Life is hard, but try to love it anyway.
I'd like to be long-winded and break this down to the finest particulates that I can, but I just don't have it in me at the moment, so I'll just say as much as I can and hope to god you process it and take it to heart.
Guys, life is hard. It's so fucking hard sometimes and it's so easy to get caught up in how hard it is, but please, please, please, even if it's just once, find some way to step back from it all and appreciate where you are, who you are, what you are, why you are. Appreciate all of it, because we don't know what happens when we die, and when our time comes, because it always does, you're not going to be content knowing that you put in more hours of work than anyone else.
You're going to remember things that you never thought would come up again. Hobbies you never actualized, people you never spent enough time with, people you never opened up to enough, little moments that didn't seem important at the time, but they're all you can think about now. Yeah, I know the sun gets in your eyes in the morning when you're driving, but if you look past that annoyance, you'll notice that you feel a little bit warmer, too! There are so many things that you don't realize you're going to miss.
I know it is hard, believe me, oh my GOD do I know that life is hard and it can hurt really bad. Life is the most painful thing we experience. But fuck, please remember to find the beauty in it. Love yourself, forgive yourself, cherish the little moments you have and do not let the pressures of work and society run your life and make you forget.
I know this is all cliche, and this horse has been beaten to death for centuries, but the reason it has been is because this lesson really is that important and we as a civilization still haven't really learned it. It's so easy to ignore and brush aside, again, I know, trust me. But try not to. This is all real, this is true, this is important. It is way more important than work and money and drama. These things are our reason for being. Just think about it. Love you guys and take care of yourselves and the people you love, I mean it.
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very weird to have two separate conversations with two different people who I haven't talked to properly since I was a teenager this weekend
like the first one was like hmm. those are some assumptions about my life. mm yeah don't feel good. and the second was just fine? like we didn't have a deep and meaningful but we had a lovely chat and accepted the fact that neither of us knew all that much about the other's life and then we could talk properly?
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Well i think we ALL should be threatening not to vote for Harris if she doesnt call for an arms embargo. Id say ceasfire but lets be real
I think we ALL should be putting our effort into applying pressure on ending a genocide, rather than pressuring people to vote for someone who not only seems to be going back on policies she said she stood for, but is also not proving she will actually do anything on the situation in Palestine
The voting hasnt happened. You can't get mad at people for AT LEAST threatening to not vote for her. Threatening. As in, no one has voted yet. So it's all talk right now.
If people dont end up vote for Harris it will be her own fault. Thats just how it works. What she says, but more importantly what she does, is what makes people vote for her just like any other candidate
we arent even asking that much. At the VERY least, is to stop sending weapons. 1 thing she and biden are capable of doing but have shown having no plans on even considering it.
Now, I dont know what im doing when it comes to voting bc theres a lot that can happen until then. im not thinking of what im going to do, im focused on helping to apply pressure. Ive sent emails and called. But even just talking about it can help.
Yes, if Trump wins it IS worse, beyond Palestine. For the planet, and everyone.
But the fact is that some people will not vote for her. That is a fact.
Another Fact is some people will vote for her only if they feel confident she will actually do something about the genocide.
These are facts. You don't even need a source for that
Why are you wasting your time on people who wont vote, instead of convincing the Hold Voters to vote for Kamala by making Kamala someone they will want to vote for?
WE arent dividing the vote. SHE is.
Worry about the blame game for after the election.
For now, help us get her to agree that the United states will stop sending weapons to Israel and/or keep the halt (of weapons), if by some miracle biden gets something done.
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I keep thinking about it so I'm just gonna make a post ig . Anyway alex hates his hair so fucking much he wants to get it cut sooo bad but he's scared that he might get found out [idk if this was mentioned before but he's in the closet it's basically a part of him now] . He knows it's kind of irrational but just in case + It's been like that for most of his life so he's used to it but he still hates it . A big part of his character is that he hates change and underneath all of his misdirected anger he is still a very scared and emotional person and this ties into that a little [also why he dresses in a very boring manner with clothes he doesn't even like, he doesn't want to stand out + he's been doing that forever]. He'll have to learn to confront this eventually but when he tries it just fucks him up more which is part of his terrible spiral because he starts to realize things about himself that he doesn't like and is inevitably scared of no matter how much he tries to cover it up with anger uagh I'm so ill about him fuc
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Hello! I apologize if this is a nosy question, but what is the silly feelings wheel app you were talking about in a previous post? My therapist and I have been working on identifying feelings but I still very much rely on a list of feeling words to have any idea what I’m feeling, so it could be a helpful resource. No worries if you don’t want to share, just thought I would ask :)
It's called How We Feel! I'm not sure if it's available on all devices yet, but it's on ios and the google play store for sure.
I've been using it for about a year. It's more of a chart than a wheel but people usually recognize the wheel better so that's what I call it. When you first start it has a 10-part tutorial about emotional acceptance and regulation, then it has suggestions for each category of emotion. You can access both at any time tho after those first 10 days.
It has a share option so you can have friends, which has been great for me cause it prompts me to check on friends and them to do the same for me. It allows you to just respond with a little emoji in like a "I'm here for you" little notification to your friend, or you can reach out to your friend on your own. Its really helped me cause I'm bad at reaching out when I need support so to me and I'm bad about taking on other's problems even when I can't handle it so being able to send a little emoji instead to make sure my friends know I'm there if they need me and them doing the same has been great
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