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i know a lot of people say things like 'if my post doesn't apply to you then its not for you' when they make advice posts, which i totally get. but when people make posts dissing picky eaters or adult cartoon fans or whatever, and other people point out that includes disabled adults, i feel like "oh i didn't mean them!" doesn't really work, y'know?
#mickey.txt#obviously its important for people esp adults to vary their diets and the media they consume and to exercise#and OBVIOUSLY disability doesn't excuse ignorance and bigotry#but let's be real: 95% of the time someone makes a generalization like#'people who can't order food without stuttering' or whatever#they're thinking of or vaguing a specific person they know#either online or irl#and honestly its fine if they don't like them or find them annoying or whatever#*what i mean is that unless someone specifically tells you. you don't know why they do what they do*#you don't know if they're disabled or mentally ill or what condition they have#again i wanna emphasize that disability and mental illness doesn't excuse being shitty#i'm talking about 'annoying' behaviors#like. sometimes disabled adults can only shower once a week. or they perfer cartoons over live action movies#or they only eat chicken nuggets and mac & cheese#or they cannot eat vegetables at all or WHATEVER#and again you can be annoyed by whoever. just remember you do not know WHY that specific person is like that#im rambling and idk 'its not that deep' but i hope i'm being clear#ik tone can be hard to read online but at times it feels we're sliding back into a bully culture yknow?#WAIT i didn't touch on it but i'm including 'girls who only had ice coffee for lunch' in this#because thats not a diet culture thing most of those girls bragging about that have an eating disorder
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I think itās okay if Hugh and Mads donāt like the fandom. I think this year has seen the most ānewā Hannibal content in ages and they were excited at first but because the fandom is so old and experiencing a new boom of popularity that it has created a new beast. When the show was airing the fandom was still as unhinged online as it is now but irl it wasnāt nearly as large at panels. Now the online behaviour is leaking into real life interactions with fans, crowds are bigger and they are uncomfortable by it. I think that Hugh has always been uncomfortable with the lengths people pushed Hannigram (as in literally making them gay and not just have a weird tension filled slightly romantic bromance) and I think Mads just doesnāt have the patience for it anymore and neither of them owe us their comfort. I do blame the fans because I refuse to get angry and waste my energy being angry at these two men for not liking their own fandom. Itās happened before and it will happen again, fans are not always chill or normal (I say this as a fan! Hughās face is literally my pfp! Iām parasocial asf!)
Hopefully if they really donāt like the panel experience of this year that they stop attending them because I feel the resentment will only get worse and it will make the fandom more toxic. Itās our job as fans to check ourselves and be aware of our more toxic tendencies.
To conclude, itās okay to separate the art from the actors. They are only a piece of a much larger picture!
#this is NOT a hate post#I genuinely like this fandom and my experience has been really fun#itās okay to be upset!!!#I am not blind however#I AM CALLING US OUT#all of us are responsible for how we act online and irl#we should be respectful#I donāt think they owe us anything#if these panels have put you off thatās okay too#you donāt owe either of them your time OR MONEY#we all love the show but it is separate from Hugh and Mads#hannibal#hugh dancy#mads mikkelsen
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"UWU op defends Israel UWU"-
Have I not made it clear enough what I think of the Israeli government? Have I not made it clear enough that what infuriates me the MOST about all of this shit going on is that neither government gives a damn and civilians will CONTINUE to die because Hamas and Netanyahu are cranking that war machine for their own benefit? Have I not made it clear that I think what the Israeli government is doing is fucking horrific, a war crime, murder, a violation of human rights?
Why do I even need to MAKE that clear? Why is it that you can talk about LITERALLY anything else, any other country, and people don't rush to fucking accuse you of personally supporting the government when you discuss the wrongs committed against a people, but the SECOND you're a Jew you have to justify your stance about Israel?
Why is it that I cannot even be angry about the slaughter of MY FUCKING PEOPLE. Innocents. Civilians. Fucking CHILDREN. The slaughter of the Palestinian people. Innocents. Civilians. FUCKING CHILDREN.
Without one of you absolute fucking monsters deciding to slap some shit on an unrelated post about how "uwu op defends an apartheid state just ignore that"? Do you have to make it part of EVERYTHING I do? Do you consider everything I put out there tainted somehow because I don't support your joy, your cheering, your unrestrained GLEE at the murder of Jews? Do I need to publish a fucking thesis on my stance on Israel, Palestine, and their respective governments like a fucking disclaimer any time I want to talk about myself, my oppression, my experience as a Jew, or a disabled person, or a queer person, because you fuckers cannot for five seconds be NORMAL about Jews?
To decide to slap something about Israel and Palestine on a post I made about MY oppression, about how people will oppress you no matter who you actually are- it all depends who they think you are. It's a bit ironic, isn't it? Doesn't QUITE fit, but it's funny that someone would read that post, agree with it, and then think "Ah yes, THIS is the place to put some tags about how OP, a Jew who has been reeling for the last couple of weeks about the violence, who has been checking on their Israeli friends every day to make sure they aren't fucking dead, who is dealing with vicious antisemitism from people who they thought were friends, who watched as the people claiming to be progressive supporters of human rights on this hellsite and others OVERWHELMINGLY reply to the murder of their people with good they deserved it fuck you, is CLEARLY a defender of an apartheid state and that makes them a bad person because something something I don't know what nuance tastes like and I am a bigoted ass."
I am TIRED.
#antisemitism#i/p#seriously I am exhausted#fuck all of you#I can count on my hands how many people have actually been supportive and kind to me#I have LOST count of how many people#both online and IRL#have either been dismissive and cold#or outright HAPPY that Jews died and will continue to die#I have lost count of how many people here I thought were decent human beings#who I had to block because they responded with a resounding GOOD to what hamas did#and now you fucking antisemitic fucks are dragging this shit onto unrelated posts#and that's nothing NEW you've always been like this#but it is especially exhausting now#the fact that this shit is coming from like#other Americans too?#are you fucking KIDDING ME?#You LIVE here and you don't control everything the fucking government does#but oh every Israeli civilian is responsible and they deserve to be killed#just call me a kike and go instead of doing that shit#at least the Nazis are direct about how much they want me dead#although frankly I'm having trouble telling the difference these days#between you leftist fucks and the Nazis
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woah trad doodles thats crazy
p.ai.nter <33333333
#p.ai.nter pressure#p.ai.nter fanart#p.ai.nter#pressure#pressure roblox#sebastian solace#sebastian pressure#getting reobsessed w the game but nobody to play it with </3#my irls are either tired of the game or dont like horror and my onlines are all in vastly diff timezones :(#sighhhhh#my art#also been fixating on dandys world n regretavator so roblox in general is taking over my brain
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I donāt know how to explain any more clearly that it doesnāt MATTER if it seems legitimate to you. You have got to fact check every single headline and post and claim on the left just like you need to do on the right.
The left is NOT immune to misinformation and rushed reporting. And the more emotionally polarizing or shocking the talking points, sound bytes, and headlines are, the worse it is and more frequently it happens.
Learn to verify through multiple independent sources. If you canāt do that, you canāt trust it.
If you have to wait extra hours for the real information to come through vetted channelsāNOT just one individual somewhere everyone links to, and not just one single media source either, EVEN if itās a major news networkāthats just how it has to be. What news outside of genuine local disasters near you TRULY needs your outrage and post-sharing in the next hour specifically?
Misinformation works best by not seeming like misinformation and by fitting in with the rest of what you already expect to see. It doesnāt help anyone to not be able to recognize and avoid the stuff.
#hey little star whatcha gonna queue?#and before I get any angry anons saying Iām making the argument that both sides are the same#I am not. and nowhere did I say that#and if your immediate reaction to any amount of criticism of leftist spaces or communication#is knee jerk outrage and defensiveness#this is an invitation to explore why that is for you.#this isnāt about anyone on here this is from conversations Iāve had with a few people IRL who have shared leftist misinformation a lot#so if youāre feeling attacked by this post and I havenāt directly spoken to you multiple times about misinformation with you responding bac#this isnāt. a vague post. about you. okay?#I cannot reiterate enough THIS IS AFTER IRL INTERACTIONS NOT A CAL OUT VAGUEPOST#and as one final note. IF YOU FOLLOW PEOPLE. WHO CONSTANTLY USE. THE MOST INFLAMMATORY WORDING CHOICES POSSIBLE.#YOU SHOULD NOT FOLLOW THOSE PEOPLE NO MATTER WHAT THEY TALK ABOUT.#no one communicating in true good faith to ALL PEOPLE about facts uses loaded language more than occasionally#the sooner you learn that the better. and that really starts narrowing down the pool of who you want to actually listen to (while still#verifying anything they tell you)#get higher standards!!!! and read some books or watch lectures about actual effective communication to broad groups without using tribalism#and also. anyone on the left trying to convince you of massive efforts and conspiracies that are anti everything#is also wrong 99% of the time and not a good source to listen to#never EVER assume conspiracy when it can be more simply explained through either#ignorance obliviousness incompetence financial greed or misunderstandings#the end. Iām really done this time. Iām just sick of seeing so many people fall prey to this#shh katie#cult escapee#politics and current events#donāt get swept up in the constant tsunami of performative online activism#election 2024#world events
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actual life goal is forcing spirkers to acknowledge bones at all
#the number of times iāve just barely held myself back from going āhey u do realise there is a Man inches from them rightā#u donāt even need to ship mcspirk i just need u to acknowledge that he exists and he is there and he is spirkās closest friend#like god yāall see the fucking camping trip and itās just āoh look spirkā bitch what. what.#anyway current urge is to literally make a museum-style things just showing off Bones but i might actually make an online archive#simply because he gets so terribly ignored and not just by the fandom either#like why does paramount do so much with the fucking GORN but doesnāt touch bones. why do star trek analyses look at spirk#and not at my guy who is there for damn near all of the stories. everyone i speak to irl who knows star trek has at least once looked at me#and asked who tf i was talking about when i said bones was my favourite. how do people not know who he is.#star trek#bones mccoy#leonard mccoy#leonard 'bones' mccoy
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Your little stretching Yagami drawing has stolen my heart!!! I'd love to see you draw Kuwana if you're still taking requests. Your style is so cute! Regardless of if you draw him, I love your work, and it's always a joy to see it on my dash. Keep up the good work man š«”
aww thank you! i very much appreciate anyone who enjoys my work, even these silly doodles lol
#my art#ask#jin kuwana#ryu ga gotoku#rgg#é¾ćå¦ć#judgment#lost judgment#iāve got one last one iām finishing up and after that i think iāve gotta get back to work on real life stuff lol#but these have been super fun to do lol. iām not very talkative either irl or online so this is nice to do every once in a while ^_^#in my notes on LJ i have an edit of that cop drawing that just says EVEN THE NARRATIVE FOIL GETS A NARRATIVE FOIL#(^re: the yagami:kuwana:soma situation)
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i hate that the sonic movies get more advertising and attention from the general public than other sonic media does for a number of reasons but one thing that is particularly annoying to me right now is that because of this when a new sonic game or comic or cartoon or literally anything else that im actually excited for happens nobody seems to notice or care that it exists but now that the big new sonic thing (sonic 3) is something that im not really looking forward to at all im constantly being asked and told about it.. like come onnnnn
#talking about irl interactions not online. in case thats not already obvious#like. i know nobody has actual bad intentions . most of these people do not know enough about the games#to know that the movie is looking like its going to completely butcher the plot of sa2 and that im mad about it#and i dont think anyone irl really knows all the details of my increasingly strained relationship with the scu either#they just know that i love sonic . or even that i liked the first 2 movies depending on who they are . and a new sonic movie is coming out#and im not upset they try to talk to me about sonic i LOVE talking about sonic#but its so frustrating that people seem to only care when the scu is involved. even if they dont actually watch the movies anyway???#and it doesnt end at people only bringing up sonic when its the scu#ive also had many conversations where i mention a game or comic or something and the person im talking to makes it about the movies#like (*mentions i like sonic* ''have you seen the movies''. or *mentions a new sonic thing* ''is it related to the movies'' etc)#like come onnnn we were talking about the games can we talk about the games in a way that doesnt involve the movies for Once#again i know nobody has bad intentions so i feel kinda bad for being annoyed#and its not entirely their fault since a video game or comic is inherently going to be less known than a big movie . but goddddd#this happened a bit with the knuckles series too but not to the same extent that its happening wiht sonic 3
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Goddd I have so much love to give but no one to give it to. Great starclan how could this happen
#why did they invent not having any friends#<-(as in all my friends are either online or im not as close to them irl. sigh)#messages from the tardis
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Hey, I generally try to keep tumblr a very fandom-centric space but if you can, please consider participating in any way in the 'global strike' for Gaza this week.
Spreading awareness, educating yourself or your loved ones, donating to charities or buying e-sims, boycotting companies, joining protests, calling/writing your local governments. Even if you can only do one of these, I promise it can make a difference.
#text posts#I'm a bit more active about these sorts of things on my discord server and my twitter#bc tumblr feels like a different breed /lh#but pls pls pls consider doing something either online or IRL#the world can't be this fucked up and we can't be this apathetic#i refuse to believe that
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i love being unaligned/androgynous nonbinary and a gnc guy & staking my entire identity on something that effectively doesn't exist to anyone including most other trans folks. its great!!
#i get a front seat to every single masc / fem is allowed in my treehouse / not allowed in my treehouse opinion circus ever on account of#obviously im either one or the other!! :)#mostly online. of course. i dont want to think about what it would be like in irl queer spaces But theres no possibility of me being#anywhere near those any time soon so its fine ^_^#well i lied. obviously being gnc/nb does exist as a prelude to being binary aligned one way or another!!#txt#neg#ok. riptime... i love u riptime..
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I feel like a terrified animal on Bluesky and I just found out you can't make your profile private so WELP
#i gave it my best shot....#this sounds weird i know but the formst of twt and bsky feels so#idk its not Great for my autism#like on twt/bsky i feel so exposed and awful and self conscious#like it feels like theres a social etiquette that i just can never seem to succeed with#and due to everything being public its as if thats more shameful of me#i just feel so stupid and weird and out of the loop socially in that format#though to be fair it doesnt help with other issues such as like#being stalked irl and online and have everything monitored for a decade and then psychotic paranoia for years might not help either#tumblr feels like i have a barrier between myself and other people#where i can interact with others but on my terms#and where i feel more secure in that i'm not missing cues that im too much or overstepping#it makes people as a whole feel less daunting and scary#combined with no character limit + better archive and viewing images and i just#idk for all its flaws i think tumblr is the best place for me online#i'm not deleting my bsky account but im seriously considering if i should just. remove everything ive posted thus far#idk though maybe ill just stop posting anything new for the time being and leave it at that#if i didnt know people there who id like to keep up with i mightve deleted the whole thing but yeah#i guess we'll see#DHSADHGDFJ i feel so stupid typing all this but gosh#silvi talks
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did not retire my heart frames but i also got a second pair as a treat so compare/contrast i suppose ā¦
#yes the first pic is frm a couple days ago. a different shoot..#serving the same fruity ass energy either way ..#amanda irl#IF UR WONDERING: i buy all my frames online. eyebuydirect is my friend
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*on the floor trembling through gritted teeth* this made me grow as a person. this made me change for the better. good things have come out of this.
#all this bullshit changed me a lot in ways i'd argue were necessary#i learned i shouldn't take what i see in online leftist spaces as gospel and that i should stand by my own stances#i learned i can't rely on the internet to keep me company and that having friends and doing things irl is more fulfilling#i got in touch with my people and my culture as opposed to how passive i was about my jewishness before#i discovered my passion for sociology and psychology (and decided to major in sociology in hs because of it)#did i mature and grow a lot? yes. did this change my life for the better in some ways? yes.#but was it worth going through all this shit and losing pretty much all of my previous comfort? HELL NO#and ofc it's not worth this horrible war either. nothing is.#i feel bad but i'm trying to focus on the good things that have come out of it and telling myself it was necessary i come to these changes#(ALTHOUGH IT WOULD HAVE BEEN VERY NICE IF IT WAS UNDER DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCES)#because it's what keeps me sane#hila has spoken
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okay so when I used to live in the same city as my friends we went to trivia every week which I organized and was originally started because of my birthday
now they all (all!!!!!) live in a different city to the north and I live in a different city to the south and theyāre coordinating doing trivia every week again FOUR HOURS away from me and it makes me want to walk into a river and stay there
#every time I think about it it makes me wanna cry#and I feel like an island#and unloved lol#how does it feel to be living MY dream#sorry for sad posting but Iāve been really struggling since the last couple moved up there from our original shared town#which was a more manageable distance away#and that couple would host things a lot that we could all travel to once we began peeling off for home#it really really fucking sucks because I LOVE my hometown which I moved back to#and Iāve been avoiding our online shared space because they keep posting about irl hangs there#theyāre just ALL from the other corner of the state#and we met in college in the middle#bro FUCK this shit#and no one in the fandom lives here either#bitching and moaning to ring in the new year#I have my siblings at least#and my partner#but I want my friends#and trivia was like ME ya know????#feels like a slap in the face even though I know they donāt mean it#one of them follows me on here#pretend you donāt see this lol
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I can never truly claim that Sherlock Holmes is a small fandom despite nobody my age in my city even really knowing abt it because it USED to be so popular and adapted every five seconds but it ISNT anymore and everyone only knows bbc sherlock which is FINE but I'm DISAPPOINTED and-
#acd canon#sherlock holmes#acd holmes#acd sherlock holmes#like yeah we get a bunch of media for it but im tired of not being able to talk abt it#to literally anyone i know irl#my parents hire a cleaner for our house#I talked their ear off the other day#sorry Kris I didnt. mean to do that. it was the autism#my online friends dont really know anything abt it either?? so#my rants fall heard but not understood#siiigh
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