#i have absolutely zero hard feelings about the mutually amicable breakup w my first v serious partner who was a close friend of many years
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Re: the so-called friendzone, it would be MUCH easier to date those whose friendship you deeply value if so many people didn't suck so hard at maintaining post-romantic friendships!
#i have absolutely zero hard feelings about the mutually amicable breakup w my first v serious partner who was a close friend of many years#i STILL get hit by flashes of intense unexpected grief bc that convo included both of us saying ''promise we will stay friends''#and i kept that promise and so did he right up until he got married :/#like i get that it can be complex and also people can be weird about it but it doesn't have to BE weird if you choose not to make it so#and also. well meaning and understandable and unforeseeable as it may be. you lied to me bro. :////#anyway sorry for inflicting my maudlin decades old and tbh mostly healed angst upon you all#usually i don't even think about it but once in a rare while it surprises me with how much it fucking stings#sorry maybe i'm missing something but idk why people act like this is sooooo unfeasible. rip to you but i'm different.#and so are several of my OTHER exes FOR THE RECORD#ANYWAY straight woman who fails hard enough at gender to make male friends more easily angst hours i guess#my posts#also#gender stuff
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