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I’ve seen a lot of comparing of trauma in the community lately
If you get a cut on your finger you still need to clean and bandage it. You wouldn’t sit there looking at it and say “well it isn’t a gunshot wound so I can just ignore it”.
Maybe you do ignore it and it goes away on its own after a while, but it takes much longer to heal. Maybe you do ignore it and it gets infected and begins to cause other issues.
Sure, it’s not a gunshot wound and it won’t need surgery like a gunshot wound would, but it still needs to be cleaned and bandaged, and it will still leave a scar.
Even if it’s not as bad as it could be, it’s still not good; it’s still going to affect your life, and it still deserves to be acknowledged and taken seriously.
#I hope I worded that okay#I hope you guys get what I’m trying to say here#anyway… you’re valid#I promise#jirai#landmineblr#jiraiblr#jirai kei#landmine kei#positivity#I hope you guys understand where I’m coming from#it’s supposed to be like a positive thing of like#it’s okay to acknowledge that others might have it worse#but that doesn’t mean that you don’t need help too
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happy pride month beautiful people ‼️
#atla#zukka#zuko x sokka#zukka fanart#atla fanart#mailee#mai x ty lee#mailee fanart#toph fanart#aang fanart#azula and zuko#katara and suki are here in spirit they are both bisexual#anyways sorry this took me so long but my last exam finished today so I was suuuper eager to post :)#anyways for the aang one I was like: well he loves everyone so#smooch the camera#anyways happy prideeeeee I’m proud of you you’re valid you’re beautiful have a great day ahhhhh <3333
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“When toxic behavior is portrayed as romantic, it’s problematic. When problematic behavior is portrayed as a character flaw for a character to work through, it’s good storytelling.”
Katsuki Bakugou, my friends.
His behavior was problematic but never once portrayed as romantic at the same time. Katsuki said and did awful abusive things, and he also chose to be better when he was given the chance. If you’re still hung up on chapter 1 Katsuki now then I don’t think you’ve been reading the same story I have.
I can’t speak for everyone, but I’m not shipping Izuku with an irredeemable abuser. I’m shipping him with his most important person. His narrative foil. His childhood friend who made awful mistakes and then made it right when he saw he was wrong. The person Izuku looks up to and strives to emulate, despite their past struggles.
Bakudeku is so good because of how flawed these boys are, and how hard they’ve worked to get over it, and how much they matter to each other after it all
#perfect stories about perfect people who never do anything wrong are usually boring#stories about growth and mistakes and redemption and forgiveness and progress are lit#bkdk#bakudeku#the quote is from cinema therapy on YouTube btw#love them so much#they look at media and talk about what is and isn’t good from a real life human perspective#and boy did this quote slap me in the face#anyway this is my thought literally any time anyone says something about shipping Izuku with his abuser#if he was still being abused then I get it#but he’s not#and saying he needs protection from Katsuki is honestly doing his character dirty#and this is not to say that every situation with an abuser and a victim should turn out romantic#obviously not#the world is not black and white and neither are people#sometimes you have to get yourself out and never look back and that is valid and healthy#but sometimes you’re talking about two boys in a manga who literally cannot stop thinking about how good and incredible the other is#bro I get it#surface level chapter/episode 1 Katsuki is literally the worst#but his glow up has been literally meteoric
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I drew some stick figures
#anyways you’re ALL valid and I love you ALL very much#bisexual#bisexual pride#bi pride#bisexuality#bi post#bi positivity#bisexual positivity#bi power#stick figures#doodles#I drew this with my finger y’all#bisexuals#bisexual art#bisexualism#sapphic#happy pride 🌈#happy pride month#pride month 2023#pride month 2k23#happy pride month!#happy pride!#happy pride#lgbtq#queer
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the two scugs who are canonically self-conscious about being short in my au lmao.
#Rw siblings au#Rw Hunter#Rw Saint#Saint would probably validate Hunter#Be like “wtf are you on about you’re so tall”#Except they don’t talk like that but whatever you get the idea#Saint is not much younger than Hunter they’re just really small#I mean you already probably know there isn’t much of an age gap bc Karmaflower will be canon later and Arti is the exact same age as Hunter#Anyways I’m rambling but I just think it’s funny
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You know what I find so funny? That I’ve come across a lot of people on TikTok that have something against this one account that posts pjo content. I do too, I mean I got into an argument with them because they kept saying percabeth is strained because annabeth made Percy feel suicidal. And I ended up blocking them because they made a story saying that percabeth shippers need to calm down in their comment section because we’re crazy or something like that. And I just wanted to scream like this isn’t because you don’t ship percabeth, it’s because you constantly bash annabeth, unintentionally but prominently make Percy this stupid victim that can’t feel for himself, and think pereyna and Perachel had better development (not to bash pereyna or Perachel shippers, but in canon, this is just obviously not true). And I thought I was the only one who had something against this person but now people are speaking up about it I guess and I think it’s so funny because I’ve BEEN having problems with them.
#anyways#thanks for reading my rant#I didn’t name this person but their username still haunts me#I won’t get into an argument if you don’t ship percabeth or if you don’t like Annabeth#but when you misinterpret evrrything(*cough cough* make things up) just to feel validated for hating her then we got a problem#because at the same time you’re mischaracterizing Percy so much#and it’s like youre really contradicting yourself by saying he deserved better but then blatantly not understanding his character#like no you shouldn’t be talking about knowing what a character needs when you clearly didn’t even understand the character at all#sorry#the rage from the argument I had with them came back to me#pjo#percy jackson#percy jackson and the olympians#annabeth chase#heroes of olympus#hoo#anti annabeth antis#anti percabeth antis#you can not ship it but being anti it??#get away from me#antis ruin the vibe#percabeth#anti annabeth bashing#rant#pjo rant#pjo tiktok#there’s also this other creator on tt that has millions of followers but has made so many videos explaining how Annabeth is the weakest#and not powerful#and it’s like why are you so eager and loud about sharing that and letting everyone know that#like duh she has no powers but he constantly brings it up and it got annoying
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When someone else’s art is so good you physically can’t look at it because of artistic jealousy
#Y’all do this to me on a daily basis I swear#I literally can’t follow some people because their stuff is so good it breaks my heart#I think the art world has a lot of envy and competitiveness that no one really talks about#Sure we’re all for self expression but so many of us are so used to being “the art kid” that anyone else taking or sharing that spot feels#like losing a peice of your identity.#I’ve had some artist friends who dealt with their jealousy by tearing others down or justifying their art by going#”Well you’re bad at ____ but I’m better at ____”#Or they would give unsolicited critique that was more like gently worded criticism than friendly advice to help someone reach their goals#And because of those experiences… I never want to become that person#I definitely get the surges of jealousy… But I very much try to remind myself that fellow artists are my friends-not my rivals#The people I feel the most envy for are often the people I hype up the most#And beyond that- nobody in the art community is trying to gatekeep information from you.#If you want to learn skills from other people- don’t hesitate to ask them. Most artists happily spill their brains for you in a conversatio#(Foolish artist… they don’t even know how many brain juices of theirs I’m absorbing-MWAHAHAHA)#(I’m gonna come come back stronger as an artist… And then I can learn and grow EVEN MORE BWAHAHAHA)#So anyway… Jealousy is a valid and very real thing… but what you choose to do about it can either hinder or help you.#That’s all folks#art meme#art
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my secret to making peace with things i don’t like is seeing it as a challenge to figure out the character’s headspace and reasonings for WHY they’d do something. going ‘this is ooc’ is boring. dull. been done a thousand times. asking ‘now wtf would the situation had been for things to get here’ is fun and inventive!! i will reread canon through the lense of a Decision I Do Not Understand and will find and make up scenes as to why that is. more fans should do this i think
#my posts.#life is strange double exposure#i have done this with the pricefield breakup and for a certain max romance i’m not fond of lol#i have also lowkey done this for scenes in de i didn’t get and have convinced myself to love them now#you will be SURPRISED what you can fall in love with if you twist it around just right. if you view it through a certain lense#and nobody can tell you you’re wrong because it’s a canon thing that happens <3 and your reasoning for it is valid af#anyway. fun!#there is very few canon things i will disregard in life and this is why
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the rabbit usually misgenders silas, and it made me very happy to see that the proper version of the word ‘blond’ was used to describe silas, especially since it’s from his own perspective. it’s random but it made my little genderqueer artist heart happy :)
#the spirit bares its teeth#andrew joseph white#silas bell#lgbtqia#trans masc#queer#i’ve developed a habit of judging if an author used blond vs blonde#mainly cuz i read a lot of fanfics with my best friend and they pointed out many people use the wrong ‘blond’#so it’s bothered me ever since and i cannot unsee it#so having a trans masc character whose constantly misgendered have ‘blond’ referred to him rather than ‘blonde’ is so satisfying#i genuinely just dyed at this but like in the best way possible#also cuz i’ve been struggling with my own pride of being myself and whatnot lately and this book is helping me to love myself again#anyways have a lovely day <3#just know that you’re valid and seen and so wonderful <3
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i’m happy i like my body regardless of how big i am. it makes me so sad when plus size ppl/ppl with large chests are like “i hate wearing loose/baggy clothes because it makes me look huge”
THATS A PLUS
no one looks cuter in flowy, loose clothes than fat girls
#i live in cardigans and huge t-shirts i don’t care#talk#however. your feelings are your own and they’re valid#i just want whoever feels this to know you’re cute as shit anyways
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every time a post/poll goes around about being aspec and fandom shipping enjoyment/engagement/whatever im like. NOW can we stop acting like being an aromantic person who enjoys shipping is some kind of Weird Outlier Situation? can we stop acting like this is an Unpopular Opinion or even Persecuted Outcast Take rather than idk, the default standard, just like everywhere else? idk romance repulsed aromantics Yes Including Fiction aren’t the default or even a significant majority and it really drives me nuts when people act like aros who enjoy shipping are somehow Not exactly that.
#gav gab#aro blogging#like gdspeed bud enjoy what you enjoy#glad you’re happy#but can we fucking knock it off with the ‘but am i VALID to be an aro who likes shipping?????’ stuff#like yeah dog you and fucking Everybody Else in fandom#a small handful of ‘im too aro for this’ from the handful of Yes Including Fiction Yes All Of It romance repulsed aros#are not persecuting you or taking away your aro card#anyways that goes along with my general opinion that#going around asking people Is It Valid To Be X Identity And Have Y Experience Or Opinion#is a fundamentally useless and unhelpful thing to do#and is unfair to yourself and to the person you're asking#bc you're placing your like#ability to Have An Identity in someone else's hands#which they did not ask for#and is not theirs to give or not give anyway#this one just super extra annoys me lmao#'am i valid if i'm an aro who still likes shipping?????' well if you weren't#most aros wouldn't be ValidTM#because that is not unusual at all#you know what IS unusual?#being the big mean aro in the corner who DOESN'T like shipping#no none of it yes including that one I Do Mean All
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...You guys think worker drones can be cold?
Disassembly drones probably not - Liam said they run super hot anyway and are more at risk of overheating than anything (yes he dropped the overheating plot point for now but we all collectively ignore that I think) but like? Workers? Like I know this is a HUGE difference but like I know phones shut down when it's too cold (idk about laptops, probably though), and they can overheat, so... think they can be cold?
#yes I'm making this post because I'm thinking about N holding Uzi whenever they take walks outside for too long#yes I think Uzi shivers and she Hates It but it is a valid excse to be held by N lately so she hates it a little less#yes I think they deserve to hug and cuddle and be warm and actually feel some kind of security#if you disagree you’re wrong#anyway#murder drones#md#murder drones headcanon#uzi doorman#serial designation n#murder drones nuzi
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I know girls are healing when they start wearing pink and stop looking for every little reason to hate Taylor Swift
#yes this is a callout post#there ARE valid reasons to hate her#but it annoys me so much#when it’s obvious that people are reaching for reasons#because hatred of TS has somehow become synonymous with the#not like other girls#campaign#I’m not wrong#Taylor swift#if you’re going to hate her#at least get your head out of your ass#and pick a valid reason#ttpd#taylors version#pick me girls#hot take#txt#txt post#my thoughts#thoughts#anyway
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“One page of the Bible isn’t worth a life.”
-Wrabel, The Village
#Just thought I’d remind you🏳️⚧️#If you have an issue with this#grow the fuck up and get a life#Seriously it’s so god damn tiring-#Anyways I love you and you’re all valid💞🏳️⚧️#Trans#Transgender#Transmasc#Transmasculine#LGBTQ#LGBTQ+#LGBTQIA#LGBTQ community#LGBTQ artist#LGBTQ rights#Trans rights#Trans rights are human rights#Wrabel#Wrabel The Village#Song#Music
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There’s this one teacher at my school that pretty much everyone hates (overweight + creepy gym teacher he’s literally so stereotypical it’s insane) and I love when people complain about him because I have the strongest beef with him which nobody can top
This mf teacher left me for dead once lmfaooo
And when I say “left me for dead” I mean watched me have a medical emergency outside after the rest of the class had gone back to the gym and then WALKED AWAY AND LEFT ME UNCONSCIOUS ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD
It was fine cause some lady was walking by with her toddler in a stroller and she helped me once I was awake again (she also gave me fishy crackers and juice so I see this whole situation as a W for me tbh)
#like holy shit dude#I was unconscious on the side of the road (beside a stop sign half on the grass half on the road) for APPROXIMATELY 10 FUCKING MINUTES#Anyways yeah we all hate him for various valid reasons but I think I probably have one of the best ones lmao#And this fucker ditched me#Pretty sure you’re not supposed to do that as a teacher but whatever
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What I imagine Suiren and Vaatu’s ‘friendship’ in @rokurookajima’s Metalbanders verse to be like, as told by memes I found in the depths of my pinterest memes board
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She gets him body wash for his birthday one year. greasy stinky bastard man (/affectionate) (/you cannot convince me that I am wrong about the state of Vaatu’s personal hygiene. Have you ever met a teenage boy) (/I have not showered in a week I have full right to say this)
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Headcanon that Suiren knew she was a lesbian since she was a wee lass so her gaydar is crazy good and she literally went “I know what you are” as soon as she first met Vaatu. Except he very much was not aware yet and she knew he’d never figure it out on his own. But if she tells him he’s gay outright he’d reject it. So she’s left being the Ryuk to his Light Yagami, hovering over his shoulder whispering “gay gay homosexual gay” and telling him to google yaoi
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She means it with love... I’m pretty sure
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“Dude you’re talking like my uncle cut it out”
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She’s his only friend TOLERABLE ALLY fr
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Okay so we’ve established that Vaatu is a freak but the only reason he and Suiren get along is because she’s very much a freak too she’s just got a pretty face to hide it behind. She literally cannot talk like a normal person it somehow always boils down to smth like this
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Suiren likes Ghibli movies. Vaatu thinks himself too much of an edgelord to watch Ghibli movies. Unfortunately for him, Suiren doesn’t care about what he thinks. He’s going to watch Ponyo with her and he’s going to LIKE IT
(She catches him humming “Ponyo Ponyo Ponyo fishy in the sea” afterwards and never lets him live it down)
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After a certain point he just starts talking like this all the damn time. She’s accepted her fate
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BONUS ROUND: Suiren being a useless lesbian and Vaatu judging her severely
#if you’re wondering what brought this on out of nowhere#it’s half past 3 a.m and I am Going Through The Horrors#and unless I bruteforce blorbo thoughts into my brain I’m afraid I’ll lose it entirely#but I also need validation that I’m good and funny and not annoying and not shoving my OCs where they don’t belong#therefore. Metalbanders AU#(hi Syd please don’t mind me I’m just low-key at my limit here)#(I hope this is like. funny or accurate at least)#metalbanders#Kat and Nia and their multiverse of madness#and they said Endgame was the most ambitious crossover in history#anyway#regarding 5. her uncle is Zaheer and he also talks like this. just more poetically#3 is start based on a childhood friend of mine who. at age 10. asked me if I. aged 9. knew what yaoi was#and proceeded to send me SCREENSHOTS OF A SMUTTY MANGA. DICK OUT AND ALL#I think that was a formulating experience actually#okay I’m gonna go eat something and try to go to bed. I’ve got to get up for school in 4 hours man#can the Horrors wait until I’m on holiday and can afford to mess up my sleep schedule or…#sotrl suiren#vaatu#forgot to tag them lmao
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