#cw rant

[mtdreamcatcher]

I need to rant for a moment:

AROACE IS A SPECTRUM, NOT A BINARY

As someone who is on the AroAce spectrum myself, it’s beyond frustrating that people claim to advocate for AroAce rights and representation don’t understand this.

The Aromatic spectrum can mean someone isn’t interested in romance at all to someone(like me) who only wants a romantic relationship after developing a deep connection.

The Asexual spectrum can mean someone is repulsed by sex and sexual things, to someone who is okay with having sex and doing sexual things while having no sexual desires themselves.

I understand that some people are just misinformed but I’ve seen some genuine animosity floating around in the Hazbin Hotel fandom specifically.

Alastor is canonically AroAce, but we don’t know what points are of the spectrums he’s on. On top of that Vivzipop herself has stated she’s okay with people shipping Alastor with other characters

In addition to that, QPR(queer platonic relationships) exist.

[the-sappho-of-lesbos]

Sometimes I get worried that the way and reasons I feel frustrated over homophobia makes me look like I’m just a sex craved lesbian

Because I’m not and obviously I value more then just that. But it feels like that aspect of my sexuality has never been MINE. So I get so defensive over it. It’s a porn category. A debate. Not treated as rock solid. Something I have to hide and be ashamed of. Something that took me a lot longer then lots of my straight peers to fully acknowledge. Something my childhood sexual trauma made harder for to access. Something that people use to paint me as a bigot or rude or mean or disgusting.

But goddammit, I LOVE breasts. I love vulvas. I love the female form. I love women’s bodies. I love kissing women. I love making them feel good. I love helping them reach those special feelings and touching them and I just get so unbelievably frustrated that this beautiful and natural part of who I am as an adult woman , an adult lesbian, gets so often stripped from me. It’s not fair.

I live in a world where women who date men never stop talking about them sexually and it’s all well and good. I listened to SO many of my classmates talk about penis in-depth when I was in high school and it was no big deal. I mention boobs or vulva or vagina and it’s a record scratch. Suddenly it’s a conversation, a debate, my morals and personhood or being brought into question . I hate it.

[mohgreal]

i hate gamerbros who claim a ""ugly"" woman is the game studio being ""woke"" like how they are with angela in the sh2 remake. ITS A HORROR GAME SHES NOT SUPPOSED TO BE JERK OFF ABLE!!!! shes not even ugly either wtf she is pretty to me. not to mention the people complaining look like the average discord mod or some shit (usually like synthetic or other "woke" hating reviewers) . a character being ugly literally doesn't even matter esp in a horror game

[anxietycomments]

nononono you don’t understand. when Inej says “I will have you without armor, Kaz Brekker”, she’s not saying that she will only have Kaz if he heals his trauma all by himself, she’s saying that she wants him to trust her, that she wants to help him, and help herself too!! She’s not just offering help to Kaz here, she’s acknowledging her own trauma with people touching her, her past in the menagerie!!! She’s saying I want us both to be ready to be at least a little intimate, or just heal together, because I don’t want us to destroy ourselves in a good relationship because of past traumas. She’s saying, let me help you, because I get it. Let me help you because you will help me in return. Let us be healthy, because I know we both want this. SHES NOT BEING MEAN GUYS SHES GJDJSJD

[tired-biscuit]

i used to come on here to have fun and yap about fictional dick, but lately it’s just been full of people complaining and trying to yank me into discourse and being mean, and it makes me think; why am i even doing this? why am i putting my stuff out there for people to see and risking negative reception?

like……… i wake up at 5am every morning and go to check my phone, and it’s all just like notifs and “part 2 when” without even as much as a word of a compliment for the fic they read.

“wtf, i didn’t like this” (why did you read the entire thing then??? all of the 26k+ words???? i didn’t force you to????? but hey, thanks for letting me know that you didn’t like it in the end instead of just silently closing the fic!! i appreciate it so much, makes me feel real good!!!!!!!!)

oh and then the fearless protectors of animated lines come swooping in with the famous “ummmm… why are you writing about minors?” even if it clearly states that the character is aged up and 20+!!!!! and we can’t forget the “he would not say that” and “i would not say that” people, ofc!!!!!

FINE!!!!!!! WRITE YOUR OWN SHIT THEN IF IT’S THAT BAD!!!!!!!!! ffs…… would it kill you to be kind?

[planetsano]

can we be SO forreal right now.

the quality of fiction on animanga tumblr.. has gone down the hill since 2022. i’m so sorry. some of the things I see in the x reader tags is genuinely unbelievable and kind of a slap in the face for those who have a real love for writing fanfiction. writing is most definitely supposed to be fun first and foremost of course, and it’s a passion, craft and a career for others.

its just so apparent when people back up the reader tags with lackluster.. fast fashion type of content for notes and clout. the tiktokification (😭) of fanfiction is so disheartening to see.

[socialc1imb]

Every day i stray further from religion as a whole and my roommate’s words reminiscent of “if god says that you are not welcome but tries to *keep* you, does that not sound like an abusive relationship?” ring in my head constantly.

If not for the fear of god that has been branded into my soul, i think i would have left a longggg time ago.

[fymo-blogs]

Bro, why is it that the warriors community is so insistent on Mapleshade being an unreliable narrator, yet they believe everything Appledusk has ever said?

[tsams-and-co-memes]

Just heard that Kat is leaving a lot of her online spaces because no matter where she goes, she gets bullied and harassed, and I'm speechless. She's a wonderful, talented person, and she doesn't deserve any of this. It's literally just a witch hunt at this point, which is so so unbelievably stupid

Why can't people just walk away when they don't enjoy things? Harassing and bullying people because they don't cater everything they do to your specific wants and needs should not be the default that people resort to. Anyone who does this sort of shit needs serious, professional help, and they need to go touch some grass or something

I don't like that this is happening. Not at all. I know I usually try to keep this blog as drama-free as possible, but I can't stay quiet about this. I've stayed quiet about a lot of things in my life for far too long, and I'm getting pretty fed up with it

Some of this bullshit makes me want to leave this fandom too, but I'm determined to stay, because I love the stories that are being told, I love the characters, and while the writing can be a little silly sometimes, I like it! I adore what these shows are doing, and I'm so happy that I can watch these things for free, because if I had to pay money to see them, that'd really suck, and I'd never be able to afford it

I will stay as long as possible, and I will continue to support the VAs however I can, because they're amazing and they deserve all the support and love in the world

If there's anyone following me that supports the horrid behavior that's been going on, anyone who thinks people are justified to target Kat, or anyone who's sent any hate to any VA ever, I don't want you here. This is my space, and I want only kindness and acceptance here, so take your bullshit somewhere else

I'm tired of all this nonsense, and honestly, I feel embarrassed and ashamed sometimes to even associate with this fandom. It is so, so bad, but I'm hoping that it'll eventually be sorted out and resolved

[the-shipper-center]

Proship rant 👇 ANTIS BLOCK ME

Okay, so I don't get why do you need to put emphasis on the age of a non-existent being, but I understand that it is once again the moral panic thing that is the secret weapon of any anti.

Nobody is acting like the creator is a bad person, but they(idk the creators pronouns) should understand the way that Internet works. If you make something public, and more important: ON THE INTERNET. You should expect that not everything is gonna be a rainbow land of Fairys. Like: Take for an example the mlp fandom.

The second part of the rant I just don't care cos it's just an anti being a kink shamer and dramatizing something completely chronically online as if the people who drew r34 of these characters were demons, and completely forgoting the main point of the Yaelokre drama, that is: Yealokre doesn't know how to deal with the internet, and they had very unrealistic expectations about the ENTIRE INTERNET. Yes, I understand that it's very bad to see a bunch of people disrespecting someone's boundaries. But, about the characters... it has become something public since when Yaelokre decided to post them. If Yaelokre doesn't know how the internet works, then the problem ends up being theirs too, unfortunately.

I was on TikTok when the fandom exploded and I could see that it would go very wrong at the moment when a fandom thst was growing REALLY FAST and 99% of the fandom was already "Ah, we're going to be the least toxic fandom in the world!" Or "Ah, we're going to police anyone who wants to participate," etc. If Yaelokre wanted a closed community, then why they make it public? Yaelokre is not a kid, I find it very weird that they don't have any previous knowledge about how fandom behave on the internet.

[marshemillow]

What comes to my mind every time someone says "stay in school".

This isn't just random either, I swear to GOD every teacher with a couple rare exceptions I ever had was a piece of shit who basically yelled at me for failing in their classes, even though I'm fucking mentally disabled and they were shit at teaching. I dropped out of high school because I literally couldn't take being abused anymore and I've considered killing myself ever since. Maybe if you fucking FIXED the schools, people would be more inclined to stay there, but what do I know? I failed high school, so I'm an idiot and my life doesn't matter.

[gummysunnybear]

I think I kinda know why moon won't comfort sun but then again this is my personal opinion and I already got beef with moon

Tw:cussing and my opinion

Ok so moon was dead for over 2 years(?) Before coming back and learning nexus was suns brother and sun deeply loved nexus Moons a coward he's a fucking coward He knows the sun loves nexus and will cry and morn over nexus death just like he did for moons death Moons terrified of sun loving someone more than him because sun was the first person he saw Moon is overworking himself to district himself from knowing sun loves nexus more than him He's a coward and is too scared to face sun and ask him if he loves nexus more He comforts earth because he feels like she loves him more then nexus but with sun he's scared that he'll lose his first brother.

[atlantis-just-drowned]

I was in middle school I was overwhelmed I needed silence and calmness and this school staff member came to me like "Why do you eat alone there's people over there why don't you eat with them wouldn't it be better" and I went "No I chose to eat alone because I am not feeling well and want to have some alone time so I can feel better when I join my friends afterwards, and also the girls over there are mean and I don't like them" and she went "Okay" and immediately proceed to go to those girls and told them to insist on making me join them because I was alone and it was sad and pitiful and they'd look nice and cool if they proposed to the poor little guy to join them so they went to me and proposed to let me sit with them and I said "I don't want to I'd like to be left alone" and they insisted so much I threatened them with my round tip knife

[call-me-chips]

Friend vent time :D

Ima just use their initials cuz it's easier to understand

So my friend J was planning a surprise birthday party for his girlfriend, K. He invites me and we make arrangements to meet up. Last night at like, 11:15 pm, J randomly cancels on me, saying that K found out about the plans and doesn't want to hang out

This isn't the first time at all that J and K have cancelled on me. They're always cancelling things on me and giving fake ass reasons for not being able to go. Here's another story about these same two people

Several months ago, my friend H was having a birthday, and everyone in our entire friend group was invited except for me. I brought it up to H and her excuse was that she just wanted to invite a few people, but she had invited N, and N brought along the rest of the friend group. For some reason N didn't think to invite me tho, and H didn't say anything about it

And just this morning, pictures were sent to the gc. Turns out that just a few days ago, the WHOLE friend group +some people I don't know met up for K2's (different K, so I'm calling her K2) surprise birthday party. It was planned by K2's dad and N. I didn't even know this was happening until this morning. I just want to stress that EVERYONE else was invited. There were over 10 people invited, including J and K

What's worse is that they sent it to the gc, where I was sure to see it

Overall, I'm just fucking left out of everything, but the thing is, if I bring it up and tell them that I want to be invited to things, they will invite me out of annoyance, because they have made it VERY clear that they don't want me around. I want to go to things, but only if they actually want me there

Another thing that scares me is that, my family is telling me that I should tell them off, but if I tell them off, they are probably gonna leave me. It would be so easy for them because I'm not "good friends" with anyone in the gc, and I'm constantly afraid that the slightest angry tone in my voice could make them angry enough to say "Fuck it, I don't wanna be with you anymore."

I can't leave them, cuz they're the closest thing I have to friends, and until I find better friends, I would like to keep them

I'm probably gonna cry about this later, we'll see

But yeah, thanks for reading this, here's a cookie :) 🍪

[drawingrainbowsonthewalls]

*nervous laughter*

so uh I've learned you should not go look up "radqueer" on YouTube...

Like I was just on YouTube and I was like "Hey how is the YouTube radqueer community doing ^-^" so I looked up "radqueer" and the sheer amount of HATE was atrocious

like I can't go back there it was so bad [there were a couple new channels that were nice tho <3]

[example[s] of hate below]

It was all "Ewwww cringe" "go touch grass" "I don't gaf lmao" "bro get off the internet" "disgusting"

then when someone would legitimately ask what a radqueer/transid/paraphile is [completely valid to ask btw, like there was a long time where I didn't know what it meant] and someone else would give them like an opinion or just tell them "a very gross person" "someone who is disgusting" "bad people"

Like BRO if your gonna answer a question like that just give them a definition and let them come to their own conclusion

Plus there was like a small trend where people [often furrys/alterhumans] would use an audio and it went kinda like this: person 1: "do you support everyone.?" 2nd person: "yes" 1: "do you support radqueers/transids/paras/etc.?" 2: "NOPE"

like what??? so you don't support everyone??? ok??? and they would be agressive about it too...

welp that was my slight rant, love y'all stay safe out there <33

[mohgreal]

Mr Greal I need to rant about a SOTE thing I was thinking about last night. Fucking. Why not make it so that Mohg and Miquella were collaborating and both had a genuine, shared view of how to change the world? They both want the best for the disenfranchised races of the Lands Between, right? Miquella has the metamorphosing Albinaurics in the Haligtree, Mohg has his little red Mohglets, stuff like that.

Wouldn’t it be interesting if Blood For The Blood God Big Boy Mohg was who Miquella deemed the most kind or worthy or whatever of the demigods? Raaaaagh I’m just so mad how SOTE bulldozed over these two characters and sapped out anything interesting about them.

cw: me being annoying, (long) sote ranting because this fandom hates me for hating but that never stopped me, if you take this seriously its on you sorry . for some reason i get people feel offended by me openly expressing how i feel about some dlc so im still putting this here You Were Warned ....mr greal will add his personal comments .....

tumblr keeps fucking up my keep readinf STOP im sorry

this is my biggest gripe with sote is how boring they made the existing lore. not even 'bad', just very very boring. it's like i got the most boring reddit fanfiction as canon, which sucks because all the new stuff IS interesting. expect now i don't even care because they sucked the interest i had for the lore by doing so. they could've made radahn more interesting by giving him more lore that isn't just "i love war, golden order, and horsey!". they could've gave mohg more lore and depth. they could've made miquella more interesting and a genuinely new and fresh character with hope for once in a game where it's all bleak and misery.

but they didn't. why.

i don't get it and i never will. im convinced they had a different, or possibly worse — multiple teams work on sote because the way the entire dlc is structured, especially the lore and missing elements (no cutscenes for main bosses or black and white art desc) — really screams too many chefs working on one game (dlc). nightreign existing proves my prior theory ive had since sote came out day one

miquella is, to me, the most boring possible route they could've gone. if you believed the charming theory then it was also predictable for like two years so it's not even as shellshocking as the narrative makes it, because the game expects you (in the sense that based off the existing lore you would have the idea that miquella is morally gray) to know this. the issue is that the only real lore really pointing toward miquella being a charm guy is the bewitching branch. two sentences. you're supposed to get that miquella was Bad All Along because of [one] item description. why micheal zaki???? and yes you could say the other item descs hinted at it, but that's all it is, hinting. its vague and you could easily understand it as miquella being the true goodie people in game think he is.

as for the extreme devotion, i don't see how it's supposed to be seen as bad if you didn't know miquella was a charmer when it makes sense for the lands between to cling to the only piece of hope there is. like i would be worshipping him too when he's supposedly the only real kind demigod trying to make a change??? is this just micheal zaki and georgey marty's way of telling us life is miserable and dont trust incestous blondes? ive seen people defend this by saying its a design choice so the player can feel like miquella is good, then get betrayed like his followers so you can feel it too. but this doesn't work because you would have to be attached or at least like miquella which is basically impossible (unless you were a tumblr miquella stan feeding off dust and scraps) since you haven't meet him?? how can i be betrayed by someone whom i haven't even met? miquella is just childish griffith (im sorry to say that name) marika-ranni morally gray "you tried" badge lumped into one and i really miss how interesting he was before his own dlc. not to mention he only shows up piggybacking on his now boyfriend-brother for like one minute; and that's all he gets in his own dlc . if he was at least his own boss instead of lothric-lorian copy pasted but worse i wouldn't be nearly as disappointed

radahn is still boring to me, which he was before as well, his personlity is basically just the modern irl gymbro to me, which is to say i can't see him without his gym (in radahn's case, war or the golden order)

and mohg getting used as a body bag is so unneeded and just feels forced. i didn't even feel sad. the mohgreal (mr greal as called in the ask™️) didn't get sad at mohg being basically used even beyond death. because it didn't need to happen. you could say that's what makes it tragic, but to me it's just a cheap way of forcing radahn back. radahn's soul isn't what makes him powerful, his powers and body is. so just use mohg instead, miquella already had him charmed, did he not?? radahn's soul isn't going to make mohg magically radahn — except oh wait it magically makes mohg radahn all of a sudden even though that's not how it works!!! we literally saw ranni do this exact same thing (just with her own soul) yet radahn is a magic exception??? this is a blatant retcon and people who pretend sote doesn't have retcons feel like they're gaslighting me because this is just one of a few examples of contradicting lore sote gives you. even if you could magically give me a pile of reason to fill the plotholes, it still feels sour because i never needed to do this in the base game

TLDR: sote made me not care about elden ring, and im now back to being a horror addict im sorry. everyone is allowed to rant to me im very bored