#aroace sirius black

[hyperfocuscentre]

“aroace sirius black!” i shout from my shady little corner.

[lemongrass77777-moved]

during their sixth year when slughorn brings the amortentia into the classroom, sirius doesn’t smell anything. he tells this to james, and wonders if there’s something wrong with him, and james is just like “you’re just built different, man, that’s actually so cool.” and sirius is so relieved.

[albi-bumblebee]

Sirius(aroace) & Lily(greyromantic) sitting in the common room together during sixth year and complaining about how all their classmates seem to be obsessed with romance.

Sirius & Lily making the other realize they’re not alone in not having crushes the way their classmates seem to.

[runwiththerain]

when does sirius figure that he’s aroace(/that he doesn’t feel the same about romance and sex as his friends)

psa this is talking about canon sirius

firstly, i feel like sirius has always had a skewed point of view on love because of what was displayed by his parents in his childhood. he believes love is conditional and that you can earn it, in fact, he believes you have to earn it. (this is part of why his relationship with regulus isn't as close as the fandom perceives, he doesn't think regulus has earnt his love or vice versa.) in first year that belief starts to be deconstructed by james loving him unconditionally and what he learns about james' parents.

in third year is when sirius first thinks something is wrong with him. james is obsessed with lily and he just doesn't understand why. peter was asked out by a hufflepuff and they go on a date and sirius doesn't understand why pete would say yes to someone he doesn't know well. he still struggles to believe that you don't have to work for love and he also fails to understand the concept of attraction.

in fourth year both sirius and remus can't sleep and sirius starts going on a rant about how he doesn't understand how james and pete want to go out with girls and not spend time with remus and himself anymore. so remus asks him if he's gay and he says yes. that must be it. and pleads remus not to tell anyone.

fifth year has girls asking sirius out left and right but he says no to all of them. in the first half of the year, the day after a full moon he and remus are talking after he had brought some chocolate to him and remus finally confesses his crush on sirius. sirius doesn't understand why you would like someone like that but is too afraid to hurt remus' feelings and split the group apart so he fakes attraction back. the prank happens at the end of fifth year and that's how remus and sirius break up. their relationship was messy enough, trying to hide it and sirius trying to give remus the romantic and sexual love he wants. sirius and the rest of the marauders stop talking and he leaves for the summer break ostracised.

james and lily start dating at the start of sixth year and james can't stop talking about how wonderful lily is and all the dates they go on and sirius catches james and lily having sex in their dorm too many times. peter is dating sybill trelawney and sirius is over it, he just wants the marauders to go back to the way they were in the earlier years. he's still awkward around remus and their relationship never truly fixes itself. at the end of the sixth year he goes home to find regulus getting his dark mark and is completely over his family and everything that's gone on with the marauders and relationships during the years. he packs a trunk and heads to the potters and breaks down in effie's arms saying that he doesn't understand love.

i genuinely think sirius could live his whole life without knowing what aromanticism and asexuality is but i'll give this a happy enough ending anyway.

throughout seventh year the marauders, lily, mary and marlene get closer because of their ongoing fears about the war. marlene had always been a close friend of sirius, even staying by him during the aftermath of the prank, and their friendship had always been queer, even including marlene letting him know she was a lesbian in fourth year. he lets marlene know how he's felt over the years and how he just doesn't understand how broken he could be. in return, she lets him know she had a muggle friend who feels similarly and they go by the labels aromantic and asexual. he finally feels a sense of clarity within himself and his lack of attraction and takes on his labels, but because of the upcoming war he never gets a chance to tell the marauders.

[m-lupin77777]

sirius is aroace but he still flirts with all his friends

[cursedwithwords]

I subscribe to the no-romance-no-sex aroace Sirius Orion Black agenda because I like projecting onto him (also he has such aroace energy it delights me).

[cukrkandl]

just came across the story "the warlock's hairy heart" in the tales of beedle the bard and am i the only one who sees it as very aromantic coded??? obviously it's really shitty considering what happens and how it's presented as a fucking tragedy (sigh idk what i expected from jkr) BUT what's good is that it's definitely gonna serve a purpose in my aroace4aroace wolfstar fic lol

[not-rab]

Regulus : I have the sharpest memory here - name one time I forgot something.

Sirius : You locked the Slytherin common room and didn’t leave Evan and Barty a password?

Regulus : I did that on purpose, try again.

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

I’m going to start QPRing/non-shipping ships, and not just any ships, but the ships everyone “agrees” on.

Merlin and Arthur - QPR hardcore, kissing is okay, sex not so much, committed

Sirius and Remus - not romantically together, both aro coded HARD sex is 100% on the table, they’re committed but also just vibin no romo yes homo

Buck and Eddie - QPR. No notes

Enid and Wednesday - honestly Wednesday was always repulsed aroace coded to me, so maybe QPR but more friends who have a closer relationship

I have more I’m just tired but everyone add their own!!

[lemongrass77777-moved]

I don’t care about the posters of the muggle girls. you will never pry AroAce Sirius Black away from me, not even if my hands are cold, and blue, and brittle.

[themarvelmarauder]

Regulus and James: *being all lovey dovey while reading a book to each other*

Remus and Sirius: *making out on an armchair*

Aroace Peter: I just can't even, excuse me, I need to go kill myself

[albi-bumblebee]

Classmate: I think I’m falling for you >-< Sirius: Then get up :/

[moonyswarmsweaters]

Happy pride month bitches!

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

you know what that means!

the month when I have to struggle every day to wonder what will happen if I show up to a pride parade with a sign that says :

Do you know about the Marauders

And watch if shit goes down

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[runwiththerain]

i need more moonchaser and lilene and aroace sirius and unlabelled aroacespec mary and abro peter mutuals

[twink-remus-lupin]

my unpopular marauders opinions

- remus is trans coded

- sirius and james were the tallest

- jegulus is a bad ship

- regulus is aroace

- snape was awful

- james was better for lily

- atyd remus is too mean to be canon (i like him he’s just not canon remus)

- peter was a good friend until the betrayal

- remus & james have an underrated friendship

- jily is one of the best maruaders era ships

- the slytherin skittles were terrible people and we’re acting like they’re all gay icons with tons of piercings who like wearing crop tops and blah blah

- ^ like no they were racists??

- i still don’t like jegulus if you’re looking for a good mlm ship WOLFSTAR IS RIGHT THERE

- rosekiller is a good ship i just don’t like how they’re characterized in fanon

- sirius wasn’t feminine

- remus is gay and sirius is queer

- sirius was a ladies man before he and remus got together

- marlene is a lesbian

- dorcas is also a lesbian

- marylily isn’t a good ship

- james is straight

- james was more sirius’s brother than regulus ever was

- sirius wasn’t a monster for leaving regulus he was just a kid

- hope lupin was an amazing mother

- remus wasn’t angry after the prank, just heartbroken. it was james and peter that were angry

- remus, peter and james were super close, especially post-prank

- snily is literally the worst goddamn ship ever

- wolfstar is oversexualized in the fandom

- remus had daddy issues

- james was desi

- the marauders weren’t that popular they were just nerds

- james has adhd

- remus is made way too mean/possessive/overly masc in 90% of fanon

- people make sirius gender-fluid just because he has long hair

[dilettantelvl5]

Woah I always pictured him as 80% of the time horny for Rem but I REALLY dig that

Sirius is high key judging everyone by the time the Amortentia lesson rolls around. It’s bad enough he’s got to deal with all of them being hormonal idiots all the time and right in front of his dinner too (he claims it wasn’t him, but everyone suspects he’s the one who magically separated the two Sixth Year Gryffindors who were more interested in locating one another’s tonsils than their dinner back in Fifth Year. They’re right), now he’s gotta deal with it in class. James is saying it smells like Lily’s perfume, he’s fairly sure he heard one Slytherin saying it smelled like popcorn with ham and frankly he doesn’t want to know anything else about that kid’s bad taste, Remus is moodily saying it smells like the moon and Sirius wants to know what the hell that even smells like, Avery is claiming it smells like firewhiskey and lemon and Sirius will launch himself across the desks if Avery makes one more reference to that day, Lily is wondering why it smells like sandalwood and citrus and Sirius hopes (without much expectation this will come to fruition) that James doesn’t hear right then because that’s exactly what his cologne smells like and Sirius just doesn’t want to deal with it right now, Peter’s a jarring shade of lime green and Sirius doesn’t know how the hell he went so wrong with it and is making plans to grab the people closest to them out of the way when that thing explodes, and Sirius still smells nothing but the ingredients. He has to forcibly separate 2 different couples who are getting far to frisky for his liking in class, don’t think he didn’t see those hands wandering into dangerous territory and he’s a very firm believer that clothing stays on during class and “don’t test me on this Rosier, I don’t care how pretty you think Natasha is, I will personally tell this entire class about July 1972 if you even think about subjecting me to you two shoving your tongues down each other’s throats” and Rosier reluctantly complies (Sirius hates 98% of the people he grew up with, but that shared history has its uses). Class ends and Sirius just hauls his little group out with a magical lasso, he’s having none of this and is idly contemplating murdering Slughorn for making it his problem (he’d never do it, but he’s spectacularly annoyed right now)

oh no I would die for aroace Sirius, he's so Tired and so Over It 😭