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Understanding and Nurturing a Child's Attention Span
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Understanding and nurturing a child's attention span is crucial for their cognitive development and academic success. Attention span refers to the amount of time a person can focus on a task without being easily distracted.
Here are some insights and strategies to help unlock the secrets of a child's attention span:
Understanding Attention Span in Children:
1. Age-Related Differences:
a. Younger children generally have shorter attention spans than older children.
b. Preschoolers may have an attention span of 2-5 minutes per year of age.
2. Individual Variations: Attention spans vary from child to child. What works for one may not work for another.
3. Developmental Stages: Attention spans develop gradually over time as children grow and mature.
4. External Factors: Distractions, lack of sleep, hunger, or discomfort can significantly impact attention.
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#attention span#Babylist welcome box#developmental skills#improve focus and attention#inspirational quotes#language development early childhood#positive quotes#social development for preschoolers
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I was 34 years old when I learned a person is "supposed" to dry off with a towel while still inside the shower, and not, as i have been doing, just step out of the shower completely sopping wet, wrap ones body in a towel like they do in the movies and then stomp around the house like that, leaving a massive droplet trail
all my life, my loved ones have made comments about me being visibly dripping wet and leaving water all around me when ive just left the shower. but i neatly folded away all those remarks under the category of "literally true observation with no covert meaning" and never thought anything of it.
until someone finally suggested i try a different post shower strat, and demonstrated it to me, 34 years in.
#research shows autistics continue to gain skills at later ages than nts!#developmental disability means shit takes time baby!
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My mom is always like "you were suchhh an easy kid compared to your brothers, you didn't even cry the first night home from the hospital it was so weird. I never had to worry about you since I knew you could handle yourself" meanwhile I as a kid always felt like
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#its also funny bc then she acts surprised when i dont know how to do things#'i learned how to drive at 14' okay well you didnt teach me#'my friends taught me' okay well i didnt have friends because my social skills fucking sucked.#at this point i know its on me that i let my anxiety control my life im not even blaming that on her#sibce i am an adult capable of making changes#since*#but when she says stuff like this it makes my eye twitch#i try not to resent my brothers (esp my younger brother) for this#but kinda sucks they got more attentiveness to their developmental issues than i did#two younger brothers on the spectrum and older brother with speech issues and dyslexia#i started anti anxiety meds in senior year of high school but thats it. and wasnt bc of her noticing my anxiety disorder#personal#also i know people usually reply these things trying to be encouraging but i dont really like when others talk badly about my mom#so dont do that please
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Voice sounds so weird after losing most words, sounds “baby” voice and babbling, hate using voice because of it, most words are echolalia, short one or two word sentences, I wouldn’t call myself semi verbal anymore, I would call myself minimally verbal or non verbal, still waiting on getting my aac a case next week so I can take it outside house, using mouth talk is so exhausting
#high support needs autism#severely disabled#aac user#minimally verbal#developmental disabilities#nonverbal#skill regression
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either foot works
#poll#polls#tumblr polls#pollblr#augmented polls#neurodivergent#autism#balance#coordination#gross motor skills#motor skills#dcd#developmental coordination disorder#dyspraxia#autistic#actually autistic#dancer#dance#balance beam#gymnastics
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Speaking of. Ted Lasso truly does have some of the worst kid dialogue I’ve ever seen on television. Like when 9 year old Phoebe was like “it’s understandable. You were only together a year, and most relationships can’t even survive one major career change, let alone two.” have you never met a child in your entire life
#oc#I get that Phoebe is supposed to be precocious and weirdly smart but like#no 9 year old (not even the smartest 9 year old in the world) is capable of that level of emotional maturity and wisdom#to formulate a thought like that you need life experience and social-emotional skills that no child has#a year is over 10% of her entire lifespan wdym ‘you were only together a year’. a year is an ETERNITY to a little kid#and I know it’s a joke but as an ed student bad kid dialogue is just my pet peeve#watching a comedy like ‘she is not fucking developmentally capable of that’
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#halloween#kindness#children#nonverbal#poor fine motor skills#allergies#autism#sensory processing disorder#developmentally delayed#thank you#sensitive#patient#understanding
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Arthur and Lucius run into each other at The Leaky Cauldron. What begins as their usual bitching sesh gradually turns into them challenging each other to a drinking game. Which escalates to them becoming incredibly drunk. They play beer pong. Arthur gives Lucius a slurred lecture on the function of a rubber duck. At some point in the evening, Lucius ends up wearing Arthur's glasses. They buy weed off some dodgy bloke in an alley. Arthur gives Lucius a "driving test" in the Ford Anglina and they end up in a ditch.
The next morning, someone from the ministry is sent to bail them out of the police station. The weed hasn't worn off yet. Arthur is still babbling on about ducks and how nonsensical it is to have one in your bath. Lucius has the munchies and has been chewing on his own sleeve for the last six hours.
Send me HP headcanons that would piss JK off. The gayer, the better.
"Did you know......that some Muggles...put little ducks in their baths?"
"They bathe with ducks? Wouldn't that make a *hiccup* mess?"
"Noooo, they're rubber ducks. Tiny rubber ducks that just.......bob along the surface of the water. And they squeak."
"But what do they do? What's the pra....the practi.....the practically....what's the point?"
"That's the thing. There is no point. They just have them there for fun."
"Oh my GOD."
#hp#ferret replies#headcanons#fun fact#rubber ducks were made to help kids developmental skills in water#and can help kids who are scared of water#someone tell Arthur#arthur weasley#lucius malfoy#this is amazing btw
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Learning social skills as an adult because you didn't learn them as a child feels like having to guess how to put together a puzzle, like having no picture of what the puzzle looks, having no idea what shape the puzzle is, etc. and yet also having to guess what shape the puzzle pieces are and having to make those puzzle pieces yourself, and if you don't make the puzzle pieces the right shape, then you get yelled at
#social skills#trauma#developmental trauma#traumatic experience#bpd#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#learning social skills as an adult#trauma victim#emotional trauma
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Cooking Part 4: How Do I Avoid Cutting Myself and How Do I Chop Efficiently if I Have Fine Motor Challenges?
When you chop things, hold your non-dominant hand the way chefs do, as pictured below.
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Chefs curl the fingers of their non-dominant hand so that the farthest away bones of their fingers are straight up and down, perpendicular to the cutting board. The side of the knife touches the fingernail side of their fingers. When the chef’s fingers are not flat on the cutting board, they are not in the path of a knife that slips.
If you hold your non-dominant hand in an arch with your fingers straight up and down, and you practice cooking for many, many, hours, you will eventually be able to chop faster. If you hold your hand incorrect way that most home cooks hold their hand, with their fingers almost flat as pictured below, it will not be as safe to chop faster.
Cheers,
Julia
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#neurodivergence#neurodiversity#non-verbal learning disorder#non-verbal learning disability#autism#learning disability#fine motor skills#learning disorder#cooking#dyspraxia#developmental coordination disorder
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I think it's funny that people took the word "parallel play" and declared its a neurodivergent thing. no it's a child development thing I'm pretty sure most adults understand the concept of "comfortable silence" and "wanting company while I do things, but not necessarily wanting to talk'
#parallel play is when children play separately in silence and is most common in younger children because most of them eventually move on to#playing together collaboratively#but just because a child develops social skills and awareness and starts to involve others in play doesnt mean they STOP parallel play#and also. as an adult youre not like being assessed on whether youre including your classmates in playing blocks#like its unusual for older children to not include peers in their activities. THAT part is the autism part#its not like developmentally unusual for adults to have things they do separately but in the same room/environment/etc even silently#cause youre not. Playing. like including your adult friend in your work tasks or your twittet scrolling or your book reading isnt a#developmental milestone#idk i saw someone being like 'i love doing parallel play with my husband and doing my own thing while he does his i cant believe NTs feel#the need to talk to their partners every time they're around' and im like oh my god get off ~neurospicy~ twitter
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Autism levels can be so dumb sometimes. Like I get why they're necessary for some people, but also
Level 2= okayish masking skills, mid-support needs, being mostly verbal, and high/average cognitive skills, right?
Except I'm level 2 and can't mask, need help with at least 95% of things but probably more, aren't fully verbal if verbal at all most of the time, and my cognitive skills seesaw between advanced and barely existent.
Despite all this I'm not autistic enough to be level 3. Levels don't help me, they hurt me by associating me with people way more advanced and therefore losing me the few, few help I would get.
I have level 1, 2, and 3 friends and I'm none of them, which is why I'm level 2, but it doesn't work.
#autism#actually autistic#disabled#disability#developmental disabilities#disabilties#autism life#autism level 2#autism levels#high support needs#autistic masking#i can't mask#cognitive skills
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10 Educational Activities for Toddlers: Making Learning Fun
Photo by Brett Sayles on Pexels.com Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, gather ’round! Prepare to embark on a wildly entertaining journey into the world of education for the tiniest scholars. We present to you, with a dash of humor and a sprinkle of silliness, the top 10 educational activities for toddlers that will have them giggling their way to knowledge! Sensory Play: Get ready to squish,…
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#art and crafts#childhood education#cooking#counting games#creativity#developmental milestones#early learning#educational activities#fine motor skills#Imagination#mathematics#music and movement#nature walks#outdoor learning#problem-solving#puzzles#sensory exploration#sensory play#storytelling#toddlers
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…the difference between me and my allo friend… she already has a friendship with her crush. Her crush jokes and texts and visits her back. He’s even hugged her. And if he isn’t attracted to her back, she’ll throw all that away. Is there ANY consideration for his feelings at all?!
While me? I will rip out my own heart by keeping my distance if that’s what would be needed from me—because of a lack of interest, or because things are just complicated; there isn’t a lack of interest back. The opposite, apparently. There’s an Old Guilt about Yet Again feeling unable to reciprocate back the way they wish to…when this whole time all I’ve wanted was to try and find a middle ground. I will aggressively and persistently defend the right to JUST friendship and gently but firmly tell everyone to Leave It Alone, Stay Out Of It, Don’t Pressure EITHER Of Us. Because actual trust and respect and building a solid friendship at whatever level the other person either wants or can offer back…that means more to me than “I’m romantically attracted to this person emotionally and if they feel the same way I’d be open to exploring that with them at whatever point in the future.”
I…dunno. Maybe it’s just the difference between allosexuals and asexuals. Or Lust/Infatuation and alterous/queer platonic attraction. I won’t claim that I’m immune to limerence because…I’m not. But the kind I experience isn’t built upon The Idea of a person and what they look like…but my brain refusing to not get hyperfixated on someone and struggling to pry its jaws open to Let It GO, and…hope, I guess. Hope to finally actually be accepted and not containing myself so tightly inside.
Who someone actually is, if we have a spark of a platonic rapport (over QPR or romantic), matters more to me than an Idea of them, how they look, etc.
And it’s hard to not feel exasperated with apparently…this isn’t how people experience things. I’m always worrying my desire for a connection is too heavy and ultimately selfish. Even as…I really Don’t Care what sort of relationship I have, I just want to discover what it is and fortify it then privately compartmentalize anything leftover. While the majority of people…really don’t take someone’s feelings into consideration at all. It’s only how they feel and how the object of their attraction makes them feel.
…how am I supposed to not feel completely furious about this utter objectification regardless of someone’s gender and sexuality being considered the Acceptable Norm.
Especially when I have always had to fight so damn hard to even have friends and platonic intimacy with friends. Forget when I do have “extra” platonic attraction at play as well.
#tiger’s roar#don’t mind me. it’s just ANGY Ace Time#and I DO have the respect and care and dare I say it affection and attraction more or less returned#but like. I had to fight SO FUCKING HARD for it#harder than anyone else would’ve bothered to#…but the draw just Wouldn’t Go Away and the Draw even existed at all because they ARE someone who’s acted like they yearn for that too#that they are kind. and accept me. and have similar/same interests and to some degree a similar sense of humor#the tension…is circumstances. and misunderstandings for like. 2.5 years. but I think I FINALLY got those resolved#because…I am. stubborn like that. if I’m not told No each time I Check For A No. if I can accept I’m Not A Bother#then…yeah. I’m gonna put energy into exploring for a middle ground and defending the right to friendship and understanding/accepting#in addition to the selfwork I’m going to keep on doing. for my own healing. my own future self.#but especially when it might/is affecting other people#’iT’s nOT tHAT dEEP TiGER!!’ okay but LISTEN. I have A LOT of trauma to resolve and yearning for connection to deal with#and social skills to be stuck practicing very much delayed because my developmental environment STUNTED them#but the pain of Not Dealing With It is poisoning me so…I HAVE to deal with the extreme distress of taking that on#so…yeah. it IS That Deep to me#and when people just…take the friendships they already have for granted… BRUH.
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