#inconsiderate fucks

[idontknowwhyimhere102]

Fuckass classmates didn't clean up last Friday so now I had to sweep up the goddamn floor yet no one was there to see it

[bankaizen]

man i just want to know why people insist on going to a concert, movie, opera, broadway show, etc. if they're just going to sit on their phone or talk the entire time

"i paid for my ticket i can do what i want" so did everyone else, stay home if you're gonna be insufferable

basic theatre etiquette is so lost on audiences now and it's gotten especially worse since covid. i'm begging you to stay the fuck home if you don't know how to act. give your ticket to someone who's actually going to be respectful and considerate of other people and the performers, musicians, and the like

[crimsonender]

Context: we had an emergency alert for a missing elderly person in Nova Scotia. We get a quick, two second siren on our phones.

How fucking callous do you have to be to get this tilted over a fucking noise that could save someone's life? Two seconds of minor discomfort is not "Psychological Assault" and is worth the chance someone could (and in this case did!) find this man who could have died if he wasn't found!

[rosesradio]

i try not to let dumbass fandom disk horse take up any space in my mind but now on behalf of the percico side of the fandom that had to deal with that entitled negativity i wanna write a percico drabble

actually the smuttier and more offensive the better

[stargirlrchive]

i am so annoyed ! i hate when plans are made and then ppl just aren’t mindful of the time ? like im actually going to pull my hair out of my fucking head.

[yujeong]

(Me, telling @wretchedamaranth about the mosquito bites I got from cleaning my balcony -> remembering how in Passing Time by @fleet-off Vegas got jealous of the fucking sun touching Pete's face -> "Hey, wouldn't it be funny if Vegas got jealous of mosquitoes leaving their mark on Pete's skin?")

"What the fuck are those?"

Pete snorts. "I got bored and drew red dots on my torso."

Pete expects Vegas to scoff, maybe throw an ironic remark back at him, but instead, he frowns. He touches Pete's sweaty skin, stretching it with his fingers. The area expands, bright red spreading, the mosquito bite almost but not quite disappearing for a brief moment, only to appear again when Vegas lets go.

Pete finds Vegas' jealousy nonsensical most days, but sometimes it's amusing. Like today; they're laying in bed, their bodies glued together. Staring at the ceiling, at each other, letting the heat linger, ignoring the discomfort.

It doesn't matter. Vegas has no reason to feel threatened by a mere insect using Pete's body for its needs.

Vegas clearly disagrees. He keeps playing with Pete's skin, poking at the bites with his nails, and Pete starts to get ticklish.

"If you keep touching them, they're going to get itchy."

Vegas stops. He looks at Pete, his expression unreadable. It doesn't help Pete get prepared for it; Vegas puts his lips around the red spot, and bites.

Pete yelps and then laughs as Vegas is sucking on the skin, his teeth gently digging into it. He licks it too, then moves to the next one. He keeps at it until he's gone through all of them.

"Mine," Pete hears him murmur under his breath, lost in his own thoughts as he's staring at his work. "Mine."

A different kind of heat spreads through Pete. It makes him realize, as Vegas finally looks at him with his hunger now evident and sharp, that he isn't thinking about mosquitoes anymore.

[ace-and-the-rpg-horrors]

(smiles so sweetly through gritted teeth) good evening, Tumblr user in the Dead Boy Detectives fandom. i am very UNKINDLY requesting that you STOP tagging every single character under the fucking sun in your post that doesn't name ANY of them. that post of yours that is just generally about DBD and you haven't even MENTIONED The Night Nurse, yet it resides in her tag? that sweet Payneland post that doesn't have either of the girls in sight, yet both their names attached to it?

stop it!! stop cluttering character tags like this!! it's annoying and RUDE. i try looking in any side characters' tag for THEM and half the posts aren't fucking ABOUT THEM. how hard is it to just tag what's relevant?? if your post is ONLY about Charles I SHOULDN'T BE SEEING IT WHEN I'M LOOKING IN JENNY'S TAG!!

ahem. thank you for listening <3

[sydmarch]

if you use all 4 laundry machines at once for yourself in a building where over 100 people live you should kill yourself fr

[heresiae]

it's 2024.

everyone is still recovering from the self isolation of 2020 (the ones saying they're not are either liars or in denial).

and we didn't learn shit.

despite our workplace deciding to letting us having the opportunity to work from home for 60% of the time after the end of lockdown, some coworkers still think it's a good idea to come to work with the "sniffles", even if it's not necessary for them to be physically in the frigging office.

which is how I was exposed to Covid yesterday.

now, I don't really care that it's Covid, I care that people are still going around thinking is no big deal to pass their stupid germs to other people.

and it's the eve of summer holidays for everyone here. WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU GOING AROUND SPREADING SHIT?!

if I would not be able to go Friday to my AHDH medication assessment because of this idiot, I would be maaaaaaaaaaaad

[oceanwithouthermoon]

i think its weird that i have to make this disclaimer but the internet is crazy so wtvr,, anyway,,

if i say i dont like something, that doesnt mean "that thing is bad and nobody should post it.."

i swear literally every time i even mention that i dislike something, people will go "wow does that mean u fucking hate me cuz i post that thing? ur a fucking stupid bitch and all ur opinions r wrong" LIKE ?? er.. no. just because i say i dont like certain characterizations of certain characters (the saiki k fandom is CRAZY about this cuz i can state an opinion on literally any character and a group of people will still go 'well only we're allowed to post our opinions about them because we're always right!1!1!'), or certain ship tropes (mentioned my hatred of toxic yaoi maybe once or twice on here months ago and people STILL get mad at me as if i said toxic yaoi lovers r evil or something), or certain ships, or WHATEVER, does not mean that i HATE the people who are posting them or that i think they shouldnt post them at all, NO, im just posting about my personal tastes on my personal blog and it would be extremely weird and hypocritical if i decided that i was the ONLY person that was allowed to do that,,

i think the only reason people assume that is because there are a lot of other people on here who ARE like that, and a lot of people toe the line between posting that they dont like something and posting that they think everyone who likes that thing is stupid, annoying, and wrong,, so i guess all i can say is, sorry for whatever made you make these assumptions but they arent true about me so plz leave me alone ʘ‿ʘ ur doing the same thing to me that ur accusing me of but i didnt do it in the first place so ur just actively being a dick for no reason

[flammenxci]

Is it just me or does Tiktok now have this tinge of suspense to it? A teensy tiny looming sense of apprehension added to the mix?

Abuse victims and those still living in abusive/toxic households will know what I'm talking about. If you've been kicked out of the house as a minor and brought back in or been through the process of being kicked out but they go "nvm just kidding lol" and leave you to pick up the mess, then you DEFINITELY know what I'm trying to say.

And before anybody says I'm being dramatic, I had a narcissistic mother who would have beef with babies. Yes, babies. I know this feeling from experience and it is very hard to describe to people who haven't had to deal with it since it's due to that lack of experience is why they don't get it. The slight change in atmosphere I'm getting from the app now feels somewhat eerily familiar to having to live with someone like that be a significant part of my life since birth. But it's more of a creeping feeling like the threat is coming back but it's not present enough for everyone else to take it seriously.

[nothing0fnothing]

Sometimes I feel like I'm smacking my head into a brick wall with these people. Like someone will ask me about narcissism and I'll explain that it's not a mental disorder and treating mentally ill people like they're abusers in training is disgusting and wrong, but really this is an abuse survivor and trauma support blog and it's really not the place to be getting in depth information about anything outside of that.

Then I'll get told that some people don't like the term narcissistic abuse so why am I using it as a tag on my posts? So I explain that I'm not calling it narcissistic abuse for no reason, that experts and specialists and survivors and former perpetrators and therapists and councellors and support workers all use this term pretty unanimously. That it is the name for what I experienced, I didn't make it up.

Then I get accused of making up an entirely defunct type of abuse to make myself feel special or to separate myself from other abuse survivors, and it hurts. So I explain that its a seperate method of abuse that is defined seperately for a reason. That it has its own name for a reason and that reason is it doesn't mean the same thing as physical abuse or mental abuse or gaslighting. That it wouldn't be written about and discussed in literature under this name if it was no different from any other type of abuse.

So then I generally get accused of perpetrating ableism and it's a horrible accusation so I run into the beginning of the discussion again but in a bit more detail than I'd generally prefer and I'm talking about diagnositic criterias and language etymology and psychiatrists who died a hundred fucking years ago.

Then I'll talk about survivors and victims, because they're who this blog is about, and how every source that discusses what they're going through is a lifeline of support. That information is a resource and inaccurately discussing this issue prevents those in need of those resources from finding them when they're needed. I do this because I feel like I have to justify my blogs existence and its 70 follower platform, and why I feel I should be allowed a space to discuss the thing that matters deeply to me on the app where 30,000 word Eddie Munson x the fucking alien from American Dad smut would get a space tomorrow, and we would all read it, don't even lie to me.

And then almost every time somebody with a self diagnosed personality disorder and a bunch of quirky posts about how silly and goofy they are to be a self identified narcissist will jump onto my post and tell me that actually I'm harming them personally by doing all this because for some reason they are the primary victim of the abuse I experienced when I was twelve. For some reason whenever I say "narcissistic abuser" they feel I'm describing them personally, that I'm in the NPD tags because I'm out to hurt specifically people with this disorder and they go on to finger wag at me and tut in my comments and ask me how dare I continue to have this discussion when the "community I'm hurting" has asked me nicely to stop?

Just.. fuck off.

My blog clearly isn't for you, it's for people who have actual problems. Not problems that only exist on the tumblr app. Not problems they intentionally insert themselves into so they can lay down and cry loudly claiming they're a victim. Real life problems they're trying to work through. So excuse me if I won't pander to your expectation of how I should discuss my own lived experiences. Excuse me if I won't validate your victim narrative when you're literally claiming you're being abused by hashtags used by traumatised people trying to exist in the supportive community they've built. Yanno, the supportive communities you frequently seek out just to tell us how angry or triggered or frightened you are by us existing publicly?

Maybe I'll just start telling people asking me this same. fucking. question; who won't even bother to scroll through my page to see if maybe the blog that fucking dominates the 'narcissism is not NPD' tag maybe has an answer to their question about NPD and abuse, by the way; who literally pretend to be here to educate themselves to bait me into replying so they know they have my full attention when they call me a fucking scumbag ableist abuser with maximum impact, that Google is free. Maybe it's your job to educate yourself, not the job of the blog whose whole shtick is 8 paragraph essays of pure trauma dumping 3 times a day, to go to Google for you then spend 40 minutes presenting the information in a way that's educational and supportive for my audience while also being pallettable and uncritical of you in hopes you don't do a full 180° into calling me a dumb cunt for being educated on an issue you don't like.

While it's my responsibility to not spread misinformation, that doesn't mean I'm obligated to consistently hand holding every curious anime pfp or ignorant SJW wannabe through the publicly available Internet like I'm Aladdin taking you on a magic carpet ride of my own trauma.

Fuck.

[collinnmckinley]

CAN YALL FUCKING TAG SPOILERS??!!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!!?OH MY GOD

[peachdoxie]

Some neighbor is blasting very loud music at 12:23 am. Why. Fuck you.

[mercymaker]

brother, why is it i wake up at 8 and within 20 minutes my mind slips into the "you know what? you never belonged anywhere and you never will :)" hellhole like.. pls

[whaleofatjme1920]

Do any of you guys have issues with men eating literally everything of a special thing you got for yourself???

For me, it’s my whole apple cider donut debacle. A few years ago, I got a 12 pack of apple cider donuts from a farm up north. You can only get these from a few farms in the area with that really autumnal vibe right? Anyways my friend and I ate 2 so that left 10 in total.

My father asked if he could have one and he ate 9 of them in an evening.

9.

I was SO angry. I bought those for myself and he ate nearly all of them. I left the last one in the tray out of spite. It too me a month before I finally ate it. I didn’t even want it because he fucking ate 9 of them.

Anyways I went to a farm again for my birthday and got a 12 pack. I hadn’t even opened it myself yet. My birthday was on Saturday, it’s Tuesday now.

And my dad’s already eaten 9 of them. Again.

So,,,, any experiences with men just inhaling shit you wanted specifically for yourself?