#bitter and trans

[xstarkillerx]

Bryhhhhhh all my friends asking why I never go to drag shows and it's because drag queens fill me elwoth Insane envy and jealousy like i can't be in a room with queens knowing that if I had been born a man I would do drag. I would straight up be a fishy femme fucking cross dresser it's so upsetting so NO I WILL NOT GO TO CREWS AND TANGO I'M BITTER

[queenburd]

in the span of hours tumblr has banned an out trans woman who was outspoken about her harrassment and the unfairness of the website's system and MULTIPLE out trans women who commented on the absurdity of the situation--has even banned them for posting pictures of hammers and cars.

if staff thought this was going to make the situation go away, all staff's gotten is a class action lawsuit. good job, hellsite "moderators." you showed your whole ass and you're going to go to court. again.

[oifaaa]

you should draw transfem jason todd for pride month

Combining a few of the Jason ideas people asked for bc why not anyway she made the shirt herself

[sleepfight]

In DAI, Krem talks about how he had to bribe a doctor to sign off on his papers in order to enlist in the Tevinter military and that he had to flee after being outed and liiiike

I really want to know what enlistment was like for Tarquin. If he began his transition after the ultimatum from his father, he was presumably of or near the age to qualify for service but still young enough to rely on his family for survival. Just coming into adulthood, just finding the words to define himself, just grasping the magnitude of knowing.

And in a near parody of support, his father will only accept him as a son if he pledges his life away to a deeply patriarchal institution where stealth is not only mandatory to obtain the position in the first place, but enforced by the threat of legal prosecution. You want to be a man? Fine, if you are not a man here, you will be punished for it. As a soldier, your masculinity will be defined and held to account or you will face violence for your trespassing.

Or stay the course. Accept an adolescence of grooming to become an ideal wife and marry up in status, bring the family new opportunities. Bear children, play politics, repress, repress, repress. Swallow poison and choke on what could have been.

Be a man or be destroyed, either way.

[dykedvonte]

Can you talk about trans!Curly a little bit more? I'm curios if you have any headcanons and the like

-💀

It's just such a thing in my mind because it adds a truthful sadness and differing aspect to mouthwashing.

If Curly was trans it adds the horror of the horribly selfish thought he could have easily been in Anya's situation. It could've been him but it wasn't and he so conflicted on the pit it put in his stomach that brings and the shameful relief it wasn't. In this scenario he is friends with Jimmy for a long time still. Jimmy likely knew him pretransition. Maybe he gave Curly weird looks then, maybe they never stopped after, maybe they seemed meaner. They are guys now, bros, both of them are. He doesn't really have to worry what those looks mean anymore, Jimmy just has that face with him sometimes. It's recontextualizing a lot of things for him that he was in denial about or too ashamed to admit. How naive he was being and how he let that get another person hurt.

Specifically with Anya, it's he knows the dread and fear she's feeling. He can understand it because he had to live with it for a good portion of his life, he knows it cause he still does, just in a slightly different way. It makes him think of all the times he's been alone with Jimmy, all the times he's been way more drunk off his ass and not remember the night, Jimmy was always with him the next day. Makes him think of the comments he would laugh off both because that's what guys do but because that part of being a girl says to laugh so Jimmy doesn't do something. It's the selfish realization that he was never safe and he's uncertain now too. Mad at himself for forgeting that feeling, espcially since for a long time he would've been considered the only woman on a crew (with all that implies) for a long time.

He should've taken those blinders off, step back into that position for just a moment and it's so much more painful that Anya likely came to him because he should've gotten it. Those thoughts don't leave his mind after the crash when he's in an even more vulnerable position than she was...

[asmodeauxx]

gang wyd when they hifi on they rush

[souporsaladnatural]

Society if the supernatural writers treated Kevin and Charlie with literally any respect

[peachybeins]

Sorry I'm gonna be mean here for a second. Dysphoria's been beating my ass so I deserve to be an asshole about this.

Male Charcter/ Reader being AFAB=/=PIV bottom, please tell me y'all know this right? Also please tell me you know that It also does not equal necessitating the most dysphoria inducing femme terms like cvnt pvssy cl*t (can't even fully type that shit out) right?

And if you insist on this at least have the decency to care about dysphoric trans men & Masc NBs by Tagging Your Shit!!!

Like at this point I don't even care if it's trans people doing this, it kinda makes it worse imo. I don't expect cis people to give a shit but fellow trans people should at least be cognisant of others.

I'm asking some of you to expand your imagination when it comes to the sexual roles of trans men & afab NBs in your writings. And if you don't want to?...that's fine great that you can enjoy these types of depictions awesome for you...now give a damn about others who can't at tag or give a CW so we can skip/blacklist tags.

[cupiidzbow]

everyone on donkey kong island: hello lgbt community

[your-unfriendlyghost]

for transfem Soda au, what would she think of girl guides (I think they’re Girl Scouts in America?)

I dunno, by the time she figures herself out I think she’s about 16-17 which is too old for Girl Scouts I think unless ur a counselor, and unless you were a Girl Scout as a kid then idk why you’d want to be a counselor?

idk, the extent of my Girl Scouts knowledge are the stories my grandma has abt being a counselor as a teen in the late 1960s-70s. (She thought she was very edgy at the time for having “Grass” as her fake counselor name which was funny cos weed and all ig)

Uh ig Soda would think that thin mints are pretty nice. I guess maybe Girl Scouts’d make her feel a bit sad at the lost theoretical girl childhood she coulda had, one where she got to do that stuff. Idk what stuff they do tho other than sell cookies and not smoke grass, so feel free to share if you’ve got any better thoughts lol

[isa-ah]

literally how do I cope with a movie where the baseline message is that trans children are treated like monsters who will destroy society but ultimately the only person they're trying to hurt is themselves bc they lack the love, support and resources their peers get unconditionally. and that the surveillance state would kill as many civilians as it takes to eradicate trans kids to maintain the status quo by any means necessary.

[plumbus-central]

💙💜BIG REFERENCE POST OF RICK AND MINNIE AUS 💜💙

ive been chipping away at these for a while bc i wanted to get everyone's designs and palettes situated for later referencing. Since most of the time i dont color things in i wanted that all squared away. The first 4 are just designs for different life stages the rest are AUs.

HERES ALSO A BIG LIST OF MY AUS WITH LINKS

[batbusiness-schooldropout]

The biggest thing that clocks Will Graham as a transman is that he continued to work after developing a fever and severe headaches.

A cis man would've languished on the couch for 3 days, gone to the doctor, gotten diagnosed, and received treatment within 2 weeks.

Also I'm imagining Will having migraines like mine with vision changes and Jack's all "What do you see?"

"Well, it was a black nothingness, but now if I had to describe it, I'd say it looks like fog with a rainbow outline. Also, I literally can't see the crime scene. Can someone help me to my car?"

[wimpy-imp]

I remember many times when my grandmother would make off hand remarks about how testosterone would make me look like a joke. that it would be funny and unnatural for someone like me to have a beard.

before that i remember my mother outing me to my grandparents without my knowledge or consent. and then having to sit with both of them on different occasions for a year while they tried to tell me i was just a masculine woman. One where they thought it was okay to ask if I'd get pregnant if a potential partner "really really wanted it 🥺" (Which. sidenote. what the actual fuck??)

i remember the day after one of those conversations my mother took me into town for a "suprise" from my grandma. and they tried to make me get my ears pierced. even when i said i didn't want to. the only reason they stopped was because i had an autistic shutdown in public and they were too embarrassed to keep trying to force me into it. That happened 2 years ago. i have very real trauma from that day.

They never cared about my gender nonconformity until i came out.

They still seem to believe that I'd only be a man if i actually secretly hated myself.

[drowfag]

girl your superiority complex over gay trans men is fucking insufferable. i thought you might’ve gotten over your boys have cooties phase but here you are 27 years old shitting on a bunch of fags because you can't stop sniffing that radfem-lite fumes the moment you realized you liked women and need to prove to all the cisbians that you are one of the good ones. good luck with that, but please tone down the misogyny and homophobia a bit, it's a bad look.

[therealdoctorjellybean]

I think when it comes to being transgender some people hear it like a child going, "I want to be a fairy princess!" This being that fairies don't exist (that we know of.)

Except that they do. In video games, in stories, people even become professional mermaids and princesses for kid's birthdays.

It's not that you "can't", it's just people think the world should work a certain way. That instead of it having magic and making people happy, it should be gray without imagination, difference, or creativity. People want things they can understand, and when there is something they don't understand, then they get confused, angry, and hate that thing. When their dreams were never fulfilled because they lived by these rigid rules, and they see other people living happily, they want to take away and make them a bitter adult. Well, don't be a bitter adult, create, be the magic fairy princess, be the person you want to be.