#cheated on

[bloomdoom1]

Why can’t I be pretty like the girls he watches?

[rye-kin]

As much as I’m a henriel truther, I am also a Henry Jekyll be gentle with women enjoyer from time to time <\3

[inmyperfectworld]

✉️ A message those that have been cheated on after giving a relationship their all✉️:

Don't question yourself and the type of person that you are. Don't even ask yourself or them, "Why her?", "Why him?", "What could I have done to prevent them cheating on me?"

When a person cheats on you, it has NOTHING to do with you or what you did or didn't do. It has everything to do with them and the fact that they haven't dealt with their trauma, insecurities, and/or the fact that they haven't matured.

There's nothing that you can do to prevent anyone from cheating on you. It sucks, but it's the truth. So, when you do decide to go into another relationship, keep this in mind. And when you do experience this and have this mindset, it will also make the process of moving on/healing a little easier too. 🤍

[lastresortnikki]

I wasn’t asking for the world, I was asking for the bare minimum and even you couldn’t give me that.

[blanketybug]

Hi agere/littlespace tumblr!

So my boyfriend who was also my caregiver throughout the entirety of me discovering age regression and coping with all my trauma has broken up with me after cheating with a girl. I'm so heartbroken and I don't feel like I'm ever going to be able to be vulnerable with anyone again. I guess I was just wondering what to do? How to not feel like the world's ending?

[starryvomit]

“leaving the circus”

-S

[lils-words]

Faded

you share his face, his name, but you are not him. you walk around, a desecrated grave of him. just like the stone rememberance of him, you offer no warmth in your eyes and no mercy in your actions.

the foliage must have seeped in and taken over, growing something- someone else in his place. the man i loved is dead, as his killer invades his own body claiming the identity of the host.

the ivy must have rubbed away any semblance of him, leaving what he was faded more and more by each passing moon.

[lava-lamps-are-hot]

Fuck. Never thought I’d be here.

Never thought I’d be that girl

But here I am….

Why am I staying…

I don’t think I’m that afraid to be alone… maybe i am

[ikka97]

Not good enough for you but one day I’ll be good enough for the right one.

[bagofbonesmistake]

Something I've come to realize is that, no matter what, I'll never truly feel loved, I'll always be terrified at the end of the day that I'll get cheated on, isn't that so silly? No one talks about how truly traumatic it is to get cheated on, you have nightmares of it, you constantly feel unlovable, you're always exhausted, your relationships end up self sabotaged because you're scared it'll happen again so you ruin it to protect yourself, it's so fucking exhausting truly, you never feel truly lovable again after it.

[thoughts-and-vibes]

when you can slowly feel yourself drifting further and further away from a person and you absolutely hate it but also know it kinda needs to happen and it’s what’s healthiest for you both but it’s still just so so sad because they used to be the person you were the closest with and you know that needs to change but it still just sucks

[amyp7899]

getting cheated on has got to be the worst experience ever bruh😭 don’t wish that upon anyone

[myclosefriend-grief]

[the-mind-is-my-enemy]

Do you remember, that day you, said that I was yours and you were mine, that day still echo in my head, do you remember that??

Because that same day you went and fucked two of the people you said I shouldn't worry about

You lied to me

You gaslighting me

You betrayed me

You used me

You hurt me

You thought of me as nothing 

You cheated on me

I'm so fucking stupid for ever trusting you 

If I knew your goal, I would never have, now I know that you broke me just to increase your body count

[showing-no-emotions]

I mean, just when you think everything was ok you have to discover a new lie, do I mean something to you? Do yo really love me? Have you ever felt sorry for lying to me, cheating on me, pulling me apart from my family? How can you live with yourself?