#demiromantic things

[avese23]

Meeeeeeee

#Aziraphale didn’t know he was starving for Crowley’s love until he tasted him.

[justdavina]

Dakota Kühn: My first memories were of me cross-dressing. I’ve even seen photos that are so old I can’t remember them and there I am in a dress or frilly skirt. I guess I paused it during my teenage years due to social pressure, but I still wore makeup and girls clothes. Just not dresses and things that were super fem. I started going full fem around the age of 26, which was in 2014.

[phrysic]

happy pride month but im ace so everyone in spn is on the ace/aro spec now

[fizpup]

valentine, you're a horse ❤️

[sunwhispers]

you see the thing is i physically can't

i love having crushes actually it's so fun esp when you don't let it consume you and u just take the feeling as it is it feels so light and sugary and i smile on my way back home after the long day isn't that how it's supposed to be

[mayahawkeswife]

i think people really do lack the understanding of just how much representation matters.

like, chappell roan. not only is she an out and proud LESBIAN, but i just saw a interview where she opens up about how she is also demisexual. that truly struck a chord with me personally, because i’ve been struggling with figuring myself out in those terms and just hearing someone talk about it, knowing i’m not alone in my feelings and that it’s okay, really does help.

representation MATTERS. DIVERSE representation matters.

[professional-writher]

How life has felt after I got over my deeply internalized aphobia and allowed myself to finally be myself

[infizero-draws]

i made this little thing sort of outlining how i view grian's sexuality since i have very particular ideas about this aspect of him that i can never really attribute to one specific label. in case u were wondering LOL

[aromanticmina]

do you love the colors of the arospec?

which ones?

[ruenii]

Bingge just needs a friend honestly

AKA: how Bingge found out he was demiromantic because of a fuckass ghost

I think that Bingge wouldnt instantly love Shen Yuan. He still thinks that he loves Shen Qingqiu, his Shizun, Shen Jiu. I dont think he can differentiate romantic or platonic love at all and mistakes his obsession and unhealthy attachment to SQQ as romantic love because thats the only kind of love that was continuously shown to him.

So he likes the idea of that nice Shen Qingqiu because he wants his OG SQQ to like him back. To show him that gentleness and just wants to get that approval for once. Sort of like a toxic father or parental guardian with an abused kid yknow?

So after that Bing-mei va Bingge extra he sulks and stews in his anger for a while, his harem is getting a bit scared since he’s quick to lose his temper now, or even worse, he would just disassociate out in the Palace Gardens for hours and hours at a time.

And here comes our number 1# loser Shen Yuan, who, due to a System Error, transmigrates in a ghostly form in post PIDW. He’s obviously star struck because now he can see the story progresses!! For real this time!!!

But why is it so gloomy? Why are the wives not going to Binghe? Last time he checked, only Ning YingYing, Sha Hualing, and Liu Mingyan visited Binghe and it certainly wasnt as often.

Was the Palace ever this lonely?

Shen Yuan eventually befriends Bingge and they slowly start to become friends, maybe the first time in a long while for Binghe. Bingge doesnt catch feelings immediately, no, he’s still hung up on that Shizun from the other world. But Shen Yuan is a good friend, Binghe thinks. He’s never had friends before, and it feels nice to have someone who wants be with you just because.

A conflict that would arise would be Binghe accidentally just using SY as a rebound, and SY gets rightfully pissed!!

Thats the first argument they had that resulted in SY not showing up for a couple days, which leaves LBH again with his wives, and this.. too big Palace.

(Also SY was just hiding in the Gardens and exploring the hellish landscape LOL)

When they reconcile, thats the first time Shen Yuan sees Binghe cry. Bingge didnt want to lose his only friend, his stupid A-Yuan who keeps ranting about horrible books but keeps on hate reading said books and his too big of a stubborn heart.

Luo Binghe falls slowly, taking the time to get to know his A-Yuan. And, at this point, maybe he didn’t need Shizun… no, he didnt need Shizun anymore.

He found happiness where Shen Yuan is, and where his most trusted ones are. Bingge cries like hes a child that grew up too fast, it was raw and it was so hoarse, and it hurts Shen Yuan.

It’ll take time, but they’ll start to actually date once when Bingge starts taking his feelings and himself into account for one.

For now, they don’t need to say I love you prove it.

(TLDR; local demon lord just needed a friend to taste his cooking with and to rant about stupid demon politics)

[shynetyme06]

They’re wearing the colors of each other’s pride flags guyssssss

Omni belongs to cereusblue, and pj by 7goodangel :3

[oceanwithouthermoon]

if anything I think hairo is closer to being canonically aroace than saiki is

specifically because of his line of not feeling that way with anyone

definitely definitely 💯 him being unsure of his sexuality because hes never been attracted to anyone before is just jenskskakskska i love him, and you can interpret that in SO many ways, but yeah hes wayyy closer to canon aroace than saiki is.

[i-dont-talk-for-days-on-end]

I just became very explicitly aware that my life is ruled by neither the forces of sexuality nor of romance, and that most people apparently consider that unusual.

[newlullabies]

Crochet Pride Stegosaurus Plushies by MyQueerGifts on Etsy

[fumifooms]

I’ve been seeing a lot of people shit on straight couples in shipping and in general as a "joke" lately, particularly in the Dungeon Meshi fandom. Friendly reminder that, besides the evil straights, when you mock or put down straight couples for being straight/"not queer enough", you also make bi and pan people, and trans and ace people who experience hetero attraction feel unwelcome and lesser. Negativity hurts, love is love, happy valentine’s!

[beanghostprincess]

Josuke being the single gay aroace cousin™ of the Joestars might actually be my favorite thing about him. I wish I were him, actually. Bloodline keeps going so no need for romance or kids. Only money from deadbeat dad and nepobabyism. Mr.Gucci-Vogue-LouisVuitton-Prada-Chanel-Balenciaga-RalphLauren-Versace-Armani-Moschino-Dior. His mom's like "are you not going to have kids or get married" and he's like "I'd rather wear thrifted clothes than dating". He actually lives with Okuyasu and everyone thinks they're dating and please don't ask them because they don't know either but what they do know is that Josuke has a flight the next day to go to Italy because his modeling agency asked him to go and Okuyasu is having a breakdown because "what if you like their cooking more than mine" and Josuke won't stop rolling his eyes and going "they could never be better than you" and then he comes back with a thousand of millions of bags saying he did "a little shopping over there" and half of the bags are just shoes.