#back to 1990s

[igotanidea]

I wish I could but I don't want to.

- Phoebe Buffay, Friends -

[spirk-trek]

Final Credits of Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country (1991)

[vintagehomecollection]

The Los Angeles House: Decoration and Design in America's 20th-Century City, 1995

[efemmera-archive]

On Our Backs, June/July 1999

[end0r4]

PATTI LUPONE as Helen in Summer of Sam (1999)

a BIG special thanks to @yourbasicqueerie for sending me this movie thank you so so much dear 💗

[vintagewildlife]

Black-backed jackal By: Unknown photographer From: Wildlife Fact-File 1990s

[tapeworrmart]

Some Jacobs Ladder sketches

[nineties-effect]

[thunderpoolisawesome]

Welcome home, you beautiful individual 🥹

Alternatives and process under the cut

[acquired-stardust]

Crash Bandicoot 2: Cortex Strikes Back Playstation 1997

[fanofspooky]

Scream Queen - Emily Perkins

[smallville2k]

Long live the king.

[contac]

[christiangeistdorfer]

MIKA HÄKKINEN listening to AYRTON SENNA's safety concerns at the 1991 GERMAN GRAND PRIX

[theunmarkedtombstone]

CARLITO'S WAY dir. Brian de Palma.

[thejakeformerlyknownasprince]

Reading Visser One’s book she always strikes me as one of those white women settlers that wanted to “save” Native Children from their culture.

This led to the Stolen Generation in Australia and residential schools in North America.

Heck when we see her in the series she is literally piloting a women of color’s body and cosplaying motherhood.

She thinks she is so much better then the colonist that want to just burn up villages.

She’s a white women liberal putting on a gentler face to what is at its end brutal colonialism.

It’s worth noting that alien invasions have been metaphors for colonization since War of the Worlds

I completely agree. There's a blog post I can't now find about older white women reacting to The Help by talking about how their housekeepers, nannies, cooks, etc. were "part of the family." Which — first of all, no. Your employee is your employee. The rights and respect you owe to your employee will always be different from those you owe to your family. Do not devalue their work, and thus the traditional work of women, by pretending that it isn't labor. But secondly...

"We're friends" or "we're family" sure is easy to say from a position of power. Anyone short on power but long on common sense understands the importance of ingratiating yourself to those in charge. Anyone in charge can choose to delude themself that this time when the kid goes "I love you, Miss Hannigan" they mean it. Such is the nature of power.

Like, one I think about all the time: my professor whom we called Professor Trelawney behind her back because she would constantly spout pseudoscience in class. She's not the least favorite teacher I've ever had, but she's on the short list — and on the day I graduated, she introduced herself to a family member as "Sol's one of my favorite students, and I'm probably Sol's favorite teacher." Why? Because I got her to think that. Why'd I do so? Because the semester before, Dr. W had knocked down my grade for "irrelevant discussion" after I argued with his statement that Ireland should still be ruled by England. I keep Dr. W, and the subsequent effect on Prof Trelawney, as my touchstone when I'm handling student conflict. Because. Such. Is the nature. Of power.

As people pointed out after watching Crash: any rich lady can hug her housekeeper any time she's feeling sad, and the worst the housekeeper can do is quit. Most housekeepers with any grasp of social norms wouldn't hug even their favorite boss even on her worst day, at least not without first getting explicit permission. Such is the nature of power.

And these are all softer examples, of positions that you have the legal right to walk away from. (Whether or not you can afford to quit your job is obviously a whole other ballgame.) When it's not just school or work, but it's your guardian or the person who literally owns you... Fuck. Kiss ass or die, I guess.

And if you want concessions, you'd better put in all the emotional work to get them. You have to be sad about being less powerful than the help-giver, but not too sad. You have to be completely helpless in the face of random misfortune, or else you don't deserve help. You have to be grateful when the help arrives, in such a way that makes it clear the helper mad your problem all better but that your problem was completely intractable without their intervention. Most of all, you better do it with a smile: I love you, Miss Hannigan.