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no mercy 😭
#one piece won the poll and I wanted to draw smth nice and wholesome#but I hated the perspective process and the multiple characters were a pain so where did that bring me?#that's right; perspective and multiple characters in shtpost format#don't you just love it when you put too much pressure on yourself and the way to fix that is to draw smth silly#vibrant colours go brrrr#pls trust me when I say I like sanji#I mean look at him#one piece#strawhat crew#sanji#luffy#zoro#chopper#usopp#nami#nico robin#cyborg franky#o0kawaii0o
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[First] [Previous] [Next] Fight part 1/? I wanted to do the fight in one sitting initially. But it got pretty long pretty fast- so it's gonna be cut in two or three, depending on how much time I do the drawing- Funfact of this update: On my second party of COTL, I two or three tap Baal. Aym was more of a problem, but the two cats where quickly put in baby jail.
#cabi leodrann#digital art#comic#cult of the lamb#aym and baal#cotl aym#cotl baal#cotl lamb#cotl narinder#through hell and back cotl au#tw blood#tw gore#I had to stop myself from changing things again in the drawings#because at this rate I would have never publish it because it was not perfect#Don't forget people dont put pressure on yourself when you do something for fun
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one day fans will realize that treating real people like fictional characters and fictional characters like real people is, at the core of things, The Problem
#luke newton#nicola coughlan#polin#lukola#penelope featherington#colin bridgerton#bridgerton#the invasive speculation like you're doing meta analysis of a plotline and not REAL LIVES is deeply uncomfortable#people in real person shipping communities have to come to understand that they are not in fact a fan of the real people#you do not know and will never know the actuality of these celebrities you are a fan of#realize NOW that you are a fan of their PERSONAS and absolutely nothing else#and that the purpose of shipping is not 'oh they'll get together' (so i'm RIGHT) but instead 'i enjoy this dynamic'#the pressure of validation from people who owe you nothing is what makes fans upset#not real people's actions that harm no one#which means you hurt your own feelings and then spiral in circles about how you didn't get said validation#when you were never owed it and choose to put the onus of responsibility on others behaving how you want#and not placing the responsibility on YOURSELF to have reasonable expectations and respect the people you claim to stan#build the bridge and get over it#some of y'all mad disrespectful like these celebs don't straight up hate you for how you behave#as they are well within reason to do so
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I like drawing with my friends :]
Woe. More for you curious fellow:
#pressure fanart#sebastian solace#sebastian pressure#pressure roblox#sebastian solace fanart#call me clevy#clever reference#I don't remember if the “zhop” thing was real or not...#oopsies he says kill yourself
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It actually does bother me that eating is treated like spending money - that you have an allotted allowance in the form of calories that you are supposed to budget.
"How are you spending your calories?" I'm spending them on experiences. I'm spending them on time with my community, my people, those who matter to me. I'm spending them on satiating a human need. I'm spending them on the feeling of being alive and not just living.
If there is one experience that I don't want to "pay" for, it's the basic human right of comfort, security, community, and care.
#anti diet culture#fatphobia#fatphobia tw#disordered eating tw#ed tw#(just in case)#ask to tag#if i had to choose between miserable counting and recounting and reallocating calories and... eating then i'm choosing the latter#there are absolutely health conditions which warrent the *need* to count and stay in a range#but that is entirely different than the societal pressure to be within the idea of a 'right' calorie/nutrient count#if you have a health condition which is affected by food/drink then do what you must to balance your wellness and health and happiness#there is absolutely nothing wrong with that#again that is very different than society coming in and telling you what it thinks you 'should' do about yourself#i know this sounds corny but like#does it not drive you insane to obsess over numbers if you don't have to?#does it drive you insane that you're often treated like you can't or shouldn't be permitted to just live? to ENJOY living?
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on dark days like this, i don't want to paint much. they never give me enough time to remember what your face looked like
regular and concept version
#pressure#p.ai.nter#I believe in the hc that it just doesnt know how to draw people well because it only does landscapes#I would like to think it misses its creator#I also hc personally that since it has reset so many times its circuits are fried it doesn't remember what its creator looked like#I mean when you're trying to destroy yourself you don't think about preserving anything yk#windows 95#roblox#roblox pressure
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I love how Project Sekai shows a more nuanced view of escapism and using fantasy as a sort of comfort :)
#prsk#pjsk#project sekai#wxs#wonderlands x showtime#wondasho#puroseka#mizuki akiyama#emu otori#nightcord at 25am#niigo#n25#25 ji nightcord de#i love how they don't portray it as this deceiving bad thing that does no good and makes things worse than they are#but as something necessary when the pressure is too big and there's no feasible way of taking on the problem without damaging yourself a lot#also that balancing dreams and reality is the best way to go through life#that living purely in reality is as damaging as living purely on fantasy#yeah these are about “we escape to survive” and “popping in my heart” can't you see?#i fucking love this game
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Hey so. It looks like that time again where I have to ask for a little help
My insurance ran out and I had to pay out of pocket for my physiotherapy session today. It's also a short pay week because hubby lost a day of work due to his inner ear problem last week
Long story short:
After paying the rent, this is the situation. Hubby Jon has about $160 in his account, not enough to get me out of overdraft. I'm trying to decide whether to cancel our meal kits or skimp on groceries, we can't afford both. I mean. Technically between us we have negative $55 so... we can't really afford either
I also have a minor medical procedure scheduled for tomorrow and I'd sure like to have food in the house while I'm recovering. It would be one less thing to worry about.
Anyway.
If you have a few bucks to spare, I would appreciate a tip over at my Ko-Fi:
Thank you for reading
#as always please do not feel pressured to tip if you are in a tough spot yourself#i will not die if u don't donate. i will mooch off family for loans if i need to. i'd rather not but if it comes to that i will#and i do have enough food in the house to last at least... 3-4 days? probably more if i get creative#but yeah. not gonna die. a little help would just be nice#mod post#financial stuff#ko-fi#btw the recovery time should only be a few days it's a minor procedure no worries. i have god and codeine on my side. also antibiotics
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it makes me so fucking sad how some lgbtq spaces treat masc-presenting nonbinary ppl or nonbinary ppl who were amab as someone who is very lucky & knows a lot of people who those apply to
nonbinary people you'd see on the street and just be like "thats a man" even if they use they/them pronouns. Idk it just makes me sad how "androgyny" is really just seen as masculine and if someone isn't transfem and doesnt feel like wearing makeup or growing their hair longer or wearing more feminine clothes is how they would express themself well they're out of luck. and obvs nonbinary people who were afab (i hate using these terms btw but im tired and i cant think of a better word for what im describing) can be very fem-presenting and be misgendered also and that SUCKS. but in lgbtq spaces specifically its unheard of for someone who just 100% looks like A Man (or however they look) to be nonbinary to use only they/them or she/they pronouns they'll literally be rejected by the ONE community they should feel safe in
it's so unlike the communities im in now but sometimes i see the Typical Lgbtq Spaces and it's just like.... if some of my beloved beautiful friends walked in you would turn them away because of your own transmisogyny. and miss out on KNOWING THEM!!!! idk in general i wish gendering ANY type of person based on their appearance or assuming that people who were amab could never be nonbinary without being transfem was less of a thing
#and on that note when people say like “people who were afab are more likely to be nonbinary” like there's a thousand things to say#about social expectations and how boys are pressured to behave in certain ways and present in certain ways that girls typically arent#etc etc but also just not true!!! if you don't think they exist then thats because you've surrounded yourself with a community#and people who make them feel unsafe to be there or to be open or to even question their gender to begin with#txt#cw transmisogyny#<- i guess??
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the urge to delete this blog is strong
#I'm posting this here bc it's only fair ppl know how I feel considering I haven't been. very active here#augh I don't feel good looking at this blog anymore!! but it'd be so dumb to delete it bc there's so many memories here#+ artworks I also keep archived here#also this is like. my main place to seek out ppl who's interested in commissioning me!! girl get a grip of yourself!!#I just. ugh. it might've been bc of a falling out I had but I've been having a really hard time trusting people again save for some mutuals#especially having so many eyes on me with the amount of ppl following this blog... it's pressuring#I genuinely don't wanna look at this blog anymore it's just stressful at times. not that I feel obligated to post#again. I'm just. augh.#🌸 lin speaks!!
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tag game & WIP game
two tag games in one post! (bc i totally didn't forget to do the first when i was tagged) the first tag game, i was tagged by @sasheneskywalker on my main!!
last song: Dark in My Imagination by of Verona
currently watching: Grotesquerie and Kevin Can F*** HImself are the main shows i'm watching! i plan to watch the Penguin but i haven't started it yet
last movie: ... probably Madame Web. for like. the sixth time.
sweet/spicy/savory: savory
relationship status: dating two partners and one girlfriend whom i all love dearly <3
current obsession: in a broad sense, DC. a more specific obsession, Cass Cain. i've got a lot of brainworms about her.
last thing i searched online: "alpine macaroni" bc it's my night to make dinner. the last thing i googled for a fic tho was "width of a penis" and "width of a bo staff" so. you make make assumptions about that.
and for the WIP game!
Rules: You will be given a word. Share one sentence/excerpt from your wip(s) that start with each letter of that word.
Tagged by @melodyatlas
word: BATS
B [a Helena/Steph WIP]
“Batman?” Stephanie groaned, blinking her eyes into focus. The first thing she saw wasn’t the person who caught her, but the shadow they cast. It had the pointed ears and she could already hear the lecture he was about to give her. “Not even close.” The voice was deep, but distinctly female. Stephanie jumped. With a quick slice of a blade, the woman cut away the rope holding Stephanie’s arms and ankles.
A [a Dick/Lance Brunner WIP]
“All the goddamn mercenaries and contract killers I’ve called and not a single fucking one of you is willing to kill one mob boss?” The man on the other end got so huffy, he made the call go static for a moment. Lance made a point to snort loud enough for the guy to hear. “I wouldn’t take a contract for any mob boss in Gotham. But I’m sure as hell not taking one for the Red Hood. It’s called self-preservation. Google it if you have to.”
T [a Cass/Terry WIP]
Terry refuses to call them anything but panties. They certainly didn’t cover any more skin than panties would. He hadn’t the slightest clue how everything stayed in place with the skimpy, shimmering fabric. If Terry went out wearing that, he’d only win fights by making villains piss themselves from laughing after he accidentally flashed them.
S [a Slade/Tim WIP]
“Shiva,” Slade hummed, as soon as he could pinpoint a specific move the little bird couldn’t have learned from anywhere else. “The Bat convinced Shiva to train you, didn’t he?” Granted, Robin wasn’t as sharp with them, but he wasn’t half bad for the scrawny thing he was. Slade tried to kick the kid in the head, but he managed to flip out of the way, landing in a crouch a few feet away from Slade.
no pressure tagging for anyone who wants to do either of these!
@searchforahero @divine-dominion @redhoodedoutlaw @rottenapricots @sandy-writing
if you do the WIP game your word is: ROBIN
#necrotic nuisance#tag game#no pressure to anyone tagged!#i just tried to find ppl active in the discord server#also if you're in the discord server and i didn't tag you#consider yourself also tagged. you can also do these and tag me#the funny thing about this is i had to hunt to find things for this#i actually don't have a lot of active WIPs at once#a lot of *ideas*? yes.#a lot of WIPs? not rlly no#this is almost all of them#i do think it's funny they're entirely rarepairs.#tells you where my brain is at as of recent.#anywhore i love tag games always feel free to tag me in them <3#and you can ask me abuot any of these WIPs if you'd like to hear more!#they're all going to be oneshots except the lance bruner fic
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talking to a friend about getting back into art and i think the #1 most important piece of art advice i could ever get or give is just "figure out what is FUN to you"
like i think there is sooooo much emphasis on how to build SKILL in art but a lot of it really treats art like a job or like video game grinding, like it's this thankless job that you have to work at in order to reach a Threshold and i know it's not EASY to make yourself have fun but like
imo a solid 70% of the reason i create art is because the Act of Drawing is fun to me. it's fun problem-solving and planning and putting down lines and playing with colors and tools. it's fun to depict little scenes in my head or to create outfits or to find ways to fill the canvas. never forget that creating can be fun. sometimes it's hard and sometimes you have to battle through your own blockades to get there but the ultimate goal should always be to ENJOY it, to find what you enjoy doing and then do it forever. improvement will follow enjoyment.
i think especially with all the debate about ML image generation it's more important than ever to embrace FUN. if you're only focused on the end result it's so easy to get in your own head- to think about what doesn't look good or what skills you don't have yet or to compare yourself to other artists. but photography didn't kill the art of drawing and AI won't either because, simply put, there will always be people who want to do the physical act of making art because it's fun to do! using paints and markers, splashing colors around, doing shitty pen doodles, using the symmetry tool in your art program to do abstract mandalas that are just squiggles formed into patterns. do art like you're 5 and you've been handed markers to pass the time. do art like you're bored in class and you're keeping your brain entertained by drawing stick figure comics in the margins. do art like an absent thing, do art because it satisfies your brain. the goal is not to make something beautiful and perfect, the goal is to make something because your hands need to make and your body needs to make.
#i know and love so many people who have intense anxiety about their ability to create art and who are so hard on themselves about the result#and i think that's a REALLY easy thing to feel because creating is also vulnerable & physically difficult and there is SOOOO much to master#but i think for me the people who churn out 300 colored pencil front facing hands behind their backs oc doodles on lined notebook paper-#are the ones with the right idea. they're the ones i aspire to be like#i'm not saying i never struggle either bc tbh#as someone with depression and adhd there are times where the Act of Having Fun is simply not possible#sometimes i CAN'T enjoy things because my ability to feel joy is locked behind a barrier of my mental illness#so i don't think it's an Easy thing to do by far and I don't think you can just Magically Make Yourself Happy And Having Fun#but i DO think that experimenting in a low-stakes low-pressure manner until you find something that clicks in your brain helps#doing things for the sake of doing them is the only way to figure out which ones WILL be fun to you#not all of them will. some things will feel like a slog#but i think you have to look for the passion before you're able to face the slog#if you jump right into the parts that are Hard and Challenge Your Limits it's easy to spin your wheels and get stuck#but if you focus on the super small stakes and the things that are thoughtless and focused more on Sensation-#the sensory experience of mixing paint or the scratch of pencil on paper or the smooth way a specific pen makes lines-#then you can lose yourself in the physical aspect of it FIRST#and then once you've started really ENJOYING those sensations you can start learning new ways to use them#because now you have the drive to want to do more#now you have the desire to find new ways to apply this thing you like doing#long post#even longer tags#art#drawing#artists#art advice
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Hi (。•́︿•̀。)
So, today was the first time I fainted on my way to work… And it sucks, huh. Fortunately, my mother was there to help me get to the nearest ambulance. I didn't understand at all at what point I fell, and then I woke up with ringing in my ears and my mother's screams. It was, like, super scary... I'm going to the doctor today to find out what the hell this is, so, yeah...
Why am I talking about this?
Take care of your damn health. Don't be like me
#take care of yourself#i'm idiot#do not drink a lot of energy drinks at low blood pressure#and don't smoke#health stuff
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If you have no idea what fiber art to start with - as in, you aren't sure what you'll like, and don't have much of a clue - you should honestly start with a mixture of whatever piques your interest. Knitting needles and crochet hooks, at the least, are often very cheap per set brand-new, or you can look at secondhand stores if you want them cheaper (other fiber arts tools like looms may be more pricey, depending on what you want). If you can, look for classes such as a crafts class - a library might have something akin to this, some will have craft spaces with a variety of little crafters things.
There's sometimes this idea floating around that you are only permitted to do one craft at once - this isn't true. You are a multifaceted, complex person. It only makes sense, then, that your art is the same. Fiber art is an expression of one's humanity in its rawest form, no matter what you pick up. This goes for all art beyond the fiber arts, too! Art is an expression of your humanity. Let it express that 💛
#art#fiber art#every fiber art is good! they ALL have their place and their benefits. there is NO wrong decision to make in what medium of fiber you choos#i know for knitting and crochet especially that beginners aren't sure which to pick up...#...the secret is that you can pick up BOTH. you don't have to settle 💛#you might like one better than the other and that is okay too - but you don't have to pressure yourself to pick one#there's a handloom at this secondhand store and it's a german one so the instructions. are in german. but i want her................ loom <#i absolutely don't need it and i probably shouldn't get it but. loom. fiber. fabric#was watching a crochet vs. knitting video but i don't know if i always agree that you should pick one up and almost shun the other#there are ways to make it work out - it's going to work out!!
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I don't think you'll ever really have to worry about your Miguel stuff getting stale lol
He's too popular, and your art is too good
Not to say you can't or shouldn't draw anything else whenever you want, but just that you could probably draw him forever if you wanted, and the rest of us would be right there with you lol
It's mainly just my insecurities talking, but I do still think my work can go stale lmao. The only reason it's "too good" (thank you, btw) is cuz I try really hard, and I'm not sure if I'll be able to keep up the momentum, is the thing. I'm of course still gonna try! But the ideas I have for the next Miguel drawings also just aren't as good or elaborate as any of the ones I've already done. Again, mainly just insecurities talking.
But thank you so much for the support, it's very sweet of you to want to send me an ask with encouragement 🥹❤️ I don't want any of you to think I'm ever fishing for compliments, the stuff I put in the tags on my asks is just ramblings. But thank you still, I'm honestly just so surprised the fandom around him is still so active, I'm just gonna keep riding it out for as long as I can!
#I guess when I say stale' I'm more so referring to like' the next work not being as good as the previous#I know you can't always outdo yourself' but with all this added pressure' I kinda just... feel like I have to' yknow#but anyways#thank you for the wonderful ask! I really do hope you guys don't get tired of my work lmao#-even if the next drawings aren't as good as the ones prior...
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Hey.
It's not like me to get serious, but I just want to put it out there that it's fine to say "no", alright? You can just do that. Like, to turn down an invitation to an event you don't wanna go to, or to keep something you like to yourself even if someone else really wants it, whatever.
Being selfish is fine, sometimes. 👍
#dialogue box 🗨🐍#Sorry. Just thinking about older days.#I used to be an angel. So I know all about feeling like you HAVE to be selfless all the time and sacrifice stuff for people.#You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Be true to yourself even under pressure! Overcome!#You can do it! 頑張って!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (๑•̀ㅂ•́)ง✧#...Alright. Yeah; that's enough from me. Levi out ✌
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