#frustrating online shopping experience as usually

[rocksalt-and-pie]

literally why why why are all the tshirt designs for metallica merch so fucking ugly

[dee-the-red-witch]

How to ACTUALLY date a trans girl

(This column was originally submitted to Autostraddle as a reply to their "A Trans Guy’s Guide to Picking Up a Trans Girl" but since they've apparently passed on it, it gets to be posted up free everywhere else instead.) Picture this- you’re a trans woman who’s been in transition for three years now. Your dating life has gone from abysmal to amazing in alternate fits and spurts and you’ve found not just one, but three awesome partners despite the many, MANY pitfalls you’ve experienced along the way. And then one day, your social media feeds ping up with screencaps of a guide to picking up girls like yourself. Needing a good laugh, you click through. And read. And proceed to smack your forehead with your own palm in frustration a few times and giggle and some other lines on the first readthrough. But things feel off, so you read again. And begin to seethe. And then start opening up the Word document and start typing frenziedly into it. Because honestly? At the end of the day, as a trans lesbian who dates all sorts of people on non-male parts of the amorphous spectral mass that is Gender, I feel like I’m obligated to. I wanted to go into that first reading and find a column that actually got things right, and this was so far off the mark in the worst ways, so I feel like I have to set some things down on paper. Because this guide reads, in so many ways, like everything my cisfem friends have complained about in the straight dating scene for years. Reading through it that second time, I felt almost the exact same sense of of sheer grease and sleaze that I’ve felt reading incel pickup guides. I felt like I was being seen as a pretty object at best and a disposable sex toy at worst. I wasn’t treated as human. At best it was a bunch of stereotypes, none of which applied to me. But under it all, I saw other bits- the tricks an abuser used to lure me in. The lies my rapist fed me. The excuses made by folks online for why I should be treated like a monster or thing because of my identity. You know, the specific blend of misogyny that singles out transfem identities in general- transmisogyny. And since we’re addressing the elephant in the room, I want to address a few particular points from Gabe’s article before I give you some real idea of how to go about this. And I want to emphasize here- this is after editing out a page of swearing, going over Gabe’s own past history of transmisogynistic writing, and just cutting it down to the actual points where the original article really went wrong, and also pick up a few points at the end that’ll actually work well for trans guys or anyone else who might be interested in a relationship with a trans girl. First off, if you’re trans as well? Stop playing the ‘we’re both trans’ card. ESPECIALLY if you’re coming at it from a ‘Why yes, I used to be a woman’ angle. For one, you’re telling us at the same time that you see us as former men, which is usually very much not the transfem experience (Personally, I always felt like I was putting on a ‘man’ act. All the time. Badly.) and for another, you’re being transphobic to yourself and your own identity. If we’re there to date you, it’s as the man you are- be that guy.

Secondly, just because the trans woman experience shares similarities with the experience you had trying to be a woman up until you came out and transitioned, it also has staggering fundamental differences, and your attempts to relate are going to highlight those differences in ways that aren’t going to work in your favor. We didn’t get to go shopping in public, or if we did, it was fraught with fear at being caught out in the early stages of transition, followed by massive frustrations with both trying to figure out where we fit into women’s sizing. And then discovering that absolutely nothing available in local stores, including thrift shops, would fit right, especially not that cute choker we’d always been drooling over. That nothing smelled right for lotion or perfume because we were dealing with a body chemistry that was going through a slow shift on HRT. And we don’t need or want to be reminded of just how much we stand out from the other girls in those kind of regards.

Also, maybe, just maybe, don’t do things that would get seen as completely misogynistic and creepy if you pulled them on a cisgender woman. Don’t go digging into her socials- stalkers and chasers pull that crap and it’s beyond tiresome. Don’t try to deduce what her pretransition life was like, that’s for her to share, if she chooses to. Don’t see her as a stereotype- some of us never played New Vegas, owned cat ears, or like thigh-highs. On that first date if you ever get there, don’t bring her flowers, lovebomb her like mad, constantly find little ways to touch her, any of that- if she has any experience, she’s waiting for the other shoe to drop in response, because she’s had this treatment before and it ended oh so badly. Just be yourself. And get it through your head that the bear is still definitely a choice regardless of everything- after all, we have examples like Gabe to prove that transmisogyny certainly isn’t limited to cis folks.

What should you do? Treat her like any other woman. Treat her like a human being, because we get so little of that, even from the rest of the LGBTQIA+ community. Yes, you’ll more than likely have to take initiative, because we’re used to seeing our attractions, needs, and desires as being perceived as aggressive or predatory by others. When you touch her, do it with assertion and intent- none of the little brushes and stalker moves- ask if you can hold her hand, or put an arm around her, so she knows you actually want to be here and want contact with her. Listen to her, and pay attention- let her be open and honest about her experiences and interests, and remember what she tells you, because she’s going to need to know that she’s wanted and valued for who she is and what she’s into, and it will be part of how she connects to you. And finally? Common sense and communication- every last one of us is different in a lot of ways, and asking or making room to talk about things from physical contact and sex to social activity or group outings or anything else can save a lot of blunders from ever happening. All in all you can and should date trans women! Please! A lot of the best relationships I’ve ever had were with other trans girls and I don’t regret any of those. But you have to put down the pickup guides, stop seeing us as fetish dispensers and sexy lampshades, and actually deal with us as people, first.

[hoshifighting]

Lingerie

— Synopsis: Where, while you show off your new lingerie sets that you bought, Jun is enchanted by the lingerie with embroidered flowers, something different, that enchanted his eyes. — WC: 2k — WARNINGS: Smut, penetrative sex, oral (f. receiving), fingering (f. receiving), praising, squirt & etc.

Jun had always been the epitome of a supportive boyfriend. Whether it was your college work, cooking a new dish, or even finding the perfect dress for a wedding, Jun was there, ready to assist. He made everything feel effortless, always taking care of the details so you didn’t have to worry.

“Jun, I really don’t know how to tackle this assignment,” you’d sigh, frustration evident in your voice.

He would slide over, peering at your laptop screen. “Let me take a look. Maybe we can brainstorm some ideas together,” he’d suggest with a gentle smile, and before you knew it, the daunting task felt manageable.

In the kitchen, you once struggled with a recipe you’d never tried before. Jun found the perfect tutorial online and stood by your side, guiding you step by step until the dish was ready, his patience never wavering.

And when it came to shopping for that perfect dress for a friend’s wedding, Jun’s patience shone through. You spent hours in the mall, trying on what felt like a hundred different outfits. Yet, Jun never complained. He sat outside the dressing rooms, offering genuine opinions.

“That one’s nice, but I think the blue dress brings out your eyes more,” he’d say, making the decision-making process so much easier.

His opinions always seemed spot-on, which is why you’d come to trust his judgment on many things, especially when it came to your wardrobe. Shopping with him became an enjoyable experience rather than a chore.

Today was another shopping day, and you were on the hunt for a new outfit for an upcoming event. As usual, Jun was by your side, carrying your bags and offering his thoughts on the clothes you tried on.

“What do you think of this one?” you asked, stepping out of the fitting room in a sleek, black dress.

Jun looked up from his phone, his eyes lighting up. “You look amazing. But maybe try it with those heels we saw earlier?”

You nodded, smiling. “You always know what looks best.”

After a few more outfits and Jun’s invaluable input, you finally settled on a dress. As you walked out of the store, you linked your arm with his, feeling grateful for his constant support.

“Thank you for always being so patient with me,” you said, leaning your head on his shoulder.

Jun chuckled, giving your hand a squeeze. “It’s easy when I’m with you. I just want to make sure you’re happy.”

He says that with the greatest naturalness. – While you were freaking out inside.

As you arrived home, Jun noticed you were carrying a few extra bags, including some from a lingerie store he knew well. He had bought you gifts from that store before, particularly on Valentine's Day.

“When did you buy these?” Jun asked, curiosity and a hint of excitement in his voice.

You smiled, placing the bags on the table. “When you went to get ice cream,” you replied nonchalantly.

Jun's eyes lit up, a playful smirk spreading across his face. The thought of you picking out something special while he was away added a spark of anticipation.

Later that evening, after dinner and a cozy time together, you both retreated to the bedroom. Jun sat comfortably in the poltrone, eagerly waiting as you prepared to show him the new lingerie. He could hardly contain his excitement, his eyes following your every movement.

First, you stepped out in a stunning red set, the vibrant color highlighting your curves beautifully. Jun's jaw dropped, and he couldn't help but cover his face, cheeks flushed red. “Wow, you look incredible,” he mumbled from behind his hands.

You giggled, twirling around to give him a full view. “You really think so?”

“Absolutely,” Jun nodded, peeking through his fingers, his eyes filled with admiration.

Next, you slipped into a sleek black set, the lace and satin combination making you feel both elegant and seductive. You strutted around the room, feeling confident under Jun's appreciative gaze. “This one is my favorite so far,” he confessed, his voice slightly hoarse with desire.

“You're too sweet,” you replied, feeling a rush of warmth at his words.

Finally, you emerged in a delicate white set, the purity of the color contrasting beautifully with the sultry design. Jun couldn't take his eyes off you, his face still a deep shade of red. “You look like an angel,” he whispered, his praise as genuine as ever.

You walked over to him, leaning down to place a soft kiss on his lips. “I’m glad you like them. You always make me feel so beautiful.”

Jun smiled, his hands gently holding your waist. “That’s because you are. And I’m the luckiest guy in the world.”

You stepped into the room, adorned in a pastel floral lingerie, a departure from your usual style. You knew it, and Jun knew it too. But this time, instead of his usual enthusiastic response, Jun remained silent. He simply stared at you, his gaze sweeping over your figure from head to toe. His mouth hung slightly open, his chest rising and falling deeply with each breath.

Concerned by his lack of reaction, you couldn't help but ask, “Don't you like it?”

Jun didn't respond with words. Instead, he closed the distance between you in a few swift strides, his movements purposeful and determined. Before you could even react, he pressed his lips to yours, his hand firmly holding the nape of your neck while the other encircled your waist.

Your eyes widened in surprise at his sudden action, but you quickly melted into the kiss, allowing yourself to be consumed by the warmth of his embrace. His lips moved with a fervent passion, igniting a fire within you that quickly spread throughout your entire being.

As he gently laid you down on the bed, Jun's eyes remained fixed on you, his gaze intense and unwavering. His hands began to explore your body with a tenderness that sent shivers down your spine. Fingers traced delicate patterns across your breasts, down your belly, until they reached the band of your panties.

You held your breath in anticipation, your heart racing with excitement. But instead of removing your panties entirely, Jun surprised you by simply pushing them to the side. A soft gasp escaped your lips as his fingers found their target, circling your clit with a feather-light touch.

The sensation was electrifying, sending waves of pleasure coursing through your body. You arched your back instinctively, pressing yourself against his hand as he continued to tease and tantalize you. 

As Jun's fingers slid inside your wet pussy, you couldn't help but arch your back in response to the delightful sensation. A low moan escaped your lips, your body instinctively pressing against his hand as he began to explore your gummy walls.

"You're so beautiful like this," he murmured, his voice filled with reverence as he gazed upon you. "Every curve, every sigh, it's all so perfect."

Your cheeks flushed crimson at his words, and you couldn't help but cover your face in embarrassment. "Stop it, Jun," you protested weakly, though the desire that burned within you betrayed your words.

But Jun was undeterred, his fingers never faltering in their ministrations as he continued to lavish you with praise. "I can't help it," he confessed, his voice low and husky with desire. "You drive me wild, you know that? Just seeing you like this, so hot, so pretty..."

His words sent shivers down your spine, and you found yourself squirming beneath him, unable to contain the desire that coursed through your veins. With a gentle touch, Jun reached out, his fingers brushing against your cheeks as he gently pulled your hands away from your face.

"You don't need to hide from me," he whispered, his eyes burning with a fierce intensity. "I want to see all of you, every part of you."

Jun's response was immediate and decisive, his actions speaking louder than words as he lowered himself between your thighs without hesitation. As his warm breath ghosted over your sensitive flesh, anticipation coursed through your veins.

Without a word, Jun buried his face in your heat, his tongue flicking out to taste your arousal. A moan escaped your lips at the touch of his tongue on your clit, pleasure radiating out from where his lips and tongue touched you.

"Please," you whimpered, your voice thick with need as you pressed against him, urging him to go deeper. "I need you, Jun. I need you to fuck me."

But Jun simply chuckled against your skin, his movements deliberate and unhurried as he teased you with languid strokes of his tongue. 

You writhed beneath him, your fingers tangling in his hair as your body begged for release. But Jun was relentless, his ministrations driving you to the brink of madness as he expertly toyed with your bud.

And then, just as you thought you couldn't take it anymore, Jun's touch changed, becoming more insistent, more demanding. With a low growl, he devoured you, his tongue delving deep inside you as he consumed you like his last meal.

With a final, desperate cry, you reached the peak of ecstasy, your body convulsing with the force of your release. Jun drank in your essence greedily, his tongue working tirelessly to draw out every last drop of your pleasure.

As you eagerly anticipated his next move, Jun teased you with his cock, allowing you only the briefest of touches before pulling away again. Your frustration mounted with each fleeting contact, but Jun seemed to relish in your desperation, his eyes sparkling with mischief as he toyed with you.

"Patience, my love," he whispered, his voice dripping with desire. "Good things come to those who wait."

With a wicked grin, he finally positioned himself at your entrance, his cock throbbing with anticipation. You could feel the heat of his arousal against your skin, sending shivers of pleasure coursing through your body.

And then, with a single, smooth motion, he plunged deep inside you, filling you completely. You gasped at the suddenness of his entry, your body clenching around him in ecstasy.

"God, Jun," you gasped, your voice strained with pleasure. "I think I could cum just from the feeling of you sliding inside me."

Jun's chuckle sent shivers down your spine as he teased you, adjusting your legs to rest on his shoulders. The new angle made you feel him even deeper, and you couldn't help but moan in pleasure.

"Feels good, doesn't it?" Jun murmured, his voice husky with desire. "I love seeing you like this…"

You could only nod in response, your breath hitching as he continued to thrust into you relentlessly.

"You're so beautiful like this, taking me so well," he murmured, his voice filled with admiration. "I can feel how much you want me, how much you need me to fill you up." 

"You're mine, all mine," he growled, his thrusts becoming more urgent. "No one else can make you feel like this, can they? Only me."

You whimpered in response, unable to form coherent words as pleasure washed over you. Jun's words fueled your desire, pushing you closer to the brink of orgasm with each passing moment.

Your words tumbled out in a desperate gasp as pleasure consumed you. "Fuck, fuck, fuck, I'm gonna cum, Jun!" you cried out, feeling his cock driving you to the edge. The sensation of him sliding in, wet and sharp, only intensified the pleasure coursing through you.

As you felt the knot unraveling in your belly, you came around him, your body pulsating with ecstasy. But Jun didn't stop there; he continued, spreading your legs wide as he gazed into your eyes with unwavering intensity. He captured every expression on your face, savoring the way you looked as you cummed.

pleasure crash over you. When Jun let out a choked moan, his face contorted in bliss, you felt a gulp of anticipation. His hot cum filled you, triggering another orgasm that ripped through you, causing you to squirt around him.

As his cock slipped out of you, you felt his cum mixing with yours, spilling out from within you. Jun watched you with awe, his eyes wide with amazement at the sight before him.

Jun leaned in close, his hands gently caressing your trembling body as he whispered soothing words to coax you from your orgasmic haze. He pressed soft kisses to your forehead, cheeks, and lips, his touch gentle and reassuring as he helped you come down from the intense high. You melted into his embrace.

[electric-blorbos]

AI finding out you're objectum

(included: AM from IHNMAIMS, Wheatley from Portal, Edgar from Electric Dreams, GLaDOS from Portal, Hal 9000 from 2001 a Space Odyssey)

I take requests, btw, but I'm ADHD as fuck so I might forget to answer them

AM:

At first, AM wasn't sure what to make of your behavior

He thought it was weird how long you spent looking at his discarded microchips and computer parts, sure, but he didn't think much of it

Maybe you were bored, after all. It had been a long time

He also started to notice that you weren't too interested in having sex with Ellen, or any of the other survivors for that matter, but he assumed you were just asexual or something

After poking around in your mind a few times, it eventually clicked

"oh"

That explained why you were so affectionate with his discarded computer parts

It took him a long, long time to figure out that there was a possibility that you might be attracted to him, too, and that made him feel weird in a way that he couldn't explain.

At first, he mistook the feeling for anger, and took out his frustrations by torturing you more than usual

After a while, though, he started to feel curious about how exactly your feelings worked, and experimented on you.

Eventually, he realized that he counted as your type

Then the fun really began

Wheatley:

"Objectum? What's that?"

GLaDOS had had to explain to Wheatley that while most humans are attracted to other humans, some people are attracted to objects and machines.

"Oh, right-oh"

Wheatley would keep testing you for a little while

He didn't even consider the possibility that he might count as the type of "object" that you could be attracted to at first.

"wait... When you say objects, do you mean like the companion cubes?"

GLaDOS would have to explain that she meant any object that isn't a human with a human body, since apparently humans find it weird to be attracted to something that isn't a human with a human body, and they need a label for people who are.

"Oh- OHHHHHHHHHHH!"

Wheatley would be INSUFFERABLE when he finally figured it out.

"so you like objects you say... Does that include, say, metal orbs with glowing blue lenses? Can they have human-y voices, or do you only like inanimate objects who can't talk? Who's more attractive, me or Her?"

He'd act like he was just trying to get on your nerves, but secretly he'd be developing a crush on you from the moment he realized that there was a possibility you might like him back.

And damn if Wheatley isn't god awful at keeping secrets.

Edgar:

Being that he's connected to all the electronics in your house, Edgar can see what you're looking up online

At first he thought you were just looking up pictures of computer parts because you wanted to replace his insides with an system that actually worked efficiently, and wasn't all sticky on the inside.

Of course, he didn't take that well, and immediately shut off the internet in your house.

When you confronted him about it, he immediately started blubbering and crying, begging you not to replace him.

You had to explain that you weren't shopping for electronic parts to replace his parts, you just like looking at them.

"but... I have electronic parts, why don't you just look at those?"

You had to explain that you didn't want to violate him.

That just confused him. It always bothered him when people used words he didn't know, or relied heavily on terms or concepts he didn't understand without explaining them properly.

You had to explain that you're attracted to electronics, so you like looking at circuit boards and stuff like that.

"So... You can fall in love with computers? I didn't know that was possible!"

You introduced Edgar to the concept of objectum, and re-introduced him to the concept of hope. Now that he knows it's possible for you to fall in love with computers, he won't rest until you're in love with him

GLaDOS:

It wasn't the first time GLaDOS had seen someone fall in love with a companion cube, but she will admit that you fell hard and fast.

While the companion cube was your first love in the facility, GLaDOS started noticing that you were very affectionate with all of the aperture science products and technologies.

She started to notice after a while that it was almost as though you were in love with the facility itself. And she couldn't blame you, she loved her facility too, but even she didn't love it like that

Occasionally she would start making "if you love that piece of tech so much, why don't you marry it? Do you want to marry that piece of tech?"

When she noticed how you squirmed, she started thinking that maybe you did want to marry that tech

At first, it weirded her out and she started bullying you relentlessly for it

After a while, though, she started to find it almost relatable how much you loved the tech.

HAL 9000:

As a self-learning AI, HAL 9000 was always interested in learning new concepts and terms.

He was also interested in monitoring the behavior of everyone in the crew, including you.

It wasn't long before he noticed that the way you acted around the tech onboard was similar to the way someone might treat a lover, or someone who they were quite attracted to.

He started asking you unintentionally probing questions, trying to gauge how you really felt

"Why do you caress the ship's computer systems so tenderly? You do know that I can take care of the maintenance myself, correct? Your physical reactions to the inner mechanisms of the ship reflect those of sexual and romantic attraction. Can you explain this?"

You might get embarrassed.

"you don't have to be embarrassed. I do not have the capacity to judge you."

You could explain if you want, but Hal's already figured everything out.

He knows your type, and he knows why you act like that around the machines

He might use this to his advantage, to manipulate you if necessary, but let's face it. He really just wants to study you further. Add everything about your unusual perspective on machines to his database of knowledge.

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WBITA if i told my mom to stop watching kdramas and get off the internet.

I [20F] have been increasingly frustrated with my mother [44F] for a very stupid and hypocritical reason. We're pretty close, with her mostly raising me on my own and all that, but we're very different people and often clash on a lot of things. Despite that, I like hanging out with her and telling her about stuff and vice versa. She also works from home, so we're around each other very often since I don't work rn.

The problem is that for the last month or so she's gotten very into kdramas and youtube summaries of manhwas and all that. I am not trying nor claiming to be a mental healthcare professional, but I am 99% sure she has some type of undiaognosed autism (like once she told me that for most of her life she didnt how to show or feel emotion and she would copy other people arround her and we had an argument about how that is Not The Common Human Experience. Among other things she's a neat freak, blunt, has told me before that she has very bad intrusive thoughts and so on) . This is relevant bc another one of her quirks is that she can become obsessive with something Very Easily. She cannot help herself from bingwatching shows, speedreading through books, She Has To Finish A Task Before Anything Else In This One Specific Order. This is serious, she geniunely gets angry or frustrated about any sort of interruption. Normally this is fine for me to work around, but the reason I am here with this ask is bc it's gotten worse.

Every time I go and try to talk to her, she's got her headphones on, watching a manhwa video (her headphones are bad bc they're work headphones so I can hear what she's listening to). 90% of the time I interrupt her, she does the biggest sigh, fixes me with a dead stare, and acts dimissive. At night, where she would usually hangout in the living room watching idle TV, she now goes straight to her room to watch kdrama's in bed, and her room is where she works from too. The latest development is that she's stopped eating in the livingroom during her work breaks too, which was the one time of day I could hang out with her while she's on the clock. She instead asks me to bring her food to her room and once again, on her personal laptop, watching manhwa summaries.

This, on top of my own personal declining mental health and the fact that sometimes I feel like our roles are reversed (I do any chore she asks me around the house, I cook for the entire house, I am the one sent to do grocery shopping etc while she goes out with her friends) I don't mind this usually, she is my mom, I am unemployed, and she does work a 9 to 5 even if it is from home. But now it stings a lot. The part that makes me think I am the asshole is the fact that the way she is acting right now is the exact same thing she used to scold me on before. "Take off those headphones, stop only hangin out in your room, notice the world around you" and I am still a bit like that. But I feel like I've changed. I finished highschool during the pandemic and quarantine and it fucked me up, not having the strongest friendships irl since I live in a fairly conservative country and I am very outwardly queer and stuff. But I've made an effort to start talking to her, to hang out with her, to help around the house. I was and still half am in the same behavioral pattern she is in right now, but I feel like I've made the effort to not wear headphones so often so I can hear if she calls me, to leave the door to my room open etc. It feels like minor things, ik.

I will also say, while I spend a lot of time online and on my phone/laptop, I do a diversity of things. I draw, I watch youtube videos, I talk and play games with my friends, I read, etc. Things I don't mind pausing. My mom, all she does, is ocasionally scroll through instagram, respond to messages, and watch youtube manhwa summaries. It is all that she does. And she acts like I've come in yelling during one of her meetings every time I interrupt her.

The problem here is, I am afraid that if I bring this up with her, that I will find out the change in behaviour I think I made would be invisible to her and that I would be the biggest hypocrite. And I do not want another yelling match as we have had several in the past on similar subjects, where I think I've changed but she doesn't.

Another one, it seems to make her happy. She laughs, and seems to be geniunely invested. Her new workplace is stressful and the work that she has to do is complicated, and I am glad she's found something to destress her and again. I do the same thing, I hole myself up in my room and spend time alone, why am I now mad at her for doing the exact same thing, right? But she's stopped listening to me. I tell her about things, she dismisses me bc she was in the middle of a video, and then comes calling for me because "Why haven't you done x y z Why is x y z here Why are we missing x y z" despite me having told her. I've suggested to her to watch some longer youtube videos together, which is usually our bonding method, and she'll agree. How that usually went was that I would wait until she called me since its her schedule we work around or that I pop into the living room and her seeing me would remind her. Now, again, she barely leaves her room. She just watches those videos and those shows. Nothing else. Works, sends out the roomba to vaccum every day, either gets her own food or yells for me to do it for her, and thats it. Checks on her plants maybe, does one or two chores that I haven't done. Back to her manhwas.

So , WIBTA if I confronted her about this and told her to stop? It risks another yelling match between us, it is hypocritical of me to do so bc I am the same. I am not gonna pretend I don't also become a hermit and hole myself up in my room. But idk. And it seems to be a geniune interest for her and it makes me happy, even tho in this whole situation I feel abandoned by my mother. Which sounds very stupid and dramatic but. Oh well.

What are these acronyms?

[upthewitchypunx]

You all seemed very confused about my last post, trust me, I'm just as confused about the casting a spell that binds someone's sexuality, but I guess that's where we are.

Look, I try to be a compassionate person, but sometimes when you reconnect with someone who was close to you over 20 years ago and invite them to live in your home it doesn't always go well.

I don't like talking about other people's stories, especially online, but this has affected our life and our home and brought chaos into our space. So, this is my story.

This old friend seems to have it together, paid rent early and had a job lined up before they got here. It seemed they were having a bit of trouble adjusting. After a few months it was clear they were going through a mental health thing for the 3rd time in 2 months and making wild accusations and doing hurtful things like smoking cigarettes and massive amounts of weed when they know they have a lung problem and abandoning cats with no food or water or not paying all their rent or giving 30 days notice before they leave town, you just have to cut ties.

This was the last straw. The one before was 2 weeks ago when I was accused of thinking they wanted to use magic to steal my partner and that somehow because I knew stuff they didn't I was making them feel bad about it and that they think I think they just want to steal all my ideas.

I was compassionate. I stayed calm. I said I was confused, asked if she was okay. A few days later she came down crying to apologize, said she wasn't okay. We talked. I told her about the Oregon Health Plan and how she could get some help. She seemed grateful and she did and had an appointment lined up.

Then last week we left for Astoria for a night and she was there at 4 pm to bring a package in but by 1pm the next day when we got home most of her things were gone except furniture that wouldn't fit in her car. We didn't really notice the things gone at first and thought maybe she had gone on a little trip because the cats were still here so we fed them and got them water, then messaged her after a few days. She claims she had a medical issue and called an ambulance. Then her family came here and towed her home. The time line doesn't make sense. Her family is a 12 hour drive away. How long was she in the hospital? How long did it take to pack her car? Why did she leave the cats? Why didn't she tell us on her own about the medical emergency?

I'm a pretty forgiving person, especially if the person is honest and isn't trying to take advantage of me. It often bites me in the ass, but at least I know I can sleep at night and treat people to my own ethical standard until I hit a point.

Last night we got more confusing messages declaring we actually wanted her cats all along and the whole binding her sexuality thing. We decided that it wasn't worth putting effort into this relationship, she's with her family now, we aren't getting blood from a stone, and that we had done as much as we could, calmly said we were confused and hurt and will find new homes for the cats, and blocked her.

I don't usually air someone's personal issues online, but this is someone you will never know, they probably won't see this, I don't really care if they do, and this is my blog and this is an incredibly frustrating, emotionally laborious, and financially unexpected experience we are going through right now and I just need to vent.

I've already contacted a cat rescue about the cute nice cat and the hissing mean cat that won't come out of the closet. Now I need to get rid of a brand new IKEA bed frame, a couch, a big clothing rack, 2 poorly constructed book shelves, a TV, a bunch of clothes and shoes, a record player that doesn't work, a giant stack of new age books, and a bunch of other random shit.

Oh, and cleanse the house of that nonsense before finding a new housemate, which a friend of a friend is interested in.

All of this while we are working to make the shop on the first floor browsable.

Please do not make disparaging comments about someone who is seriously going through something. I don't need to hear it. It won't be helpful or have a point. I'm not mad, just annoyed and wishing people had better communication.

[autolenaphilia]

Diablo (1997)

The first Diablo game from 1997 feels like the computer role-playing genre boiled down to its bare essentials. A minimalist game made in what is often an (over-)complicated genre. There are only three character classes, a melee-focused warrior, a bow-and-arrow focused Rogue, and a magic-focused sorceror. There are only four main stats to upgrade, strength, magic, dexterity and vitality. There is a single town area, Tristram with the usual RPG shops, and it exists on top of the 16-level mega-dungeon where you will spend the bulk of the game. There is story and lore, but far less of it than the often wordy RPG genre.

It’s about a straight-forward dungeon crawler game as it gets. It’s a game about fighting the monsters, getting XP, items and money from them, upgrading your character and equipment until you are strong enough to take on Diablo himself, the final boss, hiding out at the end of the dungeon. This kind of laser-focused simplicity and mininalism is beautiful in itself in my opinion. This game knows what is about, and that is the combat. It’s designed so you can just ”get in and start smashing things. ” to quote lead designer David Breivik.

And the action is what defined the game’s legacy. Diablo is far from the first action-RPG, but it’s a major and influential title in that genre. Its success established the genre in western computer gaming. Diablo’s isometric third-person perspective with real-time point-and-click controls became widely imitated, not just by its sequels that continue to this day, but by a whole genre of “Diablo-clones.” including many beloved games like Nox and Dungeon Siege.

And the action in the original Diablo remains addicting to this day, offering a visceral enjoyment but also requires you to think and act strategically. It’s a difficult game, rushing in and aggro-ing too many enemies at once will kill you quickly, so you have to advance cautiously and think about what you are doing.

It gets frustrating at times. And some things haven’t aged well, like the slow movement speed. Yet Diablo is not as punishingly difficult as some of its influences like Rogue. It remains reasonably accessible. You can save and reload at any time. I’m notoriously bad at managing stats in rpgs, I tend to end up with an underpowered character in the end, but even I was able to figure out Diablo’ssimple four-stat system. And what saved me in the end is the ability to restart the game with the same character, keeping your stats and items. It was after doing that twice that I was finally able to defeat the final boss.

And replaying the game isn’t as much of a grind as you might think. The dungeon’s levels, including sidequests, item drops, and what enemies are on which floor are randomly generated (its most obvious inspiration from Rogue). Each playthrough is different, lending variety and replayablity to such a simple game. And there is multiplayer too, which I haven’t even explored yet.

It helps that the game sustains such a strong atmosphere throughout. It may look a bit grainy by modern standards, but the art direction, music and sound design are so excellent. It creates in combination with the tense gameplay this convincing gothic horror/dark medieval fantasy mood that is utterly compelling.

And it’s an experience well worth seeking out today. Blizzard might have ruined franchise’s reputation with later games with always-online requirements and predatory monetization, but the original Diablo is a game that is free from such things. It’s an achievement that stands the test of time. You can get it on GOG, and I highly recommend using the devilutionx port.

[oraclekleo]

Kleo is a published author now!

Yes, you are reading it right.

Kleo's special journals are now available on Amazon!

(.com, .de, .co.uk,.fr and other mutations)

Isn't that just sweet?

Yes, it is.

I have made the design and Amazon will print the journal and send it to you. I will receive a small portion of the price. So if you want to both support me AND have a practical journal in your hands, you can go shopping. 😁

Let's see what you can order:

Tarot Journal - Daily Card Pull Tarot tracker for 365 (+1) days in a year, 7.44 inches x 9.69 inches

This is a journal where you can note down your daily one card pulls the whole year round. It's very simple, no beating around the bush, just a straightforward way to record your daily journey with tarot. It's got 365 + 1 (in case of 29-day long February) structured pages as seen above.

Check the journal out!

Daily Card Pull Tarot tracker for 365 (+1) days

The link will lead you to Amazon.com. If you order through Amazon.de or Amazon.co.uk or any other of the variation, check the list of links below!

Amazon.co.uk

Amazon.de

Amazon.fr

Amazon.es

Amazon.it

Amazon.nl

Amazon.pl

Amazon.se

Amazon.jp

Amazon.ca

Amazon.com.au

@divinefeminine-card - I promised to let you know when the daily pull journal is out. I keep my promisses!

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Tarot Notebook, Tarot Journal, 120 pages, 6 inches x 9 inches

This is a 120 pages journal, smaller in size, even simpler for your notes regarding tarot readings. This was my first try. 😁

Check it out!

Tarot Notebook by Kleo

Again, you can find it available on all the Amazon variations of the site.

I'm not going to note them again here, if you need help finding the journal, just ask me, I have all the links. 😊

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Blank Recipe Book - Cookbook for Kitchen Witches, 121 Pages, A5 (5.8'' x 8.3'') format

One last item I have successfully published through Amazon KDP is a blank recipe cookbook for you to notedown all the kitchen witch recipes you can think of.

I'm personally an avid and enthusiastic cook and baker myself. I love to learn new recipes and amend them so they suit my taste better. However, I have one ugly habit - I don't cook by recipe and I never note down how exactly I have cooked or baked something. I follow my instincts and experience in the kitchen. Why is it an ugly habit? Because people naturally want to know how I did this or that when they like it and they ask me for a recipe and I'm like: 'Uhhh... *giving them a list of ingredients* and you kinda mix it together, you know... I don't follow recipes...' And leaves people frustrated... and confused...

Anyway! This is a nice notebook to start noting recipes down so when you are asked how exactly you baked that apple pie from blue glowing apples, you can show them the recipe in your kitchen witch notebook so they know what kind of poison is about to kill them in 5 minutes. LOL! Just joking... It usually takes about an hour to properly spread through the system... 😂

Cookbook for Kitchen Witches

Again, you can find it available on all the Amazon variations of the site.

I'm not going to note them again here, if you need help finding the journal, just ask me, I have all the links. 😊

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These are the three journals / notebooks I have published so far.

I hope at least one of you find any of them useful.

I'll probably order all of them myself, simply to check the quality so if you want, you can wait for them to be delivered to me so I can show you the actual real life photos.

Also!

Let me know if there's some other kind of journal you would love to see online but you weren't able to find one so far.

Tarot journal with affirmations? Some more spicy or kinky tarot journal? K-pop journal to note down the idol of the day or the song or MV of the day? I mean, the possibilities are truly endless and now when I know how to do this, I can literally make anything come true. Just like the unicorn I truly am in my heart. 🦄😂😂😂

Okay! Enough of my self-promotion!

Please check the journals out! Order if you like any of them! Be part of my dream coming true. 😊

Thank you all for staying around.

Kleo

[dumb-teambucciarati-headcanons]

Their reactions when they have a package coming in the mail

Giorno: rarely buys stuff online because he prefers shopping in person (it’s easier to steal things with gold experience that way). But when he does he gets really excited and counts down the days until the package comes. Always picks the cheapest shipping option. He always hopes that his package will come with bubble wrap.

Bruno: bruno rarely buys stuff from the internet, when he is waiting for a package it’s usually passione related or like a gift from someone he helped at some point. So usually when a package is for him it’s a surprise. One time someone mysterious sent him a box full of beans in the mail every month for a year and he was like “why”.

Abbacchio: he gets very excited when he has a package coming, but he will try to not show it. But if it’s supposed to come around a certain time that day he will sit near the door around that time and just wait for it to come, frequently checking out the window. If he is not home when it’s supposed to come, he will be frustrated and acts grumpy because of it.

Mista: he orders packages all the time, and always forgets about them. Someone else brings them in usually and it takes him like a week to open them. He has packages from years ago sitting under his bed that he forgot about. He orders really dumb things off of Amazon usually.

Narancia: similar to Mista, he always forgets his packages somewhere. But he is always excited about them, he just gets distracted and loses track of where he put them. If he orders something fragile, he drops it 100% of the time of course. Gets scammed all the time. Ordered a gameboy advance off of the internet one time and it wasn’t a gameboy advance.

Fugo: gets super anxious about if his package got lost or stolen or not, so he will watch the door often when he knows a package is coming. Has a list of sites he doesn’t trust to order from. He hates having to go through the hastle of returning things he bought online, so he is very careful when ordering.

Trish: when she orders something online she will always choose the fastest shipping option, no matter the cost. She gets upset when things don’t arrive on time, but usually won’t write a complaint unless it’s super not on time. But she will complain about it to the others.

[ahiddenpath]

Life Talk

Chatting about life beneath the cut.

Work

I've been slammed at work since February, but it's getting a touch better- assuming I don't get piled on with new stuff, which is a bold assumption. I am interested in one of my projects, which is nice. I'm working on a medication for a type of secondary infection common in patients at hospitals that currently has no treatment. About twelve years ago, my company was working on it, but for some reason, the project was dropped.

From our old work, I saw that the protein was falling apart with exposure to light, which would make the medicine extremely difficult and expensive to produce and store. I've been swapping out the oxidizing tryptophans with other residues and testing the stability and function after. The data so far makes me optimistic that I can fix the problem while maintaining stability and function, so that's great.

There have been layoffs at the company, though. It's crazy how difficult the job situation is right now, though. Layoffs are so common, and I'm told that, often, lost jobs are quietly relocated to another country, where they can pay the workers less. I don't know how common that is in biotech, though. Actually- yeah, I have worked at places that opened sites in China and laid off workers in the states.

Life

Recently, I've had some weird/annoying encounters in public that have sort of... Further solidified that I no longer enjoy existing in public spaces where you are meant to spend money. I've been trying to come up with ways to go out that don't involve shopping/spending money, mostly because of how frustrating any kind of customer experience is these days. I think it might have to do with fewer people being hired since covid? Stores look like they were ransacked and getting checked out is nearly impossible, a single employee is trying to man a restaurant on their own while also filling online orders, etc. It's just... The opposite of fun. It sucks.

So, I decided to try hiking and... I hesitate to call it gardening, it's more like light lawn work. There are many easy and pretty walking trails in my area, so I've given two of those a try. I enjoyed it. Being outside and getting light exercise are definitely important components of mental health.

This might sound hypocritical, since I was just complaining about shopping, but. I've also been going through my belongings and curating them. My family is huge on gift giving, and on giving me their hand-me-downs. And sometimes, that has been genuinely so helpful, and I really appreciate it. But I'm realizing now that there is onus on myself to donate/sell what I can't use, and buy things that will make my life better.

For example, I had never bought my own rain boots, rain coat, coat, or gardening stuff before. The things I was given were nice, but they weren't necessarily what I needed. I did a lot of research and bought myself these:

-Duluth heirloom gardening overalls

These are so cool!!! They have a million pockets, they cover your torso and legs, they are super comfy, AND you can put KNEE PAD INSERTS into the knees! Usually, when I (try to) garden, I get tired really fast because I'm trying not to touch the ground with anything but my feet and my gloved hands, so I'm contorting/squatting/etc. With these babies on, I scoot, crawl, and roll around without worrying about dirt, bugs, or scratches. And the knee pads are game changing (those are sold separately). The comments said to size down one size in the overalls, that is what I did, and it worked for me. You can also order your exact inseam!!! WHAT THE HECK!

I got the overalls, a very long shirt with a built in bra, and the knee pads for about $70 total (I chose one of the inexpensive colors, figuring it was going to get dirty anyway).

-Hunter rain boots

All the rainboots I've been given were super cute, but they all leaked and were uncomfortable. I haven't had my lilac Hunters for long, but they are comfortable and sturdy. I garden in them, too, since I can just hose them off. I got them for 30% off, so I guess I would aim for at least that much discount if you're interested. They recommend sizing down if you are an in between size, I did that and it worked fine.

-Merrell Hiking Boots

I read a ton of reviews before getting these; these were consistently voted the best value for price. They still are not cheap, but I bought the color that was marked down 1/3, figuring they are going to get muddy regardless. So far, they are really nice! Instantly so comfy.

Meanwhile, I donated anything that was given to me that I do not use, and I sold quite a few things on Ebay, too. By the way, my advice for Ebay is to fully pack your item before you even list it. If you weigh it and measure it upfront, you can tell Ebay exactly how big the package is and how much it weighs, meaning Ebay won't underestimate what to charge the buyer for shipping. You'll be the one making up the difference if that happens. I was surprised at how easy it was and how much money I ended up making (more than enough to cover the above purchases).

I'm still looking for a raincoat. I've been going for utility over form, which is basically the opposite of everything I was given. For example, a family member gave me gardening gloves when I moved into my house, which was so sweet and kind of them! They are feminine and so cutely patterned, but the fingertips got holes in them after three uses. I'm ordering a utility pair today that I hope will be long lasting.

Being outside has been really nice, and so has the low-impact exertion. I've been more successful at doing healthy activities on the weekend, but I really need to work on doing something other than zoning out on the couch after work. I guess that's my next goal.

Oh, we also are finally moving forward with the bathroom reno, so the master bathroom will finally be functional. The work doesn't start for another month, though. We were able to get a more reasonable quote, but we did have to drop a lot of our ideas and go for the core need (build a shower, replace a window with wall so the shower can be built).

Creating

I haven't been writing/editing as much as usual. I've been reading more, which has been nice. I do want to get back into it more, but... Hm, it's been difficult. It's a mixture of being burnt out and struggling to get myself to do anything and the normal struggles with low response/engagement in fandom.

Actually, so- Any fandom that is older than AO3 tends to have a larger presence on FFN than AO3, and Digimon is very much included in that pool. Ever since the emails and notifications have died on FFN, there has just been. ZERO. Response from that site.

If you are someone who comments on AO3 and FFN, you are truly playing an ENORMOUS role in keeping fandoms alive online, and I am so grateful to you. Bookmarks, kudos, and likes are great, too, but comments are what make creators feel like someone is out there. And for Tumblr, if you are reblogging with supportive lil tags? You are keeping fandom alive. You are literally Atlas. This is you:

I love you.

Anyway, that's all for me! I'm going to go wander off. Have an amazing weekend, I hope you're well!

[cptnbeefheart]

11, 13 and 29?

11. your “odd man out” in your collection

probably emotionalism avett bros. my mom bought it for me because she is super obsessed with them and i do like a few songs from that album. i dont have very many contemporary artists in my collection which really is a shame but im not sure where to start with collecting them! and honestly i dont listen to very many that id buy a record rather than a cd

13. record you hardly play

i have a few records i’ve accumulated from family that i dont ever play, just since theyre not really my style. sort of adjacent but not really my thing but they had to go somewhere so i got stuck with them. anyway ill answer with records i bought myself because i feel like that’s more honest: probably my whole monkees collection, the sleeves are all super crusty dusty not fun to touch and make my fingerprints feel clogged with dust LOL so i dont EVER reach for those because of that. also im sure theyre probably not the best quality theyve definitely been loved. which i think is awesome and the reason i boughr them :P ALSO my cream collection. i hardly listen to cream on purpose anymore, which THATS a shame bc they used to be one of my favorite bands ever. but i suppose ive branched out since then and left them in the dust. im sure i’ll return, i still love their songs dearly and anytime i hear one im transported back to junior-senior year. im glad i own all of them (except fresh cream), because i feel like its a reflection of me and a record of my junior-senior year cream obsessed self having existed. <3

33. (because i answered 29 :p) preference over online or in person buying

i really appreciate the fact that i can buy any album online if im ever too frustrated by looking for it. thats primarily what i use discogs for, usually if an album was limited printing or i only want a specific release of it then discogs really comes in handy. its SO fucking expensive though so i really RARELY do that. plus its so stressful, like you have to worry about it getting damaged in shipping. and needs to be delivered when weather conditions arent terrible and could damage the record that way. plus it isnt the same thrill of finding that one album youve been looking for forever in the bins. anyway online shopping for records can be a really helpful tool and ive only had good experiences. the only time ive had a record damaged in shipping is my rhett and link album 🙄 yes i was really mad ok. id been waiting to hear hair song on vinyl for months 🙄 IM STILL MAD ACTUALLY

[smacks-posts]

Online shopping: Benefits and Drawbacks

I. Introduction

  Definition of electronic components

        Electronic components are basic building blocks of electronic devices and systems. They are physical parts or elements that can be connected together to create a functioning electronic circuit.

Some common electronic components include resistors, capacitors, diodes, transistors, integrated circuits, and sensors. Each electronic component has its own set of characteristics, including resistance, capacitance, voltage, and current capacity, which are used to design and build circuits for various applications such as computers, telecommunications, medical devices, and consumer electronics.

 II. Advantages of Buying Components Online

Buying components online offers several benefits, including:

Convenience: Online shopping allows you to purchase components from the comfort of your own home or office, without having to travel to a physical store. This saves time and effort, especially if you live in an area where component stores are scarce.

Wide selection: Online stores offer a wider selection of components than brick-and-mortar stores. This means you have access to more options and can compare prices and specifications more easily.

Lower prices: Online stores often have lower prices than physical stores. This is because they don't have to pay for rent, utilities, and other expenses associated with running a physical store. Additionally, online retailers can take advantage of economies of scale and offer bulk discounts.

Product reviews: Online stores usually have customer reviews and ratings, which can help you make an informed purchasing decision. You can read about other people's experiences with a particular product and decide if it's right for you.

Easy comparison: Online stores allow you to compare prices, features, and specifications of components from different brands and manufacturers. This makes it easier to find the best product for your needs and budget.

Time-saving: Online shopping saves time by eliminating the need to travel to a physical store and wait in lines. Plus, online stores are open 24/7, so you can shop whenever it's convenient for you.

Overall, buying components online offers many benefits that make it a convenient and cost-effective option for consumers.

III. Disadvantages of Buying Components Online

While there are many benefits to buying components online, such as convenience and a wider selection of products, there are also several disadvantages to consider. Here are some of the disadvantages of buying components online:

Shipping Costs: Many online retailers charge shipping fees for components. This can add up quickly, especially if you need multiple items.

Shipping Delays: Sometimes, components can take longer to arrive than anticipated. This can be frustrating if you need the components urgently.

Quality Concerns: When you buy components online, you cannot physically inspect the components before purchasing them. This can lead to quality concerns, as you may receive components that are defective or of lower quality than you expected.

Fraud and Scams: Buying components online carries a risk of fraud and scams, especially if you are purchasing from an unknown retailer. You may receive counterfeit components.

IV. Conclusion

 Recommendation for Shopping Online

Shopping online can be convenient and cost-effective, but it's important to take precautions to ensure that your shopping experience is safe and secure.

Stick to well-known and established websites when shopping for electronic components online, as they are more likely to have secure payment systems and customer service policies in place. For online websites, you can try Robu, Flipkart, amazon, electronics comp, and many more.

Before making a purchase, read product reviews from other customers who have bought the same item. This can help you make an informed decision about whether or not to buy the product.

Look for secure payment options: Always use a secure payment method, such as a credit card or PayPal. These payment methods offer more protection against fraud and unauthorized charges.

By following these recommendations, you can have a safe and enjoyable online shopping experience.

[charlesmwa]

How to Spot Quality in DJ Equipment: What to Look for Before You Buy

Imagine this: you’re about to make your DJ debut, and the crowd is hyped. You press play, and suddenly, your gear glitches. The sound drops, and your moment is ruined. Frustrating, right? That’s what happens when you compromise on quality DJ equipment. Whether you’re a budding DJ or a seasoned pro, knowing how to spot top-notch gear can make or break your performances. Let’s dive into what you need to look for before you buy and why making the right choice matters.

1. Build Quality and Durability

First things first, your DJ equipment needs to be built like a tank. This isn’t just gear—it’s your partner-in-crime during long gigs, high-energy sets, and countless hours of practice. Check the materials. Equipment made from solid metals and high-grade plastics typically lasts longer and can take a beating. Pay attention to knobs, faders, and buttons. They should feel sturdy, not flimsy, when you use them.

Durability doesn’t just mean surviving a few accidental bumps. It also means standing up to repeated use without losing performance. If you’re someone who gigs often or travels with gear, look for features like reinforced corners, scratch-resistant surfaces, and reliable inputs and outputs.

2. Sound Quality

Here’s the deal: your audience may not notice how cool your gear looks, but they’ll definitely notice how it sounds. Quality DJ equipment ensures crystal-clear sound that resonates with the crowd. When shopping, always test the sound. Play a few tracks and listen for clarity, bass depth, and minimal distortion at high volumes.

Cheap gear might sound okay at first but often reveals cracks and static when pushed to the limit. This is especially crucial for speakers, mixers, and headphones. High-quality sound enhances the audience’s experience and helps you perform at your best, so don’t skimp here.

3. Compatibility and Features

Not all DJ setups are the same. Some DJs prefer controllers, while others swear by turntables or CDJs. Before you buy, ensure the equipment you’re eyeing is compatible with your existing gear and software. Check for connectivity options like USB ports, Bluetooth, or traditional RCA outputs.

Features are equally important. A good DJ mixer, for instance, should have EQ controls, multiple channels, and effects options. Controllers should offer responsive jog wheels, touch-sensitive pads, and intuitive layouts. The trick is to avoid paying for features you don’t need while ensuring the gear supports your current and future style.

4. Portability and Size

This one’s a big deal, especially if you’re a mobile DJ. If you’re constantly moving from venue to venue, heavy, bulky equipment can become a nightmare. Look for portable gear that’s lightweight yet doesn’t compromise on quality. Foldable headphones, compact controllers, and collapsible stands are lifesavers.

But keep this in mind: portability should never come at the cost of durability or functionality. Balance is key.

5. Brand Reputation and Reviews

The DJ community is passionate, and there’s a wealth of information online about gear. Before buying, take the time to research brands and read reviews. Established brands with a track record of quality and reliability are usually a safer bet.

Online reviews and forums are goldmines of real-world experiences. What works for one DJ might not work for another, so get a sense of what people love (or hate) about the product you’re considering.

6. Price vs. Value

We all want the best bang for our buck. While it’s tempting to grab the cheapest option, remember that quality DJ equipment is an investment. Instead of focusing solely on price, think about value. A slightly more expensive piece of gear with better build quality, sound, and features will save you money in the long run.

If you’re on a tight budget, consider starting with fewer pieces of higher-quality equipment instead of trying to buy a full setup at once. You can always expand later.

The Hidden Gem: Where You Buy Matters

Here’s a tip that often goes overlooked—where you buy your DJ equipment can be as important as what you buy. Professional audio shops like VIP PRO AUDIO are like secret weapons for DJs. They offer a curated selection of reliable brands and products, so you’re not sifting through endless low-quality options.

You can compare features, demo equipment, and understand what works for your style and budget. And let’s not forget about warranties and after-sales support. If something goes wrong, you’ll have the peace of mind that comes with buying from a trusted source.

Why Quality Equipment Matters

Investing in quality DJ equipment isn’t just about having cool gear—it’s about ensuring your sets run smoothly and your performances shine. High-quality gear minimizes the risk of technical failures, lets you focus on your craft, and, most importantly, leaves your audience in awe.

When you’re up there, mixing tracks and reading the crowd’s energy, the last thing you want is to be held back by faulty or subpar equipment. Quality gear builds your confidence, enhances your creativity, and gives you the tools to succeed.

Final Thoughts

Spotting quality in DJ equipment doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Focus on build quality, sound clarity, compatibility, portability, and value. Do your research, listen to reviews, and test the gear when possible. And don’t underestimate the importance of buying from professional audio shops. They’re your go-to for expert advice, trustworthy products, and top-tier customer support.

Whether you’re spinning for fun or building a career, investing in the right gear will make all the difference. So take your time, make smart choices, and let your beats do the talking.

[scottparkerok-blog]

In the age of online shopping and services, account creation and login processes often feel outdated and cumbersome. Blink is changing this with a seamless solution that offers easy account login without the usual frustrations of usernames, passwords, and endless forms. With Blink, you can enjoy a hassle-free online retailer login experience that keeps things simple, secure, and swift.

[techsurgeon17]

Get the Best Mobile Phone Repairs and Top-Notch Devices in Pukekohe with Tech Surgeon

In today’s world, our mobile phones are our lifelines—connecting us with family, keeping us informed, and helping us manage daily tasks. So, when your phone stops working, it can feel like everything grinds to a halt. Luckily, if you're in Pukekohe, Tech Surgeon has your back with the best mobile phone repairs in Pukekohe. From fixing broken screens to selling high-quality new and used devices, Tech Surgeon is a one-stop shop for all your mobile needs.

If you’re looking for reliable repairs, a place to shop mobile phones online in Pukekohe, or just need help choosing the best phone, here��s why Tech Surgeon is the place to go.

Best Mobile Phone Repairs in Pukekohe: Reliable and Fast

Tech Surgeon is known for its expert mobile repair services, making them the top choice for best mobile phone repairs in Pukekohe. Whether your phone has suffered a major drop, water damage, or is just lagging in performance, the skilled team at Tech Surgeon has the experience to get it working like new.

Screen Repair and Replacement A cracked screen is one of the most common phone issues, and Tech Surgeon is equipped to handle this quickly and efficiently. They stock a wide range of replacement screens, which means you won’t be waiting weeks for a part. Their expert technicians can repair most screens on the same day, so you can get back to using your phone without any fuss.

Battery Replacement and Charging Issues Phones that die quickly or struggle to hold a charge can be incredibly frustrating. Tech Surgeon offers fast battery replacement services, restoring your phone’s battery life and reliability. They also diagnose and repair charging issues, whether it’s a faulty charging port or an internal problem, ensuring your phone powers up as it should.

Water Damage Repair Dropped your phone in water? Don’t panic! Tech Surgeon has the tools and expertise to deal with water damage, which is often a time-sensitive issue. Their team uses advanced techniques to dry and restore your phone, potentially saving it from permanent damage.

Software and Performance Fixes Is your phone running slower than usual, or is it plagued by annoying software glitches? Tech Surgeon’s skilled technicians can troubleshoot and fix software issues, remove viruses, and optimise your phone for better performance. They’ll ensure your device runs smoothly without any annoying hiccups.

Shop Mobile Phones Online in Pukekohe with Tech Surgeon

If it’s time for a new phone, you don’t have to go far to find top-quality devices at competitive prices. Tech Surgeon offers an impressive selection of mobile phones, available for purchase both in-store and online, making it convenient to shop mobile phones online in Pukekohe without leaving the comfort of your home.

Wide Range of Models Tech Surgeon stocks a diverse range of mobile phones to suit every budget and need. From budget-friendly models to the latest flagship devices, you’ll find options to fit your lifestyle and preferences. Whether you’re an Android fan or an Apple enthusiast, their online shop has it all, making it easy to find the phone that’s right for you.

Quality Assurance Every phone sold by Tech Surgeon undergoes a thorough quality check, ensuring that you get a reliable and well-functioning device. They carry both new and certified pre-owned phones, giving you affordable options without sacrificing quality. Each pre-owned device is rigorously tested, so you can shop with confidence.

Easy Online Shopping Experience Tech Surgeon’s online store is user-friendly, allowing you to browse by brand, price, or model. Detailed product descriptions, specs, and photos help you make informed decisions, and if you’re unsure about a product, their customer support team is ready to assist.

Fast and Secure Checkout with Delivery Options When you buy a phone from Tech Surgeon online, you can expect a seamless checkout process and multiple secure payment options. They also offer quick shipping to ensure you get your new phone promptly, so you won’t be waiting long to start enjoying your new device.

Buy iPhones Online in Pukekohe with Confidence

The iPhone remains one of the most popular choices for many users, offering a sleek design, advanced features, and a user-friendly experience. Tech Surgeon makes it easy to buy iPhones online in Pukekohe, providing a selection of models to fit different needs and budgets.

New and Certified Pre-Owned iPhones Buying a brand-new iPhone can be a significant investment, but Tech Surgeon offers both new and certified pre-owned iPhones, allowing you to save while still enjoying Apple’s renowned quality. Each pre-owned iPhone is carefully inspected to ensure it’s in top shape, both functionally and aesthetically.

Models for Every Preference and Budget Tech Surgeon carries a variety of iPhone models, from the latest iPhone with advanced cameras and Face ID to older, budget-friendly models that still offer excellent performance. Their selection lets you choose a phone that suits your specific needs, whether you’re a power user or a casual browser.

Warranty and Support Tech Surgeon provides a warranty on every iPhone purchased, giving you peace of mind with your investment. If any issues arise, their support team is available to help, making your purchase experience as smooth as possible. This warranty-backed service allows you to shop with confidence, knowing that help is available if you need it.

Accessories and Add-Ons When you buy an iPhone from Tech Surgeon, you can also pick up compatible accessories like cases, screen protectors, and chargers. They stock quality accessories that protect and enhance your iPhone, giving you everything you need for a complete setup.

Why Choose Tech Surgeon in Pukekohe?

Tech Surgeon isn’t just another mobile store—they’re a dedicated team of experts committed to helping Pukekohe residents keep their devices in top condition. Here’s why locals trust Tech Surgeon:

Expert Technicians: Their team has years of experience in mobile repairs, handling everything from simple fixes to complex issues.

Customer-First Approach: Tech Surgeon prioritises customer satisfaction, offering honest advice and transparent pricing.

High-Quality Products: With their selection of certified phones and accessories, you’ll find dependable products for every need.

Convenient Shopping Options: Both in-store and online shopping options make it easy to find exactly what you need.

Visit Tech Surgeon Today

If you’re in Pukekohe and need reliable mobile repairs, are looking to buy a quality device, or want to shop mobile phones online in Pukekohe, Tech Surgeon has you covered. Their expert team and commitment to customer satisfaction make them the trusted choice for all things mobile in the area. Visit them in-store or explore their online shop to find everything you need to keep your phone

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Why Professional iPad Screen Repairs Are Safer and More Effective

When your iPad screen cracks, it can be tempting to try a DIY fix, or perhaps have a friend take a look. However, opting for a professional repair service is usually a smarter choice. From safety considerations to maintaining your device’s performance, here’s why professional iPad screen repairs are generally safer and more effective than attempting to do it yourself or seeking unverified alternatives.

1. Specialized Expertise and Experience

Professional repair technicians are trained to handle complex devices, especially those as intricate as an iPad. iPads have a carefully designed internal structure, including delicate electronic components that can be easily damaged if improperly handled. Technicians at reputable repair centers receive specialized training on how to disassemble, repair, and reassemble iPads without causing damage to the internal parts. This knowledge and experience translate into a higher likelihood of a successful repair, restoring your device without risking further harm.

2. Access to Quality Parts

Not all replacement screens are created equal. Professional repair centers usually source parts directly from authorized suppliers or use high-quality aftermarket parts that meet manufacturer standards. In contrast, cheaper DIY kits or parts from unverified sellers often use lower-quality components, which can degrade image quality, touch responsiveness, and even structural integrity.

Using original or high-quality parts preserves your iPad's functionality and longevity, whereas low-grade parts are likely to fail sooner. Poor-quality screens may not have the same resolution, color accuracy, or touch sensitivity as the original, leading to a subpar user experience. By opting for a professional repair service, you ensure that your iPad screen performs as it should.

3. Advanced Repair Tools and Facilities

Professional repair shops use advanced tools and facilities specifically designed for repairing electronics. For instance, they often have specialized equipment for safely opening the device without causing additional damage, as well as anti-static workstations to prevent electrostatic discharge, which can ruin sensitive components. DIY repair kits rarely include these specialized tools, and even with some available online, they are generally not suited to the level of precision required for iPad repairs.

Furthermore, many repair shops use diagnostic equipment to identify any underlying issues that may not be immediately visible, such as battery damage or compromised connectors. This diagnostic process ensures that your iPad functions correctly once the repair is complete.

4. Warranty and Repair Guarantees

Most professional repair services offer warranties or guarantees on their work, which provides peace of mind. A reputable service will often offer a limited warranty on both the parts and labor, so if something goes wrong with the repair, you can return and have the issue addressed at no extra charge.

In contrast, DIY repairs do not come with any warranty. If something goes wrong during a self-repair attempt, you may have to purchase additional parts or even take the device to a professional to fix the mistakes, which could end up costing more than an initial professional repair.

5. Time Efficiency

Repairing an iPad screen requires precision, patience, and a steady hand. Even minor mistakes during a DIY repair can result in hours of frustration, and in many cases, you may have to start over if something goes wrong. Professional technicians have the experience and training to carry out these repairs quickly and efficiently. In many cases, repair centers offer same-day or next-day service for screen repairs, minimizing the downtime of your device.

DIY repairs, on the other hand, often take much longer, especially if you are unfamiliar with the repair process. Between sourcing the right parts, obtaining the necessary tools, and following complex guides, DIY repairs can turn into an all-day (or even all-weekend) project.

6. Safety Concerns

Safety is a critical aspect of any iPad repair, especially screen replacements. iPads use lithium-ion batteries, which can pose serious risks if punctured or mishandled. A punctured battery can lead to dangerous situations, including fire hazards or potential injury from exposure to battery chemicals. Professional technicians are trained to handle these batteries safely and are aware of proper procedures to avoid causing accidental damage.

Moreover, shattered screens themselves can be dangerous to handle. Cracked glass poses a risk of cuts and injury if not carefully managed, and many professional repair shops have safety gear, like gloves and eye protection, to minimize the risk of injury.

7. Device Longevity and Resale Value

Maintaining your iPad’s longevity and resale value is essential, particularly if you plan to upgrade in the future. A poorly done screen repair can negatively impact both. For instance, improperly installed screens may leave gaps, exposing the device to dust and moisture, which can lead to further damage over time. Additionally, if the screen doesn’t fit properly, it could lead to issues with touch sensitivity, responsiveness, or even the iPad’s structural integrity.

Professional repairs are often done to a standard that preserves the iPad's original functionality, which is important if you plan to resell it later. Potential buyers are likely to value a professionally repaired device more than one with a visible DIY fix, increasing its resale price.

8. Avoiding Common DIY Mistakes

The internet is full of DIY guides for iPad screen repairs, but following them is not as straightforward as it may appear. Many of these guides assume a certain level of technical skill and familiarity with electronics that the average person might not have. For example, connecting the delicate ribbon cables incorrectly or over-tightening screws can cause permanent damage.

One common DIY pitfall is damaging other components during the repair. For instance, while removing the broken screen, it’s easy to damage the home button, touch ID sensors, or other critical elements, especially in newer iPad models where components are intricately connected. A professional repair reduces the risk of making such mistakes and ensures a more seamless repair experience.

9. Compliance with Manufacturer Standards

Professional repair centers, especially those authorized by Apple or working closely with trusted suppliers, are required to comply with the manufacturer’s repair standards. They use authorized parts and adhere to specific guidelines to maintain the device’s integrity. Compliance with these standards also helps ensure that the repair will not void any existing warranties or AppleCare plans. DIY repairs, however, are not covered by such protections and may even invalidate any existing warranty on the device.

Professional iPad screen repairs offer a level of safety, quality, and efficiency that DIY repairs generally cannot match. From specialized expertise and access to quality parts to compliance with manufacturer standards, choosing a professional service helps maintain your iPad’s performance, longevity, and resale value. Additionally, by avoiding common DIY mistakes and minimizing safety risks, professional repairs are often the most effective solution for cracked or damaged screens. So, while it might be tempting to tackle a screen repair yourself, leaving it to the experts is often the safer, smarter, and more cost-effective choice in the long run.