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I want to be trans masculine, can I do that? Can I be that? Am I allowed?
#k8kat talks#i know i can do anything i want really#but i crave validation#and i feel like i'm faking it otherwise#i'll probably feel like i'm faking regardless tho...#trans#delete later#vent?
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hi!
um
yeah
notes goal post
because i really need motivation
(i stole some of these but shhhhh)
if this post gets 50 notes i'll drink water right now
100 i'll go to bed at midnight for the rest of the week
200 i'll actually do my laundry
500 i'll take a shower every day for the rest of the week
1,000 i'll brush my teeth every night for a full week
2,000 i'll stop binding for an unhealthy amount of time for a full week
3,000 i'll start actually wearing my ankle braces consistently
4,000 i'll eat breakfast every day for the rest of the week
5,000 i'll stop binding while sleeping
6,000 i'll stop wearing earrings i'm allergic to for a full week
7,000 i'll start doing makeup again
8,000 i'll stop eating chocolate for the rest of the week
9,000 i'll make my autodale masks
10,000 i'll touch grass every day for the rest of the month
11,000 i'll water my plants twice a week for the rest of the month
12,000 i'll put on my lotion when i need to for a full week
13,000 i'll eat at least two meals every day for the rest of the week
14,000 i'll finish my water bottle every day for a full week
15,000 i'll write more for forest files
18,000 i'll clean out my backpack
19,000 i'll take my vitamins every day for the rest of the week
20,000 i'll finish my stained glass project
21,000 i'll go to bed before midnight for the rest of the week
22,000 i'll do my summer reading
23,000 i'll move the knife out of my room
24,000 i'll eat three meals every day for three days
25,000 i'll stop purposefully triggering myself for a full week
50,000 i'll try my best to stay clean for two full weeks
i'll probably add more goals if this somehow get past 5k, but there it is for now :)
spam allowed
tagging allowed
ummm the deadline is halloween
*thumbs up*
go for it
#i know this isnt my usual post thing but#idk#its good for me or something#and also im pathetic and crave validation and attention al the time#y'all dont like. actually have to hit any of these actually#um#notes goal#notes post#if this gets x notes#tw skipping meals#tw sh#tw unhealthy binding#tw knife mention
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idk id be weird abt touching someone for the first time in a millennia too
#i think sm should be weird i think he should be touchstarved i think he should crave biting into pv like a dog-#coughs anyways#there IS something to be said about being isolated only to suddenly have someone so close that you can finally reach them#i think sm would be valid in being weird abt it okay#cookie run#crk fanart#pure vanilla cookie#shadow milk cookie#pureshadow#shadowvanilla#my drawbs
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once upon a time there was a railroad line
the Fates
Hermes, Persephone
Orpheus and Eurydice
Hades
#check out my cast design#hadestown#vasira arts#long post#been on the road to hell myself making this project but at least it's finale coming together#i know i've posted these portraits already but i wanted them all together#bad posting hours but i crave validation
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He just wants to be missed
#gravity falls#bill cipher#ford pines#stanford pines#billford#shitpost#the amount of times Bill asks if people will miss him is something he needs to bring up in therapy#did your parents not love you enough Bill?#your issues are showing#ignore the mistakes#I’m too tired to fix them#and honestly not emotionally stable enough#feeling like a piece of shit rn and I haven’t even done anything wrong#…um but#did you guys miss me? 🥺🥺🥺#one day I’m gonna stop posting entirely and wait patiently for the ‘omg are you okay’ messages that will never come in#and then give up and post again#I never said I was any better than him here#I too constantly crave validation from others and really want to be missed
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born to ride suguru, forced to ride the bus to university everyday.
#lying for a post cause i literally drive i havent gotten on the bus in a while#all of this to say save me#(i crave academic validation)#suguru geto#geto suguru#jujutsj kaisen
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it is 2024 can we PLEASE stop w these kind of videos now. thanks
#tw homophobia#tw ableism#obviously this is an exaggeration but like. is it?#these videos attract the WEIRDEST combination of like actual right wing “i hate everyone who isn't 'normal' by my definition” ppl#and like. queer and nd people who crave validation from conservatives and want to prove “we're not like THOSE freaks”#the right hates everyone. it doesn't matter if your name is thomas and ur fully transitioned or ur name is ✨️arson✨️ ze/it/pup#if u dont fit their narrow idea of “normal” anything u say is immediately invalid#mental illness#nd#neurodivergent#cringe culture is dead#cringe culture#cringe#tiktok#ableism#queer#queer discourse#transgender#transphobia#anti exclusionist#leftist
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part 1 of a little comic / art sequence that i've been working on! :D it's part tribute, part experimenting with brushes n colors and trying new thingz :]
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and thus continues my endless quest of spreading the carrot fics like a plague! if you've seen my art floating around you probs already figured that this au holds a very special place in my heart, forever and always!!
if you haven't heard of it, it's a fic series by @crowned-ladybug called carrot soup!! it made me wish i could speak colors and i need more people to share my struggle xd
go check it out if you're into sweet voice lore and qpr level gayness and just wanna feel warm and soft and warm (hurt/comfort my beloved) <333 there are some heavier themes cos everyone's traumatized but they're working through it! be sure to check the tags and stay safe! <3
#hlvrai#half life vr but the ai is self aware#frenrey#carrots au#<- gotta remember to tag the other ones as well#yippie im so excited to finally start sharing these with people!!!#there will be at least 5 parts in total maybe more idk#i just wanted to illustrate this little snippet of the first fic#maybe i'll draw more of these if i get another vision#i am still trying to work on the animatic so that would probs include most of my visions anyway#i think im gonna post a wip sometime soon just in case i lose interest#also i crave validation and reading people's tags and comments makes me so so so happy!!!><#btw it kinda feels nice posting something like. after a while#cos it's been quite a bit since i finished this first.. part? page? thingy#and it's nice to finally stay out of the whole instant gratification thing#please do still go crazy in the tags tho? if u want?#mkay enough rambling for today i've got things to do#like be cozy n read fanfics n drink water n stuff yk?#all the important thingz#and who knows maybe i'll even make some progress on.. whatever it is that piques my interest today#bye for now!!! take care and have a very orange day <3#art tag or whatever
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I took this photo in the backseat of a moving bus
I know I'm a confident sex mommy blogger but look what I did look what I did 👉👈
#<3#wlw#photography#the outdoors#lesbian#sapphic#willow lore#i crave validation#I'm a little bit of a loser nerd but you all call me mommy so I win#amateur photography#amateur photographer
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The shipmates to innkeepers pipeline is real.
#ofmd#ofmd season 2#stede x ed#ed x stede#our flag means death#making the update its own post so it'll do better numbers because I crave validation 👀#so glad i could continue the fanart that made me so sad after last season
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Initial drawings of that old man… I literally, I haven’t finished reading the book of bill yet!!! I had to stop and take a break for a week to feverishly draw fanart of myself petting fords floofy hair and giving him attention and shit…!!!! The urge was too great….!! I’ve literally. I had a crush on this guy the instant he was first REVEALED in the show, but I did not have the artistic prowess to draw good looking old men back then… but I do now�� thank god… thank fucking god
#gravity falls#ford pines#stanford pines#self ship#self insert#si x canon#it me#doodles#I got a haircut! so my hair looks different now.. as haircuts tend to do lol#anyway… yeah… I LOVE HIM… GRAHHFJH#the confirmation that he rlly is just sad and lonely and insecure and craving attention and validation#OHH FORD BBY.. WE R THE SAME#like… ghghg i loved him already just w his prickly nerdy outer shell but knowing more about the vulnerable center is GREAT. ITS AWESOME#also hes a smart nerdy guy who can do science and expirements and shit which is ONE OF MY FAVORITE THINGS FOR A CHARACTER TO DO#u kno im all about scientists….#I couldn’t draw ship art back then 1 cuz I didn’t kno how to draw old men and 2 cuz I was like 13 lol… which would have been wierd#but I’m an ADULT NOW. GET OVER HERE FORD#also it didn’t even rlly cross my mind TO draw that stuff cuz even tho I did love ford#self ship and x reader sorta stuff was not NEARLY as popular back then.. like I specifically remember it like. booming in popularity#at some point. but being pretty rare before that. anyway. thank u passage of time and trends and new gravity falls book for introducing#me back to fictional man I love. so I can now draw myself smooching him and shit#hell yeah.#13 is probably not actually correct I do not remember exactly which year fords reveal was in…#but I was probably older then 13.. but still#the point remains lol.#also omg. the bit in the book w the goth moth. ‘ur probably into this sorta thing right?’#I AM INTO THAT SORTA THING FORD. thank u book of bill for being written specifically @ me. the immersion it’s great.#like ur so right ford I AM edgy and goth how’d u guess that tee hee. eyelash flutter#aLSO PLS IGNORE MY FINGER BEING IN FRAME IN THE LAST PIC. I was drawing in a tiny bound sketchbook#so I had to hold the paper down to keep it flat. and. I didn’t feel like censoring my fucking. pinkie finger out of the image
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animatic progress........kdj is here!!!
what are the chances i'll finish this before september (╥ᆺ╥;)?
#orv#my posts#animatic#my art#omniscient reader's viewpoint#1863 arc#i could wait until its all done to post but im impatient and crave validation so :)#kim dokja#yoo joonghyuk#han sooyoung
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this was supposed to be a comp for a traditional piece, but turns out i still like this version better than the one i traditionally painted
#vasira arts#girl who doesn't use traditional materials often prefers the look of the art she actually has practice making#shocking#(sarcasm)#illustration#a little early for mermay but i never posted this version i don't think#and i crave attention and validation
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What do you mean that's not how it happened?
#i haven't posted in ages because i got a job and it keeps me so busy#but a random person replied to my post saying they lived my work and hoped i would post soon#so i whipped this up and posted immediately#that's how much i crave for validation#nowen#td noah#td owen#tdrr#total drama fanart#total drama ridonculous race#total drama
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im so hilarjous,,, please laugh at my joke i beg 🙏
#/hj#no pressure#but also i crave validation#anyway look at how silly he is!!!!!#mike wheeler#byler#byler endgame#stranger things#stranger things memes
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Thoughts on Glinda
Bro I can't with all these Breakdowns of Glinda's character I'm like so obsessed. The way madam Morrible utilizes her need for external validation as a means to manipulate her throughout act 2. Her genuine insecurity that comes from only ever being beloved for surface level attributes until Elphaba finally sees her for her. The way her grief at the loss of Elphaba leads her to crave that same validation even more, the need for someone to tell her she'd done the right thing, that she’d made the right decision only for the one that shows up to fill that void to be the one to manipulate her.
The way society controls her with praise, holding her high on a pedestal while simultaneously chaining her to the image they have of her. The way all of Oz will turn against her if she dared break their perception of her, a perception that was forced apon her from a very young age. Even if she benefited from it, that doesn't change the fact she'd been bound to it for as long as she'd known. Glinda is a victim too, even if she doesn't appear like she is one. She's a hostage to the throne smart enough to know that had they not needed her influence she’d be chained up in a dungeon somewhere for treason.
By the end of act one she's practically a prisoner who just happens to have a nice cell. She never asked for any of it, she's scared and alone. She regrets not going with Elphaba but knows she would have slowed her down. She's used to being used for her influence, and status, so she resigns herself to that fate, but she's not okay with it. She's manipulated, and scared, and trapped, and tired. She wants that feeling again, that connection with someone who sees her, all of her, the same way Elphaba did. But she knows people like her don't get love like that so she clings on the scraps of adoration and validation she gets anytime she does something right, because she has to do it right, and if she doesn't she'll be alone again. And that's a type of pressure that could break a person.
#wicked#wicked 2024#galinda upland#glinda upland#glinda the good witch#gelphie#Pink coded saphics who crave validation are my new religion#Fuck I need to write a fic for this
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