A New Dog Moves In
Preparing for the Arrival
Setting up the environment
Before the arrival of a new dog, it's essential to prepare the environment to ensure a smooth transition. This involves creating a safe and comfortable space for the new addition, including a designated sleeping area, feeding station, and access to water. Additionally, removing any hazards or potential dangers from the living space is crucial to prevent accidents or injuries.
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Gathering necessary supplies
Having the right supplies on hand is essential for welcoming a new dog into the home. This includes basics such as food and water bowls, a leash and collar, a comfortable bed or crate, and appropriate toys for mental stimulation. Depending on the dog's needs, additional items such as grooming supplies, training treats, and a doggy first-aid kit may also be necessary.
Welcoming the New Arrival
Introducing the new dog to the home
When the new dog arrives, it's essential to make introductions gradually and calmly. Allow the dog to explore their new surroundings at their own pace, offering gentle encouragement and reassurance. Providing a quiet space where the dog can retreat if feeling overwhelmed is important, as it allows them to adjust to their new environment in their own time.
Establishing routines and boundaries
Consistency is key when it comes to establishing routines and boundaries with a new dog. Setting clear expectations from the beginning helps to prevent confusion and promote positive behaviors. This includes establishing feeding schedules, potty training routines, and rules for behavior in the home. Consistent positive reinforcement and gentle correction are effective methods for teaching desired behaviors and boundaries.
Bonding with the New Dog
Spending quality time together
Building a strong bond with a new dog requires spending quality time together. This includes engaging in activities such as walking, playing, and training sessions that allow for positive interaction and communication. Incorporating activities that the dog enjoys and finds rewarding helps to strengthen the bond and build trust between the dog and their new family members.
Building trust and rapport
Building trust and rapport with a new dog takes time and patience. It involves being patient, consistent, and understanding of the dog's needs and preferences. Providing love, attention, and affection in a gentle and respectful manner helps to foster a sense of security and belonging for the dog, laying the foundation for a strong and lasting bond.
Addressing Challenges and Concerns
Dealing with anxiety or fear
It's not uncommon for new dogs to experience anxiety or fear when adjusting to their new environment. This may manifest as nervous behaviors, such as pacing, panting, or hiding. Providing a calm and supportive environment, along with gentle reassurance and positive reinforcement, can help to alleviate anxiety and build the dog's confidence over time.
Handling behavioral issues
Addressing behavioral issues with a new dog requires patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement. Identifying the root cause of the behavior and addressing it proactively is essential for promoting positive change. Working with a professional trainer or behaviorist can provide valuable guidance and support in addressing behavioral issues effectively and responsibly.
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In conclusion, welcoming a new dog into the home is an exciting and rewarding experience. By taking the time to prepare the environment, establish routines and boundaries, bond with the new dog, and address any challenges or concerns that may arise, dog owners can ensure a smooth transition and lay the foundation for a happy and harmonious relationship with their new furry companion. With patience, love, and understanding, the bond between a dog and their new family members will continue to grow stronger with each passing day.
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Just saw someone make a post about how Hanguang-jun was “beefing” with a child (Jin Ling), and while the response I saw to it was fantastic—pointing out how Jin Ling was a spoiled brat who was constantly, knowingly putting others in danger and Lan Wangji served as one of the first adults in his life (the other being Wei Wuxian) who actually disciplined him for his unruly actions in order to teach him to be a better person—it made me think of something I never really took notice of: Jin Ling is afraid of other adults.
Now, obviously Jin Ling isn’t afraid of all adults. He’s unhesitant about bossing around the adult Jiang disciples when his uncle isn’t around. He treats “Mo Xuanyu” very disrespectfully until Wei Wuxian puts him in his place. He’s fine with yelling back at the adult rogue cultivators whose lives he’s endangered. But he reacts to Hanguang-jun as if Lan Wangji is going to kill him (or Fairy) for stepping out of line. Why? There are two reasons for this: 1) Jin Ling is afraid of adults that his uncles will not protect him from and 2) because he has not had any positive examples of care or discipline in his life, discipline, in his mind, carries an inherent threat of violence.
Let’s discuss point one. Outside of Lan Wangji, every adult listed above has been successfully suppressed by either Jiang Cheng or Jin Guangyao, Jin Ling’s uncles. The Jiang disciples are under Jiang Cheng’s control. The rogue cultivators are cowed by the threat of Jiang Cheng’s Zidian. Mo Xuanyu has been expelled by Jin Guangyao with the full weight of the Jin Clan behind him. So Jin Ling, the nephew who they allow to run wild, has nothing to fear by disrespecting them. However, Lan Wangji does not fall into this category. Lan Wangji is the younger brother of Jin Guangyao’s sworn brother, and as the uncle who does not step in to protect Jin Ling from violence, Jin Ling is well aware that Jin Guangyao would likely not side with him if he crossed Lan Wangji. At most, he would play peacemaker, as he does to discourage Jiang Cheng from reprimanding Jin Ling in his presence. This only works for individuals who care about reputation, though, and Lan Wangji is no such individual. That leaves Jiang Cheng as the only one who could potentially suppress Lan Wangji, but immediately upon confrontation, Jiang Cheng backs down from conflict and instead chooses to throw Jin Ling under the bus, probably for the first time in the child’s life. Neither of his powerful uncles will defend him against this adult, and this adult, himself, is unafraid to run afoul of Jin Ling. This, then, leads to the second point.
Jin Ling has only known violence as a form of discipline. It is notable that neither of Jin Ling’s uncles discipline him when he is in the wrong for his actions: Jin Guangyao coaxes Jin Ling while deflecting criticism while Jiang Cheng encourages Jin Ling’s bad behavior…except when directed at himself. Thus, let’s remove Jin Guangyao from this “discipline” conversation. What does Jin Ling know of Jiang Cheng’s discipline methods? Well, he whips first and asks questions later. He belittles Jin Ling with verbal abuse and resorts to physical violence against his nephew when under stress. He runs his sect with such an iron fist that his disciples are afraid to tell him things he does not like. Jin Ling has never known him to be anything but cruel and cold. And if we take into account how both the Jin and Jiang clans treat outsiders, we see that most situations of disagreement or discontent end in violence, with the Jiang and Jin as the ultimate victors. Therefore, with these stunning examples of “discipline” from his childhood guardians and their clans, it is no wonder that Jin Ling fears what being “disciplined” entails from the hands of an adult that neither of his uncles will fight for him against.
It is perfectly reasonable—in the most tragic of ways—that Hanguang-jun terrifies him at the beginning if the story. This is why the introduction of Lan Wangji and Wei Wuxian into his life was imperative: Jin Ling got to learn that discipline—be it criticisms or reprimands—is not inherently violent and thus was made safe enough by his two unlikely mentors to listen to them in order to transform into the better person he is by the end of the novel.
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Not the first to say it, but damn can’t believe Galladay really went from toxic yaoi to doomed tragic yaoi.
Alright fellow Galladay trash, where’s the modern AU fix-it fics?
I need to see Gallagher single dad with Misha plus their dog/cat Sleepie falling for entertainment company CEO Sunday. Don’t ask me how they met, fuck it, throw in bodyguard AU Gallagher who works part-time at a bar, boom there that’s how they meet, idk I’m making this up on 3 hours of sleep.
You’ve heard of slow burns, now get ready for Galladay blaze it.
They’re speedrunning the relationship from hate -> annoyance -> mild disgruntlement -> weirdly vibing -> ok wow never knew I needed that in my life -> Sunday is way too ok with spoiling Misha -> ok so we got married -> alright we’re dismantling the government now -> Sunday went to jail for 5 minutes for attempting “peaceful” world domination, don’t worry we (Gallagher) forgave him -> Sunday’s stepping down as CEO to run a coffeeshop idk look someone get him some therapy -> Robin is president now while she still goes on tours -> Misha won an engineering competition while this was all going on
Bottom line: Robin is out living her best life while Sunday is in the back somehow having the most insane week of his life. I have no other notes for her here except that she is happy, and successful, and is Sunday’s last remaining brain cell. She and Misha are having some fun Aunt/Nephew bonding times while Galladay are accidentally-on-purpose committing multiple war crimes.
No, we don’t have time to unpack 2.2 and all its trauma, we cope with modern AU :)
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