#didability

[sagegreenyaps]

Okay, nothing makes me go from agreeing with somebody to gritting my teeth at somebody faster than proud expressions of casual ableism.

And I fucking hate that nobody else is acknowledging the ableism either, at least, not in a way that condemns it.

Leaving your partner because you can't communicate politics with them, especially if you feel threatened by the policies they endorse, is agreeable. Outing said partner's disabled family members to the government so that they lose their means to live is NOT FUCKING OKAY.

Stop fucking stooping to people's levels like this. Actually, as a friend just said, this isn't stooping; this is grabbing hold of a shovel and digging several floors lower.

This is Not Fucking Cute!

Women are getting rid of their Trump supporting partners while they still legally can since they clearly don't give a shit about them or any other woman.

If you're thinking about getting a divorce, you should do it while you still can.

[macyhaven]

Supporting the disabled community means supporting people who are unable to work as well as those unable to get on disability

Saying "get a job" is literally conservative propaganda

Being lazy is a fucking myth

[leolaroot]

tshirt that says i enjoy overdramatic and slightly silly science fiction but sincerity is a must at all times.

[ididit-allofit-foryou]

Chronic Illness Products: Tried and Tested by a Fellow Spoonie

Hey! I’m Rain, and I have various chronic illnesses and disabilities, including: POTS, chronic migraine, chronic pain, and chronic fatigue. The following products are some that have helped me with my symptoms!

Migraine Ice Head Wrap

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09BN7TV6N/?coliid=I2CB88I8424KRB&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

This is great because it can be either heated in the microwave or cooled in the freezer. It has gel in it and it is heavy so it puts a little pressure on your head. It also has velcro closure so it can be adjusted for head size and pressure. You don’t even have to put it in the freezer if you like it cold, because if you keep it at room temperature (my house is usually between 68-71 degrees F) it will get cold by itself and it can help for a while, about 10 minutes before it gets warmed by your body heat.

Monthly Pill Organizer

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09V53JTM6/?coliid=I2IBUBXDTRNU36&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

I hated having to refill my pill box every week, so I got 2 monthly organizers and use one for morning and one for night, and I only have to fill it once a month! I like this band because it is easy to open and each week comes out by itself so if you travel you can take just one week with you. I also like that they are all in a case and it closes for safe keeping.

Bed Tent

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07T4JV6ZT/?coliid=I33UE149JTQBTG&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

This is more expensive, but it is absolutely worth it if you have migraines. It has 6 zippers: one on each side, one on each end, and the top part of each end flap has a second zipper that opens a mesh area if you want air or light. You can close it entirely, and it makes it dark even in daylight, but it is still breathable and not stifling. There is also a pocket at one end that can hold a TON of stuff. I keep snacks and things in there for easy access. Finally, there is a little circle hook on the top where you can hang a camping fan or light if you want!

Cooling Neck and Head Towel

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JH4H5AS/?coliid=I3L6Z4MFFV2IK1&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

There’s a few different brands of these, and I couldn’t find the exact one I have, but any will work! My brother used this brand for when he played sports–I use mine to cool my neck when I’m nauseous lol. It stays cold for longer than just a regular rag and the water doesn't get everywhere.

Neck Pillow

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MQ416CR/?coliid=I34LO7QKQ5H4Z&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

Simple, yet effective. If you have POTS or any other condition that makes it hard to sit up for long periods of time, or a condition where you have neck weakness/pain, then this is for you. Riding in a car? Recline that seat a bit and put on a neck pillow. 10/10 much better car experience.

Cane With Seat

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DPOOCC0/?coliid=I133WRLIWPH40D&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

I have POTS, and I use a wheelchair for most places that require walking, but a lot of areas where I live are not wheelchair-accessible. So, I use this! If I feel dizzy, I can just open the seat and sit down for a bit until by body chills the fuck out.

Electric Toothbrush

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08LJNZW3Y/?coliid=I189MT1VEIKUTZ&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

It doesn’t have to be this kind, but since I can’t stand long enough to brush my teeth very long (or at all some days), I use an electric toothbrush to get a better clean in a shorter amount of time. They cost a bit more, but less than a cavity filling.

Shower Chair

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07NM77DJ2/?coliid=I1SRRBS7ISI3E1&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

If you feel dizzy in the shower, or can’t stand very long due to pain, or for whatever reason, and are considering getting a shower chair, this is your sign to do it!! It has helped me so much and makes showering SO much easier and way less daunting.

Bath Pillow

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B9WG925R/?coliid=I1C4T2MUPR33WU&colid=OPCCR26R0SR4&psc=1&ref_=list_c_wl_lv_ov_lig_dp_it

I have chronic pain and laying in the bathtub in warm water can help with it, but it also hurt my neck to lay on the hard surface. Not anymore! I’ve also seen full-body bath pillows that would be GREAT but I don’t have anywhere to store it. For this one, I just keep it in the tub all the time.

That’s all I could think of at the moment, but I will reblog this with more items if I think of any! Feel free to add to this list yourselves!

[moderatetoaboveaverage]

If i ever get hold of DOT officials who decided to start ripping up the bus stop benches in my city, I am going to tear them apart with my teeth.

[getgored]

hi!  I am desperately in need for help. I need my insulin to bring my blood sugar back down. It’s $300 That’s all I need. I’m not asking for a windfall, just a little help, please.

Be blessed 💓🙏🙏💓

            DONATE AND SHARE.

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[sparkleyiff]

Not sure if I'll be doing anything more for artfight this year I am. suffering. sorry :(

[choixsimple]

I'm basically done planning our honeymoon which is a three week trip to Japan (!!!!!) and I'm genuinely so proud of myself, I did it basically alone (I love my partner but he is not a planner) and I budgeted so well considering we've been saving for this for two years and the flights alone are $2.1k 🥹

For 20 days of hotels, train tickets, admission to temples/museums, airfare, and a cooking class (so everything except food and souvenirs) it's going to cost us US$5,800 (total, for both of us) which is still the most amount of money I have ever and probably will ever spend BUT it's cheaper than I thought it would be for three whole weeks!! And we saved up vacation time so we'll get our normal paychecks while we're gone which is insane!!

Also I love sharing so if anyone wants our itinerary (which includes a budget breakdown) lmk, it's not as jam-packed as some itineraries I've seen online because I'm disabled so I tried to keep it somewhat manageable! We added several overnights and day trips to some somewhat off the beaten path areas to get some more culture and nature in too, and we tried to avoid the most popular temples in Kyoto (since it's usually crowded in November) so that hopefully we won't be overrun and overstimulated constantly due to crowds.

[oetscop]

are u fr...

[emulation-0]

blocked jjk leaks until friday cuz theres so many but one thing ill say is that the one eyed gojo theory never would have worked because gege hates writing disabled characters lol

[clinically-kitty]

Yknow what is privilege? Assuming everyone saying they need a mental health break from all this are just trying to avoid getting a little bummed out for extended periods of time.

Well like the last post I reblogged… yeah. Shut up lol. Some peoples mental health issues are actually too severe to be able to manage both.

[autisticlee]

I started with posting about my autistic experience on twitter, reading posts on there, and interacting with people there.

then twitter got unbearable, so I moved back here and made a new account and side blogs to mirror twitter and lurk in the tags.

i've noticed a difference between autism twitter and autism tumblr from the big algorithm-controlled posts I usually see:

autism twitter makes me feel like i'm not allowed to say autism disables me or causes problems in life

while autism tumblr makes me feel like i'm not allowed to feel positively about being autistic and can only see it as a struggling disability.

the contrast makes me dizzy 😵‍💫 it's like no one wants to see the perspective of other people when we are all different. each side wants their narrative to be the told one.

[alex2xander]

Had my first physical therapy assessment since my knee surgery for chronic internal damage, I cried from the pain of bending my knee past 63 degrees.

To my fellow pain mutuals, I love you. I'm thinking of you all. I'm reading your stories while going through this.

[empowered-together]

A significant other, a parent, siblings, or a friend isn't a 'hero' for helping to take care of a disabled person.

Similarly, a disabled person isn't 'miraculous,' or 'an inspiration,' for simply existing.

[onepeaceman]

The worst part is this 15mil people who didn't vote and many of THEM are also telling us to stay alive

Ok. Give us your money

Because you don't have the good will or good sense to use it properly anyway

You want us to fight for a better world?

Give us the resources to do so

Or shut the fuck up with your platitudes

you know shits bad when every post you see is "its gonna be okay" "please dont kill yourself" "we can get through this"

why does it feel like i should hold a funeral for the country i live in

[venussbeehive]

I need a job i need to learn to drive and i need to FUCK