#cw rant

[mtdreamcatcher]

I need to rant for a moment:

AROACE IS A SPECTRUM, NOT A BINARY

As someone who is on the AroAce spectrum myself, it’s beyond frustrating that people claim to advocate for AroAce rights and representation don’t understand this.

The Aromatic spectrum can mean someone isn’t interested in romance at all to someone(like me) who only wants a romantic relationship after developing a deep connection.

The Asexual spectrum can mean someone is repulsed by sex and sexual things, to someone who is okay with having sex and doing sexual things while having no sexual desires themselves.

I understand that some people are just misinformed but I’ve seen some genuine animosity floating around in the Hazbin Hotel fandom specifically.

Alastor is canonically AroAce, but we don’t know what points are of the spectrums he’s on. On top of that Vivzipop herself has stated she’s okay with people shipping Alastor with other characters

In addition to that, QPR(queer platonic relationships) exist.

[the-sappho-of-lesbos]

Sometimes I get worried that the way and reasons I feel frustrated over homophobia makes me look like I’m just a sex craved lesbian

Because I’m not and obviously I value more then just that. But it feels like that aspect of my sexuality has never been MINE. So I get so defensive over it. It’s a porn category. A debate. Not treated as rock solid. Something I have to hide and be ashamed of. Something that took me a lot longer then lots of my straight peers to fully acknowledge. Something my childhood sexual trauma made harder for to access. Something that people use to paint me as a bigot or rude or mean or disgusting.

But goddammit, I LOVE breasts. I love vulvas. I love the female form. I love women’s bodies. I love kissing women. I love making them feel good. I love helping them reach those special feelings and touching them and I just get so unbelievably frustrated that this beautiful and natural part of who I am as an adult woman , an adult lesbian, gets so often stripped from me. It’s not fair.

I live in a world where women who date men never stop talking about them sexually and it’s all well and good. I listened to SO many of my classmates talk about penis in-depth when I was in high school and it was no big deal. I mention boobs or vulva or vagina and it’s a record scratch. Suddenly it’s a conversation, a debate, my morals and personhood or being brought into question . I hate it.

[mohgreal]

i hate gamerbros who claim a ""ugly"" woman is the game studio being ""woke"" like how they are with angela in the sh2 remake. ITS A HORROR GAME SHES NOT SUPPOSED TO BE JERK OFF ABLE!!!! shes not even ugly either wtf she is pretty to me. not to mention the people complaining look like the average discord mod or some shit (usually like synthetic or other "woke" hating reviewers) . a character being ugly literally doesn't even matter esp in a horror game

[anxietycomments]

nononono you don’t understand. when Inej says “I will have you without armor, Kaz Brekker”, she’s not saying that she will only have Kaz if he heals his trauma all by himself, she’s saying that she wants him to trust her, that she wants to help him, and help herself too!! She’s not just offering help to Kaz here, she’s acknowledging her own trauma with people touching her, her past in the menagerie!!! She’s saying I want us both to be ready to be at least a little intimate, or just heal together, because I don’t want us to destroy ourselves in a good relationship because of past traumas. She’s saying, let me help you, because I get it. Let me help you because you will help me in return. Let us be healthy, because I know we both want this. SHES NOT BEING MEAN GUYS SHES GJDJSJD

[tired-biscuit]

i used to come on here to have fun and yap about fictional dick, but lately it’s just been full of people complaining and trying to yank me into discourse and being mean, and it makes me think; why am i even doing this? why am i putting my stuff out there for people to see and risking negative reception?

like……… i wake up at 5am every morning and go to check my phone, and it’s all just like notifs and “part 2 when” without even as much as a word of a compliment for the fic they read.

“wtf, i didn’t like this” (why did you read the entire thing then??? all of the 26k+ words???? i didn’t force you to????? but hey, thanks for letting me know that you didn’t like it in the end instead of just silently closing the fic!! i appreciate it so much, makes me feel real good!!!!!!!!)

oh and then the fearless protectors of animated lines come swooping in with the famous “ummmm… why are you writing about minors?” even if it clearly states that the character is aged up and 20+!!!!! and we can’t forget the “he would not say that” and “i would not say that” people, ofc!!!!!

FINE!!!!!!! WRITE YOUR OWN SHIT THEN IF IT’S THAT BAD!!!!!!!!! ffs…… would it kill you to be kind?

[planetsano]

can we be SO forreal right now.

the quality of fiction on animanga tumblr.. has gone down the hill since 2022. i’m so sorry. some of the things I see in the x reader tags is genuinely unbelievable and kind of a slap in the face for those who have a real love for writing fanfiction. writing is most definitely supposed to be fun first and foremost of course, and it’s a passion, craft and a career for others.

its just so apparent when people back up the reader tags with lackluster.. fast fashion type of content for notes and clout. the tiktokification (😭) of fanfiction is so disheartening to see.

[socialc1imb]

Every day i stray further from religion as a whole and my roommate’s words reminiscent of “if god says that you are not welcome but tries to *keep* you, does that not sound like an abusive relationship?” ring in my head constantly.

If not for the fear of god that has been branded into my soul, i think i would have left a longggg time ago.

[fymo-blogs]

Bro, why is it that the warriors community is so insistent on Mapleshade being an unreliable narrator, yet they believe everything Appledusk has ever said?

[the-shipper-center]

Proship rant 👇 ANTIS BLOCK ME

Okay, so I don't get why do you need to put emphasis on the age of a non-existent being, but I understand that it is once again the moral panic thing that is the secret weapon of any anti.

Nobody is acting like the creator is a bad person, but they(idk the creators pronouns) should understand the way that Internet works. If you make something public, and more important: ON THE INTERNET. You should expect that not everything is gonna be a rainbow land of Fairys. Like: Take for an example the mlp fandom.

The second part of the rant I just don't care cos it's just an anti being a kink shamer and dramatizing something completely chronically online as if the people who drew r34 of these characters were demons, and completely forgoting the main point of the Yaelokre drama, that is: Yealokre doesn't know how to deal with the internet, and they had very unrealistic expectations about the ENTIRE INTERNET. Yes, I understand that it's very bad to see a bunch of people disrespecting someone's boundaries. But, about the characters... it has become something public since when Yaelokre decided to post them. If Yaelokre doesn't know how the internet works, then the problem ends up being theirs too, unfortunately.

I was on TikTok when the fandom exploded and I could see that it would go very wrong at the moment when a fandom thst was growing REALLY FAST and 99% of the fandom was already "Ah, we're going to be the least toxic fandom in the world!" Or "Ah, we're going to police anyone who wants to participate," etc. If Yaelokre wanted a closed community, then why they make it public? Yaelokre is not a kid, I find it very weird that they don't have any previous knowledge about how fandom behave on the internet.

[gummysunnybear]

I think I kinda know why moon won't comfort sun but then again this is my personal opinion and I already got beef with moon

Tw:cussing and my opinion

Ok so moon was dead for over 2 years(?) Before coming back and learning nexus was suns brother and sun deeply loved nexus Moons a coward he's a fucking coward He knows the sun loves nexus and will cry and morn over nexus death just like he did for moons death Moons terrified of sun loving someone more than him because sun was the first person he saw Moon is overworking himself to district himself from knowing sun loves nexus more than him He's a coward and is too scared to face sun and ask him if he loves nexus more He comforts earth because he feels like she loves him more then nexus but with sun he's scared that he'll lose his first brother.

[marshemillow]

What comes to my mind every time someone says "stay in school".

This isn't just random either, I swear to GOD every teacher with a couple rare exceptions I ever had was a piece of shit who basically yelled at me for failing in their classes, even though I'm fucking mentally disabled and they were shit at teaching. I dropped out of high school because I literally couldn't take being abused anymore and I've considered killing myself ever since. Maybe if you fucking FIXED the schools, people would be more inclined to stay there, but what do I know? I failed high school, so I'm an idiot and my life doesn't matter.

[atlantis-just-drowned]

I was in middle school I was overwhelmed I needed silence and calmness and this school staff member came to me like "Why do you eat alone there's people over there why don't you eat with them wouldn't it be better" and I went "No I chose to eat alone because I am not feeling well and want to have some alone time so I can feel better when I join my friends afterwards, and also the girls over there are mean and I don't like them" and she went "Okay" and immediately proceed to go to those girls and told them to insist on making me join them because I was alone and it was sad and pitiful and they'd look nice and cool if they proposed to the poor little guy to join them so they went to me and proposed to let me sit with them and I said "I don't want to I'd like to be left alone" and they insisted so much I threatened them with my round tip knife

[lostsoulau-ask]

This is important (tw, this is a rant that mentions the problem at hand in the tournament, i will hide the content for its not okey dokey)

A friend had been bullied out of a server because they tried to reach out for help.

That is not a joke. And if that server decide to ban me for trying to help a friend as well than that means its getting worst.

Getting threats on your life is not acceptable in any means and it horrifies me that it is getting worst because the problem was mentioned.

This server removed a vent channel and banned peoples because they muster the courage to reach out for help and it wasn't in their rules.

That is not all, to the peoples who send asks, you are adorable and i understand why you need your privacy, certain questions are not in theme with the blog you have or simply you are scared of repercussions (With some insight the Anon that warned me about Doctor was probably just worried for my sake, don't worry Anon the character changed a lot in those past months, so much that i will need to post stuff).

Sadly nowadays, no one can activate anon ask because certain peoples think its fun to send threats while in the comfort of their anonyms.

Also to the peoples in there server of the Kirby OC Tournament why did this horror made you feel insulted in the comments, it has been a while since left and i wish to know more about what had happened back there, please be civil about it because I am still in the dark.

[kindercelery]

Oughhh idk if this is a vent or not but GRAAHHHHHHHHH (This is just a pet peeve I suppose)

Cw: RANT!!!!!!!

Idk why I hate it so much when people who make manga based off of real people glorify the appearance/change the appearance drastically of the real people. Ex, Edgar Allan Poe in Bungou Stray Dogs and William Catesby in Requiem of the Rose king…

Like atleast TRY to make them look how they did. And I’m not even saying the art is bad or that I’m better- not at all! The artists are actually amazing- but why can’t people try? Don’t even call it a stylistic preference because in WHAT WORLD does this (image on right) equal this??? (Image on left)

Like- i’m fully aware the way I draw people doesn’t exactly look like who I’m drawing- I get that. But ATLEAST I TRY.

AND I GET IT- I CANT MAKE SOMEONE DRAW SOMETHING/SOMEONE DIFFERENTLY- I GET THAT ENTIRELY! But it’s so.. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[mohgreal]

borderline rage post you were warned about my all caps

i am so tired of shitty writing advice. i think im just going to stay away from it for a GOOD while because ou my god

i remember this one comment on a post about someone saying how they want to make their own story but don't people to ship their underage character and adult character. and then i kid you you not, i WISH i was joking one of the comments is: "this is why the story im writing only has adult characters"

DO YOU HEAR YOURSELF. ???? if you cant handle fanfiction and art of the work you're making THAT much then you shouldn't be in any fandom space and you shouldn't publish. besides people can always just age down your characters or make them siblings. you thought of that right. right....

also don't get me started on "if you writing a ship don't focus on thier family/friends" "if your writing characters heres how to make them likeable and relatable" ARE PEOPLE WITH ROMANTIC LOVE INTERESTS NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE FAMILY AND FRIENDS...

the likeable one sucks the most because LIKABILITY IS SUBJECTIVE. YOUR CHARACTERS DONT NEED TO BE LIKEABLE OR RELATABLE. they should have flaws and good traits because it fleshes them out and makes them more realistic and believable; NOT because it makes them """"likeable""" to your fans.

theres so much more but i just. you get the point

edit: I DIDNT EVEN MENTION "dont make your character 'minor-coded'" AND "don't write dark themes if you're goint to 'romanticise' them" YOU CANT ROMANICISE DARK THEMES BECAUSE ITS SUBJECTIVE. THERES ALWAYS INHERIT SUFFERING TO IT. oh my god dmdjeitiofore

and """""minor-coded""""". are adults not allowed to be short and have flat chests or be childish and fun. no? okay. i'll leave

TLDR: count your days

[kerosene-saint]

I wish people didn't act like dd/lg or abdl were like pedophilia. not even into it and I'm a sfw age regressor (non community due to this problem) but like. ugh. and the problem is my views on it have changed so much over just this year. because guess what. whatever people do in their free time surrounding sex, as long as it is not genuinely illegal, should not fucking matter to you. it is not your fucking business to tell people you think their kink is gross and pedophilic, especially because it's not pedophilia. it is fine. to be uncomfortable with a kink page of a certain kind interacting with you. I get it. and there are some pretty mean people in those communities but guess what? there are mean people in EVERY COMMUNITY. and you do not have to relate that kink to pedophilia to say you'd prefer their kink blogs to not interact with whatever blog you have. but when you say shit like "pedos and also people into ddlg and abdl dni" it's annoying. you could say "ddlg/abdl blogs dni" absolutely fair. but saying don't interact abt an entire group of people of which you do not necessarily have the means of checking everyone for being in that community??? alright then. you have fun in puppy play isn't anything like fucking dogs but ddlg is like fucking children world.