#attention issues

[wanderingmind867]

I feel like I haven't made a lot of vent posts lately. That might not be fully true, but it's certainly how my brain feels right now. Sadly, I'm also struggling with focusing on making posts right now. I sort of feel bad about all of this stuff. Because I know there's stuff I could vent about, but it's hard to find motivation and/or the energy, sometimes. sigh...

[the-eater-of-flesh]

(Up the dosage until I can’t feel anything at all anymore.)

[imthat1boy]

I'm so fucking tired of "Just sleep" or "There's no reason to be stressed" or "Just do it"™

But that ISN'T how things will always work. I can't just sleep, I'm fucking horrified to sleep, I can't just calm down, I can't find my motivation I Don't Have.

I'm not mad at the people who say this, not really, just hurt that it's non stop. That it makes it near impossible to get help.

And then, school isn't done for people who can't even find energy to brush their teeth daily or people who cry anytime something good happens because they can't understand it. No. School is for the privileged mentally and neurologically. I'm making it through with so much effort and my intelligence. That's barely working, it wouldn't seem that way, but I make it through by just a thread.

[desultory-suggestions]

Hi , I just went through your page and well I felt like you would be able to help me (I'm sorry, I'm new at this whole 'ask the internet' thing). I have exams coming up next month mid and I've been doing everything but studying and I don't know - I'm trying different stuff to help focus but I'm just not focusing ? Ok I'm rambling .... Nvm . Why is it so hard for me to just listen - it's like my brain is against me which sounds stupid but yh...I'm not happy with myself, I haven't been for as long as I can remember - idek what I'm asking at this point - feel free to ignore this .

Hello, dear!

I love this Tumblr thing where I get time-sensitive questions in my ask box and cannot see them until that time has passed. I am so sorry I couldn't offer you advice in time for your exams. I truly hope you did well and I am so proud of you no matter what the outcome of your exams was. I have passed exams, and I have abysmally failed exams (including my math exam last week!). They are a part of life, and they will not matter forever.

It sounds like you are struggling with self-worth and possible attention issues. I always encourage and recommend seeing emotional support through therapy to help improve your outlook on yourself and your confidence. If you are struggling with attention and grades (especially if you are a passionate student but still struggle) reaching out to someone for ADHD/LD assessment may be helpful. Depending on your country some Universities will offer an assessment or give you a location where you can seek it. Getting diagnosed with ADHD really helped me understand my struggles and find the right way for me to achieve my goals. It felt like finding out I was a square peg trying to be shoved into a circular hole. Don't be afraid to research, access, and utilize tools and advice for ADHD and attention issues in the meantime. No matter what is causing you to struggle, these tools can often help.

Feel free to reach out to me for attention-specific advice if you need some study suggestions. I am a senior in college and I have gotten through with good grades, while it has been hard it is possible.

Take tender care,

Evan

[cryptid-wizard]

I have a hard time processing change and grief.

Because when something isn’t in front of me it is easy to forget. When someone or something is gone it is hard to remember that they left. I can’t see their absence. How can i see something that’s not there.

My cat is still sleeping in the other room. Even though i last saw him at the vet four years ago. My grandpa is reading a newspaper at his home. Even though other people rent that apartment now. My great aunt is still writing at my grandmother’s apartment. She hadn’t been able to write in months.

I will wake up tomorrow to go to school and see my friends. But i graduated university, i have work tomorrow i won’t be going back the same.

Everything and everyone changes, not just the ones who died, not just the friends I haven’t talked to in years, my grandma is not my same grandma she was when i was growing up. She barely remembers me now.

But when im just sitting its easy to forget how much everything changed. It’s hard to remember what those memories were from years ago

[jasonsnowwhitebrody]

Me anytime I have a story idea but only get through 3 sentences.

[myawkwardvoid]

Me? An attention problem?????? why would you ay that???

Proceeds to have three screens: One is the Tv playing Hannibal, the other one my phone with a crochet tutorial and my laptop with tumblr; and also im knitting while singing AND having lunch...

I think now i get why people say that I have attention issues lmao.

[spitblaze]

[guy who doesnt watch shows voice] yeah ive been meaning to watch that show

[bythewassern]

My reading style is concurrent - I shift between multiple (usually 3-5) books at once depending on what I'm most interested in at that moment and have found this method a lot more productive than forcing myself to plow through one book at a time. I find that I retain the information better as well as this allows me to engage with a particular book when I am most interested in doing so while making sure that I am always still reading (or listening to) something.

CURRENT READING (OCT 2024)

Ezekiel, revisiting Isaiah

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Sexual Morality in a Christless World by Matthew Rueger

Sexual Personae by Camille Paglia

Capital by Karl Marx

The Kojiki

DEVOTIONALS

Proverbs

Reading the Psalms with Luther

My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers

[falling-down-the-scroll-hole]

[that-girl-cupid]

im kinda like a fairy

I die without attention

It's a problem

[pawjobss]

Very sleepy this morning

[lilcherry06]

[zaahvi]

GLORY TO THE RISEN GODS

[atouchofgraceinc]

People tend to exhibit different behaviors due to diverse personalities. It is a basic principle when it comes to behavioral health care in North Carolina. There are various factors that affect how a person acts. These include physical factors, emotions, and life experiences. People have the capability to control their behaviors. While most people have no trouble with this, it’s another story for the rest.

[mommynr]

edging him for hours to the point, where doing just as much as tracing the pulsating veins on his throbbing cock with my fingertips, will make him cum <3