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idk what this is i just had a horny thot involving satoru and his baker!gf
âthis is soooo good babe, more please.â
gojoâs pink tongue poked out to swipe over his bottom lip, the sweet taste of mango cream coating his tastebuds. with a shaky hand you brought another forkful of mango crepe cake to his puffy lips.
the fork nearly slipped out of your hands when you felt his slender fingers circle around your clit, the digits trailing lower to dip into your clenching hole before pulling out. you looked at him with tears in your eyes and a pout in your lips, âi donât like this very much.â
satoru only grinned, his pearly white canines on display. âtoo bad. more please.â
you carefully pushed the fork past his lips, âiâm glad you like it at l-least.â gojo licked his lips, his head tilting forward to silently tell you he wanted a kiss. although you didnât find his game fun at all, you could never deny your satoru of his kisses. you leant forward, softly pressing your lips against his.
your lips parted, allowing gojo to slip his tongue into your mouth. he tasted sweet, like mangos and cream. âsatoruuu, youâre gânna make me drop the plââ he cut you off by sucking your tongue into his mouth, a laugh rumbling in his chest. he felt a gush of your essence hit his fingers, and of course took that as an opportunity to shove his ring and middle finger in your pussy with ease.
the tips of his fingers immediately bumped into that spongy spot that had your toes curling, and you were sure if you held the plate any tighter itâd break! âso wet honey, sheâs so loud fâme,â satoru giggled, peppering your jaw in kisses. all you could do was tilt your head back and let him do what he wanted with you.
gojo did enjoy watching you in your fucked out state especially when you were fighting so hard not to ride his fingers, but he was still rather hungry . . . .
âi want some more.â
âh-huh?â
âi said, i want some more cake.â
suddenly his fingers, still knuckle deep inside you, halted their movements. he smirked at you, âplease baby? iâm famished, i need sum sweet to give me a boost!â you really couldâve smacked the smile off his face.
you huffed, your nostrils flaring as your scooped up more crepe cake for him. before you could even bring it to his lips, his fingers resumed their movements, his thumb now finding purchase on your swollen clit. âd-donât toru,â you whined, your thighs closing around his hand out of instinctâbut you knew better, and so you opened them once again without him uttering a word.
âheh, youâre good. got you trained well, donât i bunny?â he giggled, giving your jaw a sloppy smooch. âyeah, yeah w-whatever. hereâs your caâhake! o-oh!â the air felt like it had been punched from your lungs as gojo increased the pace of his fingers, his soft palm brushing against your clit roughly. your thighs started to tremble.
âi-iâm gonnaââ
âi know you are sweet thing. do it now, cmon, cum on my fingers, you can do it.â
you panicked for a second, setting the plate aside so your dessert wouldnât go to waste by accidentally dropping it. gojoâs thumb rubbed tight circles on your clit, his lips lifting into a smirk when he felt your pussy spasm around his fingers.
loud squelches echoed throughout your small apartment, only adding onto your embarrassment. gojo pulled his fingers out, using the soaked digits to rub sloppy circles on your clit to milk your orgasm for as long as he could. by the time he stopped you were limp in his arms, your eyes fluttering shut when a wave of exhaustion suddenly hit you.
satoru took a moment to admire you while you rested. you were so cute! the way your nose scrunched up when you felt aftershocks from your orgasm had his heart fluttering.
âmm, bunny, wake up,â gojoâs nose ran across the apple of your cheek, tickling you the tiniest bit. when you cracked your eyes open you were met with his cerulean ones staring right back at you. âgrab the plate,â he mumbled, his eyes flicking over to the abandoned crepe cake. he watched you carefully as you picked up the plate, his fingers rubbing between your folds to collect your wetness.
âh-hey! back off, mâsensitiveeee,â you whined, your back arching into his touch. satoru muttered out an apology, giving your jaw three pecks.
your eyes widened in horror when gojo greedily rubbed his two fingers, that were still soaked with your cum mind you, on the cake. he grinned, his teeth clamping onto his kiss swollen lip. you looked at the cake, then at gojo, then back to the cake.
âyouâre . . . . disgusting. thereâs no other way to put it, youâre just nastyâlike, oh my god satoru!â you could only watch with a scrunched up nose as gojo plucked the fork from the fingers, getting a big forkful of the cake that glistened that tiniest bit at the topâso gross.
gojoâs eyes rolled back dramatically, his head thudding against the back of the couch when the sweet, now slightly tangy dessert hit his tastebuds. âsooo good baby.â
you kissed your teeth, âyouâre nasty.â
gojo hummed, nodding his head as he ate another piece of cake. âmm, i can be nastier, and i will be. youâll see bunny. now, can i have another piece?â he cocked his head at you like a puppy, nothing but love nâ lust swirling in his eyes.
âsure . . . but you canât put nothing extra on top.â
âbut babyâ!â
âi said no, satoru!â
â :( â
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Supermarket Scare
This idea is originally from @rosenclaws and I HAD to write it. (They actually did turn it into a fic which is here) I took the idea, changed a few things (Logan is boy dad in this one I fear), and idk I guess this is what came out of it lmfao

Pairing: Logan Howlett x Reader
Tropes: MILF reader <3
Warnings: None that I know of
Other tags: Logan who is GREAT with kids, but doesnât know it, extra dramatic backstory that may not be legally accurate bc I said so
Background: Youâre raising your adopted son, Arlo, on your own. Wade, Al, and Logan live down the hall from you.
Description: While shopping at the grocery store, you donât realize that Arlo has let go of the shopping cart. When you look down to talk to him, you realize that heâs gone. Thank god for Wadeâs new roommate.
    âCan we get some of those little donuts?â Arlo asked, his small hand gripping the shopping cart as you walked down the bread aisle. He knew the rule, if he wanted to walk instead of riding in the cart, he had to hold onto the cart.
    âSure,â you hummed, âWhat kind? The chocolate ones or the white powdered ones?â You asked.
    âThe white ones,â he decided. âTheyâre yummy.â
    âWhite ones it is,â you nodded, stopping the cart in front of the bread you needed. Turning away, you reached up and grabbed a loaf of bread. âYou wanna pick out some cereal while weâre here too?â You asked, turning back to the cart, only to find that Arlo was gone.Â
    Looking down the aisle, he was nowhere to be seen.
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    Logan stood on one side of the aisle, observing the different kinds of granola bars. Why were there so many goddamn flavors anyway? His focus was drawn away from the boxes on the shelves when he felt a tug on his pants.
    Looking down, he saw a young boy with tears falling down his cheeks.
    âUh,â Logan froze, not sure how to interact with a child. âHi.â
    âI canât find my mama,â the boy cried, his tears coming down harder.
    âWhat does she look like?â He asked, kneeling down so he was closer to the kidâs height.
    The boy only cried in response, clearly scared and missing his mom.
    âAlright,â he replied, looking around as he stood up and tried to decide what to do. âLetâs go to the front of the store. Then they can find your mom, okay?â
    The boy nodded, letting go of Loganâs pants to hold out both arms at the man. Grabby hands. How could anyone say no to that?
    Logan sighed, debating it in his head before leaning down and scooping the boy into his arms. As he walked to the front of the store, the boyâs tears slowed until they eventually came to a stop. The boy laid his head down on Loganâs shoulder while one of his hands held an iron grip on the front of Loganâs flannel.
    âExcuse me,â Logan spoke, walking up to the customer service desk.
    âHow can I help you?â The woman at the desk asked.
    âHe canât find his mom,â Logan explained, nodding towards the boy in his arms.
    âLet me make an announcement,â the worker gave the boy a sympathetic smile. She picked up a phone from the counter, putting it up to her ear and hitting a few buttons on the keypad. âAttention shoppers, we have a lost little boy at the customer service desk. If he is your child, please come pick him up.â After the announcement was made, she hung the phone up.
    âAlright, kid,â Logan said. âNow you just gotta wait for your mom to come get you.â
    âIâm Cherie,â the worker spoke softly to the boy. âYou wanna stay here with me while we wait on your mom?â She offered, holding out her hands.
    Logan moved to pull the child away from him and hand him to Cherie, but Arlo began to cry again. His grip on Loganâs flannel tightened.
    âCâmon kid, you gotta let go,â Logan encouraged.
    The boy cried harder, bawling as he tried to desperately stay in Loganâs arms.
    âItâs alright, angel,â Cherie hushed. Based on her tone, Logan could tell that this woman had certainly dealt with kids before. She was definitely a better person to watch the boy temporarily, but kids want what they want.
    âOkay, okay,â Logan relented, holding the boy close to his chest again. âIâll stay, just stop crying. You donât have to cry.â He looked to the worker, âIâll stay with him âtil his mom gets here.â
    Despite being secure in Loganâs arms again, the tears didnât stop.
    âShhh,â Logan attempted, gently swaying with the boy in his arms. He wasnât sure what he was doing, but heâd seen mothers do it with their babies before.
    The tears just kept coming.
    Logan looked around, spotting a small display of stuffed animals. He reached out with one hand, grabbing the first one he could and holding it up in front of the boy.
    âLook at this,â he redirected the boyâs attention, shaking the toy slightly.
    Sniffling a few times, the boy in his arms slowly stopped crying. He used his free hand to grab the animal, pulling it to his chest.
    âFox,â he said simply, looking at the orange and white stuffie in his arm. âI like foxes. Thanks.â His voice was barely more than a whisper.
    âYeah, itâs a fox. Youâre welcome,â Logan nodded, just happy that he had made the kid stop crying. With his free hand, he reached into his pocket and pulled out a few dollars. âFor the fox,â he commented to the worker, who just smiled and nodded.
    Logan moved to sit down on a bench in the customer service area. As expected, the boy refused to move from his lap. So, there they sat. Logan, a mutant, and on his lap, a lost kid holding a stuffed fox. Quite the pair.
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    âOh thank god!â You exclaimed as you walked into the customer service area. âArlo!â
    âMama!â Arlo exclaimed from where he sat on a manâs lap.
    âTold you sheâd be here,â the man said as he helped Arlo down from his lap. He looked familiar, but you were more concerned about Arlo.
    The moment his feet hit the ground, Arlo was running towards you with his arms reaching out.
    As he reached you, you dropped to one knee so you could wrap your arms around him. Your arms held him tightly to your chest.
    âHoney, Iâm so glad youâre okay. I was so worried,â you breathed out, closing your now teary eyes as you held him.
    âIâm sorry,â he said softly, beginning to cry as you held him.
    âHey, itâs alright, sweetheart,â you assured, pulling away enough so you could see each otherâs faces. âYouâre not in trouble. Just promise me you wonât run off like that ever again.â
    âI promise,â he nodded, leaning back in to cling to you.
    You slowly stood, picking Arlo up as you did so.
    âThank you so much,â you spoke to the man that had been with Arlo, who was now standing. Now that you got a good look at him, you knew why you recognized him. âWait, youâre Wadeâs roommate, arenât you?â You asked.
    Logan gives you a strange look, so you continue talking.
    âWe live down the hall,â you explained. âArlo loves talking Wadeâs ear off whenever we run into each other.â
    âProbably because theyâre on the same learning level,â Logan joked. He held out a hand for you to shake as he introduced himself. âLogan.â
    You supported Arlo on your hip as you took his hand in yours. As you shook his hand, you gave him your name in return.
    âAnd, of course, youâve met Arlo,â you added, letting go of his (very warm, very large) hand and squeezing the boy in your arms for emphasis.
    âArlo,â Logan smiled slightly at the boy. He hadnât expected the little munchkin to grow on him so quickly, yet here he was.
    âI knew you,â Arlo stated.
    âYou knew it was Logan?â You asked.
    âI knew he was Wadeâs friend,â he smiled proudly. âThe big guy with kitty ears,â he clarified, pointing to Loganâs hair and giggling.
    âKitty ears?â Logan asked, raising a brow. âIâve never gotten that before.â
    âI like them,â Arlo hummed happily. âThey look like fox ears too,â he observed, holding up the stuffed fox with both hands.
    Logan let out a breathy chuckle, tucking his hands in his pockets.Â
    âThank you again,â you told Logan. âI really owe you big time,â you smiled. âItâs just me and Arlo, I donât know what I wouldâve done if something happened.â
    âNo need,â Logan shook his head. Now that heâd learned it was just you and Arlo, he decided to try and flirt with you. âHeâs a nice kid. And heâs got a very nice mom,â Logan gave you a small grin, which came across as more of a smirk.
    You arenât sure how to react. It wasnât like you had guys lining up to date you. Most of them didnât want to flirt with a single mom. You werenât even sure if he was flirting. What could you say? You were a little out of practice.
    âAt least let me make you dinner,â you offered. You tried not to sound too hopeful, but you were almost positive that youâd failed.
    âPretty please,â Arlo chimed in, sticking out his bottom lip and giving Logan his most convincing puppy dog eyes.
    âWell when you put it like that,â Logan smiled, reaching a hand out to ruffle Arloâs hair, which earned him a giggle. âIâd love to.â
    âIf tomorrow night works for you, we donât have anything going on,â you suggested.
    âSure,â Logan nodded. âIâm free.â
    After deciding on a time, you caught a glance of your watch and realized you had to get Arlo to home to make dinner tonight.
    âWe should get home, gotta finish shopping and get this little gremlin fed,â you chuckled. âArlo, tell Logan goodbye.â
    âBye!â Arlo gave Logan a big grin. âWe can play when you come over tomorrow.â
    âSounds fun,â Logan nodded, smiling at Arlo.
    âWeâll see you tomorrow,â you smiled. âAnd feel free to stop by anytime,â you added as you started to walk away.
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    âMama! Thereâs someone at the door! I bet itâs Logan,â Arlo exclaimed, running into the kitchen, where you were working on finishing dinner.
    âOkay, okay,â you chuckled, making sure nothing would burn as you wiped your hands off on a towel and headed to the door with Arlo. You checked the peephole, confirming that it was Logan, before opening the door.
    You and Logan didnât have a chance to speak before Arlo was jumping up and down.
    âLogan!â He grinned, practically vibrating with excitement. He held both hands out for Logan.
    âHey, bub,â Logan greeted, picking Arlo up into his arms with a small âwooshâ sound. He then turned his attention to you, smiling softly.
    âIâm just finishing up dinner,â you hummed, stepping aside and letting Logan in. You shut the door behind him as he toed off his shoes neatly next to the door.
    âTake your time,â Logan replied, not wanting you to feel pressured.
    âThat means we can go play in the living room,â Arlo giggled. âMe and Fink were just playing in there.â
    âFink?â Logan raised a brow. What the hell was a Fink?
    âYeah,â he nodded. âThe fox you got me. His name is Fink.â
    âOh,â Logan chuckled softly. âWe can go play with Fink before dinner as long as itâs alright with your mom.â
    âPlease mama,â Arlo looked at you, giving you his brightest smile. âCan me and Logan go play while you cook?â
    âYou can,â you laughed softly at Arloâs excitement. âPlay nice, okay?â
    âI will!â He promised, wriggling around until Logan put him down. He grabbed the manâs hand, tugging on it. âCâmon, câmon, I wanna show you my toys.â
    You and Logan shared an amused look before Logan let Arlo drag him off to your living room.
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    âHey, you two, dinnerâs rea-,â you stopped mid sentence as you walked into the living room. You hadnât expected the scene in front of you.
    Logan sat on the floor with Arlo, whoâs hair was now pulled up into two tufts on top of his head.
    âLook mama!â Arlo spoke proudly. âI asked Logan to make us match! Do we look cool?â
    âYou look very cool, sweetheart,â you chuckled softly. âYouâre both very handsome. But even cool guys have to eat dinner.â
    âYeah, to be big and strong,â Arlo nodded, hopping up from the floor and rushing off to the table.
    Logan stood up from the floor, groaning softly.
    âDidnât know you were a hairdresser,â you joked as he began following you to the table as well.
    âWell when he gives me those big puppy eyes, I canât say no,â Logan defended.
    âYouâve got me there,â you chuckled softly. âYou can go sit at the table, Iâll bring in dinner.â
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    Dinner with Logan felt good. Domestic. Arlo yapped about his current favorite show while you and Logan chuckled. As much as you loved Arlo, you did want to talk to Logan without having every other sentence be about Nubs the pooba boy from a Star Wars show Arlo was obsessed with.
    âAlright, bud, itâs time to head to bed,â you hummed to Arlo. After dinner, the three of you had stayed at the table talking, and now it was time for him to get some sleep.
    âDo I have to?â Arlo frowned. âI wanna stay up and play with Logan some more.â
    âListen to your mom,â Logan replied before you could. âIf you go to bed now, we can play another time. Deal?â
    âDeal,â Arlo nodded, accepting Loganâs offer. He climbed out of his chair and walked off in the direction of his room.
    âIf you wanna wait in the living room, Iâll be back out after I get him down,â you told Logan as you stood.
    Logan gave you a nod before you walked off after Arlo to help him get ready for bed.
    âI like Logan,â Arlo stated as you stepped into his room. âHeâs fun.â
    You chuckled softly, getting into Arloâs dresser to pull out a couple pairs of his favorite pajamas. One was yellow and covered in dinosaurs, while the other was light blue with green stripes.
    âWhich pajamas do you wanna wear tonight?â You asked, holding up both pairs for him to pick from.
    âDinosaurs!â He grinned.
    âDinosaurs it is,â you nodded, putting the other pajamas back in the drawer for another night.
    Once Arlo was changed into his pajamas, you helped him brush his teeth. The two of you went back into his room so that he could lay down.
    âWait!â Arlo gasped before he could climb into bed. âI have to go get Fink and tell Logan goodnight.â
    Of course he had to tell Logan goodnight. What had you been thinking?
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    âLogan!â Arlo giggled as he ran into the living room. Logan was sitting on the couch as he waited for you to come back.
    âI thought you were going to bed,â Logan chuckled at Arloâs energy.
    âHad to come get Fink,â Arlo answered, grabbing the stuffed fox from where heâd left it on a chair before dinner. âAnd I wanted to tell you goodnight,â he smiled, climbing on the couch next to Logan and wrapping his arms around the man to the best of his abilities.
    Logan was surprised, to say the least. It wasnât exactly a regular occurrence for kids to come up and hug him. After a split second of shock, he wrapped both arms around Arlo and gave him a soft squeeze.
    âGânight,â he hummed before letting go of Arlo.
    âGoodnight,â Arlo grinned, planting a kiss on Loganâs cheek before hopping up and running back to his room where you were waiting on him.
    âYou ready to go to sleep now?â You asked as he hopped up on the bed.
    âYep!â He nodded, crawling under his blankets.
    As he got settled, you leaned over and flicked on his night light. Then, tucked him into bed, smiling as he wiggled around to get comfortable.
    âDo you think we can get ice cream with Logan and Wade one day?â Arlo asked hopefully.
    âWeâll see, sweetie,â you chuckled, leaning down to press a kiss to his forehead.
    âGoodnight, mama,â he smiled softly at you, âI love you.â
    âNight, bud. I love you,â you replied, standing from the bed and heading for the door. âSleep tight,â you added, flicking the lightswitch and leaving his room, pulling the door closed as you did.
    Now that he was in bed, you made your way back to the living room.
    âHeâs in bed,â you spoke as you entered the room. âHeâll be out in a few minutes. That kid can fall asleep anywhere,â you chuckled softly, plopping down on the couch next to Logan. You left a little bit of space between the two of you, not wanting to make things weird.
    âIt must be nice,â Logan joked, an amused breath leaving his nose.
    âOne time I found him asleep halfway through using the bathroom. He had his head leaned over against the toilet paper roll,â you laughed at the memory.
    âJesus,â Logan laughed along with you. âHe must keep you on your toes.â
    âYou have no idea,â you chuckled, pulling one leg up onto the couch so you could face Logan as you talked. âHeâs got enough energy for about a dozen kids. But when heâs out, he sleeps like the dead.â
    âHe definitely has the energy,â Logan agreed. âBut he seems like a good kid.â
    âHe is,â you smiled proudly. âHeâs a great kid. One of the sweetest kids I know. Maybe I just think that because Iâm biased,â you joked.
    âI donât think so,â Logan smiled. âHeâs sweet. When he and I were playing earlier while you cooked, he was always offering to share whatever toy he had. Not a lot of kids are offering to share things.â
    âI try my best with him. I wasnât sure if I was ready to be a mom, but then Arlo came along, and I dunno, it was just, it was right,â you spoke fondly.
    âIt canât be easy being a single mother,â Logan started, âYouâre doinâ great. Heâs lucky to have you.â
    âThank you,â you said softly. Nobody had ever told you anything like that before. You werenât really sure how to react. âI hadnât really expected to be a single mom, but I donât have any regrets. I adopted him when he was just a baby, but thatâs a story for another time.â
    âI didnât realize,â Logan replied. âHeâs even luckier to have you than I thought, then.â
    You smiled at Logan, feeling so grateful that the mishap at the supermarket had happened. You enjoyed having him around.
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    âTonight was nice,â you told Logan as you walked him to the door. It was getting late, and you had to be up the next morning.
    Logan put his shoes on while you opened the door.
    âI had a good time,â Logan smiled slightly at you as he stood.
    You both stepped into the hallway, and you pulled the door most of the way around behind you.
    âThank you again, for yesterday,â you hummed, leaning against the wall next to your door.
    âNo, thank you,â he replied, âFor dinner. Itâs not often I get a home cooked meal.â
    âWell, feel free to come by for more anytime,â you smiled up at him, âEven if itâs just chicken nuggets and mac n cheese, youâre more than welcome to join us.â
    Logan chuckled softly, nodding at your invitation.
    âIâd say that you two are welcome to drop by Wade and Iâs place, but that is not fit for children,â he joked.
    You laughed, unable to help yourself. Joking with Logan felt so natural.
    âWell,â Logan spoke again. âI should get out of your hair, but Iâll see ya around, yeah?â He tried not to sound too hopeful.
    âYeah, Iâll see you around,â you nodded in response.
     Logan hesitated for a fraction of a second before leaning in and placing a barely there kiss on your cheek.
    âIâd really like to see you again sometime. As a date,â he admitted. âI understand that dating is more difficult when you have a kid because you have to consider Arlo when you make decisions, but Iâd like to see where this goes.â He couldnât remember the last time heâd asked someone else, and all he could do was pray he wasnât making a fool of himself.
    âI would love that, Logan,â you grinned. He was the first man to ever consider Arlo when it came to dating you. He seemed like the type of man to know that you had to put Arlo first. âArlo is having a sleepover at my sisterâs with his cousins this weekend. Maybe we could get dinner then? Just the two of us this time.â
    âThat sounds great,â Logan nodded, trying and failing to fight off a smile. He felt like a goddamn blushing school boy. âIâll come by at seven so we can go to dinner.â
    âPerfect,â you smiled. You leaned up, placing a quick peck on his lips. âI canât wait.â
    Logan was shocked that youâd kissed him, but he certainly wasnât complaining. He opened his mouth to speak, but was interrupted by a voice from inside your apartment.
    âMama?â Arlo called out for you from his room. He mustâve had a nightmare or want a glass of water.
    âDuty calls,â you joked. âGoodnight Logan,â you hummed, stepping back into your apartment.
    âNight,â he replied, giving you a small nod as you shut the apartment door to go check on Arlo.
    After the door was shut, Logan realized he was smiling like an absolute idiot. He hadnât been this excited for a date sinceâŠ. He couldnât actually remember.
    Turning on his heel, he headed down the hallway back to Wadeâs. He couldnât stop smiling.
    Walking into the apartment, he groaned as he saw Wade laying on the couch as if he had been waiting for Logan to get back.
    âStop looking at me like that,â he huffed, shutting the door behind him.
    âLike what, peanut?â Wade shrugged. âI just wanna know how things went with the hot milf down the hall.â
    âFuck off,â Logan rolled his eyes, dropping his keys on the entry table and walking off to go to bed.
    âIâll take that as âIt went great, Wade, you officially have a nephew nowâ. Is that about right?â He called after Logan.
    Logan ignored Wade, shaking his head. He had to admit, though, things had gone great with the hot milf down the hall. And it would only get better.
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I love that you made this analysis and personal rant about this, because I have been wanting for a while to read an opinion about this from a person that lived through a similar experience and how they felt about how Octavia was portrayed with the show.
I never lived something remotely similar to this, so, for me it was harder to know how a person in a situation like this would feel.
Really thank you so much.
Even if I had defended Octavia from critics before I can totally understand your position. I can also see that this arc had some weak points in Sinsmas (not in general because we havenât seen the complete thing). The weaker points for me are:
Octavia not looking for Stolas when Stella took the phone from her (maybe she expected he to come back? Idk either). This is not explained. I thought there were going to be scenes of Stella saying that Stolas left her and didnât wanted to come back even if she offered (or lies like that).
She was happily going to answer Stolas, then Stella takes the phone and then you see she hasnât her phone anymore but her iPad in the next scene. (This also leads me to believe that the show implies that Stolas not coming back after the trial is what made Via mad and not Stolas saving BlitzĂž, and when she says: you chose him is because Stolas stayed living with him later. But I know is ambiguous and is also unfair with Stolas bc doing that doesnât mean he doesnât care, and then he goes to the palace to look for her and she still gets mad, so ofc give you the point).
She assumes Stolas is not calling anymore because Stella obviously never told her he called, and she doesnât receive the calls herself because Stella has the phone. It feels very innocent on her part to think that Stella would notify her if Stolas called. Itâs not impossible, but I know it can be kinda far fetched because Stella prohibited her to talk to him. This could have been easily fixed by implying that Stella or Andrealphus blocked the number, and let octavia have the phone, but I get that maybe this was simpler to understand.
I really hope for the future of this arc to know more details about all of these situations, to make us understand better Octaviaâs positioning, including:
How Via feels about Stella? Why she never thinks what role she might have? I think this is probably intended and part of her future arc but is interesteing that she acts as if Stella doesnât exist and like she canât affect anythingâŠ
Has Stella always been as openly abusive and shouting? (Not saying she wasnât abusive in the beginning, but how evident she made her the abuse to be for Via in her childhood). Has the abuse scalated with time? When did that happened?
Have Octavia and Stolas talked about things before? Has Stolas been able to say anything before? Besides the Loo Loo land episode.
I feel that all of this information would help us understand the situation better too â€ïž!! So donât feel bad for not being able to completely empathize with her, perhaps this arc has some elements that needed more attention that the one they were able to give and also, maybe this things are hard to think for someone that didnât went through them. Also, a lot of the situations of this show can hit very close home for a lot of people and I think is normal to feel conflicted about some of the arcs and characters if you endured a similar situation.
The Octavia Dilemma (Vent/Rant Post)
TW: Divorce
I want to make it abundantly clear that this post is about myself and my feelings on Via. This does not reflect the greater fandom or all Stolas Stans.
This is a reflection of my feelings and my feelings alone. Do not utilize this post to generalize all Stolas Stans since many of them are going to agree with about 60% of my post and I'm fine with that.
Moving on,
Hello everyone! It is I, Amalthea, the Ultimate Stolas Kinnie and Stan, reporting to you live on a topic I was initially going to not talk about, but became more compelled to talk about since well- I didn't want to talk about Stella. (I'd rather not lol)
When it comes to Octavia and her rejecting Stolas I have very, very mixed feelings on the topic. While many of you may think she was right or wrong, I'm going to give you the perspective from a person who lived this stuff during my preteens.
I won't go into details, but my parental unit picked another person over my family. Parent A decided to pick Person C over Parent B and that will never not mess me up till this day.
When Parent A left, I was alone without the only thing I wanted, closure. I didn't understand why I was abandoned. I didn't understand how Parent A just thought I didn't matter anymore.
Parent B had to struggle and I just had to- watch morbidly as my world fell apart.
One of the things I absolutely can't agree with Octavia doing is walking away from Stolas when he came back to her.
She has this entire speech, victimizing herself solely(not faulting her for it, just stating it), and not asking the question why and that is where I will say the Hellaverse team failed. Kids of divorce always ask the question why. We seek a reason and yet Octavia just makes baseless accusations at Stolas that hold no water.
I mean your father, the man who has stood by your side, and loved on you for ages suddenly has an affair with a strange imp from his past and you don't even- think to ask why? Or let him explain?
Octavia willingly parentified herself to cope, which again as someone who is parentified, that makes no sense to me. Parentification happens when no one is around to help you or support you, but Octavia had her dad right fucking there. She rejected him, and seemingly can't understand he's depressed???
Again, I am speaking for myself, but this entire rant of hers makes no sense to me. She's seen him light up around Blitz, be more open (maybe to open), and be happier, but doesn't acknowledge it???
My issue, a reminder I am talking about myself , with Octavia is she makes everything solely about herself and asks no important questions about her father. I know she is a rich girl, but she is shown to be empathetic and kind overall, so it feels out of character she doesn't even- try to understand. Even if it's hard.
When Parent A came back into my life I begged for a reason why. Why the hell did you leave!? What did Person C have that I didn't!? Why did you raise their child you didn't birth but not me!? What did I do wrong!? What was so bad you left!?
None of these questions were asked, Octavia goes straight to making accusations which makes no sense. The fact she expected Blitz to die??? Like Loona wasn't going to be fatherless??? Like she's 17. Via is a bright and smart girl. Did she really look down on Blitz that much??? (genuine question, not tryna be a smart ass)
Octavia: You lied to me.
Stolas: What?
Octavia: *pushes Stolas away* You lied to me! You said you would never leave me! You promised!
Stolas: Via. I-I didn't leave you I-I- I would never, it wasn't my choice.
Octavia: It was your choice. You chose HIM!
I also think this whole scene is why Stolas made the choice he made. While he had an inclination he could die- he knew his privilege could possibly save him. It's why he was a bit confused and not sure of what was going to happen.
He was hanging onto the hope he'd not die. Afterwards the reality sets in as to what he had just done and what he truly lost. Stolas took a risk on a hunch.
The man had no choice. As a father, as a person, as a soulmate, he was in an impossible situation where he had to use his privilege. He had no other option or Loona would be fatherless.
Stolas: Via, no! I didn't I just- I had to. You don't understand.
Octavia: *clenches fist as magic forms* I do understand! I understand that we were never enough for you! You never loved mother, and you don't love me, you love him. *holds up happy pills* And you needed THESE! Was this my fault that you needed these?
Stolas: No! No, never Via! *grabs Octavia's hands* Sweetie, please. You have always been the only good thing in my life!
Octavia: So does that mean you just stayed miserable because of me? *tearing up* Was I some fucking obligation? Is that why you didn't even hesitate when you got a chance to leave?
This next part always pisses me off because Via's expectation of her father are so high. That he cannot have autonomy outside of their family. She is so attached at the hip to him that anytime he deviates from loving her entirely it is a slight against her.
Also the obligation part of that statement boils my blood, because girl- you don't even know what it is like to have your parent look at you and tell you to your face "you're just a responsibility to me". Because I lived that shit. I lived knowing Parent A didn't want me because I was just to much.
Stolas stayed and loved on this girl. He gave her the whole universe and more and somehow that isn't enough.
Of course I sympathize with the sentiment, but nothing in Stolas's behavior nor him being with Blitz suggests she was ever solely an obligation to him.
If Stolas truly viewed her as a responsibility he wouldn't show any concern for her. Parent A in my life acted distant and emotionally withdrawn. They didn't take care of me anymore, acting like a ghost of their former self. They took care of my most basiepc and fundamental needs while Octavia is borderline spoiled and-
FUCK why couldn't I have that!? She sits there and complains but her parent came back for her?! She had a chance at closure and denied it! What kid of divorce does that!? What person does that?!
I know I shouldn't have this much turmoil over this. I really shouldn't. If anything I should be sympathizing with her entirely. Theoretically I should hate Stolas, but I can't because I know what it's like to be guilted for choosing yourself! I know what it's like to be forced to feel bad for being depressed! It's why I love Stolas so much and understand him completely.
But when it comes to Via, the character who borderline mimics my trauma I just- can't fully empathize. I can rationalize her thinking and- understand where it may stem from, but it still leaves me aggravated and unsatisfied.
While I may be ranting and rambling at this point- I may just be projecting and it's why I said to not take this post as something to generalize the collective- but I am thoroughly dissatisfied with Octavia's writing.
So much of it tries to mimic divorce related trauma, but none of what she has been through would initiate such a response.
She hasn't been abandoned, her father is right there.
She isn't an obligation, all of her needs are met and she gets all she wants along with a nurturing environement.
She was enough for her father, he came back for her. If she wasn't enough he'd never come back.
All of the claims she makes are easily debunked with rational thinking and do not make sense when you have lived through divorce yourself. Again, I can be projecting, but FUCK I needed to vent about this.
It just feels like such a fickle iteration of what real divorce looks like for us.
Ask Box is Open ofc.
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ok omg im back from the concert
#a lot happened#he played adam raised a cain!! the gays won. like i didnt even know i needed that#um i nearly started crying at various points embarrassingly#i was so close in backstreets. but i held it together bc i cant be the only one crying in a crowd of drunk 60 yr olds#they were really good#also i fainted#not in the concert but on the tube (worse?)#it was awfulll i think bc i stood up for too long and ran to the stop after it ended#but it took a while for it to hit me so idk#i thnik this is that same problem thats happened to me before and i went to the doctor who just said drink water..#so bought emergency snacks after (not good) but i dont want to think about the nightmare journey back#but overall really great#i cant believe how physically fit bruce still is bro im 19 and i couldnt stand up for 4 hours without fainting..#like he did all that no breaks and sounded good too
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in the car rn right after my sister had another fucking breakdown (shes a bit mad lol) n tried to beat the shit outta me LOLLLL đđâšïžâšïž
#karmaajr rambles#this is karma live posting đ€#she tried to rip my hair out n ruin the fit SIGH#alao shoved me against my closet and clawed/punched tf outta me but likeeee whatevs đ#anyways I'm not allowed to hit her so lowkey just took the beating while my relative just used her phone in the same room lmao#girl gave 0 shits#HONESTLY GOOD CUZ I DONT WANT HER TOUCHING ME EWWWW#anyways my fingers burnt n blistered cuz of the hair straightener :(((#wish my mum didn't hate my natural hair sm BCUZ IT HURTSSSSS#like owie#:((#lol guys idk why but I wanna cryyyy#I feel so emo for that-
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#one piece#sanji#black leg sanji#everysanji#thriller bark#ch489#obligatory hitting him with hammers#but also i was thinking about how i originally got into one piece for some reason#which was in 2015 mind you almost 10 years ago#so when i was a freshman in high school we took a field trip before christmas#it involved going ice skating and then the mall and i think we went somewhere else that isnt entirely important#but anyway i was talking with someone while we were at the mall and looking at manga and i said i was interested in trying manga#so my. well idk friend might be too strong. classmate lets say suggested one piece#and so i got the first two volumes (which i still own they're on my bookshelf i take whenever i move)#and he told me that they went through each of the four blue seas before going on the grand line for some reason????#i think what he meant was that every volume has what arc it is on the top but he somehow#confused that with they go through north/south/west blue too#well anyway i havent talked to that guy since like 2017. wonder where he's at#if he's following this blog and recognizes this story i'm deleting social media forever
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like i really think people outside small towns - especially in the south - wildly underestimate what it takes to leave them
like, here's what it took for me to move 450 miles from home:
familial support on both sides of the move, i.e.:
--people to help pack the u-haul for free
--someone to drive the u-haul for free
--a place to stay overnight after arriving in the new city for free
--people to help me unpack the apartment for free
--people to chip in on gas
--people to buy lunch/dinner on the way over
--people to give advice on where to look for apartments
--people to give me a place to stay while apartment-hunting so that i didn't have to go in sight-unseen to a new home
--a big one: a brother with whom i lived for a year at very cheap rent and expenses to save up what i could
a decent job in a niche in-demand field back home, which allowed me get a well-paying job here in the same in-demand field with enough experience to start off in a good place
a reliable, reasonably fuel-efficient car that could travel 450 miles without concern (which was paid off beforehand)
a $4500 personal loan from the bank (which i used every single penny of) - which also required:
--good enough credit to qualify for a personal loan
--enough income from the previous year to get enough from the loan to move
enough income pre-move to cover expenses for my final month at home and my first three weeks of work here before getting a paycheck
(aside: people were like "why would you start your new job less than a week after moving?? that's so stressful!!!" like my doll my dear my darling i needed the fucking paycheck as quickly as possible after moving)
enough food to bring along so i could eat between moving and getting that check
related, and also in the "familial support" column: people to help me pay for gas and/or feed me if i ran out of money/food
of course the baseline of a home to stay in at all back home, internet to do the zoom interview and find apartments to rent, as well as the structure in the hometown like a u-haul facility and a good bank with which i have a long-standing account
also, only having to move myself and my pets rather than having children who would need to have either daycare or schooling lined up on the other side of the move
now, like, obviously you can move without these things - and of course any kind of support system can take the place of my family, either friends or community groups or government programs - but they are not easy things to necessarily contact or interact with from hundreds of miles away, and not having them leaves you potentially very vulnerable in the new place, sometimes to the point of life-threatening
and i wasn't even that poor! i mean i was below the median income, but only by a few grand - and it still required a solid baseline at home, support on both sides of the move, and a personal loan, and i still barely managed to do it
"why don't you just move???" is such a severely, blindly, mind-bogglingly classist statement that it makes me just immediately disengage with whoever is saying it
like, even if you don't have roots in the place you're at, moving away is fucking hard and fucking expensive
--signed, someone who has been rankling deeply at the casual way people talk about "just mov[ing]" like that's a normal, easy, obvious thing to do and not something that is absolutely price-gated to hell and back
#classism#~~~the united states is a dystopian hellscape~~~#and that's just moving within the country! within single-day driving distance!#moving so far away that you have to fly or make multiple stops ramps up the cost even more#ugh i work with people who casually talk about how they've moved from like. california and shit. and it's like.#even the people who are kind and empathetic and mostly understanding are like...#like even if it's ''oh i could only afford it because my parents fronted me the cash'' - i mean that's closer to understanding it#but like you do realize that having parents who can front you several thousand dollars is out of the ordinary right?#the help my parents could afford was boxing/unboxing and driving the truck and buying popeye's on the way#and don't get me wrong!#i'm incredibly grateful for that help!#idk how the fuck i would have gotten both my furniture and my car here otherwise#i looked into those pods for moving and saw the cost and tbh i don't even recall now what it was#only that i took one look at the email#barked out an incredulous laugh#and replied with a ''thank you for your time'' email before hitting up u-haul#moving cross-country isn't something most people can just... do#anyway.#this has been stewing for a while sorry
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im in a good mood cause my work enemy is getting her life ruined while all i had to do was keep quiet and do my best đ„±
#basically shes been making management think for years that shes the only capable person there and they pay her sooooo much more than#everyone else#but now because me and two girls from my team have been quietly working hard and having amazing results#management decided to look into that and even trust us in more serious positions#and now management realized were all doing great and are on her level.. all while realizing shed been taking credit for our work all along#and to prove them wrong she decided to take a 2 week vacation thinking everything will fall apart when shes gone#(note: she genuinely thinks shes the best and smartest and master manipulator etc... shes not)#but everything was okay while she was gone ahahahaha#and the realization hit management like a truck#and i just do happen to have insider information on all of this teehee so im not speaking out of my ass#and the worst part is we keep working hard and getting praised#while shes going down with âidk how we ever let ourselves raise one person up that highâ#WHILE#the three of us have fullfilling lives outside of work. while she literally has no life and her whole personality and activities in life#are this job#maybe im a little mean but this woman took credit for our work to get ahead. she constanly tries to frame us for her mistakes#she literally sets up situations against protocol so that a fuckup will happen in our shifts and she can point to iy#and has manipulated management into firing people just because they were a lil mean to her privately#my fav thing to do is not pay attention when she tells the whole group how amazingly she did smth (she boasts A LOT) and when she asks me#âomg adora are you even here?â and im like âsorry just focusing on this email rnâ. anyway this drives her crazy cause she cant do anything#about it without looking insane#teehee#yapping#i wrote a whole essay but sry im just in a good mood cause i found out she wrote me a fake email about how management is unhappy w my work#only to find out that exact same manager is in fact extremely happy w my work and is unhappy with hers instead AHHAAHHA#i cant shes so pathetic đđđđ
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my wretched daughter
#she's more of an aunt to me really. but that doesn't roll off the tongue quite as nicely#bg3#bg3 tav#tav#baldur's gate 3#my art#oc sheet#becky#more facts: she's an only child. she grew up in a castle. she smells bad. she has piercings i can't be assed to draw. she's neurotypical.#đ«¶#i wish i could do that emoji but with green skin#olive green 5 to be exact#i've been told half orcs age faster than humans but im ignoring that i need the viewer to know she's 40#peak comedy meme tav hit out the park on MY FIRST TRY đ„đ„đȘ#who plays as a fucking half orc first and foremost MEEEEE#it's ONLY because goblin wasn't an option. i am saying this very severely in a gravelly voice. perhaps beneath a large brimmed hat#i wish i knew the like specific dialect i give her. i've tried researching it but im never 100% sure so.#the guy in rivington with the long black hair/bangs who's yelling abt refugees at the camp? that's the accent. he has it less exaggerated.#LOL is it obvious how important her voice is to me? đ€Ș#u can even call him out for it being rivingtonian so we've speculated that's where she's from#but also she's royalty? so idk ajsjhdjej#the campaign took so long bc it took me a while to get the hang of the game and solve all the puzzles bc i refused assistance#she did go half illithid but i'll never draw the face thing. peace and love#she took her men to defeat the elder brain: halsin gale and minsc#annnnnnnnd then she took control of the world bc she thought it'd be sick. she did not think through the ramifications. oh well !#i wish i was faster at this whole making art thing because i have so much to show and make and do#so hey yayyyy for getting something out today#i hope others find her amusing as i do#đ
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Oh yeah I think I forgot to post here, but I had some shit come up. I was in a pretty bad car accident Monday. I am fine BUT idk how this is gonna impact my time and mental space for the next few weeks/months.
It could be since I currently don't have a car I might go stir crazy at home and do nothing but write fic. It could be I also go stir crazy and decide I need to run 10 miles to feel something. I just don't know yet.
But you best believe the next chapter I update will have a fun author's note <3
#also I am gonna have to walk to the store for shopping now#so idk a lot of things just turned into much longer ventures#i still dont know how I am gonna get to the dr in january#life updates#like what is the point of surviving a hit and run if I can't write about it in my authors note on AO3?#either I have to get a new car#OR it will take a while to repair mine#I really hope it's not totaled bc I love that car#she took me so many places and up so many sketchy roads
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I usually say hi to customers and then immediately ask if they need bags, but I'll do the small talk if they ask me how I'm doing, but typically I won't initiate that cuz... Small talk us already so bad, and then doing that for every person I see for 5 hours?? No ty
Anyways I have this one customer who always does this passive aggressive "I'm good how are you" everytime I ask ABT bags smh like it isn't that big a deal bro trust me
#and then they had issues w their card and took a while and i was like hm..!!#msposts#i got home late...#made coworker play go w me on way home after we hit up naldos#showed her how to do gyms#let her take a few too#were on different teams but were both the unpopular ones#either that or less active idk#yellow team is crazy down yhis street#i got 3 shinies today???#my sister is so mad JVGJGJ#text
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you know, I feel like, as little money as I have, I still havenât put into perspective how much I have that could still be of use. Iâm not so poor that I canât make a difference. I can still buy a meal if I go out. I can buy a trinket. Iâm not so poor or struggling with life that I donât have food in my stomach and a place to sleep. Donating like I have this week has me wanting to do something that I hope many others are already doing. For every cent I would have spent for myself, on groceries, deliveries, gifts, etcetera (beyond the strikes where I am not spending money on anything but Palestinian causes) I will donate equal or greater that amount to Palestine. Because if I have money for me, I should have money for others. This is not me setting myself on fire to keep others warm, I know I would be of no use long term if I destroyed myself by going entirely broke with no way to survive myself. This is considering things beyond medical bills and life expenses that I need to keep going. When I count groceries, itâs things like when I use Instacart bc I canât go out, because even though I donât have a means of transportation, delivery is a luxury and if I can afford to pay for that, I can afford to donate. If I buy something non-essential like some snacks or the like, I have to match it with a donation. Because if I can afford to buy that, I can afford to donate. And just due to the nature of being a reminder, every time I get my period Iâm going to donate to sanitary products for Palestine, because while pads are an essential product, donating even a little bit towards helping others get even the opportunity to get the same access as I do is an important reminder. Thereâs $5 donations available for those, and thatâs about the cost of an average subscription I would be able to affordâ it wonât buy a whole kit, but it will still put money towards that goal. I may not be able to do all the good the world needs, but the world needs all the good that I can do. As much as I can spare, I will donate. I only wish I could do more.
#idk it kind of hit me this week when I had to spend some money what I would do to make an impact with my money since I had to spend some#that the policy of matching whatever I spent here with donations to Palestine would be a great way to keep up action#and a reminder with every cent I spend of Palestine#I only pray that someday soon I will gain the freedom to actually do some more physical irl work as well#rn Iâm not in a safe place to do so without the risk of losing my freedom to do anything and health#i canât even call out loud when my parents are in the house because any word I would say would be grounds to take away more of my freedom#like they did when I donated to Black Lives Matter and they physically took me to a public place to scold me#and have monitored my bank account ever since.#Iâve been using PayPal mostly for donations ever since due to that not showing up immediately but#I DID use my direct card to send. sanitary kits. they wonât win that one if they take me out to scold me though lol#anyway these tags arenât important Iâm just equal parts emboldened and frustrated#emboldened by the idea of a way I can make a more direct impact beyond sharing and archiving#and frustrated that even then my options are slim and I have to be cautious#I wish I could risk it all but I would be of no help if I put myself in a position where I was either homeless or unable to act at all#I hope this doesnât come across self important#itâs just me making a statement that I want to follow#idk this is just me working out the complexities of my situation and what I can do long term#while still actually making an impact directly on the world both right now and sustainably
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Almost got too comfortable with liking a whole 3 25ji originals and tried listening to a 25ji cover playlist before I remembered that I do indeed still very much not like a good 99% of their covers
#rat rambles#sekai posting#samsa has become one of my favorite sekai songs period and bug and inanndesu are both alas absolute bangers#but one of those is hard carried by the story its tied to and the other is bug so it just kinda plain goes hard#but fr they sound sooooo fucking good in zamuza and the lyricssssss god#songs that hit harder if I close my eyes and pretend its more abt kanade than it actually is#Id be lying tho if I said that they dont sound good in inandesu#like bro it doesnt deserve to be in my top ten sekai songs but it still is so#like it goes hard they sound good miku sounds good the event is one of my favorite sekai events its so unfair#y'know truly these three songs are representative of my relationship with 25ji as a whole if you think abt it fndjfbdh#I went into bug not expecting it to go so hard zamuza hit me hard but took a lil while to appreciate the other members in it and inandesu#stuck in my brain against my will#and mizuki fits into this cause theyre the only 25ji member that isnt tied for my favorite sekai character lol#like look they have good originals. just none that I like the group cover or even the misuki solo of#like lower is pretty good. I hate the 25ji version tho#idk maybe Ill like kitty more in the future if I end up giving it more of a chance but it doesnt rly call to me rn#also on a almost related note god I wish I could like the vbs version of hitsuji ga ippiki more but idk why it just does not click with me#idk if its just me liking the vocaloid version too much or if the boys bring it down that much for me but smth abt it man idk#speaking of the guys rip to akito for not getting the yy solo he desperately needed#bro is doomed to only have one good solo til the end of time </3#like Im happy for an but man I wish all of them got yy solos they all sound soooo good in that cover#also give me shanti solos because I wanna like vbs shanti soooo bad but smth abt it doesnt click in the way I want it to#also delete vbs egoist from the game thanks <3
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Tw for illness/death
#spamming here because i know tags show right under the post on mobile and i dont want anyone to see who doesnt want to đ€đ€đ€đ€#so my grandma's in a coma#she's been unwell for a while#and then today her heart stopped#i saw her for a bit before they took her into ICU and she held my hand#and then i saw her in ICU and i managed to hold it together#tbh i haven't processed it yet I'm more focused on making sure my mum and grandad are ok#but i know itll hit me soon lol#anyway idk why I'm writing this really i just needed to vent#so i guess if you're religious thoughts and prayers would be very much appreciated#):
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There's got to be a word for something that's not exactly deja vu, but isn't exactly nostalgia, or fernweh, either. This exact combination of senses is familiar to me, but has never actually happened before.
#personal#I don't know I was listening to someone make drinks in a very conversational way#hearing birds in my window behind me#and I took a drink of my glass of coffee and it just hit me#my brain said: oh because you've done this before in someone's kitchen#sitting down at a wooden table top#while this person made drinks on the other side#and like#no I have not#I've been in similar experiences but all these smells and senses and what not combined#hasn't happened#idk life is weird#the light level in here isn't even the same but for a split second it was so much brighter
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#tag talk#idk. I'm thinking about therapy now. it's really based on the self report model which means that it's weakness is#is a patient who cannot accurately self report their own internal world. emotions. and thoughts.#which. when you have a pervasive need to lie about yourself. to mask. to retell the truth to fit your own narrative. that's kind of an issu#my second (and by far least favorite therapist) refused to ever actually engage in dialogue with me. she simply sat back and watched/listen#which left me simply spinning in place. running through every stupid social trick I knew just to find a direction to take things.#I'm gonna break away from that thought because there's a more pressing thing in my head right now.#are you familiar with the fear that comes with being seen and recognized? the realization that you're no longer cloaked by anonymity?#I'm feeling that a little here with these tag talks. I used to be confidently ignored and left alone to ramble on my own#and that's changed a little bit. not immensely. y'all are still politely ignoring these generally. but.. idk#I crave intimacy and dialogue and social interaction but simultaneously it's terrifying.#I so deeply want connection but the pressure and expectation that comes with it is genuinely frightening to me.#I really don't know how people do it. the only solid relationships in my life are with people who are fundamentally detached from me.#ugh I want to finish this thought but letting it dwell in my head really hurts. do I push through it or do I leave off here?#fuck it I'm gonna force my way through. I'm not giving up here.#I'm scared. that's it. I'm scared. scared people are going to see me. scared people will talk to me. but I want that!#I want to be seen. to be known. to be recognized. it's that deep seated human social drive that I can't escape. it's so fucking stupid.#idk. I've decided that if I ever top 100 followers I'm gonna just up and move blogs. start fresh and start over.#I'm not Super close to that but I'm reasonably close (not giving you a percentage because that's just.. my actual follower count)#it feels like tumblr etiquette to not publicly state your follower count. and idk. I actively don't want followers.#I want my isolated conclave with comfortable faces and familiar blogs. people are scary so I necessarily don't want too many around#damn I got way off topic. what the fuck was I talking about? I was onto something heavy before I lost track#ugh maybe I need to take a break from tumblr for a while. my queue has been running at full for a while and it's stressing me out.#I'm on here too much spinning and spinning and spinning with no traction.#I need to take these new thoughts and feelings and really just get out and experiment with them. stop just running on my hamster wheel#I think if I can get dms dealt with in the next few days I can just delete tumblr off my phone and take a sabbatical#it's been a while since I took a real break from here. it would be nice I think.#I just.. I don't like feeling like I'm talking to a person. I don't like feeling like these are going to be seen#and that's not your fault! I'm literally hitting the âPostâ button. that's my choice to put these out semi-publicly#I don't want to ever put that responsibility on someone else when it's my own choice to make myself visible.
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