#can’t be friends with men
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Scrolling through Instagram reels and reminded that a huge proportion of men think that being attracted to all women who are nice to you/your friend is normal and not objectifying…
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The absolute brainrot. It’s dehumanizing to think you’ve made a friend and find out it’s only because they think you’re hot.
“If u just politely say that you’d rather be friends they’ll try to act like nothing happened” no they’ll throw a tantrum and either physically threaten you or stop talking to you, or will pretend to be your friend but won’t stop making passes at you.
#can’t be friends with men#they always make weird sex jokes or passes at me#I’m not even conventionally attractive I just am a woman who is available#feminism#radfem#female separatism
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i think its funny how everyone in the fandom calls magneto all his different names, like he’s magneto and he’s also magnus and he’s also erik, but i rarely hear anyone actually call professor x professor x, like no, that’s way too formal. that man is Charles
#maybe this is just me idk#sound off in the notes my friends#charles xavier#erik lehnsherr#cherik#magneto#professor x#xmen#x-men#x men#<- hate that we can’t have one consistent tag. help girl#marvel#alex talks
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You can’t gimme two dragon men and expect me to not crave to see them together … YOU CAN’T
Gotta click for a better quality tho - I
Gosh I love Neuvillette
If he’s not the hydro dragon then WHAT
Have I just went crazy the moment he came out to the point where i couldnt focus on anything else .. maybe yes maybe not
#genshin impact fanart#genshin impact#zhongli genshin impact#neuvillette genshin#mah boi#i love them#i love my dragon men#i say damn the canon rn let them be childhood friends#neuvillette has like 20 minutes of screentime but i absolutly love him#i can’t draw stoic chara…#anyway take my brainrot#neuvillette#fontaine genshin#fontaine
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toxic yaoi (cherik)
toxic yaoi (scogan)
healthy toxic yaoi (poolverine)
healthy yuri (yukionic)
#toxic in a way that’s kind of just good enrichment#they can just fatally wound each other then move on with their day#unhealthy toxic yaoi is also great though#friends to almost lovers to enemies#amen#and accidental throuple ???#rivals in love just love each other instead#also amen#and can’t forget the healthy canon relationship#x men#deadpool and wolverine#cherik#scogan#poolverine#deadclaws#yukionic#charles xavier#professor x#erik lehnsherr#magneto#scott summers#cyclops#logan#wolverine#wade wilson#deadpool#yukio#ellie phimister#negasonic teenage warhead#lots of tags ok erm. yeah
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I hope this keeps everyone fed for the winter
#artists on tumblr#fanart#smiling friends#smiling friends alan#smiling friends charlie#allan red#charlie dompler#charlie x alan#charalan#suggestive#I guess???#it’s not like crazy suggestive but yknow. the undertones are there#so I tagged it anyway#gay men#lgbtq#is this Yaoi or does it gotta be crazier#just a sketch this time around cuz I can’t give enough of a fuck to clean it up#realskel
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I’ve discovered my favorite genre of Bagginshield art is where Thorin is a lovesick idiot who is Losing It and Bilbo is unbothered or oblivious to Thorin’s suffering LMAO
#thorin oakenshield#bilbo baggins#bagginshield#if anyone has more please send it to me I have like four rn#I know I made a post a while back talking about how I wish there were more posts that focused on each of their lives outside of each other#and I still stand by that but I also can’t deny the fun in a Important Dwarf like Thorin turning into an idiot around Bilbo#tbh this works even platonically. this guy has friends bc he’s lucky not bc he’s actually friendly#so I can imagine becoming friends with Bilbo is like ‘fuck now I have to be nice bc he WILL actually leave. uh. oh god’#love men who are grouchy and offputting <3#and Bilbo is oblivious not as a flaw but bc he’s just not wired that way and he’s just accepting that Thorin is weird#bc he has no basis of which to assume he isn’t just Like That sometimes same way the dwarves don’t know shit abt hobbits#and it’s not as like. Bilbo being extremely innocent either he’s just not thinking about it LMAO#and Bilbo Also doesn’t have a ton of friends (different reasons but he IS also grouchy and petty) and he’s just ‘?? ok’#they’re both fucking stupid and everyone around them is dying and in anguish#I particularly enjoy when a character who is emotionally constipated and stoic and whatever just starts losing it#not even necessarily in a sappy or angsty way just. those emotions gotta come out eventually#so for a guy like Thorin who takes himself seriously and is very closed off emotionally it’s fun to just imagine that facade cracking#meanwhile Bilbo is just like ‘you ok??’#Bilbo himself has some emotional issues so it’s double the entertainment
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can’t believe Kevin has chemistry with two separate couples who have their own books centred around them — and Kevin plays a big part in both of their lives — and this guy ends up with Thea. THEA.
#I can’t believe how much chemistry kevin has with andriel and jerejean#he’s literally the best friend in both scenarios??#can u tell I’ve been reading tsc?#I love jean sm#shuu rambles#all for the game#the foxhole court#the kings men#the raven king#kevin day#thea muldani#andrew minyard#neil josten#jean moreau#jeremy knox#kandriel#kerejean
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Something something perhaps the reason Curly lacks a truly undamaged ID where his face is visible is to represent how much damage Jimmy had already affected on him throughout their relationship and the way Curly obscured part of who he is and what he stood to unintentionally cater to this toxic influence in his life.
#I think there is something to say that most people draw post crash curly and may not have every drawn him pre crash#and I think it says something that we only really look at the characters substantially in relation to Jimmy and not their own merits#unless we are discussing how J I M M Y mischarcterizes them cause in this#since we don’t assign a face and identify to Curly’s actions outside of Jimmy until the end their is the question of how much we are viewing#them as separate entities rather than intertwined actions cause while the flipping#of who we play at shows them and parallels and in separable in terms of the story going down#they couldn’t be drastically more different in thinking and you only really realize that at the birthday scene where Curly felt the need to#take responsibility for something while Jimmy just felt the need to take#this is also more so me thinking about all the reason people think Curly and Jimmy could be friends but they are missing the point of Jimmy#and his dynamic there is nothing severely weird or sinister about Curly or his intentions it’s that he’s well meaning to a fault#he’s an average dude having a mid life crisis and Jimmy is a guy that takes advantage of good intentions like the idea#that curly has to be like Jimmy in some way personality humor morally is the exact sort of projection Jimmy wants#to happen and does like it’s the sad and real case that sometimes people just have friends like Jimmy that they can’t cut off for one reason#or another like it’s not highly philosophical people are friends with objective assholes but it’s less about them#and more about the person feeling some obligation to stay like I feel like crafting him into#being more morally grey is to just make it easier to be angrier or think someone with more of a backbone#could of done something but it’s not even that he was spineless he was just too distracted and sometimes that feel like cowardice like even#Swansea waited it’s just the sad truth of how people avoid people like Jimmy or setting them off#sometimes it just does more harm than good I just am so bored with all the takes#acting like there was a perfect man on that ship and that any one outside of Anya knew the exact type of guy Jimmy#was from the get go like the point is other men wouldn’t in rape culture but women and their victims already know#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#curly mouthwashing#jimmy mouthwashing#throwing rocks at Jimmy
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So can we get an all women’s season of physical 100 XD I’m pretty sick of the constant “well they’re not physically strong so our team is going to suck” it’s pretty fucking annoying when it happens to literally every single woman contestant :/
#physical 100#Netflix physical 100#physical 100 season 2#p100s2#Netflix physical 100 season 2#I want an all women’s season so bad bc at this point it seems impossible for a woman to win#but also I’m tired of constantly listening to all the men belittle them#I was talking to a friend and she mentioned literally even just actually having half of the contests be women would be pretty fair#bc rn it’s literally like 8-100#that or literally have a men’s/women’s season#ACTUALLY BE FAIR#I also hate how little they focus on the women#even when they’re doing the challenges!!!#there’s literally 4 people and the woman doesn’t even get to say anything on andre’s intra team roller match#I SAY THIS BECAUSE I LOVE THIS SHOW FR#I SEE SO MUCH POTENTIAL#I just can’t help and notice what seems to be an obvious issue 😭😭😭
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I love it when men have healthy friendships 😭
THE WAY HE LAUGHS INTO TOM’S CHEST/SHOULDER GETS ME EVERY TIME
#I’m so normal about them I promise#I love it when men#shoot from the hip#sfthposting#Sam Russell#Tom Mayo#I just can’t handle it when men have healthy relationships with their friends and masculinity 😭#I just love them so much :)#I think I’ve probably said this before but#?????#bad memory#so#idk
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Nothing makes me want to pull my hair and scream more than the idea of Teenage!Satoru who’s used to being worshipped pinning so hard for a girl who absolutely friend-zones him.
#like he just can’t understand that#his brain goes haywire?? hello??! do you not know who he is? why are you not worshipping him#but then he is too cocky to actually ask you out so he decides to suffer#watch you get on dates with other men as your ‘friend’ and secretly cry to suguru about it#he has dropped hints : ex : giving you that personalised limited edition bag u liked?? but then — money has always been his language#its so hard for him#he just wants you to himself and doesn’t want you to see him as a friend#one of these days hes going to snap and kiss u tho#he just knows it#hes been dreaming about kissing you almost everyday#gojo satoru#jjk#jujutsu kaisen#jjk fluff#gojo fluff#gojo x reader#jjk x reader
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normalize seeing your friend and immediately being filled with such love and joy and whimsy because thats my person!! thats one of my persons, you’re my family!! like you didn’t have to know me or talk to me but i did and i love you and now im going to take you by your hand and yap with you and we’re going to be silly and you get to yap too and of course i’ll listen because i love you so much!! mwAH /p
#jes rambles#i just really love my friends *sniffle*#also whoever out there is still saying in 2024 that men can’t have strictly platonic friendships with women im gonna bite you
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merlin being forced to confront the fact that he’s failing his people bc he’s sitting idly by while uther slaughters them all and coming to the decision that he has to act to save them but that’ll make him camelot enemy no. 1 but technically he already was they just didn’t know it. merlin spending a week all morose but unwilling to talk about it and spending as much time with his friends as possible. on his last night in camelot, he goes to arthur’s chambers and the prince is confused on why he’s there. merlin drops a sealed letter on his desk before pulling arthur into a gentle and emotional kiss. they barely separate, their lips hardly a breath apart, and merlin asks for forgiveness. arthur, thinking he’s apologizing for the kiss, tells him there’s nothing to forgive and goes in for a second kiss but merlin pulls away, knowing that that one brief kiss was all he could handle. if he lets arthur kiss him the way he’s dreamt of being kissed, he won’t be able to do what he needs to do, he won’t be able to leave. merlin tells him good night and leaves before arthur can react. he’s gone by dawn.
#arthur spends a long time storming thru the castle searching for him before returning to his chambers and reading the letter#the letter which outlines that merlin was resigning from his service and leaving camelot#arthur is enraged#merlin is still gone#gaius either wont tell him where merlin is or truly doesnt know#arthur mopes for weeeeeeeeks#then reports start sprouting up of a mysterious person traveling around the land and protecting druids from raids#and intervening when villages/towns attempt to execute sorcerers#uther sends arthur out to find this person and bring them to justice and arthur frankly couldnt care less about them#but it gives him the opportunity to go out and search for merlin so he jumps at the opportunity#he and his men eventually track more and more recent sightings of the cloaked figure to a town on the border of camelot and mercia#they chase the figure thru the streets until arthur corners them and flatly recites their charges of crimes against camelot#and orders them to return to camelot to be tried#the figure hesitates then sighs and turns around#arthurs sword droops to point at the ground as he takes in merlins slightly guilty face#‘i can’t do that arthur’#arthur is hurt from merlin sudden absence that he didnt even have the decency to warn him about#but now hes double hurt bc the reports of the mysterious person included them weilding magic#so now he also knows that merlins been lying about that as well and his hurt quickly turns to anger bc thats all he knows#he raises his sword despite knowing that he wont be able to bring it down on him. merlin smiles sympathetically as if he also knows.#merlin gets away and arthur returns to camelot only to be sent out again and again to kill merlin#friends to enemies to lovers#yippeeeee#bbc merlin#merlin emrys#arthur pendragon#merthur#fanfiction#fanfic#fic idea
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To all the fans of the shows that I watched growing up
To all the fans of the shows that made me think women are more attractive than men.
My oc has s a silly little question for y’all (don’t worry she’s supportive)
#I actually haven’t fall in love for real with anyone yet lol#but women#kinda prettier than men#god I’m starting to feel like I might be aromatic with how I struggle to relate to my friends that has a real crush on other people#anyways#wander over yonder#gravity falls#star versus the forces of evil#sophia the first#princess elena#penn zero part time hero#phineas and ferb#adventure time#the amazing world of gumball#regular show#steven universe#kaitou joker#teen titans#courage the cowardly dog#kim possible#fish hooks#ducktales#craig of the creek#we bare bears#ok ko let's be heroes#unikitty#my little pony#the fairly oddparents#I can’t fit all of them :(#but I did say all the ones I watch growing up
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He is so cringe fail I love him
#this one I like this one !!!!! the cringe fail loser type!!!! (also he reminds me of Chifuyu look wise and me thinks pookie)#haha I am bored and succumbed to downloading it haha I hope this doesn’t consume my every waking thought ahaa#more thoughts to come fellas !!#also can yall guess who her predictable ass chose at the start? bet yall can’t guess!!!! 🤪🤪🤪#when I officially meet rui it’s over for yall I fear#jokes on everyone because I like my men silly and sad😌#green haired boy was also beat I almost chose him too and I love him so far#also professor Nicholas hiiii 🧎♂️🧎♂️ looking respectfully for a friend of a friend of a friend#tokyo debunker#kaito
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louis is saur funny because he chalks up everything about his attachment to lestat to their ‘vampire bond’ but louis was a human whole being when he went out with that man every night even after he saw him stop time and read minds. he was a human whole being when for their first time, he had a threesome with that man and let him literally drink his actual blood. he was a Human Whole Being when he kissed and devoted himself to that man in a church on the day of his brother’s funeral after said man killed and maimed two priests (one who louis clearly knew very personally) before his very damn eyes. this is a not a ‘what came first the chicken or the egg’ situation mr du lac. the court finds that you were dickmatized before you were ever vampire bonded.
#the funniest thing about louis being out and proud in 2022#is that him chalking up all the times he’s chosen lestat to the ‘vampire bond’ instead of penis delirium#can’t even be attributed to his internalized homophobia. it’s literally just the mortification of being down bad for lestat.#interview with the vampire#amc iwtv#i feel like so many of posts just keep coming for louis’ throat. but sorry he’s my best friend whose bad taste in men i love to judge.#this is just things i would tell him at a combination brunch/intervention#anyway. good night#m
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