#decora choker

[miroyuuu]

This decora lovecore choker is up for sale on my Etsy shop!

[toastedstims]

A goth scene stimboard for anon!!

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[gateway-2000]

happy new year!! we have a lot of new stuff coming to our store and are trying out lots of new things! ^ _ ^ as always, more on the way soon!

if you're interested in helping, we're a schizophrenic dissociative trans cripple who is facing eviction in winter and is struggling to keep up with rent & bills due to only making $245/month from the government while i apply for disability. i am also recovering from a broken leg & domestic violence, any help is greatly appreciated =)

[manriah]

❤️⛓️🧡⛓️💛🙂 $25 Kandi Chain Chokers 🙂 💚⛓️💙⛓️💜

[xanderisbraindead]

How to get the confidence to dress alternative in public: LONG POST {from a scene king!!}

I hear a lot of young teens online saying things along the lines of, “I would love to dress like that but I’m scared”. We’ve all been there, it takes bravery to step outside the box. Since 2020, there has been an uptick in alternative fashion, which makes things a little better, but it doesn’t mitigate the fear some people feel.

As someone who has been dressing alternative all throughout highschool and who I’d like to think has some 17 year old wisdom, this is how you can get the confidence to dress how you want. This can apply to other alternative fashion types like decora, punk, goth ect ect.

This post goes with a youtube video!! You can just watch it if you dont wanna read

Realize why you’re scared: Is it because you’re afraid of being different or picked on? Are you afraid of change? Do you think your friends/peers won’t care about you anymore? These are all valid reasons, and once you know why, you can start to tackle it. Change isn’t bad, everyone changes, change is natural. Look around at nature, seasons change, we grow and age, animals migrate and go through metamorphosis. You don’t have to be confined to one thing forever just because you weren’t born that way. As for the fear of being picked on, fuck those people. Do you know why people tease others? It’s because they’re insecure. Hurt people hurt people. When people see you being yourself and they wish they could do that, they take it out on you because in their heart, they’re jealous. You’re not the problem, they are. (If you’re afraid of being physically hurt, that is completely different and I would not advise putting your safety in jeopardy)

Start slow. While you’re still building your wardrobe, you can start slowly stepping out with small accessories and such. Add some kandi to your outfit or a tattoo choker. This is mainly to ease yourself into it. Big changes can be pretty scary and jarring, so easing into it can help you.

Have some role models. By this I mean, have people you look up to, people that are inspiration to you. Me? Some of mine here on tumblr are @xx-may4-malic3-xx , @xx-k1tsun3-k1d-xx , @xxdespairfactionashtonxx , @cigsnvalentines to name a few. Theres also some old scene queens, musicians, ect. Find whoever you want. I’m reccomending this, because when you see other people doing the same as you, it makes you go “if they can do it, so can I”. Most people probably wont even mind if you send them an ask about specific things (ik i dont, i love them).

Kinda the same point, but build a community. We have a pretty good community here on tumblr. Community is the backbone to everything. Ideally it would be someone irl, but not everyone is lucky enough to have cool irl friendz.

Fake it till you make it. Nobody has to know you’re scared but you. I’m not saying get super extroverted if you’re introverted and go around exuding confidence like a lazar beam. Dance in your mirror, hype yourself up. Take cool pictures and edit them, even if you don’t post them online. Learn to walk with your head up, again SLOWLY. As you start introducing more alternative elements into your wardrobe, wear them with pride.

Be the change you want to see. What I mean is if you want people to be kinder, you be kinder. Try to compliment someone every day. People actually aren’t as rude as you think, maybe I’m an optimist, but I think the average person isn’t terrible. Complimenting other people also makes you feel good, try it. Piggybacking off this point, don’t take things so personally. I know if can be easier to harp on the negative looks and comments you got versus the good ones, but you have to look past this. There are gonna be bad apples always, but their misdeeds can blind you from the people who think you’re pretty cool. Don’t let one bad apple ruin the bunch.

Lastly, realize being cringe is okay. Not just realize it, but internalize it. What even is cringe? Define cringe… Weird? Different? Everyone is different, everyone is weird about something. As I said earlier, some people are just too scared to be themselves. In 80 years when you’re old and looking back on your life, would you rather regret not being your authentic self, or think of all the fond memories of your life? Regret is one of the worse things in life, it’s terrible. There is nobody you can be but yourself. You’re you, so be you.

Remember that this is something that can take months or years. I feel like this past year and a half I have become fully confident in my fashion. I have been dressing alternative for 5 years for reference. I hope this could help someone.

If I wasnt clear on anything, feel free to send me an ask! Im more than happy to help!!

[angelcakesimmer]

🌟Leela Ho🌟

A Gyaru Lookbook

✨Look One✨

Hair - https://www.patreon.com/posts/gigglecoffin-2-91486419

Clips - https://www.patreon.com/posts/rottenmothboy-74856370

Earrings - https://www.patreon.com/posts/honey-nebula-set-53815711

Choker - https://www.patreon.com/posts/79517360

Lollipop (+Candy in Other Looks) - https://simfileshare.net/folder/201449/

Top - https://www.patreon.com/posts/b0t0xbrat-in-64688022

Pants - https://www.patreon.com/posts/lovecore-ea-62463927

Shoes - https://www.patreon.com/posts/mmsims-af-shoes-51996760

Fishnets - https://www.patreon.com/posts/peach-amelia-53579451

Gloves - https://www.patreon.com/posts/sentate-x-2020-44080297

Nails - https://sssvitlanz.tumblr.com/post/679835226188513280/oppasims-new-cc-alert-oppasims-uzu-7000

Rings - https://www.patreon.com/posts/79136545

Bracelets - (LEFT) https://www.patreon.com/posts/decora-part-2-13-81432972 // (RIGHT) https://www.patreon.com/posts/ganguro-set-63761863

✨LOOK 2✨

Hair - https://www.patreon.com/posts/gigglecoffin-yen-80407888

Earrings - https://www.patreon.com/posts/jealous-star-83803529

Necklace - https://www.patreon.com/posts/venus-heart-63771457

Top - https://www.patreon.com/posts/63131067

Skirt - https://www.patreon.com/posts/yumiko-set-68267772

Shoes - https://www.patreon.com/posts/flip-flops-85953493

Leg Warmers - https://blogsimplesimmer.tumblr.com/post/153926180755/followers-gift-2-part-1-hello-everyone-this-is

Arm Warmers - https://www.patreon.com/posts/euphoria-33-64185964

Fishnets - https://www.thesimsresource.com/downloads/details/category/sims4-accessories-female-leggings/title/sporty-fishnet-tights/id/1393461/

Nails - https://www.patreon.com/posts/star-collection-97021951

Garter - https://emilyccfinds.tumblr.com/post/614913041695440896/norepi-set-sfs-mega-my-vacation-away-from

Rings - https://www.patreon.com/posts/sweetheart-rings-57093045

✨LOOK 3✨

Hair - https://www.patreon.com/posts/jellyfish-hair-78800033

Earmuffs - https://www.patreon.com/posts/starry-earmuffs-93635900

Earrings & Necklace - https://www.patreon.com/posts/star-jewelry-set-93330769

Top - https://www.patreon.com/posts/valley-girls-cc-61087177?l=es

Bottoms - https://www.patreon.com/posts/venus-heart-63771457

Shoes - https://www.patreon.com/posts/star-collection-96433345

Socks - (Couldn't find, will update later)

Nails - https://www.patreon.com/posts/hello-kitty-set-64403657?utm_medium=social&utm_source=pinterest&utm_campaign=postshare&epik=dj0yJnU9UllxVUloeGdRX2NQY28xcmFISk1nYjhMRmNPRHBzVGgmcD0wJm49cE9LZ3lEMm1SeFZZTW5ISzdZZ09tUSZ0PUFBQUFBR1hheTZv

Garters - https://www.patreon.com/posts/kawaii-garters-61229193

Rings - https://www.thesimsresource.com/downloads/details/category/sims4-accessories-female-rings/title/cheria-rings/id/1349235/

🌟Enjoy🌟

(Can't help the low full-body pic quality... I have an old computer, will do a bust CC list for each some time later)

[cishetlessfashion]

Masc/andro rainbow kidcore goth nonbinary fashion with it/fae/xo pronouns and spikes for @nothing-if-not-unusual Decora spider charm Rainbow spiked bracelet Inverted cross pastel rainbow sweater Rainbow belt chain Rainbow and black spiked choker Frosting bat ita bag Rainbow bat enamel pin Sprinkle dolls head brooch or necklace Candy gore shirts It its moth pronoun pin

[hana-the-ghostieee]

somehow out of my four ruikasa posts i managed to add bus-chan to half of them sooo

this was bound to happen. anyways. i have here. a wondershow-ified bus-chan because yeah. (i showed the whole outfit sketch to a close artist friend of mine, they were like. "yeah, just take the most jirai kei girl you can find. put them in decora fashion, the brightest most colorful style known ta MANZ.")

okay im done stalling here's the only sketch i drew of her in this outfit i drew up

i didnt draw the eyes or mouth cuz well. i drew those hands without a reference. i don't draw anime eyes a lot. im lazy and tired eave me alone.

anyways for the outfit!

- a butt ton of (colorful bright) hairclips

- same old bus-chan hairstyle

- choker with angel wings lined in gold

- top referencing shuuten no saki ft. M E G A B O W

- holographic arm warmers

- belt with the shuuten no saki xxx + bunny + wallet chain (just a regular old metal one)

- triple layer purple skirt i guess (texture and color may be subject to change)

- drippy rainbow leg warmers (with fishnet tights underneath)

- and finally. platform shoes with two bows, a mega but not M E G A bow on the front and a small ribbon on the back (you know. where the little loopy is to help you slip the shoe on)

anyways anime eyes

if you're asking about what's going to happen to ruikasa with the addition of bus-chan... better keep that question to yourself i haven't figured that side out yet

okay that's all i'm tired i'll go sleep byeee

(this was actually the first time i drew anime eyes i hope they look okay-ish at least TTT^TTT)

[losergendered]

ID: a set of two images. the first is of nils with a white outline in front of a flag splice of cutes listed identities. the second is a blank flag splice. nils/decora has pink skin and pink hair in two pigtails. fae is wearing pink cat ear headphones, a pink spiked choker, and a strawberry dress. END ID

Nils/Decora, who uses it/cute/doll/fae, is an adorbian, agendercute, agerehoarder, androgyne, autipinkic, babyboypenamic, bespregender, bilesbianarchic, chronipinkic, cinnamogender, cutefluid, decoradearu, decoragender, dousteleuic, duogender, erokawacoric, jirakeifugender, kandistimmic, monsterenergygender, pandrogyne, phostricksmodial, pindollitan, reclaiskyeic, softgirlaesic, squeukandic, superfibellula, tremadoric, twinstargender intersex boygirl with a gender hoard of over 700 labels! It is also an aesthetum, anisic aroace, autflux, byumasexual, gaybian, object-partnering, pan abro lesbian, plushum fae extranth P-DID host! Doll is alderpollint, kin with dolls, Jade Harley, The Little Prince, BMO, Eridan Ampora, Shouko Nishimiya, My Melody, Milk (Sanrio) and Ebony Dark'ness Dementia Raben Way, and has autism, ADHD, BPD, coulrophobia, contamination OCD, dermatillomania, dermatophagia, fluctuating empathy, health anxiety, H-EDS, hyperandrogenism, hypersexuality, IBS, MaDD, NPD, panophobia, POTS, and psychosis! It's an age regressor and has a special interest in Eurovision and extreme horror!

For @ethdamgender !

Picrew (link)

[ferretpup]

rant about circe under cut. i'm so normal about him i promise ( lying )

in my head and heart, circe is a sapphillean who is romantically attracted to woman but not sexually attracted, and both sexually and romantically attracted to men. but more of a non women and non men thing cuz he also likes masc / fem leaning enbies. he also strikes me as not quite romantic romantic attracted to women / non men, but like in a queer platonic dating way. he also fluctuates between being aroace and being allo, and has several squish crushes ( i think that's what they're called ), specifically towards olive and margaret ( who used to be monica and celine ), while having romantic feelings towards almondé.

his relationship with his gender and presentation is "weird" and complex, but he likes it.

he mainly dresses in kogal gyaru fashion as well as trashy y2k, decora, and harajuku. he wants to be an idol but his social anxiety and fear of parasocial behaviors turns him away from it but he gives his coworkers performances sometimes. i imagine his singing voice sounding like LOLUET in his japanese dub and SZA in his regular english voice over ( i say it like this because after the book, i want to make an anime of sorts ). he has a munchkin cat named bonito flake ( bonnie for short ) and he's partially blind ( the cat not circe ) and circe takes really good care of him.

the labels i associated with circe are;

mutt, wolfdog, hyena, boymutt, traumamutt, bat (twink), monachoric, muttfreak, transsexual man, gyaru lesbian, boygirl sapphic, lamb lesbian, sapphboy, catgirl femme lesbian, sapphillean lesboy, sleepy and hopeless romantic sapphic, trans sapphic, cute girl lesbian, lovesick sapphic, sweetheart lesbian, flying lemur, creampuff, shy gentle lesbian, vulture, and rosgenderfaun sorta. probably more, he's a hoarder lol..

he's written to be disordered, but his disorders are left ambiguous other than his very clear depression, social anxiety, extreme paranoia, and uhm.. spirit realm ideations. sorry i'm trying not to drop the s-bomb on y'all..

he really likes animals and feels connected to them, he often likes to wear chokers that look like collars because they make him feel happy, but be brushes it off out of fear of being shunned and ridiculed for being weird.

i'll circle back to this cuz i have a lot more to say.. prepare /silly

[mushroomjar]

[Image Description: A photo of a person wearing a mix of fairy kei and decora fashion. They wear a light purple shirt with many ruffles on the collar and sleeves, the ruffles being various lighter purple, light blue, yellow and light green colors, light blue fingerless gloves with many things glued onto them such as My Melody head plushies, toys, stars, bows, and other candy-shaped accesories, and a pink choker with a big light blue bow with a pink heart on it and a colorful pastel plastic chain hanging from it.

They also wear a pink wig with some light blue strands styled into two big buns. The wig also has tons of hair clips on it, such as bows decked out in their own accesories, a syringe, and a tiara. They carry a white, pastel blue and pink purse in one of their arms. They wear a white face mask, and pastel pink and purple makeup, as well as having stickers on their face such as stars and heart-shaped candy. End Image Description]

[miroyuuu]

This kawaii pastel bunny & bear choker is up for sale on my Etsy shop!

[radikalrags]

Check out this listing I just added to my Poshmark closet: NEW Killstar Seraphina Choker Top Size XXL Black.

[poisontragic]

Blue angelic choker from Poison Tragic

[mediasploshion]

decora fashion is so nice idc if its a pain to draw

[wooteena]

grgrgrgrgrgrgrg i wanna show u the fanart of ranboo tommy and tubbo in the outfits from ur pinterest boards SO BAD but the problem is that the drawngs DONT EXIST. i rlly need to cave and actually spend my paycheck (btw i have a job now lolz) on that art tablet bc trackpad art is so finicky woot omg. anyways heres the outfits im gonna draw them in

(ranboo's is the only one formatted well, and obvs the flag is for the characters :P)

OHH MY GOD THESE ARE SO GOOD???? I LOVE THE BLUE SKELETON GLOVES YOU ADDED FOR TOMMY AND THESE R ALL SO WELL PUT TOGETHER.... PLESE TAKE UR TIME TOOTHPASTE THEYRE GONNA BANG NO MATTER HOW LONG THEY TAKE