#butchphobia tw

[uncanny-tranny]

I can't stand masculine women. I am transmasc and I try a lot to be percieved as a man but I am only seen as a tomboy only because some girlies think being its fun to dress like a guy.

I understand where you're coming from, and I'll presume this isn't bait, but: your anger is misplaced, and the way you are expressing it is only hurting women, and it will not make transphobes have a change of heart.

It isn't appropriate to hate an entire group of people because other people are transphobic. As a trans man, transphobes don't hate me because there are butch women, they hate me because I'm a trans man (and, let's face it, butch and GNC women are in the same boat. Transphobes are often just as hateful toward GNC/butch women). Transphobes don't care what you are if they know you are deviant. They will never respect a butch or transmasc because transness and GNC inherently go against their worldview.

I'm sorry, anon, that people are transphobic, I really am. But misogyny isn't going to fix the issue. If GNC women didn't exist, you would still have the same issue because transphobia is the problem, not GNC women.

I really hope you can build connection with GNC people because it really shows you a whole lot. I've found a ton of GNC women who are on my side and recognize my maleness and celebrate it with me. Gender deviants tend to get where trans people are coming from, because society treats them just as shitty. Do not let misogyny go unchecked because society is transphobic.

[dykeboyy]

NO FUCKING WAY MS. CLARA "PRETEND TO BE BLACK BUTCH LESBIANS AND HARASS QUEER PEOPLE" SORRENTI IS SAYING THIS

[quark-nova]

The irony of believing Butches are basically men but trans men are just "lost lesbians". Te/rfism making no sense as usual.

T*rfs bringing back the anti-strap discourse from the 70s

[the-sappho-of-lesbos]

More wild pulp fiction things

[our-lesboy-experience]

recently was on tiktok, post asked "what is smtn you don't like that's happening in the lgbtq community. like bullying etc" and EVERY second comment said "lesboys" or he/him lesbians. One comment alone saying lesboys got 17k likes.

I'm not sure if I consider myself lesboy or not but I'm gender diverse & probably lesbian, so it really sucked to see how so many lesbians in the community hate people like me :( It feels like it's impossible to be in spaces with cis people sometimes because they only will see someone with he in their pronouns as "stealing" lesbian identity

the fact that people were asked what's something they hate about the queer community and half of the comments went to complain about lesbians (especially butch and trans) doing anything just shows where their priorities are. it's always the lesbians with these people

[trans-androgyne]

Me when I’m definitely normal about transmasc lesbians and bigender people. They said in the tags this is talking about “transandrophobia truthers” specifically.

It’s not about bioessentialism or an “afab connection,” it’s that historically and currently the line between transmasculinity and butch lesbianism is eternally blurry and up to personal identity.

[samble-moved]

like...what exactly do you mean by this "joke"?

also this.

if you really MUST defend the idea of "bi lesbians" and "trans man lesbians" you can do it without "sarcastically" saying you think gnc women aren't really women and calling other lgbt people "police" for disagreeing w you...

idk how to tell you but saying certain groups of women "aren't real women" as a "joke" is uhm. not good.

[gettinontopic]

Hmmm.

Mayhaps time to see if any mutuals have a discord or somewhere we can chat if they wanna keep in touch.

Im. Im not sure I can do this shit anymore.

Or at least I need a break from hanging out on this site that wouldnt listen to a person of color if it would save the world

Unless theyre 1) Yelling 2) Guilting 3)Acting perfect and special and performing for you.

All you do is block us and get defensive as you use black theory after theory through white lenses and wonder why we might be so fucking angry.

You tell me how my opression works.

You demand to know things about me that aren't your buisness so you can sort me catagory by catagory.

You demand I be this way or that way, so you can treate this way or that way.

Some of you litterally want to recreate segregation and the prison system but with ur type of people holding the power.

You compare every type of opression with racism only to show your using our words as a crutch to push your own interpretation rather than what was originally said.

Multiple poeple this month have said to leave my heritage out of pride. Many in their attempt to tell Jewish people to not be visible there.

The transmisogyny against the women on this site is constantly at a high

The Transandrophobia is still fighting a million lies and fake rules and shit just to be acknowledged for what it is.

Exorsexism and Intersexism is so casually thrown around, like a joke or as if it's some kind of conspiracy against Real People.

Not to mention the shit I block and delete in my inbox lmao. You guys send vile shit when you think you can get away with it.

I iust.

I'm tired.

I need a fucking breather.

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[thebisexualwreckoning]

Reposting this on tumblr because there’s to many people out there who need to read this who do not exist in my private discord servers but out of the many things I hate about online liberal centrist queer circles but specifically the white feminist sapphic circle of it is the inherent hatred and fear they have of butches. Like every single lesbian and bisexual woman from 1920-2010s is rising from the grave and spitting on your face right now

And the only butches they find acceptable are those in butch4fem relationships for some reason where the butch is expected to act like the heteronormative ideal of a man in the relationship completely ignoring their feeling and emotions. And butch4butch relationships literally do not exist in their eyes. Like, I’m just so tired of butchphobia in the sapphic community.

Anyway, if it wasn’t clear yet, THIS TUMBLR USER LOVES BUTCHES AND THEIR CULTURE ABD EVERYTHING THAT THEYVE DONE FOR THE LESBIAN COMMUNITY AND QUEER CULTURE IN THE WHOLE!!!

[beatingheartbutch]

sometimes being butch just lets you have new avenues of being objectified

So I Went To See Rent

p1- waiting for drinks while my femme was in the restroom

p2- when an older woman bumped into me

p3- on accident, I thought to till she eyes my packer

p4- she had a short talk, while eyes locked with my groin

p5- implied I should buy her a drink told me where she’d sit

p6- somehow the way she looked at me, I knew she was straight 

p7- it felt like a cat playing with a toy in the worst way

[ughtwigs]

[ID: reply by @tasersandkittens reading: “but if she’s not a lesbian how can she beat her wife?” /end ID]

Making a new rule for straight creators along the lines of "don't kill off your lesbian couple it's homophobic" but this time it's "if you're going to put a lesbian in your show you can't make her a cop"

[butchbarbieagainstterfs]

also the next time a terf tries to claim they care about women, intersex folk, poc and children: there are literal genital inspection laws coming in to place for anyone suspected of being trans in sports.

this will not only harm trans folk, including kids, but will hurt woc, and gnc and intersex women and kids too, as well as any woman anyone else deems ‘too good’. and the terf role in this was massive.

but yes, continue to claim it’s trans people who are the perverts and the danger to children while you’re forcing them to undergo genital checks. fucking sick paedos.

[sanguinebutch]

why do conventionally attractive feminine lesbians on tiktok hate butches so much? is it just internalised homophobia? i’ve seen so many videos now of pretty thin girls talking about how they’re so glad they’re not one of those Fat Ugly Butch Dykes and it’s just,,, ugh. i hate it.

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

Talk that shit. Specifically a corrective rape kink(add misgendering, too).

Sitting my female ass down and listening

[cherrysnax]

i wonder if white butches know that when they shun butches of colour for not being “butch enough” theyre just being fucking racist

[uncanny-tranny]

"We can always tell!" the transphobe shouts as they harass a butch cis woman and ignore the fact they can barely clock trans people