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Eviction Process in Connecticut: Dealing with Difficult Tenants and Evicting a Partner
Evicting a tenant in Connecticut follows a legal process outlined by state law. While the specifics may vary depending on your situation, the general steps typically include:
Notice to Quit: Before filing for eviction, you must provide the tenant with a written Notice to Quit, stating the reason for eviction and a deadline to vacate the premises.
Filing a Summons and Complaint: If the tenant refuses to leave after receiving the Notice to Quit, you can file a Summons and Complaint with the local housing court. This initiates the formal eviction proceedings.
Court Hearing: Both parties will have the opportunity to present their case at a court hearing. If the court rules in your favor, a judgment for possession may be issued, ordering the tenant to vacate the property.
Writ of Execution: If the tenant still fails to vacate the property after the judgment, you can request a Writ of Execution from the court. This authorizes the sheriff to physically remove the tenant from the premises.
It's essential to follow the eviction process in CT meticulously and ensure compliance with state and local laws to avoid delays or legal complications.
Dealing with Nightmare Tenants
Evicting a difficult tenant can be a stressful and frustrating experience for landlords. Here are some tips for managing the situation effectively:
Document Everything: Keep detailed records of lease agreements, communication with the tenant, and any lease violations or property damage. Documentation will be crucial evidence if the case goes to court.
Stay Calm and Professional: While it's natural to feel frustrated or angry, maintaining a professional demeanor is essential when dealing with difficult tenants. Avoid confrontations and communicate in writing whenever possible.
Seek Legal Advice: If you're unsure about the eviction process or your rights as a landlord, consult with a qualified attorney specializing in landlord-tenant law. They can provide valuable guidance and representation throughout the process.
Evicting a Partner: Navigating a Sensitive Situation
When a romantic relationship sours and cohabitation becomes untenable, evicting a partner can add an emotional layer to an already challenging situation. Here are some tips for handling it delicately:
Communicate Clearly: Have an honest and respectful conversation with your partner about the need to end the cohabitation arrangement. Clearly communicate your intentions and establish a timeline for them to find alternative housing.
Consider Legal Advice: Depending on your circumstances, you may need to seek legal advice to understand your rights and obligations as a landlord in evicting a partner. An attorney can help you navigate the process while minimizing conflict.
Focus on Self-Care: Ending a relationship and navigating an eviction can take a toll on your emotional well-being. Take time to prioritize self-care and seek support from friends, family, or a therapist if needed.
In conclusion, navigating the eviction process in CT, whether dealing with nightmare tenants or evicting a partner, requires patience, diligence, and a thorough understanding of the law. By following the legal process, maintaining professionalism, and seeking appropriate guidance, landlords can protect their rights and effectively resolve challenging situations.
#eviction process in CT#Summons and Complaint#evicting a partner#property management#property manager#eviction services ct#eviction process
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aye can i get a fuckin uuuhhhh
break. on my burger
#shit chat#family cw#got sicker than i have been in years my bank closed my checking account on accident work is nightmarishly busy#and my mother is sending strings of long voice memos in the family group chat again#i simply will not be listening to them. at most i'll ask my dad or brother for the sparknotes version#bc her pattern for the better part of this year has been radio silence. no attempt at communication whatsoever#and then BAM like 5-10 min worth of voice memos screaming crying sobbing shaking#I DON'T KNOW WHAT I HAVE TO DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO FORGIVE ME. I'M CRAWLING ON MY KNEES ON THE DESERT FOR A HUNDRED YEARS REPENTING#WHAT THE FUCK IS FAMILY FOR YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING AND I'M SUFFERING SO MUCH AND I'M ALONE BECAUSE#MY FAMILY ABANDONED ME. I HAVE NO ONE. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DID BUT I'M BEGGING. I NEED HELP I NEED MY KIDDOS AROUND ME PLEASE I'M DYING#followed by several minutes of sordid updates on her shitty miserable life#which is tbf pretty shitty & miserable. she's extremely physically disabled & mentally ill#her partner had a severe stroke a couple months ago and is still recovering. they've both been in & out of hospital#neither working. partner's adult son who lives with them is the only income in the household#partner's permanently disabled mother also lives with them. plus 2 large dogs 6 cats and 3 each of chickens & ducks#they're in court suing their landlord bc he's trying to evict them but the property is an uninhabitable shithole to begin with#but like. whenever i do make the mistake of responding to one of her groupchat tantrums#she's just like 'oh you know me im a survivor :) i just miss yous is all :) now that you're here i'm gonna bitch about my life for an hour#and ignore everything you have to say and show active disdain & boredom whenever you tell me anything about yourself or your life :)'#and if i offer help she refuses it#like it's just a bid for attention. expecting unconditional love and absolution and salvation from us bc That's What Families Do#she doesn't actually seem to give a shit about any of us as real people. just this ironclad delusion of unconditional family support#that she frankly has not earned#my brother actually did go visit her in the hospital on thanksgiving. driving 2hrs out of his way to do so#and she was a raging passive aggressive bitch to him and threw the gift he'd brought her back in his face#ma'am i know you're Going Through It but so are the rest of us & frankly you've given me zero reason to want to interact w/ ur caustic ass#plus this is petty but yet another way in which she doesn't listen to me & makes no attempt whatsoever at genuine relationship#i've told her numerous times that responding to groupchat voice memos is hard for me. that i love & miss her#and if she wants to see me or needs help or whatever to please contact me one on one either by call or text#nope. refuses to respond to/initiate individual contact. ONLY traumadumping in the fam chat. TLDR MY MOM IS A DISFUNCTIONAL TOXIC NIGHTMARE.
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#everything is hard#everything is painful it's all horrible and i am so. scared#....im so fucking scared#im applying for disability and i quit my job and my partner broke up with me and i.#there's nobody here#there's nobody and I'm alone and I'm so fucking scared and i don't know what to do#im panicking and spiraling and just waiting it out because I'm so terrified#what if it's not enough#I've applied for so much stuff I've requested help from every assistance place i can find#Im still looking for more#I haven't heard anything back from any of them yet#Who knows how long it'll take#I won't be able to pay rent this month#So then what? What happens#How long until they evict me? I-#I can't work. I can't. I just can't. I cannot. I can't i can't i can't#And I'm doing everything i can to survive#But it's so hard#And so scary and painful and I'm so. Sso so so alone#nobody is here. None of my loved ones are nearby#....i don't know what to do.#.....im scared.
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christmas this year is harder than it usually is, for a lot of reasons
gonna try and get through it regardless ;u;9
kind wishes to anyone on the dash for whom this time of year is also hard, for any reason
we'll get through it together 💜
#putting the specifics in the tags#but my grandma passed two years ago in november#and xmas was her favorite time of year#and she always insisted i visit and stay for as long as i could#which was. rough. for a lot of reasons#but the year she passed was the year we planned on breaking habit and involving my partner in the holiday#and we never got to do that.#every xmas after has been rough#and this year in particular has been shittacular#got evicted. became homeless. been job hunting since march with nothing to show for it. feeding a family of 3 with 5 cats#exclusively off one disabillity check a month. compounding financial problems and interacting with our former abuser to get money from her#shits just been bad. its been a bad year#gonna try and survive it anyways#what else is there to do?
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If you want to be a home owner please look into local assistance for first time home buyers.
In the US there are special loans for first time home buyers as well as assistance if you want to live in a rural area ( FHA and USDA loans). Special loans are more flexible with minimum down payment and credit score minimums as well as don't have some requirements that Conventional Loans have.
Ie one thing that helped us is Conventional loans require you to work full time consistently in the same field for 2 years. FHA only requires 6 months of employment and a letter explaining your history and to have an income that can afford the loan. I didn't have the work history needed for a Convention Loan.
The Loans, Grants, and Assistance vary state to state and you may have other options if you live in a major city. (Our second grant was only for our area.)
There also may be government backed housing assistance agencies which will help you with going through the process for free or a low payment (our state requires you to do some education with them for the FHA loan, and it was free).
My partner and I recently bought a house with a FHA Loan/Grant and a First Homeowners Grant from our lender (which has the qualifications of being a low income area, low income, as well as first homeowners). We were able to forgo any down payment or closing costs and will be paying less monthly costs then the rentals we were considering month to month.
We still had to pay some things. We paid for inspection, appraisal, insurance upfront, refundable deposit and 1000 dollars at closing.
FHA loans also have the added cost of loan insurance for month to month costs, but overall is still cheaper then renting so 🤷 I am not complaining.
Another thing to expect as a lower income buyer is you likely will only be able to afford fixer uppers so expect to have a lot of initial repair costs as well as maintaining your home over time. There is assistance for those things as well but be careful of loan scams when looking for those.
If you do consider going this route, make sure to be thorough with inspections and negotiate with what you find. It is a lot of upfront costs for something you may not go with, but can save you thousands in the long run. We needed to change out knob and tube in our house and since we found it in the inspection we were able to negotiate 12k from the sellers to fix it rather than paying that out of our pockets later. We also saved over a thousand by getting them to service the neglected HVAC. You're not likely to get a seller to fix everything, but you can save a lot with negotiating.
More homeowners can stabilize communities and help rent to not skyrocket uncontrollably. Especially if the homeowners arent nimbys who only care about their property values and instead actually care about their renting neighbors. Homeowners also have more power in your local politics, so taking advantage of these programs and getting more power to disadvantaged people and communities is so important.
#new homeowner#my partner and o have been yapping about this to everyone who will listen because fuck landlords and our city is gentrifying at a terrifyin#pace and the more homeowners the better#low income homeowners#not rich ppl moving in and buying the shiny new luxury housing that was built on demolished 100 yr old rowhomes#i want my neighbors to be safe from eviction and have the equity for retirement#for full disclosure i make 15.50 and my partner makes 17 an hr in a major city#we have good credit but it took a bit of a hit when applying to rentals#i dont know abt this stuff internationally#but theres likely simular stuff
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Just hoping you’re okay!
yes i’m okay!
i have finished 2 rounds of antibiotics and only have one left! i have a lingering cough but i’m back to work (wearing a mask of course!), sleeping through the night, & overall so so much better than i was this time last week! thank you for asking and checking up on me 🥹
#i am rlly broke and got evicted and moved back in with my partner’s parents#but really ? mentally? i am also doing so much better bc i hated my fucking land lord <3#its definitely an uphill climb from here but at least my pneumonia is gone !!!!!#mostly !!!!!#i also feel rlly guilty about not writing anything i had planned so . will need to jump on that soon !!#asks
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me when
#me when#when me#artwork#ink drawing#my partner loves ceramics#i miss them#minecraft cave noises#this is my magnum opus#i’m a housing lawyer – landlords use new loophole to push out tenants in ‘bad faith’ evictions
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#gaza#israel#genocide#disclaimer i will not actually do it bc im 99% sure he has a ring camera#also this man is our next door neighbor but we don't know him like at all#he's gone from home a lot and rumor in the neighborhood is that he used to do field work/now does training for one of the alphabet agencies#like FBI or CIA or something#so i also do not want to make enemies with the government employee who absolutely knows that my partner is not on the lease#we cannot afford to get kicked out#i knew he had bad takes bc he's had a thin blue line flag up before which we openly sneered at but this flag appeared like yesterday/today#i unfortunately cannot afford to get evicted or hate crimed for supporting Palestine
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If ya ain't fuckin me, it's not ya damn business what's in my pants ya obsessed freaks
#transgender#respect trans rights or i steal your kneecaps#trans rights or i evict you from life#trans rights are human rights#trans rights#what's in my pants is my business and my partners#no one elses
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The eighty-ninth free, unedited chapter of my upcoming book, “The Heist at Cordia Aquarium” is now available on its website (or click https://www.kitfisto.gay/chapters/thea to read from the beginning).
Downtown Rooterdale is abustle: drivers curse their way through afternoon traffic, some self-censoring with their car's horn; pedestrians dart from between parked cars and into the street; cyclists hurtle down bike lanes, straight through red lights, and — in the case of one — into the passenger window of a violently green Volkswagen Beetle.
Albert's gut curdles. Staring upon the spectacle from Topiary Corporate Plaza's thirty-second floor, they shake their head. "Total disregard for life. An unnecessary commute in the morning — equally as fraught; eight hours in an office chair; then this. All to go home and sleep until tomorrow where they'll start again. It's like they don't realize just how fragile they are or how little time they have. Why do they do it? Why don't they stop?" Albert sighs. "Ants following the orders of a decrepit queen. Her life sustained by the masses' ignorance and a comfort of the already known. Shame, isn't it? Just how close we are to something great, while at the same time, being so far?"
A woman's voice comes from behind them, each word weighted by age, the echo of a sparsely decorated room, and a healthy helping of sass. "Banal of you." She says.
Albert glances back, just over their shoulder. "Humans are rarely anything else."
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#our gentlethem in villainy#what a shithole they are huh#a big big bastard queer#gotta balance out all the good queers in the book though#also my partner evicted a ground hog this week#poor guy was so angry#literally gave us the >:( face#book tags#queer lit#queer author#queer novel#webnovel#enbys to envy#maybe don't envy this person though
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Hi let me make icons for you!!! $5 for something like these yippeeee
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my homophobic downstairs neighbor has lost it he is literally scratching at his walls with his fingernails and hitting his ceiling (our floor) with a some kind of multipronged stick while fake laughing really loudly specifically to be passive aggressive toward us
#dude is just pissed he cant get our landlord to evict us for *checks notes* walking around our apartment and talking to each other#but boy has he tried!#he even called the cops on us when we had a brief argument#he told the police it sounded like we were holding a woman hostage (we are two gay men!!!!)#he has lied to our landlord about pretty much every imaginable infraction of our lease that we have never broken#so much so that our landlord has BARRED HIM FROM MAKING COMPLAINTS ABOUT US WITHOUT PROOF#so now he's taken to trying to mimic our unavoidable everyday noises in the loudest and most terrifying way imaginable#hence the fake laughter (my partner and I always make each other laugh) and the multipronged stick (to mimic the sound of dog feet)#dunno what that scratching at the wall is supposed to be tho
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you think i'd be better at this given its my third time moving in two months
#moved in with my long term serious partner and then found out she had an eviction notice she didn't tell me about so I would live with her#so I had to move in then move out (broke up with her bc i cant trust my safety anymore) after just a few weeks back to my shitty parents#and it took me a little over a month to find a space in disability housing which was SO FKN QUICK FOR THAT#I got super lucky and I dont have a specific social worker bc theyre too swamped to get me one#so one of the guy in charge of the local social workers has been acting as my social worker#so since he was in charge he knew a new program had JUST started and had room so he applied for me which really got me in quick#they started buying houses in poorer areas and renting them to disabled ppl for EXTREMELY subsidized prices. 1600 split between three peopl#with a yard and all utilities including internet fully covered. And house cleaning#and I actually like the 'bad' area its in. Its just bad enough to be mostly free of chains so the area has small local grocers who sell foo#sell food so cheap it made my head spin when I popped into one after finalizing the move in date#its far away from my sibling tho :(#this is on the west side of the next over city and my sibling is on the far west metro of the main city#its 2hr 14m bus ride one way#were going to try and hang out at a board game venue mid way between us :)
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Hey notice how the 21st came and went (on a saturday lol), she presumably didnt collect enough money, and yet… no homeless posting
Probably putting her two phds to work anon….
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Whoo! dyin my hair! buzzed it all off again cause I hate how having hair feels! Gonna dye it half blue half pink and be cotton candy!!! Yay! Yippee!! I'm so glad it's gone! Everyone in my life hates it when I do this but it's my hair! SO GET FUCKED!!! maybe if your hair felt like horrible straw tickling your face/ears/neck 24/7 you'd understand! Also it gives me gender euphoria! What am I? Who knows!!!
(My partner and sibling are supportive but like it when I grow it out but again I hate it so its goooone 🙂)
UPDATE:
It is done! Took 3hrs to bleach/dye! Pretty happy with it, once it grows out a bit ill do the same thing again and when I get bored I'll just dye it back to black again lol
#i hate having hair#annoying stuff!#everyone is so precious about their hair which i can completely understand and empathize with#but i wish they would've be precious about mine! who cares man#its so fine and thin and straight and boring like what am i supposed to do with that? any styles i like would require styling#and i can barely manage to take care of myself some days do you really think i have energy for that?#my partner has beautiful floofy curly hair and it just looks good without anything done to it#if my hair was like that i would keep it but its not so it can get evicted#rant about hair
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i think the amount of times asoiaf has been brought up on this season of big brother, and then all my faves getting evicted back to back bc their alliances turned on them, and then THIS TWEET being put on my for you page:
is a sign from some higher power that i should get back to reading aksjsj
until bb26 airs in which case i am gonna lose my mind again. the parasociality is real folks don’t let it trap you!!
#first girl is cersei like it’s so obvious blue is just as delusional but just as hot AND she has a similar ‘got played by my romantic#partner’ background bc her showmance TANKED her game & then she went into her widow era but her revenge got her sent out the door#middle girl is my fave. america she is a dirty talking pop culture loving latina and i want her to be my wife. could not keep her mouth SHUT#and her bf got backstabbed and evicted before her and they both made the same dumb joke during their eviction speeches. also he wore her#clothes for half the season. that’s why she’s a stark aksjdjd she’s like sansa. got all the boys pressed bc she’s sexy and smart. trusts the#wrong fucking people. the last is my girl cirie. i didn’t think she was very targ like but tbh her game being tanked bc her son is a#misogynistic little freak and she girl bossed too close to the sun is very targ like.#also america’s bf is margaery. i will not take criticism.#i actually have been listening to my audiobook more akskdjdj bc i was so mad at cirie leaving
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