#factory parenting is what it is
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Censorship isn't protecting children. It's at best a lazy and lackluster solution.
Children need supervision.
They need an adult checking in with the kid to make sure everything is ok and they are being safe. They need someone that knows them and cares about their wellbeing that can make individual judgment calls on what the kid can handle. There needs to be designated children's spaces that are watched to make sure no abuse happens (and no, the entire world/internet can't be that space.)
If a child is turned loose on the internet, they can get hurt. Same as a child turned loose in a shopping mall might find the sex shop and see something they shouldn't. You don't demand the sex shop keep their doors locked or the mall remove the store.
You supervise your child! There is no substitution for it. Kids need parents, not book burnings!
The idea that censorship is to protect kids is at best the laziest solution possible to the problem, and at worst an emotional hot button designed to trick you into allowing authoritarianism.
The reason that child is viewing age inappropriate material is because their parents are giving them unfiltered access to it and refusing to do any wellness checks or have any discussions about being safe and responsible with the privilege. Scrubbing the internet clean is not going to fix the problem, but it will give certain authority figures untold power.
#tbh i blame capitalism#hear me out#we demand ever moment be dedicated to profit#so no parent has time to supervise and parent their kid#so we offer industrial and automated solutions#we'll just censor everything and you can spend the precious time you would've spent protecting your child pursuing profit instead#factory parenting is what it is#and why would the censorship bother you anyways? You aren't supposed to have leisure time! You have to pursue profit!#censorship does not protect kids#a censor does not stop bad actors#only intervention does#there is no substitution for supervision
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im saying it.
smile will grow older.
#fuck it#he is#im manifesting my wishes on Tumblr in order to connect mentally with Yana#out of meme#all fans believe smile will die young#but i dont think so#i think as long as he keeps it interesting for sebastian he'll be ok#?#ok maybe not that old but young adult(?#sebastian has lived a long long long demon “life”#what's 20 years more?#it should not be a lot for him#but i understand what other fans are saying i mean#in the anime he died young#the anime is basically a rough concept of the manga#buT#i refuse to believe the manga will have the same shitty ending#i just cant#smile HAS to say goodbye at least#i know this manga will not have a happy ending#i genuinely think Sebastian will eat Smile's soul bUH#when he's older i hope i mean the main thread can be stretched out as long as yana wants to i can totally see that#anyway i want smile to fucking live to have his toy factory to own that piece of land his parents loved idk i want him to own the underworld#IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK???#black butler#kuroshitsuji#ciel phantomhive
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Kickin making his plan for the next snowball fight(they're playing capture the flag, angel being the "flag):
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=o_3joQiQGmw&pp=ygUYdGhlIGhvcnNlIGFuZCB0aGUgaW5mYW50
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I HATE/LOVE HOW THIS IS SO IN-CHARACTER FOR KICKIN IN THIS AU. He's so overdramatic. I bet he called Dogday for help and the drama just increased x2. The boys are planning an entire war while everyone else is just listening and nodding along.
Angel hearing a whole musical in the background while they make soup like "I hope the kids aren't having a snow war again", and then they come out to check in on them and the screaming goes on for at least twenty minutes as everyone jumps in on them.
#angel (probably): KIDS WHAT ARE YOU D O I N G#86 children chanting at the same time: *CAPTURE THE PARENT*#prototype watching this unfold in the background like “angel's skills are just as sharp as ever! no wonder they survived the factory!”#poppy playtime#poppy worldwide#save everyone au#kickinchicken#dogday#kickin chicken#the angel
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I think Vic and Talia need to play love interests in something now, their chemistry is great
#make some noise#vic michaelis#what can I say#they were great#I guess it doesn’t even have to be their love story#have them play fun parents like the Cheesecake Factory prompt
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I'm drawing a perryshmirtz Wonka!AU and I'm having so much fun omg (they're both humans)
(details of the AU on the tags)
#perryshmirtz#perry the platypus#perry the human#heinz doofenshmirtz#phineas and ferb AU#alternate universe#This is based on the 2023 Wonka movie but with alterations ofc#basically this is how it goes: when Heinz was being raised by ocelots the mama ocelot wold steal chocolate for him once in a while#don't ask me the logic behind this there's no logic use your imagination#and that's how he tasted chocolate for the 1st time in his life 'cause his family never let him eat it because he “didn't deserve it”#that was the happiest part of his childhood and what motivated him to become a famous chocolatier instead of a villain#and then the events of the movie happen - Perry is cast out for not seeing Heinz picking up the cocoa#and then he goes on a quest to steal back a thousandfold on chocolate from Heinz#he becomes Heinz enemy by stealing from him for 3 years just like in the movie#oh and when he first went after Heinz he met the Flynn-Fletchers - a family of traveling merchants#and he somehow always convinced them to travel to wherever Heinz would go - they don't know about him and thir whole enmity tho#Perry worked for them in exchange for food and a roof over his head - but he was eventually adopted by them as the honorary Uncle#the timeline of the AU would go like this:#1st) The 3 years of Perry chasing Heinz#2nd) The events of the 2023 Wonka movie (with some minor changes I guess - and it includes a flashback of Heinz parents and of mama ocelot)#3rd) post-canon with Perry and Heinz being copartners of the “Fantastic Chocolate Factory” aka the “Heinz” factory#oh and when they become copartners they start dating and eventually move in together#OH and we have a dinner scene with Heinz and the Flynn-Fletcher family loosely inspired by the 2005 movie#Perryshmirtz Wonka!AU
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Whoopsie time
#vent tw#cw vent#I'm stupid to have dropped out of college#now I don't know what I'm doing and I can't do the very passion I set out to do#Animation was my dream and I ruined it for a guy who groomed me and ended up physically abusing me.#I didn't realize trying to animate and failing because I don't understand it no matter what I look up about it would result in a breakdown#Not to mention I'm regressing in my art skill right now.#My art is ASS right now no matter how hard I try to improve it#references... Practice... Doodles... Warmups you name it#nothing is going right and I have the urge to quit art altogether#I'm not going to and I can't bring myself to ever do that but It's aching inside me#I want my art to be good according to me. not others. People can say it's great but if I don't like it... I'm not going to settle for it#I shouldn't have left#I loved college#I loved SELU#I loved my life back then#And now I'm here. And I'm not happy anymore.#Even with writing. I even took a long break from writing and I still can't do it right according to myself.#Now I have no muse or motivation for any of it#I feel empty. And I can't go to therapy because I can't afford the balance on my account.#I just feel like I failed.#I feel like I failed my parents and myself. They always tell me theyre so proud of me but I don't understand how they can be.#Not when I ended up in two severely abusive relationships... Dropped out of college twice... And now work in a factory full time.#Yeah i make decent money in a place I enjoy but it all just feels empty.#I could've been more#i could've done better#[[out of ammo]];; ooc
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I feel like we don’t acknowledge the level of trauma Remus Lupin went through when he was four and a werewolf came through his window whilst he was sleeping and mauled him. like he would have died rather than be turned if his dad hadn’t shown up throwing spells about. that shit is heavy
#remus lupin#we always talk about Sirius' family and im sorry but werewolf trumps that in my mind#I love my angst factories#hp#marauders#I’ve been reading wolf star fics lately can you tell#surprisingly I find there’s more angst about Sirius’ childhood than about the time someone tried to kill 4yr old Remus in his bedroom#most don’t even touch on it#they just have Remus feeling like a monster and then the full moon every now and again + feeling I’ll#*ill#like bro he was ATTACKED. BY A GROWN MAN. WHILE HE WAS SLEEPING. IN HIS OWN BEDROOM.#that 100% should’ve been a safe place for Remus and he probably never felt safe there again#I certainly don’t think he slept in his room for month. he slept in his parents’ bed.#but also his parents were trying to fix him. and he was a baby werewolf with no real understanding of what was happening to him#and they were scared of him#i’m not crying you are#anyway fuck jkr
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Yesterday, my son and I were talking about large animals.. like Tigers and such. Wild animals, but ones he's seen in wildlife sanctuaries before. We're walking out to meet his bus at 620 a.m., mind you. While I'm getting the chain to the gate, he looks me dead in the eye and says.
"Mom we need to fix our enclosure." And I was ??? Huh?? He nodded to the fence and said "tigers have a fence, a big one. We have a fence. Doesn't that count as an enclosure? Since its where we live. We live inside the fence."
It's 620 am. I haven't had coffee. It was too early for that. And then I sent THIS to my friend this morning:
And realized he probably came by it honestly.
Cheese and crackers.
@fanaticsnail save me. Send help.
#parenting#oh goodness#coffee is needed#hes 8 he doesnt need to be a shitposting factory like this#these comments arent new#hed do numbers on tumblr#he doesnt even know what social media is#tired mom#personal#ru speaks
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they Need to Kiss.
#yes lovie#( i love your name btw it's very cute#one of my best friends is named lovie )#(you are my best friend now)#anyways#yes lovie derek WOULD fit inside sauce best ty king for seeing my light#i will never forget sauce posting a selfie that he thought was cool and captioning it 'I'm the best in the draft.'#before getting drafted under another cb derek stingley#derek being surrounded by parental role models involved in football#having the training and skill to be known as a number 1 COLLEGE draft prospect AS WELL AS A NFL DRAFT prospect#thanks to his football loving family (coaching father wise retired football player grandfather)#vs sauce being raised all by his mother alone who had to work overnights at an automotive seating manufacturing factory#being the youngest of three of his siblings and never leaving his eldest brother's side bcs he was lonely and unsure and afraid#allante (the eldest) trying to draw sauce spreadsheets to help sauce understand the recruiting processes (and why he wasnt as high#as he wanted to be)#sauce fighting as an underdog his whole life in detroit then going to an underdog school that at least had the name 'King'#so he can feel like royalty as a wr/cb#promising his mom he'll be a college graduate no matter what so he'll always have something to fall back on so she wont worry#sauce's secret not so secret envy of derek and all his resources#his secret not so secret stuck up nose bcs he thinks hes had to climb higher hills than derek and therefore deserves the better recognition#then hiding behind 'im just working for my family' when ppl notice theres a lot more ego involved in his envious little nose scrunches#derek just smiling and being lively bcs hes just thrilled to be in his familys dream that a lot of ppl dont have the chance to obtain#even his dad played in the arena football league but not the nfl#im telling yall ppl with a chip on their shoulder... watch out 😭#it's like a beautiful giant marble statue with a bruise#i need to see them interact. i must.#sauce: you took Every. Thing. From. Me.#derek: ... OOH-- did I accidentally take a swing from your gatorade dude? aw#im so sorry man :( !! sometimes i just see shiny things and KABLAMMO! im on it like a silk bonnet! sorry bro u can have mine tho 🐶!#i didnt open it yet so it should be cool clean! AND refreshing 😁👍🏽!
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Jin Zixuan (Episode 12)
The disciples of the Jin Clan are not cowards.
Jin Ling (Episode 45)
Even if I have no one to discipline me, it’s not for you guys to do so!
#</3#this is NOT me calling jin ling a coward - in fact far from it!!!!!!#anyone who calls that boy a coward can fight me#the untamed#mdzs#cql#jin ling#jin zixuan#f: the untamed#in springsteen on broadway when he says:#those whose love we wanted but didn't get - we imitate them#bc it's the only way we have in our power to get the closeness and love we so desired#so when i was looking for a voice to meld with mine - to tell my stories#well. i chose my father's voice. because there was something in it that was sacred to me#and when i was looking for something to wear#i put on a factory man's clothes. because they were my father's clothes#BECAUSE ALL WE KNOW OF MANHOOD IS WHAT WE HAVE SEEN OF OUR FATHERS!#anyway. i'm normal btw#a missing parent is a missing limb#they are a ghost you are chasing#their absence is like phantom limb pain#but mostly it's the way you miss something that you never even had#they are a stranger but they are the thing closest to you#their absence is a thing itself - it shapes you just as permanently as their presence would#but in a very different way#anywayyyyyyy <3#i'm his number one mom fan anyone who wants to talk shit abt him has to get through me first
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ok im almost done but it just made a huge impact on me at a time where i considered throwing myself in front of a train daily thinking i didnt matter to anyone to come back from a month long furlough and someone who i didnt know knew i existed going ^_^ YAY CAL YOURE BACK HI. just realizing that maybe i wasnt as horrible as i thought i was. that people knew me and liked me and enjoyed my presence
meanwhile at an office job its all surface level politics. i talk to one coworker about elden ring. another coworker about bucees and gas stations in texas. i sit at my computer and i make junkmail. most useless ass job in the world in fact an actively harmful job
#i dont even hate small talk i love it but like#my old coworkers at the factory i know their families. my one coworker offered to install a new lamp in my house for free.#to be fair i met my one office coworker (in her 30s) parents but thats bc she brought her parents while they were in the area#like WHAT#my current coworkers are nice but im a constant outsider#and it sucks bc i dont really see anyone but my coworkers so lmfao#it was so funny tho after coming back from furlough#and a LOT of people were glad to have me back and i was shocked#bc i really did not fucking interact with anyone unless talked to but they were like yeah we like you because you mind your own business LO#in a sea of nosy ass coworkers be on the minding your own damn business grind. my final advice.#OK IM DONE
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going to explode thinking abt Family.
#I started thinking abt what both of my parents went thru it’s awful#everyone line up for ur turn to operate the machinery in the trauma factory ^_^
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GUESS WHO FINALLY CONVINCED HIS PARENTS TO LET HIM DELETE A MASSIVELY BATTERY-DRAINING, CONSTANTLY-MALFUNCTIONING PARENTAL CONTROLS VPN THAT HAD BEEN ON HIS PHONE FOR ≥6 YEARS!!!!!
#I am a WHOLE ADULT & it STILL took negotiating with my parents that I'll pursue Life Goals for this basic freedom but this is still a Win#TIL that whenever I told my parents what a dysfunctional battery-drain qustodio is mom assumed I was lying to convince her to get rid of it#or at the very least greatly exaggerating. but nope it was really that shitty (and really easy to work around)#that shit used to delete all apps except factory default EVERY NIGHT & return them to the home screen in the morning completely disorganized#it also blocked any websites or apps my parents hadn't whitelisted and imposed time limits on the ones they had#all this time I've had to use tumblr by turning the vpn off every minute or so when it automatically switches back on. hellish#even now I keep habitually checking if it's on before I hit post to make sure my typing won't just be lost#another perk is that I don't have to worry about my parents seeing every website I go to or search term I search#they can still see all my texts and get notifications when I text a number they haven't approved but who cares lol#I'm free!!!#mossy’s musings
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Leon Karnak is just, such a good climax in every way.
#rune factory 4#factoring runes#like. the flashbacks to the Guardians. ‘Did you choose me because I’m her best friend?’#Dolce and Pico and their parents and ‘I’ll wait for you forever.’ The little glimpses we get of all their friendships#(since we basically don’t get to see those onscreen due to Arc Two being what it is)#EVERYTHING about Leon’s. the part where he doesn’t know the Earthmate’s name so he’s basically also addressing YOU.#Barrett’s previous-game cameo being plot-critical it’s SUCH a good mini-twist.#the kitsune and the overwhelming sense that EVERYTHING here has been waiting for you#the name itself being FOR Leon and named for a temple complex in Egypt.#it’s SO good.
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Honestly I’d really like to make some kind of MLP AU or redesign/rewrite or whatever else of the sort because MLP was essentially my first fandom and it’s extremely nostalgic to me, but I’ve seen so many people do it already and have found myself physically incapable of producing something that isn’t blatantly copying what other people have done :/
#and yeah yeah I know that nothing in the world is truly original and everyone’s inspired by something#but I want to make smth that isn’t rehashing what I’ve already seen#and it’s hard bc redesigns and aus are kinda all the rage right now#and no I’m not talking about those infection aus bc while those are really cool and I’m not interested in making my own#I’m a really squeamish person. to the point I even avoid sick fics most of the time#so while I enjoy seeing a lot of those aus because I too had a creepypasta phase and it reminds me of cupcakes and rainbow factory vibe-wise#I’d probably throw up if I had to draw smth like that myself 😅#anyway. what I meant is some kind of rewrite where I’d get to explore themes that interest me more#maybe dig a little deeper than the earlier seasons of the show could afford in certain places#like coming up with a clearer reason for aj’s parents’ deaths. for instance#and also making next gens is basically my modus operandi at this point so while I’m not really interested in making kids for the mane 6#I’d like to redesign them + their families to get to play with genetics a little.#but again. I’ve seen a lot of redesigns over the years and I’m afraid they would influence me too much for my liking#only reason I’m so worried is because last year I did doodle some ideas a little. for the CMCs in particular#and suddenly realised they were basically the grand galloping 20s au designs poorly drawn from memory in my style#and any ideas re: redesigning the actual pony species are essentially ripped off from skyscraper gods#as are some concepts about becoming an alicorn/gaining immortality and all hat#so… yeah. no#idk. I’ll think about it some more and maybe I can come up with some cool ideas that I can string together in some way#it might be really fun and would also give me a chance to let my sotrl hyperfixation rest a little#don’t get me wrong. I love the universe Kat and I created and my OCs and everything. but I’ve been going at it non stop for almost 4 years#sooner or later it’ll burn me out and I won’t be able to come up with anything for it anymore#and I literally don’t draw anything BUT sotrl#so it’d be nice to branch out a little. maybe I’ll finally feel less like I’m screaming into the void with my incredibly niche OCs#again. I don’t know. we’ll see if I’m struck with inspiration or smth#also coming up with ideas is like half of the problem lmao. horses are really hard to draw#even cartoon ones 😭😭 I was hyperfixated on mlp for most of my childhood and still never mastered it#I can barely draw humans lower than shoulder level let alone horses. but I’ll figure it out if I get a concrete au idea#okay I’ve been rambling for like half an hour. rant over I’m done
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#so apparently someone my parents knew years ago says he admires me bc his kids are working retail jobs#and I'm like ???#there's nothing about me that warrants admiration#working in a lab working in retail#all just jobs at the end of the day#what difference is there?#i mean yea science oooooh but I honestly don't think STEM should be glorified in this way#retail jobs factory jobs construction jobs janitor jobs are just as important to a functional society as STEM jobs are#:P#:)
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