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that one neuller pic 🫶🏻
#thomas muller#thomasmuller#fc bayern#german nt#germany#manuel neuer#neuer#manu#neuller#bayern#decade old partners#thommy the ball boy#ucl2013#thomas#müller#thomas müller#manuel
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there’s enough canonical abuse in the loumand relationship as written, you don’t have to make up imaginary hypothetical abuse just bc you prefer loustat
#louis has a spotty memory bc he's 1) 145 years old and 2) is deeply traumatized from decades of abuse from 2 partners#NOT bc armand is constantly erasing chunks of his memory over and over to cover extra secret abuse#he erased the week in ep 5 but literally there is NO evidence that that was a regular thing#in fact it's heavily implied that that was NOT a regular thing and was a very extreme moment#am i saying that armand is not abusive? absolutely not. but lets all focus on what he's ACTUALLY done and not make up stuff#also armand doesn't NEED to use the mind gift. he's very good at regular old gaslighting so lets just focus on that instead of-#making stuff up that ok?#vampterview
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Sephiroth is making my brain FIZZ this is so fun.
First of all, his voice actor in advent children???
The new remake one is excellent but just doesn't capture that same level of terrifying cultured menace. The smug evenness and it's DEEP wow yeah. So smooth. High key petrifying I don't know who he is but he did an outstanding job. That bit where he asks cloud to 'give him the pleasure of taking it away?' like the way his voice lilted up in casual question like good GRIEF that was hot.
Anyway I have another hc: sephiroth would have made an EXCELLENT scientist like his parents, he's certainly got the intellect and hunger for knowledge, not to mention his ability to do research for days on end XD. Supernova actually using astrophysics equations is absolutely fantastic and makes me think that's what he'd major in.
By that logic, he'd want to be in rocket town with the rocket, and he'd most definitely want to go to space himself if it was the last thing he did (ha).
Do you think he'd tie his hair back like his mum?
Anyway I imagine if he hadn't been a soldier and instead been free to choose his own path he'd have been right there the whole time being a child genius and getting into fights with cid about who gets to be the pilot (Co pilots. Co pilots is how it's supposed to work with normal planes never mind things that breach the atmosphere).
Like I understand the amount of redemption/fix it fics that have him be a merc with cloud or whatever but I feel we're ignoring the possibilities stemming from the fact this man canonically knows modern astrophysics and that is absolutely not something you can inherit via way of ancient inhuman semi deceased life form.
#Astrophysicist sephiroth please and thank you#With that AC voice he could recite his equations and I'd thank him#also qq what's with that one audio with sephiroth saying 'good girl' because he doesn't curse so I feel thats either from a different proje#With the same voice actor or like ai or smth.#Yeah so I feel like we're sleeping on the potential bizarre nature of cid and sephiroth being work buddies/rivals#Sephiroth is the one who handles the early stages theories and course plotting#Cid gets out his welder and makes the actual schematics or smth#If it was like an au any visitors would like wtf and cid/seph would be so confused like??? Decade old friends and trusted co pilots banter#And a redemption post canon would be so much tension and weirdness#Sephiroth would be the type to call his project partner at like 3am regardless of the time because he's had an idea.#The only way it'd work is through his determination to Do Physics and everyone else's desperation to keep him away from sharp objects XD#sephiroth#ff7#final fantasy vii#ffvii#ff7 sephiroth#ffvii sephiroth
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Interview with Melanie Hamrick in The Sunday Times (September 21st, 2024)
#…#I think it’s going from ‘hooking up a month or two after his partner died’ to ‘bragging about what an idiot she is’ that really makes it#mick should just stay the hell away from women#that’s been clear for decades#but wow did he take a step down from L’Wren or Bianca or Jerry with this one#(I’m not surprised. he doesn’t like or respect women apart from a select few. so conventionally pretty/young/naive and not especially bright#is the perfect fodder to make him feel like he’s so special and so smart. Keith had him dead to rights when he said Mick is just an#upmarket version of Bill)#the rolling stones#old married band#quote#melanie hamrick#mick jagger#l’wren scott
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also, i'm taking my mom to london for christmas, and we're spending it with my partner's family. but !!! i'm putting together a list of things for us to do together, and i am so heckin' excited because she never got to visit me while i was living there, and now i get to show her what my life looked like and why i loved living there so much. 🥹
#death mention tw#;; just below in the tags#;; my mom's been to london once but it was when i was a kid AND ALSO SHE HASNT BEEN ON A VACATION IN LIKE OVER A DECADE#;; SO I AM DEDICATED TO MAKING THIS SO SPECIAL FOR HER 🥹 especially since it's the first christmas after both of her parents passed away#;; she is really embracing adventures right now and just living and *doing the fucking thing* and i'm so inspired by her#;; and she's already talking about going to norway next summer where the rest of my partner's family lives 🥹 because she's excited about#;; how much i talk it up 😭 bc i also really do love norway like it's my partner's home and it's just BEAUTIFUL TO ME#;; i'm also just so excited to share the wonder that is my mother with my friends 🥹 and my community in my old neighborhood 🥹#;; which . . . since the holidays are coming up i owe one person a box filed with southern goods so i gotta get on mailing that 👀 and#;; writing a letter for one of my community elders who lives in my old neighborhood + thinks we are related which we actually might be??? 👀#♕░░ queen of the summer isles ( LUXX SPEAKING )#;; tbd.
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When you realize Beau and Yasha discussed adopting children after the events of Reunited so not only is Yasha waiting for Beau to come home but possibly so are their children waiting on their mom
#the whole Beau and Caleb being alone during their reconnaissance mission with the grim verity bugged me#because they should totally have contingency plans in case they went silent for too long and that’s what I’m hoping they did#because with the way the nein were so interconnected so cannot tell me even a decade after the campaign#they would not be constantly messaging every one and I’m hoping they did that because if not their fucked and I will kill them for it#also here’s hoping Yasha and Essek charge in pissed off as hell and ready to beat an old man for their partners#currently on c3 ep57 so if we know what happened to all the previous pcs I don’t know as of yet#yasha nydoorin#cr spoilers#critical role#beauregard lionett
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OC RNG stuff.
-Lucinda is engaged to the oldest prince in a family of nine where there are 8 brothers and then the youngest is the only girl. She adores her future husband. -Ink Blot is a really dumb mage who acts as a street performer using fake magic despite being an actual mage. He just wants to be the center of attention. -Ruby and Luce are from the same plot (thank you RNG I love the dream wardens). They're part of different pairs and basically just patrol to keep dreams in check. Ruby and Luce also don't really meet each other in canon. Their routes don't overlap but they both interact with the main duo which is Colette and Marcus. (Ruby wants to beat Marcus up while Luce wants to kiss Marcus for what it matters.)
#i really love luce hes just so calm and collected in front of marcus and colette to try and look reliable#but hes actually one of the younger wardens who is made to replace his partner's old partner#so hes with sil and sil is just watching him for the first decade like why is he so awkward#when will he warm up to me or the other wardens he meets why is he always so tense#and then something happens and luce is sent into a panic because he learns that marcus used to laugh with sil and the retired warden#hes like ???? WHY DOES HE HATE ME ? WHAT DID I DO? and sil is like the guy is older than me and doesnt do change well#thats all there is to it he got used to my old partner and youre a wrench in the comfort zone hell get over it tho#and when marcus laughs for the first time in front of luce it is SO over for luce he would do anything for marcus#but then you get marcus who is telling colette i have to say things took an unexpected turn with sils partner#i went from fine with robert to being abandoned by robert to do you think luce is cute cause i think hes cute#and marcus is very much IM SO GAY which is fair cause colette is like MM YEAH SAME#and then you guys gotta realize i love my silly lil prince group where the oldest bro has a really cool future wife#and then the second oldest is like hey bro im stealing your wife for the afternoon and lucinda is like i see i see#and then the second oldest and lucinda just spend the entire afternoon dancing and shes happy to indulge him#then the third oldest is the original main one where he and the castle witch are on a mission to help another kingdom#but like the fact the oldest has an arranged marriage with a woman he loves#and the second youngest is in love with the son of two castle aids#who happens to be 40 and very worn out with stress from having to turn the second oldest down all the time#then the third oldest has a crush on a prince from the kingdom hes trying to help but the crush is on like an 18 year old#so the 2nd and 3rd oldest are constantly bickering over what the other sees in their crushes#anyway hi i love my ocs (gestures to them)#and ink was a really minor character in the plot bc it was mostly me paying attention to a dumbass vampire#and this thief who had to help the dumb vampire get home bc he has no sense of direction and had been abducted
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christmassy neuller (inspired by a wolfstar fanart I once saw on tumblr and couldn’t find the user to credit so if you happen to know them please tag them here!!)
#neuller#thomas muller#thomasmuller#manuel neuer#neuer#manu#Thomas#thommy-the-ball-boy#christmas#decade-old-partners#fc bayern#german nt#germany#bayern#bundesliga#fc bayern münchen#fanart#silly-fanart#husbands#bayernblr
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Met a really cute chick the other day and she's been texting me all day and seems genuinely interested in what I'm saying and I think she's fun to talk to and I might puke. If I don't see her again in the meantime, I might invite her to go to pride with me on the 22nd or whenever it even is. Still puking, tho
#like. she has a 4 year old. that's the weirdest thing for me thus far.#but she's in the age range i usually end up going for (a little under a decade older than me)#and she seems cool and we have a lot of the same interests and she's tall and very pretty#I'm just waiting to fuck it up#i can be chill around men i find attractive. but not so much women. i always end up looking like an idiot.#and pretty girls simply do not want a cringefail partner as much as they like to tweet about#like hello. didn't you say last tuesday that you want a poor little meow meow to love you? bc that me!#I'm just some pitiful little guy who can't catch a break but will spend their last dime making you feel special#watch me trip and fall over flat surfaces while i tell you how I'd kill a horde of men if it meant saving you from minor inconvenience#ugh. I'm a loser.#but i think being aware of that is the first step in becoming a loser in an endearing way and not just being an embarrassment to humanity
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Re: the so-called friendzone, it would be MUCH easier to date those whose friendship you deeply value if so many people didn't suck so hard at maintaining post-romantic friendships!
#i have absolutely zero hard feelings about the mutually amicable breakup w my first v serious partner who was a close friend of many years#i STILL get hit by flashes of intense unexpected grief bc that convo included both of us saying ''promise we will stay friends''#and i kept that promise and so did he right up until he got married :/#like i get that it can be complex and also people can be weird about it but it doesn't have to BE weird if you choose not to make it so#and also. well meaning and understandable and unforeseeable as it may be. you lied to me bro. :////#anyway sorry for inflicting my maudlin decades old and tbh mostly healed angst upon you all#usually i don't even think about it but once in a rare while it surprises me with how much it fucking stings#sorry maybe i'm missing something but idk why people act like this is sooooo unfeasible. rip to you but i'm different.#and so are several of my OTHER exes FOR THE RECORD#ANYWAY straight woman who fails hard enough at gender to make male friends more easily angst hours i guess#my posts#also#gender stuff
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now if he looked at me like that while we were discussing a case... let's just say I'd be doing some pretty thorough investigations alright 😳😳😳😳
#ash rambles 💚#I FINALLY GOT TO THE POINT IN THE GAME WHERE HE SHOWED UP#(got to k.iwami 2!!!!!)#HES SOOO HANDSOME#MY LOVE MY SILLY DETECTIVE MAN HI HI HI!!!!!!!!#methinks ash is here too teehee! the old detective partners are back on the case! ofc ash quit being a cop more than a decade ago but shhh#its always so cute to me how ash is a fairly serious detective but whenever shes with d.ate or his daughter shes so soft and fun and goofy#sigh.. ily m.akoto d.ate... I'm sure I'll make him official soon#i just love him so much! hes so cool!!!!#and sooo handsome..#my partner in (not) crime 🔍
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comments like this really show you that people definitely fictionalize and fantasize about taylor's life. like to them all her songs are one world that they puzzle together and try to shove each ex into each piece
#also this comment is just fucking weird#inserting her current partners names into a decade old song like it's a fantasy world with a fictional character they write fanfiction abou#i know everyone on my dash is gonna ignore this idc im not deleting it lol#everyone's fantasizing about taylor's life is creepy and mentally concerning
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🐧➡️🔵 unexpected work bonus doubled the past two weeks' salary
🐧⬅️🔴 blue screen of death on my personal geriatric ass design / gaming rig, potentially hardware-related, right as work not sucking for the foreseeable future depended on my ability to access specifically the Windows version of powerpoing (OF ALL THINGS)
#i misspelled powerpoint but it's funnier this way#viitalks#OUGH.gif#the Entirety of said work bonus is probably going towards like#going to the office daily instead of only on scheduled days#getting my rig to the pc doctor's + the doctor's fee + any necessary parts-#POSSIBLY THE GODDAMN CPU. WHICH TRACKS. IT'S ABOUT TO BE A DECADE OLD.#uhmmmmm and then just like#extra takeout bc I'm gonna have even less time to cook & some of the stuff in the fridge is gonna go to waste#im.#feels like one little thing falls out of place and everything else just. crashes lol#& my partner is just like 'eh ill convince my dad to help' like....#big if true.#but i can't count on that i need help figuring shit out with the chips we can directly control#not just like beg & hope for. like it'd be nice if he were a reliably supportive figure but while he's helped us out considerably before#it's also WILDLY inconsistent. i can't just count on that & stop worrying / devising plans that Suck but let me muddle through on my own#STRESSIN!!!!!!!!
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I really need to get around to finalizing the upgrade to my PC, but after that last attempt I've lost the motivation to try again. I think I know how I'll find it again, and sadly it's not completely up to me: I need someone else here to supervise the process. So as I near the end of Burning Shores and start to wonder what I should stream next, I have to admit that it will not be BG3 for some time yet, not until the stars align and my upgrade is complete. I'll have to find a much smaller-scale game to play first!
#Specifically I want to try again when my partner visits next#Which will be sometime next month#So it's gonna be a few weeks until I finally complete this fucking upgrade#For those curious I wanted to upgrade my CPU since I figured it was the bottleneck giving my GPU issues#In order to do that I also needed a new motherboard#And the new mobo I got doesn't fit my current RAM#So the only things staying are my GPU and hard drives#But the new stuff had an issue with my decade-old hard drives and wouldn't recognize them as bootable devices#Which means I'll have to format one of them to work#I didn't have an external backup at the time#I do now of course#But that failed upgrade took an entire day where I just ended up back where I started#The mother of all spoon-killers#Pretty sure it's been a few months now and I still haven't gotten around to it
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#thank you to my ex who filled my heart and life w so much love that I still feel it to this day and carry it w me everywhere#like I will never settle#I will never give a baby to just anyone#I’m in no rush bc I’ve experienced the wholesome love that comes from having a family w someone#I feel so grateful that he gave me that love and life bc now I give that love to myself and my cats and the world#my heart is just so full like I feel like one of those 80 year olds talking about their partner who died decades ago and never bothered#to date or look for anyone else again bc they knew the love they had and knew that nothing would compare#I truly hope he is being loved the way he deserves and neeeds to be loved
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Hey thanks I thought I was the only one who didn’t like the joke. Everyone laughed yuck
Ahhhhh yeah :/ i thought the joke was definitely funny, but with that harsh twinge of sadness at just how normalized and accepted this sort of sexism STILL is.
' i was never good at telling jokes but the punchline goes, i get older but your lovers stay my age '
And its not necessarily a damnation of the man himself - obviously rami is a favorite of mine but i dont think hes ever dated anyone over 30 and is veering towards jake and leo disease too, and i still think rami is one of the most brilliant character narrative builders in the business currently - but its a damnation of a culture that treats romantic partners not as equals but as disposable play things with an expiration date. Look, i got flirted with by much older guys in pittsburgh all the time - usually it was cute, they were friendly, very complimentary and flattering about it, and they never treated it seriously or asked me out. Then i came to LA and the difference was night and day. Older (rich) men here feel entitled to younger women in a way that is frankly scary - at one point in a bar when a guy in his 60s was hitting on me my muscular male friend had to physically step between us and scare the guy off to get him to go away.
And it doesn't help that im sort of in the 'one of the guys' category, so i've heard the way these super rich dudes talk about the models they date behind their back while hanging with 'the guys', and, ugh, its not nice. I will say one thing for sports dudes - i imagine guys like ja*gr have way more respect for young women who are passionate about health and fitness than computer science executives.
But there's negatives in the sports world too - yall know how much i adore taylor. But even i recognize that she's not 'sports bro hot' - she doesn't have silicone, her make up is understated, she doesn't have that social media defined 'hotness' that sports fan dudes expect their sports heroes to date. So while i was naively scrolling insta looking for cute snapshots of taylor and travis being all lovey dovey at the end of the game, a good half the comments were men complaining about her. Saying they cant understand why travis is dating someone so old, that she will never be able to give him kids, that she's already showing her age (both of them are 34 btw). So far travis seems to ignore these types of comments but it would be hard to judge him for giving into peer pressure because this stuff is just so prevelant and exhausting.
And it does effect us older women - while i was dating Pilot Boy i was absolutely hyper aware of the fact that here is this rich, handsome, successful, and extremely smart guy dating beneath him. Like we bonded over being literally the same age - we had mutual friends in college without even knowing it. But i was always questioning like what does this guy see in me - why isn't he dating a gorgeous 25 year old whose only goal in life is to live on the beach with him??? Like he was honestly more the type of dude i would be friends with while he dates hotter women, lol. So i really was not surprised when he ended things (i was mostly sad that we couldnt stay friends and continue geeking out on airplanes and history together LOL), it just felt like it made sense, of course he wouldn't be serious about me, a guy like him should be dating a fresh, youthful, less bitter and cynical 25 yr old blonde. Six years in LA and this is just the pattern i see repeating itself over and over.
And im the romantic - when i fall in love its ALL in. Usually it's personality, usually its intellectual - that comfort in finding someone who just understands how you think. I love being so close to someone that you know them better than yourself, that you can communicate wordlessly. Shared humor, shared experience. As i age im learning that i actually dont pay much attention to the signs of aging when it comes to attraction - who notices wrinkles when what you're in love with is that look in their eye when they smile at you? The mental connection between romantic partners is the most important for me in my book. For me this typically means someone within the ten year range plus or minus - though i prefer it even within a five year age gap.
#But i also really feel for the women because when i was 22 i got myself into a relationship with a man a decade older#Who only valued me for my youth and tight skin#And even back then no matter how much in love i was (and i have since deleted all the posts but even after he dumped me i was still#coming on this blog sighing about how much i loved and missed him)#The feeling of being only valued for your youth was still skeevy to me#In the back of my mind i knew that this was a trait i was eventually going to lose because everyone ages#And i was not confident enough to think i would ever have any value beyond Young#And thats not to say there are not relationships with age gaps that are healthy - there totally are look at ally and justin they ARE love#Its just a very specific type of relationship where the older partner keeps dating younger and younger and only values youth#that creeps me out#And in our culture that narrative usually is an older man with a younger woman and i tend to side with the woman#THE GOOD NEWS is if you notice in the clips and gifs it looks like the younger guys on the pens are laughing a lot less than the old guard#i think the newer generation - the dudes in their 20s are starting to realize how shallow all this is and that things are changing#and that the generation of women after me will deal with a lot less pressure#At least i hope!!!#Jrnlsht#Sorry this got long
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