#biaesthetic

[the-delta-quadrant]

happy bi week to all the bi people who are erased by sexnormativity.

happy bi week to the biromantics, the bisensuals, the biaesthetics, the bialterous, the undefined bis and the bis who experience other tertiary attraction.

happy bi week to all the bis who are not bisexual and have to see themselves erased during a week that should be for all of us.

you deserve better.

we deserve better.

[gc-lgbtplus-headcanons]

My spongebob headcanons

These are based on implied canon and canon, but I haven't watched this show in so long so please tale this with a grain of salt.

Spongebob is bi oriented aroace, biasethetic, bialterous, & canonically aroace. He has a mesh (alterous crush) on Squidward and on Sandy.

Patrick Star is canonically aroace.

Squidward is bi and has a crush on Squilliam Fancyson.

Sandy is a straight ally.

[mogai-headcanons]

Wildflower from the OMG doll collection is a biaesthetic monosensual shadowbennetian lesbennetian lesbihet bi lesbian!

She's in a soft romo relationship with Pose, a transfeminine aspec spectrasexual sapphic!

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[losergendered]

ID: a set of 54 images in 27 pairs. each has one image of the listed total drama character with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Ezekiel from Total Drama is a genderqueer transmasc bisexual and uses he/they!

Sadie is a biaesthetic lesbian, Katie is a transfem omni lesbian, and they're dating!

Eva is an acespec demiplatonic unlabeled sapphic!

Noah is a GNC gay guy and is dating Alejandro!

Izzy is an genderfucked abrosexual aroace demihuman xenogirl who uses any pronouns!

Justin is a flamboric cupiospec arospec gay guy!

Beth is a nonbinary weirdgirlpunk bi lesbian who uses they/she and has a crush on Lindsay!

Owen is (semi-canonically) bisexual!

Geoff is bisexual and in love with Bridgette, who doesn't label her sexuality, but has had feelings for multiple genders before!

DJ is questioning his sexuality, but thinks that he's somewhere on the aroace spectrum! He also considers himself a nonbinary cis man and a demiboy!

Leshawna is a bipan girl, and her girlboyfriend, Harold, is a bigender transfem genderqueer genderfluid bisexual boygirl!

Lindsay is a bi straight lesbian, and her partner, Tyler, is a cusper straight lesbian transfem boy who switches between identifying as a cishet man and a trans butch lesbian and uses he/she pronouns!

Trent is an ace bisexual with an aesthetic lean towards girls and a romantic lean towards boys!

Gwen is a bi lesbian/shadowlesbian trans girl who defaults to she/her, but doesn't mind neopronouns! She's in love with Courtney!

Cody is a bisexual trans guy!

Sierra is an intersex trisfem paradoxibinary arospec bordersexual first-quarter/third-quarter neaptide mspec lesbian who prefers she/her, but also likes they/them and neos!

Duncan is a bisexual guy with a preference for girls! He's in a relationship with Courtney!

Blaineley is an aphrodite bi lesbian!

Heather is a bisexual girl with a preference for girls and she's dating Alejandro, who is also bisexual! Alejandro is also dating Noah!

Courtney is a bisexual girl in a relationship with Gwen and Duncan!

Chris and Chef are both gay men and are married!

[genderstarbucks]

Can you make a bierotic (ambierotic) flag?

The bisexual version of the homoerotic flag

Bierotic / Ambierotic!!

Bierotic / Ambierotic - a term for when one feels erotic attraction to one than more gender or multiple genders. It does not have to be any specific gender.

[all-the-bones-ever]

i think i might be biaesthetic because FUCK women are pretty and i like to think abt them but in a rom/sx context its just. no.

n e ways i can't find the biaesthetic flag i want so can some1 please give it ty

[galacticwaters44]

made a biaesthetic aggressive pride flag 🙏 happy pride month

[oh-my-im-ply]

The distinction is actually more like this:

Polysexuality, bisexuality, and pansexuality are all experiences under the multi-attraction spectrum, or m-spec. However, while the terms overlap, they are not synonymous.

Polysexuality is attraction to multiple genders, typically without being attracted to all genders. Polysexual people may be attracted to any combination of genders, but most often are attracted to one binary gender and many/all nonbinary genders. People often use the polysexual label to emphasize that they are not attracted to all genders, and also are not attracted to both binary genders (i.e. both binary men and binary women), but are still attracted to multiple genders. However some people may use the label for other reasons.

Bisexuality is attraction to two or more genders. This can be as few as two genders, as many as all genders, or anything in between. Bisexual people may be attracted to any combination of genders, but most often are attracted to both binary men and binary women, with or without attraction to nonbinary people as well. Bisexual people may or may not have gender preferences.

Pansexuality is attraction to all genders, or attraction regardless of gender. Definitionally, all pansexual people have the capacity for attraction towards all genders. Pansexual people typically do not have gender preferences.

To recap:

Attracted to multiple genders?

Bisexual: Yes, always

Pansexual: Yes, always

Polysexual: Yes, always

Attracted to all genders?

Bisexual: Usually

Pansexual: Yes, always

Polysexual: Usually not

Attracted to both binary men and binary women?

Bisexual: Usually

Pansexual: Yes, always

Polysexual: Usually not

Has gender preferences?

Bisexual: Unspecified

Pansexual: Usually not

Polysexual: Unspecified

Hope this makes sense ^^

Whats the difference between Bisexual, Pansexual and Polysexual? they all seem the same too me :/

Well from what i heard, and the best i'll tell you, Bisexual does mean ALL genders so that includes boys, girls and non-binary folk. But most Bisexuals do mean just boys and girls, while Pansexual and Polysexual mean girls, boys, non-binary, genderfluid, demiboy, genderflux ect ect. And the difference is Polysexuals have a pref, so you might like girls better, or want a partner thats Trans ect. But pansexuals don't care period, they'd date anyone. Now of course they still can have prefs because everyones sexuality is different and unique, but thats the gist. :)

[t4t4tclethian]

YOU'RE CISHET??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anon im so sorry you had to find out like this.

[the-delta-quadrant]

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

How can someone be both bi and aroace? What does it mean when someone says they’re both?

I think I might be—the term “bi aroace” just feels right for me, but the controversy over the labels make my head spin.

Yes, you can ID as both bi and aroace, and a lot of aroaces use other orientation labels along with aroace.

There's a lot of reasons why someone might do this, some of the common ones are things like:

Being both ace spectrm and aro spectrum but still experiencing some attraction (for example someone might be demiromantic/asexual and the romantic attraction they've experienced is to multiple genders).

Not experiencing romantic or sexual attraction, but experiencing other types of attraction they want to label (so maybe someone is aroace but also bisensual or biaesthetic).

Being open to dating and/or sex, but wanting to be clear about what genders you're interested in doing these things with, or still feeling oriented towards a gender/genders and wanting to express that.

Being open to other types of relationships (like a QPR for example) and wanting to express which genders you're interested in for that.

Etc.

I don't think it would be possible to do a completely comprehensive list, but hopefully this gives an idea of why it happens. If you feel like bi aroace fits you, then absolutely you can do that.

As for any controvesy, most inclusive areas shouldn't have a problem with this. Gatekeeping does seem to be on the rise unfortunately, if you're finding yourself running up against it, do your best to either ignore it or block/hide people doing it.

All the best, Anon! Good luck!

[mogai-headcanons]

Scott Pilgrim from Scott Pilgrim Takes Off is an autistic bisexual transgender guy!

He's dating Ramona Flowers, an arospec canonically bisexual transfeminine person!

Wallace Wells is an alloaro greyromantic canonically gay person!

His boyfriend Mobile is gay!

Stephen Stills is a closeted gay guy!

Kim Pine is a closeted lesbian who's dating Roxie!

Knives Chau is a nonbinary aroace lesbian!

Young Neil is an autistic transhet bi straight guy!

Stacey Pilgrim is a bisexual trans guy!

Julie Powers is a heteroflexible greyrose person who's dating Gideon!

Envy Adams is a bi lesbian oriented aroace person!

Hollie Hawkes is a femme dyke transfeminine person who's casually seeing Roxie!

Matthew Patel is a GNC bi gay guy who's dating Gideon!

Lucas Lee is unlabeled!

Todd Ingram is a biaesthetic bi veldian gay guy!

Roxie Richter is a futch demiromantic canon lesbian who's dating Kim and casually seeing Hollie!

Ken Katayanagi is aromantic and alloaro!

His brother Kyle Katayanagi is aromantic and aroace!

Gideon Graves is a transsexual bi veldian bi darcian who's dating Julie and Matthew!

All of the Demon Hipster Chicks are agender demongender lesbians!

Christine is a bennetianconnec sapphic deadcheeric cheerleadboyish maidenohum boygirl!

Audrey is an intersex transmascfem zyexadic abigender darcian!

Heather is a kogalaesic tonarinojkica thighighaesic girlbossmascic dyke!

Cosette is a high femme divbian ghostwife!

They're all in a committed platonic relationship with Matthew and casually dating Roxie!

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[clndstn-headmates]

emily pack ..? class of 09

sure, hope u like her! o(*￣▽￣*)o feel free 2 change anything as alwayssss ♪(´▽｀)

-Mod Andrew

NAMES: Emily

AGE: 17-18

PRONOUNS: she/her

GENDERS: cis girl

SEXUALITY: lesbian, grayromantic, biaesthetic

SOURCE: Class of 09

SPECIES: human

ROLE: persecutor, middlex

TRANSIDS: permasuicidal, transSHaddict, transbeansaddict, transsevSH, transsevSHscars, translaffytaffySH, transbedrockSH, transbeanSH, scemoage, natiscenepillus, transemo, transscene, transsuicidepact, transbully, transcheater, transcyberstalker, transdoxxer, transsuibaiter, deadteenic, transpandrugaddict, omniaddict, transoverdosedeath

CISIDS: white, blonde, blue eyes, ADHD, BPD, NPD, depression, bipolar disorder, schizospec, mania, scars, self-harm, addict, violent, unstable, argumentative, aggressive, obsessive

PARAS: AAM (🧸), teleiophile (🍴), sadomasochist (❣️), autonoceresephile, suinoduphile

APPEARANCE:

art

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 6 images in 3 pairs. each has one image of the listed sonic character with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Shadow from Sonic the Hedgehog is a trigender (masc + neutral + genderless), pronounfluid, demiromantic, orchidsexual, polarsensual, vincisensual, acoplatonic, pan gay! They use he/they/it/aer pronouns, with a preference for they/it! It's a median system and autistic, and has AvPD and PTSD! They are semiverbal!

Sonic is a GNC, autigender, transmasc, T4T, ambiamorous, biromantic, cupioromantic, asexual! He uses he/they and nameself pronouns! They are autistic, and have HPD, cyclothymia, dyscalculia, and P-DID! He is hyperverbal, with frequent verbal crashes!

Rouge is a bigender (fem + masc), polyamorous, biaesthetic, moon lesbian! She uses she/him/rose/moonself pronouns! He is hyperromantic!

For anon!

[reverse-queer-dictionary]

Are There Any Labels That Specify Aesthetic Attraction?

Hello!

I'm not entirely sure what you're looking for, but if you're looking for terms that specify what type of aesthetic attraction you experience, here are some examples:

Homoaesthetic - Experiencing aesthetic attraction to your own gender/similar genders

Biaesthetic - Experiencing aesthetic attraction to two or more genders

Panaesthetic -Experiencing aesthetic attraction to people regardless of gender

Omniaesthetic - Experiencing aesthetic attraction to all genders, where gender plays a role in attraction

etc. Simply use any prefix from a romantic orientation/sexuality and replace -romantic or -sexual with -aesthetic

Anaesthetic/nonaesthetic (those who don't experience aesthetic attraction)-spec terms include

Demiaesthetic - Someone who only experiences aesthetic attraction after a close emotional bond has been formed

Anaestheticflux - Someone who fluctuates between anaesthetic and alloaesthetic

etc. They are the same as any other aspec (arospec, acespec, etc.) labels, just replace romantic/sexual/etc. or aro/ace/etc. with aesthetic or anaes

If you and are looking for labels that specify that you experience some sort of tertiary attraction, there is

Oriented Aroace - Someone who is aroace (or less commonly, aroacespec) and experiences another type(s) of attraction that is significant enough to be labeled

Angled Aroace - Someone who is aroacespec and experiences another type(s) of attraction that is significant enough to be labeled

Oriented Aro - Someone who is a non-SAM aro or "just aro" and experiences a form/forms of tertiary attraction that is/are significant enough to be labeled

If none of these labels are what you were looking for, feel free to send in another, more specific ask! (/npa /gen)