#and when you blacklist a tag

[leechysmile]

What kind of fetishes do you give joey 👀

Oh, hello!

Let me state that I'll be including kinks in this since the definition of fetish is technically "Something, such as a material object or nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

And since I've noticed many people use these two words interchangeably I'm uncertain if you mean just fetishes or fetishes /and/ kinks

Anyway, depends what I'm going for vibe wise but here's a small list of ones I've given him, mostly in RPs but I have an unposted wip that's heavily focused on him and fetishes (and the shame/guilt/etc some of them give him)

Putting these under a readmore

If something has a * next to it, it means he really needs aftercare for it otherwise you will destroy his Self-Esteem 😭

Ok anyway /some/ fetishes I've given him at some point:

Musk/Scent

Breeding Kink

SPH (Small Penis Humiliation)*

Wedgies/being Bullied

Boot worship

Pet play

Emasculation*

Degradation/Humiliation*

Chastity

Orgasm Denial

Ass Worship

Power Imbalance

Putting the more niche/dark/etc ones in a separate list for easy avoiding

Cucking* (I only put this one down here because it does seem more niche in my experience)

Daddy kink (using this term very broadly because uuuh. His daddy issues make it so messy but that's a whole posts worth of info on its own 💀)*

Spit

Light-ish CBT (as in Cock & Ball Torture. This one was conditioned)

Watersports (this one in particular he is ashamed of in a wip/rp. He was also conditioned to like it and did not at first so)*

Ok stopping here because this got long sorry aaaah 😭

Happy to answer more questions if you're curious about specific ones. Or unrelated questions too, etc XD

Thanks for the ask!

[iguessyouregonnamissthepantyraid]

funniest news blurb i've ever seen actually. "there was a plot to kill trump last weekend. no not that one. totally different one. we figured out about it beforehand though so we heightened security at the rally. yeah that rally. yeah the one where-- yeah. yeah that one."

[katabay]

PIETÀ

black pean [forceps] season 2 fucked me up :')

like, I'm going to be thinking about this still they posted on instagram forever, and I haven't even started on the cher juno letter

[adhd-merlin]

Why Get Angry at Helen? Genesis (3:13) // Eve, Anna Lea Merritt // Agamemnon, Aeschylus (tr. by Anne Carson) // The Tale's Worth Telling: A Thematic Comparison of Homer's Iliad and Malory's Morte D'Arthur (x) // Love's Shadow, Frederick Sandys // Guinevere, Lord Alfred Tennyson // The Winter King, Bernard Cornwell // Helen of Troy, Frederick Sandys // Guenevere, Sara Teasdale // The Faerie Queene, Edmund Spenser // La Belle Dame Sans Merci, Frank Dicksee // Pandora's Jar: Women in the Greek Myths, Natalie Haynes // Psyche Opening The Golden Box, John William Waterhouse

[toxintouch]

Kinktober speedrun time! Used the Mirror prompt on this list. Thank you for the inspo! Further details below the cut so that the above the cut stays safe for anyone who is just scrolling through!

18+ Content MDNI || Dom!Reader x Leander

PROMPT/KINK(S): Dom!Reader, Mirror Use. Edging/Orgasm Denial + Light Degradation & Name calling (Leander being referred to as a dog but he’s really into it, promise) + Power Exchange & Sub/Dom Dynamics

OTHER INFO: Leander has a dick, anatomy of Reader/POV Character remains unspecified; "they" pronouns used.

Leander has the straight backed posture of a man who was given etiquette lessons.  His mannerisms speak of wealth and class, yet they can’t help but observe that he looks completely comfortable while down on his knees.

His back muscles flex as he works himself, sweat slipping down his spine, pooling in the dimples just above his ass.  He’s strung tight, the veins in his arms straining as he strokes a quick, even rhythm.  His dick is flushed a painful red, copious amounts of pre-cum dripping down his wrist and splattering onto his thick thighs, some of it even dirtying the floor below when his strokes become too enthusiastic.

(They wonder how best to make him clean it later–he does so love to be ordered to lick up his own mess–but this floor is probably just as filthy as anywhere else in the Wick, despite appearances–and they don’t think they can find it in themself to make use of his mouth again after watching that.)

The full length mirror hanging in front of Leander is a new addition to the room. Something they’d wheedled out of him with nothing but an easy promise, whispered into his ear down at the bar.  It was theirs not a full day later: a polished brass antique with a priceless clear finish.

His back is to them, but they can see everything they need to by gazing at his reflection.

His strokes stutter, faltering, and they watch as his abdominals jump rapidly. His hand makes a few more shaky attempts before he stops himself with a shudder, breathing hard and squeezing his cock at the base to cut off his own orgasm. They give a little hum of approval, waiting.

“Count.”  They prompt, when he fails to remember on his own.  

They watch his throat bob with effort as he swallows, his jaw trembling around his answer.  “Five.”

“Good boy,” they say, their voice flat and unrewarding.  Dismissive. "Guess that Hightown education really paid off for you, huh?" He whines at that, his palms slicking along his thighs, awaiting their instruction.  He glances at them in the mirror, eyes hopeful. “Again,” they prompt, “and keep your eyes on yourself until I tell you.  During, too. You were closing them a lot. It's just you and the mirror until you've earned otherwise.”

Bites his lip, beginning to stroke himself again.

The next edge comes more quickly.

His eyebrows draw up, mouth falling open, back arching.  His cock jumps and this time he falls back onto his hands to keep from giving into temptation.  His eyes travel the length of the mirror, his neck taught with tension as he pants.  They notice his gaze darting along their form for a moment, greedily stealing along their silhouette in the looking glass. A quick glance of the place where their legs are splayed open as they lounge on the bed behind him, toying with themself idly.

He’s back to form so seamlessly, he probably thinks they didn’t even notice. The next number falls out of his mouth without prompting, as if to cover for his earlier sleight.

"..."

“Baby,” he whines, fidgeting without further instruction. His fingers return to his dick when they don't reply, ghosting over his wet, swollen cockhead.  He knows they hate the way that epithet sounds in his voice, the condescending lilt he manages to wrap around the syllables. “Sweetheart. Please, may I–”

“Bad dog,” they admonish.  They don't elaborate–let him figure out for himself which breach of protocol they're scolding him for.

“Again. And if you can’t behave, I’ll have to put you outside.”

18+ Master List | SFW Master List ✦Kinktober Speedrun on Ao3

Consider: this type of power play with yandere!Leander...you watching him when he's usually the one watching you...

[mllenugget]

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[jimmyspades]

James Spader + hearing “I love you.”

[batwynn]

Ok. Five days without antihistamines before my immunology appointment (FINALLY). I can do it. I won’t even look at a potato. 😤

[shootingstarpilot]

Trick or treat?

trick or TREAT, my friend, have a snippet!

Voices, then. Fuzzing in and out of the edges of his hearing but indisputably there, and the next gutted cry owes more to relief than anything else. Voices come with hands and feet that make the rats go away. Grabbing tails, swinging hard, kicking and catching between foot and wall or down into the grey and rushing river.  (Nalen had died in the night, and none of them had noticed until the snout came up through his belly.) The echoes of the agony reverberate oddly in the space so abruptly empty. Every inhale tastes moldy, every exhale catching on another sobbing wail, the sudden absence of pain as disorienting as its onset. (He’d made a little noise, hadn’t he? And Ben had shushed him, assuming fever, the mumbles of the dying- but the rats don’t wait-)

[kissycat]

What's funniest about iwtv is the way it's just normal gay relationship dynamics like it just is like that. "We have an unbreakable bond... he's my maker, my lover, my killer" - average gay person going through a breakup

[sickgraymeat]

Here is a take. You need the context of the character outside of the relationship in order to fully appreciate the relationship, in an analytical/understanding sense. (What I mean is you can obviously enjoy it regardless) Most bubbline shippers are more drawn to Marceline’s context outside of the relationship than to Bonnie’s, which often leads to minimizing Bonnie by characterizing her as uncaring or a purely selfish partner, minimizing Marcy by characterizing her as purely a (Bonnie’s) victim who did nothing wrong, of oversimplifying the whole relationship by only acknowledging the bad parts (just the angst) OR the good parts (just the fluff). It’s really frustrating actually bc to me they’re both characters who shed a light on the complexity of the show as a whole, and when most people realize that they tend to latch onto the second layer beneath the surface so to speak— the big “reveal” that Bonnie isn’t just tea parties and smiley faces, and that Marcy isn’t just scary pranks and evil laughter.

The thing is, THIS IS NOT THE LIMIT OF THEIR COMPLEXITY. They definitely are not just those things, but they are not just “evil scientist dictator” and “depressed lost soul” either! They’re so many things, just like every other major character (and many minor ones) in the show. I see many of you getting into Bonnie’s complexities without sympathy because you think it’s cool or sexy that she’s evil or whatever, but there’s so much more to her than that. And while I’ve seen much more sympathetic introspection on Marcy’s character, it still tends to place her as the Victim with a capital V within the context of their relationship. Understandable considering we mostly see it from her side, and considering we mostly see the parts of it where it’s strained. But come on!! I know fandom is very capable of filling in blanks, but I rarely see that for Bonnie when it isn’t in service of a different character. I get that she is very withholding, but honestly so are all of them. That’s exactly what Obsidian is about, but I don’t think anyone waited for it to come out to acknowledge that Marceline was more than the series could directly show of her. So many people in fandom are willing to dig SO DEEP for interpretation, but with Bonnie, it’s like she surprised or angered or amused you so much by being 2-dimensional than you never acknowledge the dimensions beyond that. And if that’s because you don’t see them, then how are you seeing every other character’s so clearly?

[c-kiddo]

Would you mind tagging your Essek hate so Essek fans can filter it?

respect and peace and love but i dont rly want to do that

[shannaraisles]

Niamh's Emergency

So.

First thing - thank you so, so, so much to everyone who stepped up to help me make rent last week. I sincerely do not have enough words or gratitude to express just how amazing you all are.

Second thing - I did the math while not panicking, and I now know my ridiculous declaration that I needed £800 before the 20th was just the panic talking.

As I explained before, due to circumstances before Christmas, I am severely short on funds until payday on February 25th 2024. However, that does not mean I am not getting paid in January - I'm just not getting paid enough. HUGE difference.

My main concern this month is making sure I can pay for rent, heating, electric, internet, insurance, and therapy. (that last one feels like it should be something I can drop for a month, but I really shouldn't).

What I will get paid will cover my rent, and I can scrimp for groceries this month. It'll be hard, but I can do that; it's the least I can do to try and lessen the stress on my partner and our cats.

The rest comes to around £500.00, the last £200.00 of which would be due around February 18th. This feels so much less terrifying than before.

So this is me, cap in hand, swallowing my pride again, to ask for help. Please help if you can. Reblog if you can't - I know in this economic climate, I am asking for a lot. I am continuing to fight through stress to try and complete commissions, but I won't make any promises just yet.

And thank you, in advance, if you do choose to help me out. I will be forever in your debt.

£500.00 by February 18th. That's achievable, right?

Paypal

Kofi

[hajihiko]

ppl who use tags for the block feature not just the category stuff are lowkey angels. they’re really considering the ways in which ppl can experience their blog. feels like they work with you to experience their art and presence in the best way possible for you. not like they’re trying to be famous.

(# not an art)

well, sure. I think tags are 50/50 on being so you can see every # or no #. I talk a LOT and if I could give ppl the option to blacklist it irl I would 😂

Also I don't think anyone gets famous on Tumblr lmao

[butwhatifidothis]

So, why do some people who love Crimson Flower always go on about how the English translation is pure evil? Because they always say that "oh, Treehouse hated Edelgard," but they never do a side-by-side comparison of why the English translaton is significantly more pro-Dimitri and anti-Edelgard (notice who they leave out in that) than the Japanese script.

From what I've seen, it seems to come from early fandom interpretations of 3H saying that it was "mistranslated to make Edelgard look worse" that came from people who, uh. Primarily didn't actually speak Japanese, or otherwise had a fairly severe misunderstanding of it.

You'll see this with pretty much every big-name event that is claimed to have been "mistranslated" in general. The AM parley, the Continue To Kill no u, Faerghus Toxic Masculinity, and "the Dream Interview calls her an antagonist not a villain" are the Big 4 of this thing happening, and all four of them have been thoroughly debunked as nonsense by people who actually speak and understand Japanese. That's probably why the actual MAJORITY of events that get the "this was mistranslated to make Edelgard look worse" card don't actually have that side-by-side comparison you mention (since there's WAY more smaller things that they say this about, for example Dimitri was TOTALLY JOKING with Edelgard during Gronder 1 and TOTALLY WASN'T freaked the fuck out at her "jokes"), because the people who claim this are 0-4 on being correct about this for four of the most important examples of this supposedly happening.

So they'll kinda just say anything is Totally A Mistranslation in the hopes that the English-speaking fandom who for the most part don't speak Japanese will believe them, and through that believe them on what the game is "actually" trying to say. With that being, of course, that Edelgard was completely and utterly right about literally actually factually every single thing she has ever said in the game ever and literally actually factually every single other person who disagrees with her is completely and utterly wrong (unless what they're saying is, of course, in alignment with what Edelgard is saying).

And if anyone who actually knows what they're talking about comes in and corrects them - even nicely! - they'll either go on about how everyone is coming after them (read: people who understand Japanese are correcting someone who doesn't understand Japanese about something that exclusively revolves around understanding Japanese), or they'll accuse that person of being a liar/sexist/homophobic POS who just wants the poor little gay bean that is Edelgard to be pure and utter evil since they totally view all gay women to be pure and utter evil.

All this, from what I can gather, is mostly to serve as a justification as to why they like Edelgard since they view liking her as a villain to be a genuine mark of bad character, for some reason. They want to believe that she's the progressive figure who does everything for the little guy for one reason or another, and so grab for any excuse they can give her they can think of to make their interpretation of her not seem so unfounded against all of the evidence Edelgard provides the player that she really is just an imperialist who doesn't really give a shit about her people if doing so gives even the slightest bump to her goal of forceful unification. All because daring to like villains is just soooo baaaaad lmao

[lanaevyssmoved]

calling racism a 'toxic topic' that was 'too much' for you as a white person is hilarious, btw.