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Need help with this! My province's "leader" is about to make life for students and teachers really difficult. The UK just went through something like this. Ugh! Why does anyone think it is their right to dictate how someone identifies themselves?
I will be honest and say that this has been a lifetime journey for me. I grew up in the late 70s and 80s during the AIDS pandemic and a whole lot of misinformation, disinformation fear, you name it. But I have finally gotten to the point in my life, a number of years ago, that regardless of ... actually, in part because of my faith ... to realize that people just need to be loved for who they are. And it really shouldn't be anyone's business who anyone is attracted to or how they identify themselves or whatever. This new legislation is going to make life very difficult. I teach kids who are too afraid to let their parents know how they want to be identified, but trust that knowledge with us because they feel safer at school then at home.
Please do what you can to get this out there. I know our local teachers union is trying to fight this. But this particular provincial government seems to think that they don't have to listen to the people in their province and that they can run things pretty much like a dictatorship. It is maddening. We have a cost-of-living crisis, a healthcare crisis, and education, crisis, and all sorts of other things, but all this administration wants to do is regulate how people identify themselves and what you can't do in your private life .

#so bloody mad#pronouns#let people be who they are#all lives matter#what you call yourself is your business#she is NOT my premier#everything-phobia#teacher life#student life#pronouns matter#this is not okay#why is this even a thing
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urgh i love how kabru showed no reservations or disgust when holding mithrun here even though he's covered in sp*der guts cuz he's too concerned about him to care lol
i love them ahh🥹😭
#dungeon meshi#dunmeshi#delicious in dungeon#kabru#mithrun#and he was soo scared when mithrun popped out of the sp*der too loll#kabumisu just wraps me in a loving hug and tucks me into bed along with a mug of hot coco and kisses my forehead so i sleep soundly#awwwuhguhg i love them so mwuhwcuhh#i have a sp*der phobia but they make these chapters worth reading (along with literally everything else that happens LOL)#dungeon meshi spoilers
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"The Pop-up Book of Phobias" by Matthew Reinhart, brought to life with intricate pop-up designs demonstrating remarkable engineering skills. 🤔
#pay attention#educate yourselves#educate yourself#knowledge is power#reeducate yourselves#reeducate yourself#think about it#think for yourselves#think for yourself#do your homework#do your own research#do some research#do your research#ask yourself questions#question everything#phobia#pop up book
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can we normalize talking about how fucking debilitating agoraphobia is cool thanks
#i was actually excited to go out and get out of the house#i did my makeup and everything#only to start crying the moment i stepped into the mall#agoraphobia#actually agoraphobic#mental illness#phobia#rant#text
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I have a question! About bugs and arachnids and all them. Sorry to lump them all into one category, but I'd rather not make the same post multiple times.
My question is: Can they learn "tricks?"
By this I mean are they capable of learning, in general, I suppose. Like mice in a maze, magpies with a rock.
Also, what sorts of things have they learned? How do they learn (like watching others or from experience)?
I ask because it's something that really interests me. I know the ability to learn doesn't add or subtract value from a being, it's a curious thought as I know very, very little about beetles, and spiders, and bees, and so on!
Do they just know how to do things because it's all their kind have done since the beginning of them? Do they have to learn or are capable of it?
#TricksterTox#Tox Talks#How do I tag this?#Bugblr#Insects#Arachnids#Invertebrates#Invertiblr#Insectblr#Spiderblr#Arthropods#Is that good?#That everything?#I'll admit I have a phobia (or some level of fear) of all of them except small isopods like roly polies#Yes including butterflies and moths and ants bigger than a centimeter (or something)#But I want to get over it and that means learning and understanding!#No more being afraid of the unknown! Embrace knowledge!#I will not be mean about your beloved little critter and say one positive!
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US politicians enabling hate crimes and war crimes and still acting like they have the moral high grand is mind blowing
#nex benedict#palestine#actively backing up the terrorist state of Israel and sending them all sort of help#the blatant trans phobia in the policies and the behavior demonizing them to the point of encouraging others to murder them#pro life BS and ignoring women's autonomy and everybody else's#still claiming they are actually the good guys#I don't know how us americans tolerate it at this point to change the situation and making it better you guys need a fucking revolution#overthrow the government and everything#I as an outsider see no other solution because let's be honest all of your politicians are corrupt in millions ways you can't change them#trans rights#free palestine
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A few months ago I drew out some headcanons related to various disablities & other physical conditions and decided to finish them up now that It's disability pride month ( Even If not all are necessarily disablitles <3 )
[ First time doing Image descriptions so I'd appreciate feedback! ]
#bfdi#barf bag bfb#saw tpot#leafy bfb#ruby bfb#lightning tpot#pie tpot#black hole tpot#marker tpot#winner tpot#woody bfb#i'm actually not Super happy with how this turned out#esp cuz they all look very samey to me but#it was an old sketch! didn't feel like stylizing everything further#also it gets the point across which is all i want#ALSO most of these are physical disablities i wanted to focus on that#if we talked about mental illnesses and neurodivergency we'd be here all day#For example woody having speech impediments and phobias is already Real And True#also if i drew all the autistic characters of this show we'd be here all day#whoops im rambling to much pls enjoy them#lan art
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What I think is so important to learning how to truly appreciate life is learning how to appreciate the creatures and things we've categorized as "disgusting" or "gross."
When I learned to appreciate wasps, I realized how much they just... don't really care about anything, and they're not trying to be an asshole because they're uniquely cruel. If they have any wants, it is to live. Why would I punish that when I also want to live?
This isn't to say you need to fall in love with the creepy crawlies that stalk this world or to love what you cannot, but to recognize that in their arrangement of atoms, they are trying to persevere, and in the end... aren't we all?
#positivity#bugs tw#this is why i think science is a love language btw#learning to love and appreciate through study is still love and appreciation#i've always been fine with bugs which might make this ring hollow to somebody with a phobia#and this isn't saying that people who are phobic of bugs are Evil or dumb (quite the opposite- humans are Good at fearing things)#what this is saying is find something you don't appreciate and learn about why you should appreciate it - for whatever reason#i learned to stop being neutral about bugs when i learned how cool they are - how they live!#i stopped being neutral about this planet when i learned how ancient it is!#i stopped being neutral about humans when i learned about how we lived and survived and loved!#i stopped being neutral about these things because i started to love them because i saw just how intricate EVERYTHING is#when you learn to see things through an appreciative lens you sometimes direct that viewpoint inward#so now instead of viewing myself as outside the universe i see myself and every little bug as PART of the universe#i stopped believing that i almost... wasn't worthy of being Part of Nature when i realized just how big everything is in the scale of it al#you should see my google searches omfg#everything is an argument and boy does this world have the ability to argue so well
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Getting my covid booster tomorrow [yayyy good thing] and trying not to be overly anxious about being poked again for the first time since my hospital stay
#youd think the constant poking and the iv and everything would have exposure therapied my needle phobia#but my hospital stay has actually made my phobia of medical settings far worse! fancy that#blehhhhh#still not over the fact the hospital not only placed the iv bag at a wrong level to drip properly#they ALSO completely forgot to give me a dose of heartburn medication 😭 which is kinda important with major esophageal surgery#anywaaaaay#the prophet speaks#medical cw
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i have soooo much more i cld say abt him, and have explored more thru other doodles, but quick summary of talon's whole deal, which is subject to change still as he's only almost 2 yrs old as an oc
#oc text#obvs sparse description of the events bc i dont mean for it to be gratuitous#even if i decided to explore it further in some medium the focus wouldnt be gratuitous ykwim#not that there werent awful stuff within that but my focus with talon is also more exploration of like#even stuff that isnt a big deal (which it wasnt at first) can effect someone greatly#and then once it does get a bit worse the focus is still more on the effects of how he views himself and the aftermath#AS WELL AS LIKE. well. did i do this to myself? i went back. do i deserve this?#he's a lot like me and the reason i like the self insert dynamic is bc he thinks of cheye as Me If It Didnt All Go Horribly#bc ive not gone thru the Extreme but i have had interactions with ppl who very enthusiastically thought i was ummmm underage!!!#while they were already being creepy toward me and making me nervous abt my safety !#so this isnt ''he's umm 400 but looks 12 bc i want to do weird shit with him 😏'' dude drawing him Fed makes me so sad sometimes...#we're also weird eating buddies <3#and grief buddies <3 he actually further spawned out of my need to deal with a lot of family members passing away in such a short time#severe death phobia buddies...#i still dont know how he really feels about his Old Wrinkly Form btw all i know is he feels safe in it#as much as id love to sway toward ''he thinks he's hot like that. because he is.'' i also dont want to convey the wrong message wrt this#form being due to....disordered eating caused by Issues. ykwim#though! he can shapeshift quite well when he's fed and maybe he'd choose that form willingly if he ever got. Past everything#he does hate that he never gets to actually age...! he wishes he cld age normally like a mortal...(still scared of dying though)#but we cant knoww for certain yet ykwim. maybe he'll let me know soon.#my issue with talon other than i suck at plots is well he has too many of my issues. and. idk how to solve them.#he's growing with me.#oh and have we noticed he's mean to me when *im* being mean to me...MANY such metaphors#ok goodnite
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had a lot of time on my hands today so i read the comic adaptation of the 2004 movie and this part was like the one thing i liked. make that man miss his family! make him clutch a picture of them to his chest and cry! yeah!
#marvel#frank castle#the punisher#everything else about this comic was worse than the movie#from the various -phobias and -isms to just. the way it was paced#the pacing was so bad it made me genuinely need to take a break and stare across the hall#like damn. speedrunning this? this whole thing?#it was a 3-parter and entirety of part 1 was the first 10 minutes of the movie#and then the other 2 were the rest. THATS INSANE#but yeah something about frank telling himself hes not going to grieve because its pointless and stupid and he has to be cold and strong#and then breaking down into tears anyway. something about that is good#god if i think about it too long i get sad. my baby
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I decided to look yoga apps up because yoga has mental health benefits and I wanted a way to stretch and work my body's muscles, improving flexibility and generally just making sure my body is moving and my muscles are working. Instead the first app I downloaded immediately asked for my height and weight, which I should have taken as the red flag it was, because after putting in the information being 5'6 and 200 pounds gave me a fuckin orange writing warning I'm obese and "might need to lose weight to be healthy."
I don't know how or why anyone would make an app where the first thing it does is insult the user and fat shame them instead of oh, I don't know, give me the simple yoga routines I was looking for but I immediately deleted that app because I'm not interested in immediately bring told my body is wrong and bad and needs to be changed! It's deeply dehumanizing, ignorant, and alienating. I don't care if you think I'm a fat piece of shit all I wanted was a way to move my body, not a needless and ignorant lecture from an app using the famously extremely accurate and not at all problematic BMI 🙄🙄🙄
#winters ramblings#this is as bad as my parents Wii shitting on me for not pkaying it since i was 17 and apparently weighing more#at 23 thsn you did as a CHILD isnt allowed. why would you IMMEDIATELY alienate new users to an app anyway??#how dare you insult me with TWO measurements and NONE of then were health markers#this fat phobia shit is ridiculous im not even out of strsight sizes and i run into this shit#you people want to whine fat people arent healthy but at EVERY tirn you do everything you can yo humiliate them out if workout spaces#fatphobia
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Every introvert need an extrovert friend 💜
"PURSUIT OF OKAYNESS" on Webtoon Canvas 🇺🇲🇫🇷
#friendship#webtoon canvas#comic#webcomic#feminism#webtoon#anti ai#digital art#fuck ai art#fuck ai everything#fuck ai writing#millenials#emo girls#emo style#emo#grunge#kawaii style#introvert#introversion#social phobia#anxienty#extrovert#extroversion#my art#pursuitofokayness#art#illustration#supportsmallartists
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Using kink as a coping mechanism is all fun and games until you catch yourself thinking “I wish someone thought I was cute and sexy and a good girl for having chronic pain” and then realizing how supremely stupid that sounds
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mY bRoThEr cAnT fINd hIs PeT tArAnTuLa AND IM FREAKING OUT BRO
ME AND MY ARACHNOPHOBIA ARE RUNNING TO MY FRIENDS HOUSE RN
If it provides any comfort, despite their intimidating appearance, tarantulas actually tend to be quite docile and non-aggressive (for some, even skittish
Just find a place to relax (ex. your friend's house you mentioned) and it'll be okay
#Of course‚ there's hundreds of different species‚ so different ones will react in different ways#But I doubt you'll have anything to worry about#Of course‚ I know when it comes to phobias this won't magically cure your fears#But rest assured that everything will be alright#➼ Inbox#➼ Blue turtle inner workings
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I would like to know exactly how luke asking annabeth to run away with him went down.
#annabeth🥺#it's sad to think about how it'll be so much harder for annabeth to unpack and heal from that relationship bc he's dead#it's hard enough to come to terms with someone you love/held in high esteem hurting you so deeply#but she's also grieving him too so it's even harder to hold him accountable to herself and recognizing the good and the bad#she may struggle to not romanticize the memory of him#sorting through what about their relationship was pure and genuine and what was fueled by other stuff#both of their trauma really played into it in some of the worst ways...#but to even recognize how her trauma played into it she'd have to identify what her trauma even is and how it's affected her life#it's really complex and difficult work#and bc he's gone she'll never get to question him on stuff like what he was thinking at certain points and why#so certain things will never get the best closure#MAYBE SOMETHING WE COULD HAVE EXPLORED IN HOO RICHARD???? BUT NO#and it would have been perfect too bc she'd also be dealing with issues caused by both of her parents triggered by the MoA quest#like her mother's conditional love#and trauma from her mortal family#and her fear of spiders relates to both of these things bc it's a phobia that's passed down from her mom's actions#so she's being punished for something she's not responsible for and also being burdened with a quest simply for being her mother's daughter#and it also represents her mortal family's neglect bc they ignored her needs and all that...#AND THEN the only person she's received actually pure and good unconditional love from was snatched from her for 6 months#and the MoA quest could have been a way to confront some of these fears and wounds...so she's a little stronger by tartarus which#should bring out the best in her and the worst in percy#or maybe the best and worst in both of them#and then he can work through some stuff too down there#HoO could have been a journey for them where they're undone and then healed#bc at the end of everything they have the medicine to literally everything which is real love (which they have for each other intensely)#the rant I could go on about this...I have so many thoughts about what HoO should have been. maybe one day#annabeth#luke & annabeth#luke#m
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