#done with explaining myself

[thescreamcorner]

"If you don't have DID/a system you shouldn't be saying anything about syscourse"

So why do you think its okay to demand that people with a severe trauma based dissociative disorder out themselves and the details of their mental status in order to point out why painting DID as silly blorbo disorder is a fucking problem? Why do you think it's okay to make demands that at risk people put themselves in MORE danger, and that its the only way to validate them calling you out on your bullshit?

Except of course it doesnt right? Because radical validation, because "everyone is unique and special so you cant ever acknowledge that scientifically studied facts exist because it's not inclusive to all people and experiences"

DISORDERS ARENT MEANT TO BE INCLUSIVE. YOU ARENT SUPPOSED TO WANT ONE. THEY'RE TO IDENTIFY PEOPLE WHO ARE STRUGGLING SO THEY CAN GET HELP, YOU SELF ABSORBED SHIT FOR BRAINS.

[stil-lindigo]

lead balloon (the tumblr post that saved me)

if this comic resonated with you, it would mean the world to me if you donated to this palestinian family's escape fund.

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no creative notes because this isn't that kind of comic.

I know I don’t owe any of you anything but I still felt compelled to write about my long term absence. And I feel far enough away from the dangerous spot I was in to be able to make this comic. I have a therapist now, and she agreed that making this could be a very cathartic gesture, and the start of properly leaving these thoughts behind me. I am still, at seemingly random times, blindsided by fleeting desires to kill myself. They’re always passing urges, but it’s disarming, and uncomfortable. I worry sometimes that my brain’s spent so long thinking only about suicide that it’s forgotten how to think about anything else. Like, now that I've opened that door for myself, I'll never be able to fully shut it again. But I’m trying my best to encourage my mind in other directions. We'll see how that goes.

I am still donating all proceeds from my store to Palestinian causes. So far, I've donated over $15K, not including donations coming from my own pocket or the fundraising streams which jointly raised around $10K. In the time since I made my initial post about where this money would be going, the focus has shifted from aid organisations to directly donating to escape funds.

If you'd like to do the same, you can look at Operation Olive Branch, which hosts hundreds of Palestinian escape funds or donate to Safebow, which has helped facilitate the safe crossing and securing of important medical procedures for over 150 at-risk palestinians since the beginning of the genocide.

[eighteenthofoctober]

When your Dad's boyfriend cheats on him with... Santa Claus!?

Merry Christmas Ace Attorney nation!!!!

[sciderman]

How did your meeting go with the surgeons?

it was memorable

[electronicmail]

Firefox-official vs electronicmail

Hydrogen bomb vs coughing baby

okay come up with a better idea then. firefox-official is gone asshole it’s electronicmail or nothing

[quirkyfries]

[ithinkdogshouldvote]

Dante is my favorite character.

[xxplastic-cubexx]

If you were to like redesign Magneto's classic outfit in a way that both suits the character and your own tastes, how would you redesign it?

uhhhh errrmmmmm i dont know i really couldnt improve upon perfection but i have still tried for you my friend !!!

[inkly-heart]

please don’t be sad little sprout, you are loved 🌱 🖤

🌱

[aliusfrater]

one of my favourite things to encounter in a pre-series fic is the idea that sam starts arguments or pisses john off on purpose because abusers and their supporters really do think like that. sam's a child that's 1) grappling for control, 2) subject to multiple different types of isolation at once and 3) simply asking questions he's entitled to the responses for—he's not responsible for how the parent reacts to him. either way it gives a lot of credit to john's behaviour as a straight line from his canon reactions to sam as well as how the abusive dynamic of his and dean's relationship work. dean's own issues, projected outwards towards sam within his abusive actions, unjustly becomes sam's responsibility and something he has to constantly cater towards within his own person. it all eventually comes to a head re: how dean handles jack; sam becomes responsible for excusing dean's actions and perpetuating them through either non-action or reluctantly going along with it and by doing so, he too is responsible for abusing jack. dean did the same thing with john's actions in season one

[sholmeser]

ary scheffer / justus knetch / snake & ocelot

[maudiemoods]

Guys I'm sorry but I'm too lazy to crop these augrhh

Ok ok ok, so have you seen those paintings where the characters are coming off the canvas? Yeah yeah you see where I'm going with this right

[thedevildeer]

He lit a candle for him to help him recall the memories. The way their eyes don’t leave each other is insane 😩😭 (Extended version)

[itspileofgoodthings]

had a very nice realization about peace, especially spiritual peace, the other day. (Been brewing for a while.) and it’s just: peace is for the non-peaceful.

[roseofcards90]

I hate everything

[solargeist]

letting me ramble abt my favourite media is dangerous bc if u change the subject I Will use “Yeah, but uh-“ to bring it back around don’t Even girl we’re in it now hold my hand