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"I don't like looking at a guide to understand tone tags!" Fam the youth of today make up new slang every five minutes nowadays. I'm getting whiplash trying to understand* Skibidi Ohio rizzler gyatt whatthefuckever, but I'm not trying to stop the rest of the world from using it
*I appreciate you taking the time to try and explain it, but I've done some research and... it's not sticking. I don't understand, and I'm okay with not understanding
#let people use tone tags for goodness sake#they've helped me so much over the years#they don't have less value because they don't help everyone#we don't stop people from using sign language just because some people don't understand it#you can learn how to use it yourself#it's up to you to decide whether you want to#but don't make other people feel silly for using something that works#besides#doing this (emotional insinuation) is never used in earnest anyhow#everytime i see (affectionately) (maliciously) etc being used#it's used in some form of joking manner#tone tags are an attempt to be sincere#because i and others need that clarification#because i'm fucking paranoid and think people are repulsed by me 24/7#ugh#i didn't mean for this to be a rant#tone tags aren't hurting anyone
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feel like my headcanons for gender-nonconformity amongst Tres Horny Boys often fall just a little to the left of usual fanon — by which I mean, I see Taako as androgynous more so than feminine, and see Magnus as the one who's feminine, but in ways that he mix-and-matches with masculine elements too. and of course, the distinction between any of these things is a social construct, and is probably best thought of as revolving around individual intent — but that's how I like to conceptualize them conceptualizing it, you know?
this is probably better explained by example. to me, the typical Taako outfit is going to be something like those long flowy pants that are indistinguishable from a skirt at a distance, but with occasional real skirts in the rotation too (just to keep them guessing). while the average Magnus outfit involves multiple earrings (the dangliest ones that wouldn't be a hazard in a fight), pink nail polish, and a pair of cargo shorts. pure chaos that only he could make work. then in the meantime, Merle has never in his life even seriously contemplated gender presentation at all — if he puts flowers in his beard, that's 'cause it brings him closer to Pan and he happens to think these colors look nice! no reflection given and no reflection needed on any cultural concepts of masculinity, and whether or not he aligns with them.
#and btw when i say “androgynous” for taako i obviously don't mean “white skinny person”#not sure what the point of putting this in the tags is because people who follow me probably already know i don't mean that#and people who see this post somewhere other than my blog would be more likely to need the clarification#but whatever! this is just a silly post. an excuse to talk about magnus nail polish & cargo shorts#taz#taz balance#thb#anyways i think merle is too aro (whether he realizes it or not) to have a huge stake in gender#much like i'm starting to realize about myself lmao
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#just for fun#I added little notes for clarification just because... I'm me#like- I seriously don't see Shadow and Amy getting together until their 20s/30s so I added that note#and the only reason Shadow leans more towards using petnames and such is because he calls Amy 'Rose'#so yeah- that sort of thing#(And the 100cm is Amy's base hight without heels)#Also- I think Amy can cook a lot#but there's a few thing she can cook perfectly#She's able to take her knowledge of spices and other dishes to sort of freestyle or improvise as needed#but Shadow knows how to cook a select few dishes very- very well#however- they cannot take that knowledge and apply it elsewhere- they have to start from scratch when learning a new recipe#hence why that scale looks like that#but yeah anyway#shadamy#shadow the hedgehog#amy rose#op rambles#headcanon
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yeah, it's still not clear:
what counts as a weapon
what counts as a blade
what counts as a kind
without more information, the question is basically:
do you think there's more ????s of ????, or non-???? ????s?
like is a rock a weapon? since they have often been used as weapons? does it need to be man-made and purpose built to be a weapon? what about a utility knife? does that count as a weapon? and what about explosives? or a car used to intentionally run somebody over? do fictional weapons count or just ones that exist irl? what about real designs that haven't been produced? are teeth and claws weapons or only if they're pulled off first?
is a spike a blade? what about a sharp edge of a weapon not meant to be used to slice? what about an arrow tip?
is "ax" a kind of weapon or do we need to be more specific? is "polearm" specific enough? is "halberd" specific enough? a particular style of halberd? a specific design? are the idiosyncrasies of each produced unit enough to be considered a distinct "kind" of weapon? what if i customize mine with an engraving? what if I modify the shape of the blade by accident or on purpose? what if I add a second blade to the other end? what if I snap the handle in half and make it shorter?
and if bullets aren't weapons, then what about arrows? what if an arrow is used as a spear?
honestly it seems a bit unfair to projectile weapons to consider a different kind of projectile as not a distinct weapon. like it would sound ridiculous to decide that a different shaped blade makes it not a distinct weapon if the handle is the same, since that's the part that does the damage.
that all being said, without further clarification, I have to side with non-bladed weapons, because there are so many ways to make something do damage other than a blade, and the fact that humanity has interacted with and focused on blades so much I think introduces a ton of bias to make it seem like there's more blades.
sort of like how transcendental numbers (like pi or e) seem so rare because we encounter algebraic (not transcendental) numbers so much more often, but in reality there are a countably infinite number of algebraic numbers but an uncountably infinite number of transcendental numbers, so there are actually not just more transcendental numbers, but way more.
so I'm going with non-bladed, but it's such a subjective question that it could be interpreted to have any correct answer.
#and that's how you tackle a question with autism#the marvelous mind of sabrina bea#cardinality of infinite sets
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Every so often I see... interesting takes about Zemo that leave me questioning if we... all saw the same stuff.
Like, you know he commanded a death squad before his fam even died, right? This man is not a good dude. Sure, maybe it was in the name of his country but also... his country was a shit show and he said as much.
So I am absolutely perplexed by the number of "he wouldn't do x" and "why does everyone make him so toxic" kinds of things. He actively waterboarded Vasily Karpov like one of the first times we saw him. He was put in the RAFT because he is a fucking terrorist.
This feels like another one of those things I guess that reminds me of Hannibal. Him being polite doesn't make him any less of a cannibal. You can be both polite and a bad person.
#Zemo#lil rant am sorry#is this what woobification is?#Is this why I am reacting so strongly about this?#My poor group chat every time I come across this because I react viscerally#To each their own on headcanons I guess#Live and let live#But I am PERPLEXED.#Anyway I'm going to continue to enjoy Zemo being a piece of shit trash man who might occassionally show a soft spot if it benefits him#rant#In case clarification is needed this is very much about people who seem to make him really sweet/kind#And then talk about how other people are weirdos or freaks for acknowledging canon and liking him anyway??
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But seriously tho you ever sat there with you and your wife just like this is dumb we can make a much more concise point and bring up some actual stuff about TP that can be read by the source material and now I'm reading Evelyn Alsultany work Arabs and Muslims in the Media after 9/11 that @blackautmedia recommended dude I am so sorry for dragging you into this but thank you so much for this anyways everyone here is the paper it's a pdf so don't get worried if yall wanna take a read 😭
#like it aint my place to go into it because this aint my experiance but i can atleast like post it for others to read#besides games for babies the legend of zelda series does not need this much shit going into it but dammit#may be stupid#WAIT LEMME CLARIFY BECAUSE MY WHOLE SHIT WAS ON CLARIFICATION.....#the zelda series isnt game for babies its a way of trying to tell myself IT AINT WORTH IT THERE IS BIGGER FISH TO FRY#I LOVE TOUCHING GRASS‼️💖‼️
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Y'all can laugh at this real world shit.
#Not snz but...#I just got an email from a client#And it took me 20 minutes to figure out what she was trying to tell me#It said “I ate and no one said shit.”#I'm a life coach/counselor that specializes in helping other neurodivergents#I'm going over my notes like “did she mention an eating disorder?”#Did my ADHD ass really miss something big???#So I send her a response asking for clarification because I don't want her to think I'm ignoring her#I tell her that if she wants to discuss her eating situation we can do that#She is MASSIVELY confused#I am MASSIVELY confused#And then?#She explains that she meant she kicked ass and no one said anything#Y'all...#Gen X and Elder Millennials need help with this shit LMFAO#I'm not good with uncommon meanings of common words#Or short forms of common words#Or skibidi sigma whatever lol#For the love of all the gods...DO NOT make me invoke Pauly Shore#Don't tax my gig so hardcore dudes#Or you'll know that I'm just trying to chill in my pad with some sweet grindage#Why do you think Grimm talks the way he does??#BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ELSE LMFAO#This has been a gnarly PSA#Oh and for additional LOLS#When you “ate it” during my time?#It means you fell down or failed lol#I'll just got back to writing courtly bullshit now lol
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Hmmm I wonder why I cling to the fact that I’m smart and crave academic validation so much and immediately feel really good anytime someone reminds me that I am smart
*sibling had 4.8 gpa. sibling called me dumb a million times. sibling says I have no common sense every single time they’re yelling at me. sibling makes fun of me for not being smart any chance they get*
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#something that I’ve been learning is an insecurity for me recently#I could meet every definition of smart in the dictionary and they’ll still make fun of me#doesn’t help that it’s usually because of something to do with my autism#either not hearing them or not understanding something and needing clarification or misunderstanding something#or a million other little shit#tbf. this person would yell at me over anything they could get a chance to#like I have an insecurity over chewing too loud because of them#although tbf they have sensory issues but also. there are other ways of dealing with that than screaming at me#vent#vent post#kinda vent#vent ish
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MAGENTA.
#look...our profs are the experts but even experts get things wrong even experts have biases even experts are not equipped#to handle certain situations#this person completely invalidated the complaints others in the cohort have had this term on profs grading with bias and not communicating#what they want to see on assignments not to mention there's evidence of favoritism#this is the kind of shit that lets counselors and therapists like my former supervisors get away with bullying clients and colleagues#because they're “experts” they get a pass on being assholes or acting holier than thou#as a peep who plans to specialize in trauma specific to clients receiving trauma from clinics and other practioners#im hella disappointed#just because you didnt experience anything negative doesnt negate the experiences of your peers#there is something going on obviously that deserves to be looked into#it doesnt mean that your cohort is saying “the profs dont know what they are talking about”#gtfo of here#i can admit right now i gotta work on not getting angry when theres an injustice done on others whose voices aren't being heard#and i naturally have an aversion to authority figures that i know isn't always appropriate which ive unpacked through trauma work#but man some of y'all need to work on not being kiss asses to people in positions of authority who should be questioned#especially in this fucking field!!!#if a prof clinician practioner etc etc cant handle having a conversation about behavior or clarification then wtf are they doing#working with vulnerable people???#magenta is my vent word#magenta is my vent tag#sorry peeps theres something in the air today#im normally not this mad#and hindsight i admit maybe im jumping the gun a little but when i heard this kind of shit#where concerns are being swept under the rug i get peeved af#im happy i took summer off#heres hoping fall is better
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(pick the one that applies most to you & elaborate in the tags/comments if you want)
#if clarification is needed just ask. there's a severe character limit on polls for some reason#Danny Phantom#gore#blood#injury#tagging so people can block it if they're a 0. i'm an 8. sometimes a 9 but mostly an 8 so im voting that one#i can stomach a lot. there's just some subjects that make oouuuggh#idk why. i cringe at Saw but mostly because of the acting. a little bit because i have trouble not sympathizing with stuff like that#also the one thing that bothers me is the thought of a bone breaking & rubbing against each other & the skin & stuff#like i've broken a bone & it wasn't that bad (looking. the break was bad) i just find that gross. bones shouldnt do that#cutting through a bone? fine. amputation is less gross & more ''i dont want that to happen to me''#eye stuff too. like getting stabbed. im less ick about taking eyes out for some reason but still#just touching them is like whatever i do that all the time to get stuff out but stabbing is a oouughh for me. i can watch it it's just eoug#to sum it up i guess i'm fine with a lot of gore there's just some stuff i'm grimacing at while reading/watching#i sort of ''faint'' sometimes at blood draws but that's because i'm super low energy & shit#i think if i saw severe gore irl i'd be a bit fucked up but idk unless it happens#i've seen some gross stuff. i've seen dead animals & i'm mostly like ''cool free bones''*#*as long as it's legal. if i'm unsure i leave them there. i dont fuck with wildlife laws
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what the fuck is this
#at first i genuinely thought it was a language learning app because why else would you compare it to duolingo#so i was like why the fuck does there need to be a language learning app specifically for lgbt+ people#maybe they did that on purpose so you would view the next part for clarification#so in that sense i guess its effective#but in every other way this is one of the worst advertisements ive seen
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Wait is the main foxfire building not the glass pyramid /gen. Oh wait do you think it’s in the tower thingies? Because if so I’m listening 👁️👁️
Oh, i don't know? I call the six towers the main building and the glass pyramid is just, the glass pyramid to me. I've always imagined the glass pyramid, the six levels of foxfire, and the silver and gold towers separate, with the buildings/towers of the six levels the main building, but i could be completely wrong here.
Actually the more i think about it, you may be right with the glass pyramid being the main building!
Picture reference of what I've always considered the main building because I'm terrible at describing things.
I imagine the healing center somewhere in between the 3th and 4th towers!
I could be completely wrong and the main building is considered the glass pyramid though! I haven't reread the first couple books in a while, so wouldn't be surprised.
If someone knows what the books call the main building at foxfire please tell us. 🙏
#Tbh i get the layout of stuff wrong all the time.#So i wouldn't be surprised if I'm wrong about this too. Don't even ask about how i imagine havenfield. Its WAY different than what the book#Kotlc#But thats also why i love books! Because you get to see/compare how others imagine the different locations! Its fun#thanks for the ask!#Kailey rambles#Did this get needlessly confusing? My brain hurts i think I'm confusing myself lol#If you need clarification let me know!
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I've been reading anons as pointing out the "and alsos" of Daniel, so basically taking his excellent driving skills for granted! Like nothing should need to be clarified there--but anon is probably right that we should say it more cause some people (not on this blog) have short memories...
yes exactly!!! the perfect articulation of what i was trying to say!!
#i don't know that we necessarily need to say it more just because like...anything happening on this blog is for the daniel girlies only#other people are NOT reading this shit lmao (affectionately)#i just mean in the sense of like....yeah maybe the clarification is necessary sometimes just to make sure we're all on the same page#but in general i think we all kind of Get It and shouldn't need to cater to those that don't when they're not the target audience!!#if anyone needs something clarified obviously more than happy to do that you just have to ask#red bull redux#answered#anonymous
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It’s fucking annoying that upper management won’t let me off light duty, but being forbidden to do my old duties and being scolded for doing any extra work sure has forced me to stop being a hardworking dedicated diligent employee.
Yesterday I made a cute little paper chain, using long strips I cut from a torn paper bag, and using some techniques I invented to hold it together without any additional materials (I’m sure my techniques are old and very simple compared to more advanced stuff, but I’m having so much fun trying to reinvent things purely by experimenting around). I threw it away in a specific place to guarantee it won’t be seen by The Manager Who Deadpan Threatens To Kill Me For Small Mistakes I Make Because I Wasn’t Ever Trained For This Job Position.
This morning I was getting ready for work and my chronic illness flared up, and I was in so much pain that I couldn’t stop my throat from trying to scream. Normally I just ignore it and go to work, even though it means risking my health and creating a small but serious possibility of ending up in emergency surgery, but today? I called in sick.
I should write my manager a thank you letter. “Thank you for saying you’d kill me if I ran out of quarters again. And for always assuring me that I’m doing everything wrong. It’s good to know I’ll never be adequate for you, because I’m finally learning to prioritize myself over everything else. I still get scolded for it, but at least I benefit from caring about myself, unlike when I care about my job and put all of my effort into doing as much work as possible.
And thank you for teaching me how to ignore the opinions of others. I never did figure out how to handle being treated worthless—I always stood up for myself, even when it meant risking my life. But I finally figured out how to say “Yes” and “Okay.” The trick is: I don’t have to mean it, just say it. It’s okay to lie to people. You taught me that if have to pick between arguing and lying, I should just lie. You always think I’m lying anyways, so I know you don’t believe it, but I guess it imitates respect enough to be satisfactory.
I realize this lesson is one that many people learn during childhood, so I hope you’ll forgive me for not knowing it in advance. Thank you for the miraculous opportunity to make up for my messy childhood.”
#sorenhoots#I’m dying#the most frustrating thing is that I have done the work necessary to understand her logic and her reasoning and to understand why she is#correct according to her logic. and I agree! she is using logic that makes her life much easier and more efficient. it’s even#something I think is smart and that I respect and that I want to change my behavior to fit with#but it takes SO MUCH effort to do that. and I can’t do it with EVERYTHING she says because half the time I don’t even know what she’s saying#telling me I’m not allowed to use the computer and then getting mad that I called for a manager instead of using the computer#I’m not allowed to ask for help but I’m not allowed to help myself.#I’m not allowed to open MSpaint while I clean lotion off the touchscreen but I’m not allowed to disable the touchscreen to clean it.#‘you’re not allowed to look things up in the computer’ one day but the next day it’s ‘why didn’t you just look it up?’#‘you should know what products we have’ but also ‘you can’t be in the isles on breaks.#you have to be in the break room.’ girl what.#and I am LEARNING that there isn’t a way to be a good employee for her. which I hate because I want to be good. even at silly tasks like#work. and I love following arbitrary rules even! I do nuzlocke because it’s fun to make things harder for myself for no reason.#but I can’t even do that—there isn’t a way to follow contradictory rules and I can’t keep feeling bad for that#the lesson is: just say Okay. if you want to keep doing it then learn to do it sneaky. if it’s not worth it then find something else to do.#but my brain isn’t wired for that. my brain wants to solve it like a puzzle. I want to learn and grow. but this isn’t the place to grow.#no growing allowed. youre expected to learn but you can’t learn invalid lessons that contradict each other. you’re just supposed to learn to#SEEM like you learned. you’re not allowed to ask for help or clarification. that’s disrespectful.#she is easy to respect. she’s easy to need. she does so much to make our lives better and safer. but she also just fucking#lashes. the lesson is: step away from the person lashing out. you can’t become worthy.#I am still learning the lesson.
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ok but i can't handle black coffee drinkers bc like
while i dislike both coffee and tea, tea drinkers just feel so Out Of It when talking about real tea and proper brewing and shit i can't really take it all that seriously
coffee drinkers are always those dude bros who actually only drink one kind of coffee ever and god forbid you add any cream or sugar to it it's this puritan who has been dating his girlfriend since high school and they don't love each other anymore they both know they cheat on each other but they don't want to break up because they don't want the change
#and their argument is always smn like#'no you simply havent learned to appreciate the flavor of pure coffee'#bro foods and drinks shouldn't be a 'skill' to 'learn'#if i dont like something im not gonna force myself into drinking it until i learn to tolerate it and pavlov myself into thinking i like it#just because 'ive been drinking it this whole time so i must like it'#liking food is not something you should have to learn#that goes out to picky eaters out there too: you dont gotta force yourself to eat something you deeply dislike just bc of other people#I'm rambling i dont even know if it makes sense#i'm just tired of how condensending every single coffee drinker has been to me my whole life when i say i cant handle bitter flavors#'you just need to learn' well i don't want to learn have you considered it#why are people trying to enforce their likes and dislikes onto other people#oh so its ok for you to like coffee but its fucked up for me to eat traditional food from my country bc its 'nasty' and 'fermented'?#fuck off#i made myself angry#also for clarification: when i say tea n coffee drinkers i dont mean anyone who's into those things brewing and blending can be your hobby#who i mean is those people who act all high and mighty and get offended when you drink cheap plain options
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A day after posting this poll and I have already learnt several valuable things:
Making a poll while running off the manic energy of existential dread from the growing certainty I will not like the answer I receive is not a good idea. This makes the choices more confusing and the question vague
(+1) This also makes one more susceptible to personal bias. Ex: I have never considered pots and pans dishwasher acceptable and thus the thought to consider the option never occurred. I also forget dishwashers exist most of the time despite having one bc my personal default for dishes is hand washing while my family's is a mix. Flip side, I also learned different pots and pans can have different cleaning methods
I shouldn't try to be funny with the voting options - not everyone gets my humor
I probably should have explained the details of the options below the poll, but again, manic energy. Impulse control why did you leave me
(+1) For the sake of not screwing with everyone's previous votes, I shouldn't clarify what I meant by the choices or question. Not even when I REALLY REALLY want to
TL;DR: I need to think before making a poll because otherwise you get a chaotic mess like this one
Tumblr I'm curious and need you to help me out. Please reblog so I can get a larger sample size.
#im debating whether to make a second poll after this one is complete with better options and more clarification#on one hand: surely people will have already satisfied their curiosity by then and be sick of this question#on the other hand: MY curiosity and the bit of me that is a stickler for clear data demands a second survey#regardless i will probably be putting my final conclusions and everything i learned from this poll in a reblog after it's complete#so that i have everything about this poll in one place#a lot of these tags are wild and i find them hilarious#i'm having a blast reading#i'm also noting down the details that i might want to consider for the options for a second poll#even if i never actually make it#because i need the draft of what i should have done for my own sake or it will bother me forever#this is turning out to be good learning experience#thanks everyone for voting reblogging and commenting
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