#cw: csa mention

[coockie8]

i think antis do want to help theyre just confused on how to do that

Look, I absolutely get wanting to give people the benefit of the doubt, but a group of people who, on the regular, loudly and proudly tell child sexual abuse survivors that they "deserved the abuse" and that they "secretly enjoyed it" because of the imaginary stories they find interesting is not a group of people interested in helping anyone.

[oneslimybastard]

I do not particularly like Lily Orchard but I think I like people who hate-orbit her even less.

I saw one video that I dipped out of in the first few minutes because they were accusing her of spreading CSEM, due to her putting explicit art of /checks notes/ MLP ponies that were the underage ones in some rpg maker game she made.

Which like. She seems to kinda play that game too with the moral crusading, but that doesn't make it anything less than basically a hate crime to accuse a transwoman of being a child sexual exploitation peddler because... she put horny art of bug-eyed candy colored horses in her rpg maker game from a few years back. Like alright. sure. what the fuck?

this is just plain transmisogynistic bigotry, sorry, you are painting her as a dangerous sex pest towards children over Literally Nothing, which is transphobia 101 against transfems in specific. it incites violence against transfems and actively endangers them. you can try to convince me that sweetie belle or whoever the fuck getting lewded for the edge-factor is literal sexual violence which warrants tickling the pedo-hunting vigilante mobs into a lynching mood; but you will sound really fucking stupid while doing it so I don't recommend it.

Apparently there's grooming allegations floating around too but like. It looks so exhausting. I am not filtering through hours of "SHE WROTE INCEST IN THIS FANFIC!!!" just to maybe stumble across a valid testimony like 140 minutes in, I don't have it in me. Lily seems kinda toxic and weird I'll give you that, but I guess I'll never know if it's to a degree worth being concerned about or not because the people documenting it are absolutely insufferable, and clearly inhaling some kind of copium with ulterior motives. A lot of them are transwomen as well so I smell a specific kind of vitriol in the water only members of the same marginalized identity can conjure up for each other.

The "Let's prove I'm one of the good ones by mauling this lolcow" instinct, which is just cringe all the way down, man, don't fall for it. Cognito hazard, it rots your brain.

[samasmith23]

SCREW ETHAN VAN SCIVER!

Content Warning: Mentions of CSA

EVS truly is a monster on so many levels! I recently just learned from comic artist Mark Brooks that EVS literally stated on one of his AWFUL livestreams that he, “wouldn’t mind p*dophiles going after Mark Brook’s children.”

Sadly though, this is not at all surprising to hear from EVS considering that when he once hired Cerebus creator Dave Sim to work on his AWFUL Cyberfrog indie comic and when people pointed out that Sim had previously openly admitted to having groomed a 14-year-old girl, EVS stated that he “didn’t care” and tried to downplay Sim’s predatory behavior by comparing it to Elvis & Priscilla. Plus, EVS and Comicsgate welcomed “SlickJimmyLove” (aka,James Randall Adams) into their movement, who was not only arrested in 2021 for possession for CP but also created a disgusting p*do comic titled “Little Girl Lethal”…

So EVS is not only a Neo-Nazi bigot and hate monger, but is also a apologist for LITERAL child predators!

I’ll let both Ms. Marvel & Chris Hansen summarize my disgust towards EVS and everything he stands for right here:

[rattingtat]

got straight up p*do apologia on my dash from tumblr's algorithm, burn and also rot

[lilly-kittyeyes]

interesting comparison you made there that a kid doing taxes is the same as having sex with children that is often how the groomers who fetish mine kids also don't see it as much of a big deal either since its "nonsexual" huh

the comparison I made was meant to point out that something doesn't need to be sexual to be inappropriate. I did not at any point say that doing taxes is the same or even similar to having sex. are you doing okay man? is everything alright with your life? do you need someone to talk to?

[vague-humanoid]

[txttletale]

"people can use pro-kink language to groom children" yeah thats true. they can also use minecraft to groom children & yet it would still be bad to accuse random people posting about minecraft of being pedophiles innit

[vyvilha]

to all the victims of csa who have never told anyone. to all the victims of csa who don't remember, clearly or at all. to all the victims of csa who struggle with understanding if it was "bad enough". to all the victims of child on child sa. to all the victims of csa who are still repulsed to sex or even to all physical touch. to all the victims of csa who don't wish to "overcome" their repulsion to sex or physical touch. to all the victims of csa who freeze, who dissociate, who cry and rage easily. i love you i love you i love you. they don't know you. you know you. trust yourself. trust your body. you decide what to do with what happened. you decide how you feel. keep going

[coockie8]

ok but y were u drawing a teen getting raped tho 🤔

Given I drew this when I was, surprise surprise, 14, I'm gonna give you a minute to think long and hard about why I might've been making art about teens getting raped by adults. Just use your barely functional brain for two seconds and maybe you'll figure out why a 14-year-old rape victim was making art about that kinda thing.

[catboymoments]

Hi all I’ve been wanting to make something with huntlow and re: trauma processing for a while now, they mean a lot to me in terms of how I relate to them and how sweet they r… however I chose not to sugarcoat the dialogue because I feel like topics like these shouldn’t be shied away from and Should be discussed, but because it’s triggering I’m putting where it starts under a readmore so!! Heed the warnings pls

cw for talk about c/sa

They make me so emotional and soft guah… thank you for supporting me and encouraging me to write about this stuff I love you all

[normalbrothershow]

rewatching spn is genuinely so much more interesting when you got the incest goggles on. the way sam and dean act/talk about their childhood and "family secrets", the way they talk to and about john, the way john acts towards them, their entire view and understanding of "family", the way literally EVERYONE looks at them and talks about/to them when the topic revolves around family/john/brothers, their interactions with women and sex... both sam and dean in different but just as telling ways... honestly the moment you watch it with even just a sense that it could be about incest it becomes a little surprising how obvious and bold they were about it

[flowersbark]

having a complicated relationship with sex/sexual things after sa is so weird because like . it'll be 1 am and ill be switching through apps and ill be thirsting over a character and then ill open tumblr and i remember everything bad shes ever done to me

[sunriseabram]

Imagine Andrew in the supermarket with Neil and he sees a little kid, a seven year old, holding his mother's hand. He sees the mother putting toys in the cart. He sees her bending down to talk to him, to kiss his head and ruffle his hair. He sees the kid laughing, smiling, so innocent, so happy.

And he is frozen for a second.

Because when he was seven, someone looked at him and forced their way into his bed. Because when he was seven, so tiny, so innocent, so frail, someone took advantage of him. Because when he was seven, he was an object to those around him. He wasn't a human. He wasn't loved.

He looks at the kid and the only thing he can think is:

How could someone do the things they did to me when I was seven? How did they look at me, so defenceless, so desperate to be loved, and hurt me like they did? I was a child. I was a child.

He takes Neil's hand and he squeezes it tight. And if he later pays for the mother's shopping, well that's no one else's business.

[boyfailurecharliekelly]

14 year old Dennis Reynolds; the weirdo brother of the aluminium monster spending his lunch’s in the library; too proud to befriend the ‘weird kids.’

The librarian who reminds him of his own mother taking interest in him, more than either of his parents ever have.

Showing off to the popular guys how he ‘bedded an older woman’ because that’s cool right? that makes him a real man? that means he’s not a ‘nancy boy’?

Dennis Reynolds in high school with his new cooler friends…too busy reinforcing his own ego to notice the gaping hole growing inside of him.

[txttletale]

non-normative sexuality is not the root of sexual abuse or rape. for a huge amount of history in a huge amount of the world, sexual abuse and rape have been thoroughly normal (cf. marital rape exemptions being removed from US legal codes as recently as 2019). rapists are not 'freaks' -- the default, 'normal' paradigm of sexuality across the world is one of violent misogyny. 640 million women are or were child brides and the men marrying them are not abberations or exceptions, they are normal. men who engage in endemic workplace harassment or frat boys who assault women are behaving in a way that is 'normal', they are fulfiling the gendered expectations for expressions of heterosexual sexuality when they harass and catcall and abuse women. projecting sexual violence onto the specter of the obviously deviant, abnormal outsider is a scapegoating mechanism intended to sanitize and exonerate the cisheteropatriarchal standard of normalized and ubiquitous sexual violence

[twptwp]

In my experience the typical circle of radfeminists consist of majority privileged women who want to feel oppressed over invisible problems. Transgender people as a whole have never harmed them.

As a girl, particularly feminine presenting, I use whatever bathroom is closest to me and thus I've entered male bathrooms plenty times to avoid a longer walk to the female bathroom... And nothing happens. Believe it or not, men aren't predatory by a default. I have every reason to fear men considering my past -truly I should be terrified; I have been victim to grave violations. However I'm not afraid. Why is this? Because I've seen the world, the type of people who harm others, I've experienced it first hand, and for each bad person there are hundreds of good regardless of gender. Please learn this if you want to live, lest you remain tormented.

These sorry excuse for feminists will fight for women by oppressing self expression: the very thing that women once fought for.

I've felt more judged for being me around cis women than trans people, perhaps terfs should work on this if they want girls to live better lives? A terf puts women in boxes, that's all I've seen of them, and that's all they will ever do untill they escape their chambers and interact with real people outside of their self inflicted oppression.

Lots of love to all trans people, exist as you are and never let others make you feel wrong for being true to yourself.