#but he is also a trans ally
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One last post about today
OGs will remember my old Professor Oak voice mail box and how sad it was when I lost it when I upgraded my phone
Thank you so much to Ryan Drummond for fixing that disservice and giving me an awesome voice mail box that will make me feel less bad about ignoring people’s calls
#Sonic the hedgehog#Ryan Drummond#🎶 I hate it here so I will go to chao gardens in my mind#people need a chili dog to get into#the only one is Sonic’s 🎶#but also#I am very female presenting though I am non-binary#like David wrote ‘she’ when he signed something for my man#but when I explained to Ryan the situation I just off handedly and passively said ‘could you say something like they’re in the chao gardens’#and he said yes absolutely and took my phone and no questions asked#and the resulting message uses they pronouns twice#which means he actively listened to what I said#processed it#and put it into action immediately to not misgender me on my own voicemail#we know Sonic is a gay ally because these bitches gay good for them#but he is also a trans ally#icon legend national treasure Ryan Drummond I would die for you
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Why do I keep seeing transmascs and trans men insisting or implying that all trans men are "female socialized," or "understand the female experience," or "navigated the world as a woman." Because yeah, sure, that can be true for some people. especially if you weren't gnc at all as a kid and didn't crack your egg until well into adulthood, it makes sense.
But they don't stop at saying they had that experience. It always comes with an addendum that trans men, as a group, all can relate to this experience. I don't know about the entirety of my demographic, but I never got even a little bit of what some of them talk about. I didn't even believe that women were scared of going out at night until I kept consistently seeing them say it, online or wherever, for years. I never realized catcalling was a thing until I saw some women complaining about it on reddit.
But they posit it as some sort of, you're safer than cis men, right? You know what it's like? Which, on top of being patently, demonstrably false in the case of myself and many other trans men, holds some unpleasant and often outright hostile implications about trans women. And they always deny it, but if you can't even conceptualize someone like me who grew up gnc, and never got the bulk (or any?) of whatever we consider to be 'female socialization,' what does that say about what you think trans girls went through, growing up? I don't want to speak for them, as I've never experienced that firsthand, but I can guarantee that (if you're even a little bit obviously trans) people don't treat you like a cis kid of the opposite gender. By and large, they don't get treated like cis boys.
It just makes me mad that we're taking this inaccurate framework that (ever so conveniently) puts trans people into the box of our assumed birth gender, and trying to fancy it up and use it with a faux-progressive veneer; never mind the way that transphobes use it to bar trans women from being athletes, or using the bathroom, or having access to any gendered resources they need. It would be bad enough to try and dust it off and use it even if it were largely accurate, due to the aforementioned connections to outright transphobia, but it literally is patently false. Not in all cases, obviously, but why are we trying to revamp this untrue, inaccurate generalization and pretend that we can make it 'trans-inclusive?'
#o.#trans#transphobia#transmisogyny#I may or may not be talking about a specific post I saw that made me irritated but I didnt wanna get in an argument with internet strangers#sorry guys I'm still heated over freaking collin allred capitulating to ted cruz and throwing trans girls under the bus bc he didnt have the#guts to stick to his morals#and called them ''this idiotic business with boys in girls sports'' or some crap#as if trans girls don't deserve to play the sports they love. like I imagine if they blocked trans men from being physicists or something#and I just wasn't able to pursue the career I want? that would destroy me#and I still had to vote for him because the other options were ted cruz and some freaking libertarian.#sorry thats all tangential but can we not use the same rhetoric that all these politicians do as an excuse to kick trans women out of public#life PLEASE 🙏#...also I really hate the Popular Transmasc Ideology that says that we all experience life as basically the same as a cis woman & never have#to navigate having male privilege & being an ally to women#and all have some sort of Innate Connection to femaleness or womanhood or whatever bc 'obviously' we all grew up just like girls do#ugh#this one's going out there sans editing so dont yell at me if I worded smth weird please 🙏
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i do think that specifically david tennant being very openly supportive of the trans community has had an interesting effect -- because usually im kinda like "it is nice to know that people whose work i enjoy don't want me dead" and that's kinda my level of (at this point) quite cynical engagement with what a celebrity or artist does or does not think about transness, because these days it feels like it's almost fashionable for well-known (or post-well-known) people to come out of the wordwork and say what they think about trans people, which can get very stressful in its own way (the amount of headlines that try to be misleading or just plain don't say and so you're just like "ok i guess this week i have to find out if [spins wheel] thinks i deserve rights")
but david tennant has a different feeling to it. and to be fair, there are plenty of people with skin in the game, who absolutely deserve to and ought to speak out on behalf of their children/partners/community/friends/family/etc. and im always happy to see these people speak, and dt is included in that list as well
but david tennant is veeery specific in this here country of terf island, in which the labour party will openly state that it will allow certain book writers to affect their policies on trans people, and that's partly because of the effect above in which "having opinions on trans rights seems to be a celebrity game that keeps you relevant, which includes ex prime minister tony blair making his opinion known (hint, it wasn't a good one)" but also because david tennant is known as a national icon to rival that of whatsherface
he was the main actor on doctor who, in the top three, if not very top of british broadcasting iconography that exists. he's one of this generation's most famous shakespearian actors, the other thing that this country-as-culture is most proud of. he's a mainstay in children's film and tv, a standout in modern british crime drama (broadchurch, des), and that's not mentioning things like jessica jones, good omens, and star wars
this guy has no social media, and some of the biggest cultural capital in the uk today -- labour i believe it was made a twitter joke about him ousting the current prime minister as the doctor ahead of this week's election, because that's an iconic scene from doctor who
which means that when he openly calls transphobes whingy and asks them to shut up, there's a bit of a ripple... i mean what are you gonna do, get angry with the doctor? from doctor who??? the man who played a definitive hamlet????? the man who's just done rave reviewed performances of macbeth???? scrooge mcduck????????? this man who occasionally guests on cbeebies???????????
said prime minister and his party and hosts of transphobes go absolutely crazy every time he makes an appearance wearing new trans ally apparel, as if a. he sees any of that and b. it's a dignified response to a man saying, in essence, "i would like my kid to be safe and happy"
david tennant constantly making these statements, again and again, is a powerful voice in the modern fight for trans rights in the UK, in some ways unfortunately, because you wish trans people could have been heard before it got to this state and that it wasn't about being famous, but to be fair, he's also making that point again and again
it kind of feels like the first time in a long time that there's been proper pushback against transphobia in this country from a perspective that the transphobes can't dismiss so easily -- they can try but like. again, one side is a bunch of raving nonsense-spouters on a joke website who mostly belong to a party that's about to get decidedly ousted from the political scene, the other is beloved national icon and star of stage and screen, mr david tennant
of course, it doesn't hurt that the three main actors of harry potter and everyone else who's majorly involved in doctor who, past and present, is also supportive of trans rights, which maybe there's a separate point to be made about the strangeness of a mainstream tv show becoming a cultural battleground for peoples opinions on equal rights, especially now with ncuti gatwa at the helm, because i think some of what ive seen in relation to dw is more extreme than any piece of cultural media ive been alive to witness bigoted reactions to (including star trek), and ncuti gatwa as a black queer man is taking a hell of a lot of flack that is racist and homophobic
but labour... if you're inviting random artists to give you opinions on trans rights, david tennant is right there, and you know he'd make sure to bring along trans rights activists and professionals to get the space in the room they ought to have had all along
#david tennant#it's just... as a phenomenon#also on some level i believe this is partially Because he doesn't have social media#he's not getting into pointless arguments on stupid websites#he's saying his piece and then going home or to work or wherever else he goes on the daily#which really just highlights how absurd it is for people to go on rampages on said stupid website#what are you Doing all day????#because dt is living his best life as a trans ally
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Ok so basically. What if mouthwashing took place in 1917. What if this ragtag platoon got trapped in a mountain bunker that SOMEBODY blew up on the Ypres frontline. Is this thing on
#chat can i be extremely autistic#thr only thibg theyve got in there with them is their rations and that sweet sweet 1910s cough syrup with heroin and whisky in it#ok originally i was going to make anya a cis volunteer nurse but then why would she be on the frontlines. so she is trans.#hitting her with the transgenderfication beam#also if it isnt clear: Anya’s ‘sense about Curly’ is her gaydar.#why is he gay? i dunno why are you gay#i wanted to give anya an ally even if hes a shitty ally#anywayss#mouthwashing#anya mouthwashing#curly mouthwashing#captain curly#jimmy mouthwashing#daisuke mouthwashing#swansea mouthwashing#ohhh yeah swanea just goes by his last name lol.#he gives me irish vibes idk#ww1#my art
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Okay we all know Ouyang was thirsting after Xu Da in He Who Drowned the World but can we also talk abt how Xu Da talks about and reacts to Ouyang throughout the series??
I mean first we’ve got this bit in She Who Became the Sun before they meet him on the battlefield:
“Come on, let’s get some rest. If he’s as beautiful as you say, I feel like I should get my beauty sleep so he can be distracted by the breathtakingly good looks of our side, too.”
- SWBTS ch 17
Or this discussion between Zhu and Xu Da:
“Pity you’re not my wife’s type. I could do with some offspring.” [-] “If you want good-looking sons, I’m your man,” Xu Da said agreeably. “But it’s true, your wife does seem to prefer short little men who look like women—” Then he fell back, laughing uproariously. “Oh, is the eunuch her type? He is!” “How does that help!” Zhu said, exasperated. “He’s not any better than I am for that kind of thing. Also there’s the small matter of how much he hates us.” Xu Da smirked. “Hates you. Relative to that, I think his feelings towards me might be quite positive.” “Relatively speaking. You can always test it in absolute terms by paying him a visit and seeing if he causes you to spout blood from your seven orifices.”
- HWDTW ch 5
After Ouyang gives him mouth to mouth:
As [Xu Da] wiped the hair out of his eyes, he croaked, “We have a huge problem.” “Problem?” [—] Xu Da said with great drama, “I’m so handsome, even a eunuch can’t resist me.” Ignoring Ouyang’s savage look, he laughed until he went into a spasm of coughing, then climbed to his feet[-].
- HWDTW ch 7
And much later, when Ouyang has already betrayed them and Zhu is trying to convince Xu Da to give a demonstration of how drowned people can be brought back to life:
“Do it right, little brother. You’re not as pretty as the eunuch was, but I don’t think I’ll be in a position to be picky,” Xu Da said in an undertone, so the men couldn’t hear.
- HWDTW ch 17
#the radiant emperor#ouyang/xu da#taking notes for my canon compliant xuyang story#also new headcanon: xu da downplaying his own attraction to ouyang by joking abt it? is this anything??#i mean the way he is described to first react to ouyang when he and zhu are still in the monastery#is fascination mixed with with revulsion#which is surprisingly similar to how the third prince also looks at ouyang#so idk even though xu da is the no1 trans ally in yuan and a bi icon maybe he also needs to unpack some things?#xu da scholars pls weigh in
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to all trans allies out there: did you hear that someone was trans, but they didnt tell you? don't fucking force them to come out! even if you think you're being nice, theres probably a reason they haven't come out to you yet. just be clear to them that you support them and let them do things on their own time.
i told a school counsellor in no uncertain terms that i did *not* wish to discuss my being queer with him. i felt this way bc ive learned with certain authorities (esp on psychological needs) as soon as i explain that im queer, all of my actual serious mental issues seem to vanish as they try to explain everything with "trauma from being gay in a homophobic household". a lot of my issues are trauma from homophobia, yes, but a lot of them are also trauma from being autistic, having adhd, having bpd, and having shitty parents in general. and yet, one day i went to speak with him and- "so i heard you're going by a different name?"
despite the fact that i made it very clear to him repeatedly that i did NOT WISH TO DISCUSS MY QUEER IDENTITY WITH HIM, he basically peer pressured me into coming out as trans to him. don't do this! even if its 'to be respectful'. just mention, clearly, that you support trans people, in a way that doesnt make the person feel like they have to come out bc you want them to.
#also i told him my pronouns were 'he/him or they/them' and he was like 'oh its hard for me to use they/them'#like he straight up did not hear me say he/him or smth#trans#trans rights#transgender#trans ally#transgender allies#lgbtq#lgbtq ally
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“Oh Josh Groban is the best Sweeney” “no it’s Aaron Tveit” no you’re both wrong cause the best Sweeney Todd was the guy at a local production I saw where one night during epiphany he pointed directly at me, and then after the show I approached him at the stage door about it and how, as a trans man who’s not out to a lot of people, it gave me gender euphoria, and he just replied with “glad to help”
#transgender#transmasc#trans man#trans male#sweeney todd#stephen sondheim#josh groban#aaron tveit#musicals#musical theatre#theatre#theatre kid#queer#queer pride#trans pride#coming out#local theatre#I saw this production 4 times#This was closing night of the show btw#And he recognized that had been there 4 times#I also saw him hit himself with a door before opening night#And I had a friend who worked in tech on the show and she said that that guy is one of the few cishet people in the whole production#trans ally#I wanna mention that I don’t pass in the slightest#like I’m not out to my parents yet#I wasn’t even masc enough to be considered a tomboy
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nicky: has been rambling on about twilight for an hour and a half now, laying out all of his headcanons and discussing the best fanfics he’s read
seth, who’s just walked in: what the fuck is a twilight? isn’t that the gay bar you lot go to?
aaron: it’s not a gay bar 🙄
andrew and nicky, staring at each other: …
neil: you’re entirely correct seth!
aaron: andrew you fucking swore it wasn’t-
neil: look i know not pulling is commonplace for you aaron but weren’t you the tiniest bit suspicious?
#seth lives you cowards#or at least he does in the kefu#it’s all a big misunderstanding or something idk he just lives okay#he also has a trans gf at this point so he’s becoming an ally okay#admin: 🔮#aftg incorrect quotes#incorrect foxes quotes#all for the game#aftg#palmetto shitposts#kefu shenanigans#psu foxes#neil josten#tfc#tkm#trk#andrew minyard#seth gordon#nicky hemmick#aaron minyard
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All evidence suggests yes
#starting a new power scaling system for the warlords of the sea but im rating them based on whether i think theyre an ally or homophobic#kuma is an ally because photos dont lie and hes clearly wearing an ally pin#also you cant spend that much time around somebody with the title “Queen of the Queers” and somehow be homophobic afterwards#unless youre sanji but hes still on his internalized homophobia growth arc. i believe in you buddy you can beat this#crocodile is trans and baroque works is the alphabet mafia in a literal form#with that said. he has the energy of “im not homophobic yall are just annoying”#doffy has the energy of a homophobic homosexual#like hed kiss a guy and then call him a f*g and throw him out a nearby window#jimbei joins the strawhats so ofc HES an ally#blackbeard sucks but i dont think hes homophobic#hes one of those people you meet and theyre just the worst all around and youre like “man this guy has gotta be homophobic”#somebody mentions their partner and you go “oh boy here it is” but he just has no reaction whatsoever#hes such a problem but at least hes not homophobic on top of everything else#Gecko Moria is such a virgin that i dont think he knows being gay exists any more than he knows being straight does#Typa MFer who thinks “sex” is just a synonym for gender#also hed see your top scars and get excited because he thinks youre a zombie#gecko moria probably thinks LGBT is an acronym for some branch of the navy that he doesnt know (or care) about#Because Boa lives on Sapphic island i would jump the gun and immediately say she's an ally but i feel that its more complicated than that#not unlike moria. she also doesnt actually have a real strong grasp on being straight vs being queer#but thats just because shes used to everybody being whipped for her equally#somebody tries to explain it to her and shes just like “??? but theyre all obsessed with me?”#if she ever encounters a gay man it will be a reality shifting event for her#id say itd be the same if she met a sex/romance indifferent aroace but like#monkey d luffy#its already happened#mihawk is probably both an ally and queer himself but he just minds his own business so much that we may never know#one piece#seven warlords#warlords of the sea#bartholomew kuma
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Something I realized (which was obvious to me subconsciously) is that... The family that vehemently didn't accept me when I first came out but now do accept me are still the same family that I am most unwilling to be open about things I feel protective over.
I remember that my dad reacted so poorly, not to my coming out, but to my transition specifically that my therapist was the one to ask if I wanted to put it on my file that I wanted nothing to ever be shared with him about my health after I broke down multiple times due to my anxiety that I would never transition. While there are and were protections for me, I was incredibly fearful at the time because I was a minor, and I was so worried that he would have prevented my transition that I couldn't have said for certain what (if any) lengths he would have gone to to prevent that.
He's grown a lot as a person, and made some commendable strides. But he didn't find out from me when I medically transitioned the second I turned eighteen, and I think that's among the things that truly made him realize the scope of the issue.
I'm not here to guilt trip parents, guardians, or other members responsible for the care of the children or teens or young adults in their care.... but this is a cautionary tale. You aren't saving the people in your care when you do this, you simply reinforce an idea that you will never care for them, never want them as they are, would rather them be shoved away.
When you give people reasons to be secretive, they will behave secretively. When you give people reasons to doubt their safety around you, they will become sneaky, defensive, and withdrawn. When you give people reasons to doubt that you value their life, they will believe that you don't care if they live or not.
#queer#lgbt#lgbtq#ally advice#transphobia#transphobia tw#i always feel the need to preface that i have a rebuilt relationship with my dad specifically...#...but that my experiences with them have served to me in many ways to illustrate... well... what NOT to do if you are in his situation#i do still grieve that my relationship with him looks very scarred and that it took a long time to get to where he is now#but i recognize that in many ways this is a product of the world and culture we live in and that he lived in#in a world he grew up gay was used as a slur. would i expect that trans people would be treated better?#and he was responsible for how he reacted but also... it's nuanced as to why he reacted so poorly#and i want people to AVOID being like he did if they EVER want a decent relationship with the other person#i want this to be a cautionary tale and that my ending is unique. not all of us are even ABLE to repair a relationship that was THAT broken#some of us die trying. some of us never get closure. some of us are in active danger because of those reactions#and that's the more common reality i have found. most other queer people have no-contact with families who pulled the shit my dad had...#...and that's - frankly - a good idea in 99.9% of cases. i will never judge someone for the way they go about dealing with that#i'm just emphasizing that i am unique in the sense that i was able to somewhat repair that
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Trans Gideon headcannon:
Between the severe abuse and voice dysphoria, Gideon was selectively mute for the first few years he knew Kremy. When he's completely alone with Kremy he'll talk a little more but around other people he barely spoke more than a few words. It made other coworkers think he was difficult to work with and didn't understand why Kremy kept him around. Kremy just ordered them to just stay out of Gideon's way and let him do his work as a mechanic.
#submission#real#i was gonna say 'heat from fire fire from heat' as a little reffy but im like 90% sure its a transfem thing. alas#shout out transfems though. banger phrase#either way i understand Gideon#kremy number 1 trans ally (he is also trans but hes not gonna bring that up anytime soon)#once upon a witchlight#legends of avantris#ouaw#text#this is a true fact#kremy lecroux#gideon coal#submitted hc#trans hc#gender dysphoria mention#abuse mention
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Compiling a few of Amis Polaroid to revive an old project… who should I do next?
#art#fanart#les mis#les amis#les miserables#grantaire#jehan#jehan prouvaire#marius pontmercy#Marius#joly#victor hugo#Marius is a he/him lesbian#jehan is a they/them#taire and joly are uhhh ally’s to the trans cause but of course also queer#I am once again projecting onto Les amis to cope
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My trans masc Dean headcanon is that when Cas brought Dean back from hell and reformed him, he tried to make it the same but slightly better where he could, like fixing his liver etc but also he just sorta cis-ified Dean’s body, and so at some point Dean is just like “dude wtf you gave me a dick?” and Cas is like “uh, yes? You are a boy, isn’t that what boys normally have? I’m not sure why you didn’t have a penis before but your soul was a boy so it seemed like something I could fix for you. Did you not want one??? ” And Dean starts crying cause Cas told him his soul is a boy and Cas is now even more confused. This is also like 2 episodes after they meet and so Cas has like no idea why this is such a huge deal to Dean cause Cas is used to being able to just be in whatever body he can get into and just won’t stay in it if it feels wrong. Sam definitely doesn’t find out that Dean has a dick until like season 10 and is offended that no one thought to mention it. “I thought your top surgery scars just went away from Cas healing you so many times dude, I dunno. But he gave you a dick too??”
#transmasc Dean Winchester#trans dean winchester#this is just my self fulfilling head canon#cis bodies are not superior bodies#it would just be nice if when an angel put me back together he included a dick#Cas had alterior motives when he made it big though#supernatural#spn#destiel#dean winchester#castiel#deancas#casdean#sam winchester#Sam is a trans ally but also a bit of a bitch#supernatural headcanon#season 4 destiel
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still can't stop thinking about the fact that they have demigenders in tevinter but if you're in ferelden you're still using medieval euphemisms for being gay. there are some extremely funny situations to put several characters in
#veilguard spoilers#do we think mary enjoyed tevinter. ive now seen the letter from cullen and it's very funny. maybe tevinter is#when she decides to divorce him actually.#also tarquin has a full beard. so do we have magical hrt#i invented magical hrt for MY trans ocs but now i want to know what they think magical tevinter hrt is supposed to look like#i was going to do a bit where marcus cant answer what his pronouns are because hes too busy trying to remember#the difference between a noun and a verb but i got sidetracked by thinking about how anders would be#the type of cis person to wave their hands and say “oh i dont mind. any” in the pronoun circle#even though they do kind of mind they just want to be an Ally#i think maybe anders would enjoy being trans as a treat but narratively in my worldstate it's not his vibe
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IN THIS HOUSE WE STAND FOR THE FLAG!! 🇺🇸🏳️⚧️
#the stickers on his helmet are from Pyro :)#tf2#team fortress 2#tf2 soldier#tf2 fanart#calvin draws#calvin art#this was a request from a friend everyone say thank you to soap#personally I don’t actually headcanon soldier as trans but like. there are so many ways to do it and they are all so good#my take on him is he’s like. just some guy. he doesn’t care what pronouns you use for him tho#and he also doesn’t care enough to have experimented with labels/identities/etc#so he’s kinda trans in that gender just is not something he processes as part of who he is but also if your take is different I love u#I love seeing him transfemme and transmasc and genderfluid and nonbinary and Butch and whatever else. he is so gender#and even if he is cis he’s such a good ally cause he firmly believes in the American right to freedom of self expression
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i made food for the tranfem gen truthers. the g in gentaro stands for gender
#im drawing hypmic its over for me#hypmic#hypnosis mic#hypnosis microphone#gentaro yumeno#fling posse#dice isnt here but hes also an ally (and trans)#art.png#art.png/fanart#art.png/idol
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