#boyfluid

[genderqueerdykes]

i love you so much i love the way u talk abt trans men and our struggles i makes me feel so seen especially bc youre older than me, i want to be understood , keep posting please

THANK YOU !!

i appreciate that. i feel like nobody (aside from some very cool bloggers on here) is advocating for trans men anymore. like unless its a trans man talking about these issues, it just doesn't happen. nobody advocates on our behalf for the most part. everyone just leaves us to the weeds. we have to help each other because most people just don't even understand what trans men and mascs want. like it's absolutely positively insanity inducing

when i was in college, at my pride group, there were just. no conversations about trans men. at all. in fact. at the time i was beginning to realize i was a trans man but i couldn't find support or acknowledgement of transmasculinity anywhere. whenever i would participate in the conferences, and large group meetings for LGBTQ communities in our part of the country... I was forced into queer women's groups. i did not identify as a woman or bigender at that time. i asked them where a female-to-male genderqueer person should go, and they put me in every queer women's group. i was not being considered trans. i was being viewed as a cis butch lesbian.

i was fucking pissed.

i learned the word transgender and what it meant and the example that was given was male to female, which was informative. i heard a lot of things about feminine transition, drag queens, cis gay male culture, bisexuality, pansexuality, and even asexuality. i want you to know that my college's pride group in 2011 - 2012 was more accepting of asexual people than trans men, which is insane for that time frame. i was actually allowed to help with a presentation on asexuality

i had to go online and research trans men, though. there were none to be found in the group that were at least out and able to talk to each other. we were all very stealth and nervous. my long term friends there ended up being gay men, lesbians, and a transfem agender person. i never met a single trans man there. it was heartbreaking.

i am tired of participating in transmasculine silence. i will not participate in self-erasure. trans men are trans. we're men. we're mascs. we NEED support, community, and care. we need to learn how to access transition resources, to comfort each other, to laugh with each other, to help each other find what clothes make us feel like ourselves, to say each other's names and pronouns, to see one's self in the other.

we need people who will protect us from misgendering. we need to be able to talk about our unique issues. we need to be able to talk about how yes, we experience misogyny, but also that transandrophobia is literally a thing. we need people who will stand up for femme trans men and gay trans men. we need people who understand that it's not okay to call every single trans man a confused butch lesbian and assume that they're a queer cis woman. trans men can be butch lesbians and that's okay. but you can't rip away a trans man's manhood for the sake of being a catty asshole. it's misgendering. it's transphobia. care about being transphobic. transphobia hurts all trans people no matter where it's directed. we all lose when you opt to deny trans men and mascs the right to community.

i am transmasculine. i am a trans man. i love being a trans man. i'm not ashamed. i'm not going back in the closet. i love my transmasculine brothers and siblings. i will not silence them. silencing them is a disservice to us all. i refuse to do that to us.

thank you for sending this ask. stay safe, take care of yourself, you're an important part of the LGBTQ community, don't let anyone take that from you.

[imsupposedtobearesponsibleteen]

UPDATE: Turns out the artists of this is not a good person (I hadn't heard of this person before this, I appreciate I should have done my research). Turns out they have drawn furry diaper fetish stuff using babies/toddlers as their base. Apparently I lived under a fucking rock when this came out last year. i don't really know whether or not to take the post down now, I feel like I should? Opinions on whether I should take it down or not?

Also, thank you to the person that informed me of this situation

[pupsmailbox]

Genderfaun ★ ❭ A fluid gender which never encompasses feminine genders.

Genderfaunet ★ ❭ Similar to genderfaun, however encompasses everything except being a binary woman.

Gendergilen ★ ❭ Similar to genderfaun but masculinity is amplified.

Genderfrect ★ ❭ A fluid gender that encompasses masculine, feminine, and unaligned genders. Feels unaligned and feminine genders either very weakly, very vaguely, or very rarely, while the amount of masculinity they feel is amplified.

Genderfrithet ★ ❭ A fluid gender between genders that are in some way connected to masculinity or femininity, but they are never completely female.

Genderfloy ★ ❭ A fluid gender which is primarily male or masculine, but can encompass all genders.

Gendermirn ★ ❭ Similar to genderfaunet but masculinity is amplified.

Boyflux ★ ❭ Someone whose male gender fluctuates in intensity. This typically involves feeling strongly masculine sometimes and weakly masculine at other times.

Boyfluid ★ ❭ Type of genderfluidity where one changes between male, neutral, androgynous, and genderless identities.

Boyfluix ★ ❭ Which one's gender is both boyfluid and boyflux.

[redacted-coiner]

Girlfluid, Enbyfluid, Boyfluid

Gendersatyr, Genderflor, Genderfae

FINgirl, Niaspec, MINboy

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

[chronicallyleggless]

Boyflux blinkie! (Single)

[nostalgiclittlespace]

Agere Pride Board (Day 28: Boyflux)

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

[ID: Six pixel hearts of various flags in order being Archaine, Tridaine, Javelaine, Nighttime Anxiety, Boyfluid and Girlfluid. End ID]

[genderstarbucks]

Thermal Body Paintings Pride Wallpapers!! (Fluix Genders)

Enbyflux | Enbyfluid | Enbyfluix

Boyflux | Boyfluid | Boyfluix

Girlflux | Girlfluid | Girlfluix

[tomboymoding]

Alt. Boyflux/Androfluid Flag

Definition:  a subset of genderflux in which one feels fluctuating intensities of manhood.

An example of a boyflux person's experience of gender may be a boy 50% of the time, agender 25% percent of the time, and a mix of the two in-between or around those. The intensity can fluctuate over any period of time.

Color meanings : yellow for fluctuating maleness, green is for total maleness (could extend to hypergender), blue is for total lack of gender/agenderness, and the deep purple represents being somewhere in the middle.

Any Boyflux or Androfluid person can use it

[mogaiboy]

Boyflux + Boyfluid!!

Boyflux, also known as manflux or guyflux, is a gender under the genderflux umbrella describing someone whose male gender fluctuates in intensity. This typically involves feeling strongly masculine sometimes and weakly masculine at other times. Boyflux individuals can fluctuate from feeling completely without gender to completely masculine or male. In between those extremes, one may feel slightly masculine, to half masculine, to mostly masculine but not fully, or any other amount of masculinity. Some individuals may move smoothly between intensities while others may quickly jump between intensities. Boyflux individuals may encompass genders such as paraboy, demiboy, libramasculine, proxvir, bxy, man, and many other masculine genders. A boyflux individual may also experience other, non-masculine, genders, but this is not necessarily related to their boyflux identity.

The term boyflux was coined by Tumblr user @kitsuneshay on August 19th, 2015, in order to describe their own identity

Boyfluid, also known as manfluid, guyfluid, fluid male or genderfluid boy/man/male, is a type of genderfluidity where one changes between male, neutral, androgynous, and genderless identities.

The term boyfluid was coined by Discord user YourManMichael on October 23rd, 2021

Boyfluix is a term that refers to an individual who is simultaneously boyflux and boyfluid

The term boyfluix was coined by Tumblr user @genderstarbucks on September 12th, 2022, in order to describe their own identity

If anybody would like their tags removed, please let me know. Credit will still be provided.

[dravenistired]

Somehow my tumblr feed is literally all just lesbians and anime now.

I’m not mad, to be honest, this is awesome.

Though I’m realizing my deep dive into my little pony fanart and headcannons might have contributed to this new onset of lesbian/aroace content

and as a transmasc boyflux bisexual, I don’t know if I should be enjoying this as much as I am

[soul-0f-venus]

anyone know how to come out to transphobic parents/fam/friends?

[chronicallyleggless]

Boy userboxes! (Pack)

[dravenistired]

Oh my god I’ve never felt more seen in my l i f e.

boyflux culture is feeling like a fake transmasc on fem days

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[genderstarbucks]

a boyflux + lesbian combo flag and a girlflux + gay combo flag

Boyflux / Girlflux + Gay / Lesbian Flags!!

I'm gonna post some more of these later so jsyk :3

[ryanyflags]

manfluix | womanfluix

Alt terms: ✦ Manfluix can also be called boyfluix, malefluix, genderfluix man/boy/male. ✦ Womanfluix can also be called girlfluix, femalefluix, genderfluix woman/girl/female.

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Some alt genderfluix flags :D ✨ (I also posted nonbinaryfluix flags here.)

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The flags are basically a mix of their original fluid and flux flags (see boyfluid, boyflux, girlfluid, girlflux). Specifically, since the purple of girlfluid and the yellow of girlflux were so different (and trying to mix them together just made grey), I moved the purple to the bottom. I also added extra dark blue and pink stripes, to make the flag be centred / have the stripes on both sides match.