me have all died. next best is the bf ig 

22. What is your most prized possession?

i try not to value possessions too much. my most expensive possession is probably my van

23. What is your longest friendship?

my bestie w whom ive been rocking since middle school 💖

24. When did you first feel like an adult?

i still don't 

25. Do you/ Have you played any sports?

as a very young child i played soccer at my grandma's church. idk if that counts. 

26. How are you feeling right now?

tired. my joints hurt. 

27. Are you an early bird or a night owl?

left to my own devices i end up on a nocturnal schedule naturally. my current work schedule has forced me to become an early bird however. 

28. Do you believe in love at first sight?

not really 

29. Favorite song lyrics right now?

"would you remember Joan of Arc was her flesh yet unlit by flame?" 

30.What does self care look like for you?

scary hot shower + bunch of weed + decadent snacks + some enjoyable thing to watch 

31. Describe yourself with 3 singers.

im not sure i understand this question 

32. What makes you nervous?

literally everything. i am constantly and always thinking abt how literally any thing could be going disastrously wrong

33. What’s a pet peeve you have? 

ppl standing still in walkways, esp if it's crowded and they're actively blocking more ppl from being able to flow through

34. What will always make you cry?

the song Fade In / Fade Out by Nothing More 

35.What kind of first impression do you think you make on people?

socially stunted/awkward in a way that's just a tad unlikable 

Questions 1 - 35

that is SO cheating. you'll have to give me like a full workday to answer 35 questions

[icequeenlila]

And the award for most protective girlfriend goes to:

"I know he's an idiot, but he's my idiot. One more word, I'll cut your throat."

"My mans got captured. Fingers off him, I found him first! Keep him away from Ninat, he's mine!"

"You touch him you die. Lights out, motha fucka!"

"You dare insult my hubby? Ma Jake, hold my ear rings!"

"Rawr!'

"Try me, bitch!"

+

Don't mess with her idiot. She will end your existence.

[mysterioushistorian]

KUPRUM: >OBEY.

FOLYKL: what

FOLYKL: dude    you look worse   than usual      and that pastel godtier outfit was         already gay enough     whatever that word   means

FOYLKL: the fuck did you     do to him

)(IC: isnt he beautiful

FOLYKL: i know u want to      be wrapped in     her tentacles and all     but cmon dude      shes right beside you      its your chance

)(IC: he wont listen to u gurl

)(IC: hes all mine now

)(IC: like how he always wanted to b rite?

)(IC: theres nofin u can do u disgustin voidrotten garbage motha fucka

FOLYKL: no wonder youre called      the batterwitch

FOLYKL: this coming from      me     a   witch myself

FOLYKL: also   im not even voidrotten anymore     see my      eyes      theyre back        im godtiered

)(IC: ya still gutterblood carp sides ur psionics weak as fuck

)(IC: ur useless as shit gurl u have no use for ma ass

)(IC: bitch u should be dead

)(IC: i aint cullin yo bulge buddy here cuz hes actually a powerful psionic

)(IC: always wanted to be a battery, whale hed make some fintastic use

)(IC: and hes under ma control now, right buoy?

KUPRUM: >ALL HAIL HER IMPERIOUS CONDESCENSION.

KUPRUM: >ALL TRAITORS AND MISTAKES MUST BE ELIMINATED.

KUPRUM: >AND THAT INCLUDES YOU.

FOLYKL: holy shit   dude

FOLYKL: im gonna sound like a       fucking normie  right now     but kuprum dont you       recognize  me?  folykl?

)(IC: already told ya bitch )(E WONT LISTEN TO U

)(IC: a loyal soldier to da empire now, like how he was always destined to b

)(IC: and YOU

)(IC: soon dead, like how u were always destined to b

)(IC: what u already were supposed to b 

)(IC: now buoy

)(IC: get dat stinky ass DEAD

KUPRUM: >yes, your highness

KUPRUM: >folykl darane, i was wrong by helping you. as a loyal soldier to trizza and the condesce, i should have ELIMINATED you the first moment i set my bulbs on you.

KUPRUM: >BUT NOW YOURE DEAD LOL

FOLYKL: oh fuck

doc text, i had the idea for this interaction and i knew i had to write it

[cyarskj1899]

She was so sincere & reassuring 🥹😩 oh What could’ve been. White women fucked it up for us in 2016 and in 2020. And they frucked it up for us this year.

I will never forgive them hews for that. America didn’t deserve her!

I dont wanna fucking hear a fucking word about what Kamala could have done better. Not one. Fuck you. That sick some of a bitch was swaying to the music talking about Arnold Palmer's dick. Please STFU. You sound like a fucking fool. Mutha fucka couldnt even make coherent sentences. Eat and kiss my whole ass. Mutha fucker been showing you his whole ass for a decade you bitches protested and cried about the Black woman. Man suck my “dick.”

And you know what else is bad?

I feel like I am in the twilight zone.

Not because of Trump because I expected him to pick the worst of the worst but it’s elected Dems that are pissing me off.

We have 3 groups:

-Attention Seekers saying nothing

-Those one doing the mute challenge

-The few who want to fight

actually I've been pissed since Democrats been calling for Biden to drop out.

Y’all thought trump was playing when he said he’d do bad things.

Y’all thought Harris was lying when she said she’d do good things.

Funny thing is they both were telling the truth. Y’all simply choose to believe the best about a white man and the worst about a black woman

And this is why I can’t forgive the democrats for their backstabbing and for that reason I’m going independent.

And this is why why I WILL NEVAH FORGIVE the 53 percent of ww, the 60 percent of wm, and the 55 percent of Latino men amongst others (the free Palestine and uncommitted movement) for choosing to NOT HAVING HER LEAD!!!!!!!! I will be side eyeing these people always because I can’t trust them until they prove themselves trustworthy to me

[yumieio]

a few one piece character as trap celeb moments

crocodile after sanji ruined his plan: OH MY GODDDD

Shank: wait a minute BITCH is that BUGGy?!

(I decided to do this one twice)

Buggy: Wait a minute BITCH ia that crocodile?! (he owe him money)

Mihawk: Bitch we don't want the recipe to your moms peach cobbler bitch (he has a better one anyways)

Doflamingo finding out about the cross guild: *vibing* uh is you mm

koby and helmeppo: I don't know which one of you bitch just lied to me and told me im not gonna see no pirates till later in my cadet life I JUST SEEN THAT MOTHER FUCKA

[bitterkarella]

Midnight Pals: Legal Comedy

Stephen King: submitted for the app Elon Musk: [rising from bushes] eyyyy stephano king Barker: oh hey steve it's your friend King: we're not friends Musk: eyyy stephano king itta me your funny friend elon King: you're also not funny Musk: Musk: mama mia!!!

Musk: eyyy stephano king whya da advertisers advertise on other websites but no on da twitter?? King: probably cuz of those things you said Musk: datsa what she said!!! Musk: oh!!!! Musk: disruptiano!!!!

Musk: ey "datsa what she said!"  Musk: ohhh!!! Musk: comedy issa legal again!!! Musk: mama mia da cake issa lie! Linda Yaccarino: [sweating, rictus grin] your meme game is too strong sir!

Musk: eyyyy da long cat, he'sa long! Yaccarino: [sweating, rictus grin] hilarious, sir! Musk: eyyy leroy jenkins! Yaccarino: [sweating, rictus grin] brilliant sir!   Musk: da jews control the media Yaccarino: [sweating, rictus grin] i'm laughing already sir! Musk: itsa not a joke

Musk: people, they say da elon musk a no funny? Musk: i bringa da sink into da twitter offices Musk: see, itta play onna da words Musk: cuz a da sink Musk: it haffa TWO meanings

Musk: people, dey say da elon is a no funny? Musk: iffa elon no funny, then how i saya dis Musk: "someone"   Musk: "setta us uppa--"   Yaccarino: [sweating, rictus grin] ha ha hilarious sir! Musk: "da bomb" I'M NOTTA DONE!

Musk: eyyy its me elon musk Musk: eyyyy keepa calm anna bazinga!!! Musk: ima da pickle rick!!! ima da ricka james da bitch! Musk: ima da charge ma lazer Musk: [tapping microphone] issa thisa thing on?

Musk: you no thinka da elon is funny? fucka you all! Musk: [inhales enormous ketamine bump] Musk: Gottsa Gitsa frigatte!!!! rigatona spaghettt!!!! Prisencolinensinainciusol!!! In de col men seivuan!!! Prisencolinensinainciusol!!!! ol rait!!!!! [continued Italian gibberish]

[d3vdgvrrll]

i can’t stand this bitch holy shit i’ve been here alone for four fucking hours i am closing FIVE FUCKING MINUTES EARLY and she wants to fight with me BITCH GET OUT OF THIS POOL IT AINT THE FOUNTAIN OF YOUTH IT AINT GON MAKE UR UGKY WRINKLY ASS FACE ANY BETTER YOURE CH-CH-CHOPPED MUTHA FUCKA GET OUTTTTTT

[acheronist]

so we need to keep in mind this is trying to represent a 5'4" nineteen-going-on-twenty year old who has a managerial adjacent job

pros

he does look appropriately like a teenager with an annoying attitude which is hilarious

as far as i know we have no sources about what his personality was actually like but speculating that he might have been a bitch delights me. pov your office supervisor is a kid who is a full decade younger than you and also this is his first real job and also also you literally do have to do as he says. lol.

the actively smoking to remind the viewer we learned via autopsy that he had the lungs of an 80 year old chainsmoker is so funny. he literally is from manchester during the industrial revolution and his job is Shovel Coal All Day so this is a nice touch.

extremely cute way of including his scarf with the dots 🤍🩵 i like it when he gets to wear the scarf as a scarf and not as a way of keeping his corpse's jaw shut

i think that even for how small this rendering is, this is a nice iteration of his facial features!!! long slender face, slight bump in the nose, prominent cheekbones, high and round eyebrows etc... yup its all there. checks out!

cons

THERE IS NO FUCKING WAY THAT DRAWING IS SUPPOSED TO BE SHOWING US A MAN WHO IS 5'4"

his corpse was 85lbs upon exhumation. of course we need to account for mummification /dehydration weight loss but also he was extremely sick right before dying. his stomach was empty so we can assume he wasn't eating/keeping food down, so he likely lost a ton of weight very quickly and then coughed himself to death. but also his job was Manual Labor so (when healthy) he must have had some sort of lithe wirey build. so imo there's no way he ever weighed more than 115lbs~120lbs at his most healthy.

THERE IS NO FUCKING WAY THAT DRAWING IS SUPPOSED TO BE SHOWING US A MAN WHO WEIGHS 120LBS

why's he got yaoi hands. this is also not correct my boy had very slender hands. fucka you.

where did the toque come from

where did the belt come from

the blouse fabric rendering is weirding me out

i'm still honestly not sure what is the truth about his haircut is but i don't think jorrington had a mullet and bangs that he gave himself over the bathroom sink at 4am while using craft scissors

the white dove flying in the background is so heavyhanded and ridiculous i could honestly go throw up

i'm giving it a 7/10 overall

[minniegotitall]

What’s y’all sign?... I'm a Gemini 🥰

PISCES - THE SEX ADDICT(2/19-3/20) EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor Energetic. Predict future. BEST kisser. Always get what they want. Very Attractive Easy going. RARE Find. GOOD when found. Loves being in long relationship Talkative. Romantic. Caring. NOT one to give up

GEMINI- CRAVES A LOT OF SEX (5/21-6/20) Outgoing. Lovable. Extremely energetic. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser. EXTREMELY adorable. Good personalities. Loves relationships.Addictive. Loud. 16 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

TAURUS- THE ONE U CAN’T TOUCH & SEX ADDICT (4/20-5/20) Coldest motha fucka on earth. Outgoing, Loveable, the best in bed, strong, artistic, caring person, The MOST Irresistible of all, popular, Unpredictable, STUBBORNN, 16 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

ARIES - THE PLAYER (3/21-4/19) Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners ... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

AQUARIUS - THE BAD BITCH (1/20-2/18) Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Very caring person ! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great at telling Stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to. 12 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

CANCER - HARD LOVER (6/22-7/22) Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being In long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Normally not a Fighter, but will if neccessary. Someone loves them right now. 2 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

LEO - THE SEX MANIAC (7/23-8/22) Very talkative, outgoing and popular. Nice to everyone they meet. Wild and ravenous in the bed and everywhere else. Beautiful smile and personality. Strong intuition. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, Fun and SEXY. Have own unique appeal. Irresistible lover. Most caring person you’ll ever meet! However not the kind of person you wanna mess with...they will kick your ass... u might end up crying... 10 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER (8/23-9/22) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. EXTREMELY SEXY. Predict future. Loves being in long relationships. Has lots of friends. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Also not a fighter, but if they have to, they will also knock the lights out of you if it comes down to it.Cool. Loves to own Geminis’ in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

LIBRA - THE PIMP (9/23-10/22) Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

SCORPIO - THE VIRGIN (10/23-11/21) Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Best kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. ONE OF A KIND.Gorgeous Smile.Not one to mess with. The best sexual partners in the zodiac. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of bad luck if you do not repost.

SAGITTARIUS - THE ONE (11/22-12/21) Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying! Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of bad luck if you do not repost

CAPRICORN - THE SEXY ONE (12/22-1/19) Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always Wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Sweet. Loud. Loyal. Beautiful. Goofy. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please.Loves to smile.Beautiful laugh.Patient.Cautious.Bit of naughty.The one and only. 7 Years of bad luck if you do not repost

[anonymoushotsexyperson]

This post on twitter PISSED me off and I can't stop thinking about how no one cares about their friends anymore! SOOO here's a blog post about it.

LIKE ALWAYS THE BIG BOLD PURPLE TEXT ACTS AS STAMPS TO BREAK THE READING UP INTO SMALLER SECTIONS TO ACCOMMODATE THOSE WITH SMALLER ATTENTION SPANS WHO ARE MORE INTRIGUED IN ONE PIECE OVER THE ENTIRE POST! ^-^

Reading everything is encouraged though!

HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO CREATE THE LEVELS OF COMRADERY NEEDED TO OVER THROW THE GOVERNMENT IF YOU MOTHA FUCKAS CANT FIND THE SPACE TO TEXT YOUR FRIENDS BACK?? BESTIE BE SO FUCKING FORREAL!:

(THIS section is a little bit off topic from the rest but I can't HELP but mention it.) I think we should all start doing what the original poster did with our friends to be honest. We need to make space for our feelings and expectations in our friendship. Like learn how to fucking leave space for your community. I may have wrote about this before if not I will def be writing about it soon but the lack of community building and intimate friendship skills in gen z is so harmful in so many ways. Not only does it create this 'loneliness epidemic' ( if you're anything like me you've watched a million YouTube video essays on) but dude... DO YOU THINK ROSA PARKS JUST GOT ON THAT DAMN BUS HER DAMN SELF ON A RANDOM ASS DAY AND IT STARTED A REVOLUTION???? NO. They organized that! IT WAS AN ACTIVIST GROUP WHO DID IT AND PLANNED IT! How do you think black activism was able to prevail through the racist ass civil rights movement? COMMUNITY BUILDING AND GRASS ROOTS ORGANIZING AND GIRL LOOK AT THE STATE OF THE WORLD WE COULD USE THAT RIGHT NOW !

"SOMETIMES YOUR FRIEND IS DEPRESSED" IS AN EXPLANATION NOT EXCUSE (DONT SHARPEN ANY PITCHFORKS YET JUST LISTEN):

NOWWWW listen, I know we are all at our own pace with interpersonal relationships I get that, I can already hear the "Sometimes your friends can be depressed though so maybe YOU should consider that" crowd grabbing their pitchforks but, dude. Especially if you're an adult, you need to learn how to master these obstacles in certain situations. I know this sucks so bad and its unfair but your relationships are still half your responsibility hurting someone because you weren't mentally well still hurt them. I know this better than fucking anyone as someone who has borderline and had to come to terms with that myself. It's an annoying and unfair and hard truth but once you admit it to yourself you can become a better companion. We all have things going on but the people in your life deserve the respect of you at the least attempting to communicate on why you're not upholding the level of intimacy you have set for yourself with said person. Next section are two fairly easy skills to help manage your mental health but be a good friend. ALSO if you're doing the things in the next section with them and your friends still is an ass about it because they don't like the compromise you were able to give or whatever DO be mindful that the relationship is half their responsibility too. Friends should be able to leave space for their mentally ill friends (if they're being properly communicated to and their needs are also being taken into account) that can look like patience understanding and willingness to compromise or lending a helping hand or shoulder to cry on, meeting you where you're at. And if they can't do that after you extend that communication or compromise to them maybe you guys shouldn't be close friends who expect those things from one another or possibly not friends at all but thats up to you to choose!

A TIP FOR YOU DEPRESSED BITCHES :

( I use bitch and hoe as terms of endearment I love my depressed shawty baes)

You bad at communicating and you about to ghost all your friends? Well before you do or better yet when you're in a healthy state of mind tell them thats a problem you have and if its a friend you're really close to who might still need reassurance when you go ghost try to come up with some compromise like "I will still go ghost in the sense that I won't communicate but ill send memes I see to let you know your on my mind!" or "I will do a week/ monthly check in with you but thats all I have the energy for." (remember not to abuse these strategies though! throughout your journey of healthy confrontation you will learn how to discern between whether or not you are using them because you genuinely need them in that moment or if its because you are closing yourself away from the world a toxic amount and need to face your feelings around and with other people)

A TIP FOR YOU HOES OUT THERE WHO HAVE TROUBLE COMMUNICATING :

Muster up the strength to say or set up something like this maybe before you enter that state of mind while you're still in the good place! "hey I have a habit of doing ____ if i'm not in a good place. So when you text me I will text back this same funny meme or tiktok etc as a symbol to let you know i'm in I wanna die mode!" this is a way to communicate to your close friends that you're in a bad headspace at the moment and can't give much energy to the friendship without really having to say anything besides the first time you bring it up if you're uncomfortable all you have to do is send that meme or maybe emoji etc! (Make sure you aren't abusing this strategy to avoid working on your communication issues though because that can regress your communication abilities and friendships even further this is something you will learn and determine for yourself through trial and erorr)

Remember both of these sections are first steps but we also wanna work on being able to compromise SOMETIMES when we haven't left the bad place yet but I know many of you aren't ready for that. SO I won't scare y'all away.

OVERALL TAKE/ CLOSING STATEMENT:

Maybe you're someone who genuinely can't maintain close intimate friendships with sensitive people and maybe i'm wrong here and this might offend you but in most cases I believe thats not true. A lot of people are just scared of sensitivity and emotions. A lot of people are fed up with life and won't allow themselves to push passed their own imaginary limits to open up the can of worms that truly is making and maintaining intimate friendships.

The truth is a lot of us ARE sensitive, but we make ourselves smaller for all the people we love because "they have other stuff going on". I can't help but think if you agree with the qrt or had an 'its not that deep' reaction thats the qualities of being a bad friend (and its not your fault because within especially western individualist culture and patriarchal culture thats what we are taught to be but UNLEARN it).

Also I understand being traumatized by someone who was really sensitive and didn't know how to communicate and they became abusive, I also understand that having a sensitive friend again after that can be triggering. I'm so sorry that happened to you. BUT I hope you don't let your abuser take away this learning experience from you because healthy confrontation once learned is such a beautiful thing. ALSO healthy confrontation doesn't mean devoid of any emotion or things that make you uncomfortable don't expect people who are upset at you to shit sunshine and fart rainbows but its important to make sure you're NOT being verbally abused either. (I will make a post soon about healthy confrontation soon and what that looks like). Hey i'm not saying the original poster had the healthiest response either (im pretty sure the kms thing was meant to be a self deprecating joke not actual emotional manipulation keep that in mind) but it is a natural response to being hurt and more than likely the type of response you give after multiple offenses not just one thing. That is the behavior of someone who's felt ostracized for a while. I would not in any way shape or form consider it an abusive response though yeah it makes you uncomfortable, which circles me back around to the beginningof this. Stop making yourself smaller for the people you love, it's okay to make things uncomfortable by mentioning your feelings because they need to learn to be comfortable with talking about things.

If you continue to make yourself smaller for the people you love, one day you will look around you and you will see all the people you love, but you won't see the people who love you and... that? THAT is pain.

so reader, what do you think? Leave a comment even if you disagree! I genuinely wanna know.

[south-park-polls]

South Park Song Tournament: Round 3!

Hi everyone!! So sorry for the long and completely unannounced hiatus, I had a lot going on between university exams, moving back home and then my birthday so I just never found the time to come back for round 3! I hope you guys are still here and as excited for the rest of the polls as I am though!

The songs still in the tournament are as follows:

Poker Face

Gay Fish

Fingerbang

South Park Theme Song

I’m Super

The Tale of Craig’s Mom’s Bush

Dreidel Dreidel Dreidel

I’ve Got Some Apples

Wendy’s Audition Song

The Ballad of Tweek and Craig

Uncle Fucka

Chocolate Salty Balls

Faith + 1 Album Medley

California Loves The Homeless

Make Bullying Kill Itself

Push (Feeling Good On A Wednesday)

Put It Down

I Swear

Jackin It In San Diego

La Résistance

blame canada

what would brian boitano do

it’s butters

bleeding heart rock protest song vs pro war country song

kyle’s moms a bitch

mountain town

i can change

you and cthulhu

princess kenny theme

merry fucking christmas

let’s fighting love

the ballad of lemmiwinks

Round 3 starts tomorrow! Can't wait to see how you all vote!