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I actually met an older woman who left her career to stay at home. I met her when I worked in a specialty food shop, where she'd come in to shop for little fun food snacks for her and her husband to enjoy together once he was off work. She admitted what her deal was to me fairly early on: she had a good career, then her husband got a huge promotion to a new city, so instead of trying to find a new job after they moved, they made the decision together that they could live on his income and enjoy more time together.
This by NO MEANS was Trad-Wifery, but this is what a true partnership and single income living meant for them (and honestly, it looked like the healthiest version of single income living to me) - they were lucky enough to survive and thrive on one income, and in this, they got more time together.
Every time I saw her and she talked about how she was doing, she was almost apologetic to me when she talked about the freedoms she now had, and she also respected the heck outta my work. She didn't think she would end up ever not working, but she and her husband were in a phenomenally rare position to get more time together so they were going to treasure it.
What I liked the most is she acknowledged that surviving on one income is so rare, but also didn't rub it in my face that she could go buy little treats while I had to work to sell those treats.
So uhhh... good news, for those who like some parts of stay-at-home... it is possible, and probably more possible with your partner when you're both older if one partner really finds a way to progress their career. It may be rare, but you know... maybe???
But no matter what, please be nice to people you interact with, especially if you come from a place of privilege against those who won't have those kinds of chances.
#I have no idea who I wrote this for#But I'm trying#And I hope this speaks to someone#I did meet a lot of people at that job with money who treated me with kindness#Not everyone tho#there are some rich dickholes out there#and they can suck it so hard#Stay at home#Trad wife rant#trad wife
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Remember: The burning sensation is part of the process.
#Mouthwashing#blood#body horror#Emphasizing here that this is in reference to a media and character and not a cry for help on my end.#Mouthwashing is one of those games that tickles my brain and checks all the boxes for my niche interests -#-but it wasn't something that got the silly comic part in my cortex firing up. My analysis brain is eating well though!#What said...It is impossible for me to see this scene and not say out loud: “Me in the middle of my work day".#While there is a lot more going on with curly I personally resonated a lot with his struggles with burnout.#Burnout feels like mouthwash to me. That you keep rinsing out your mouth trying to get rid of the rotting smell#but it's just surface level solutions. The real cure requires something far more significant to actually make a difference.#The job 'is hard' and 'everyone struggles'. It's part of the process right? You're tired? Anxious? Depressed? Us too! Chin up!#Actually I resonated with a lot of things within Curly (this is a curly positive space - he's not perfect. He's just human).#One thing being his desire to see the good in people and believe in their potential.#Because here's the thing. Some people truly do just need someone in their corner who stands by them so they can grow and improve.#And some people will take advantage of your kindness. You focus so much on their humanity while you stop being a person to them.#The horrifically toxic relationship persists because Curly tries to see the bigger picture and believes in the good within.#Anyone who has lived through constantly trying to reframe the hurt as something else knows-#-just how many excuses your brain will make to avoid cognitive dissonance. It's human psychology.#Jimmy sucks so bad. But we the audience have the privilege of not having years of baggage associating him in our minds as 'friend'.
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papyrus does his taxes ☹☹☹☹☹
#undertale#let papyrus say fuck#letpapyrussayfuck#papyrus undertale#papyrus#WHYYYY IS HE SO HARD TA DRAW IM GONNA DIE#this was so much funnier in my head#oh well. cant be on my a game 100% of the time#have a good day im gonna go chill THE SUN IS ON MY SCREEN FFS#when he does his taxes he really lets loose he says everysingle curseword he can imagine b/c that shit sucks so fucking bad#the great papyrus wont survive in prison tho so he does his absolute best#spacie scribbles
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merry Christmas klancers 🎅
#I did the whole happy holidays art and I was like yayyyy I’m done I did my Xmas art#but um everyone looked like they were having so much fun w Xmas klance doodles I had to get in#klance#Voltron#vld#art#my art#Keith kogane#Lance McClain#I scheduled this at 2am but now it’s out im no longer abt to pass out I can dissertate in the tags#anyway I think they’d both be pretty awful cooks#like realistically a klance cookie making situation would be like#both of them oversold their cookie making skills and ended up in a contest (hunks the judge) for who could make them best#but they’d both suck. burnt salty raw awful etc etc#and they’d be beefing so hard like they’d take it so seriously#but for the sake of me wanting to draw cute Xmas art#let’s just say Lance is the slightly less horrendous cook and can make some cookies#there is no world I can reconcile Keith with the kitchen#I just know that boy feeds off instant noodles and unseasoned jerky
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#my audio lol#talkloid#shitpost#kasane teto#utau#utauloid#teto utau#idk tags. my brother's friend sent him this apparently and my brother sent it to me and i was like 1) mood#2) WAIT I HAVE TETO I CAN MAKE THIS REAL LMAO. i was gonna delete her bc i wasnt using her but i fished her out of recycling just for this#the 'goddd. fuckkkk' at the end sounds way better than everythign else imo 😭 im too good at making vsynths swear i s2g#i tried so hard to get the beginning to sound better but i couldnt ughgh. and im tired lol ive been doing too many things today#so yeah take this even tho it sucks lol. im getting too silly and i just wanna make synths say dumb shit for funsies
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🎵chill lofi-cyberpunk beats to eat soup to🎵
#fence posts#impulsesv#skizzleman#geminitay#hermitcraft#hermitblr#animation#so so happy with how this turned out :3 even tho it’s not the best#(don’t look too hard at skizz or impulses hands. look at gem instead. I’m happy with how she turned out :3c)#also the front part of the bg (not the actual kitchen that sucks lol) but the Main Street and the tables and chairs.. very happy considerin#how much I hate drawing scenes :P#kinda dreading this is gonna flop tho lol praying it won’t 🙏#I can already feel the quality getting murdered..
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My first and probably only contribute to the Mouthwashing community. As the old wise sage once said "if you can't draw humans, pony-fie them". I'm sorry.
Consider this as a late Halloween drop 🎃
EXTRA: My sib pointed out that a Pony AU of Mouthwashing would imply Polle the Mascot to be... human?? HUMAN EXPRESS??
The sketch scared me so much I decided to not draw it digitally :)
#mouthwashing#mouthwashing spoilers#mouthwashing game#mouthwashing anya#mouthwashing curly#mouthwashing jimmy#mouthwashing daisuke#mouthwashing swansea#mouthwashing au#sort of#mouthwashing mlp#mlp au#ponyfied#pony au#mouthwashing polle#mouthwashing meme#silly#child of sardior#my art#horror#colors were hard to choose#and I suck at coloring so they ended up being a bit random#maybe I will fix them in the future#same thing for the pony races#I just went with the first race the heart told me#can see Jimmy as a earth pony but honestly he is only a shit#Anya gives me the unicorns vibe#Curly I think would be cool to see as a pegasus since he's a captain and should watch over all his crew#and he's going to lost his wings too after the crash#Swansea gives me the earth pony vibes but the good ones
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Odysseus with his head in his wife's lap, happily not paying attention to anything, humming one of athenas song and carving something
Some random guy: your majesty----
Odysseus: not bothering to sit up: whatever my wife decided is fine.
#the odyssey#epic the musical#Odysseus#Penelope#Odypen#Post-canon my beloved#Odysseus tried to hold court exactly one time before he 1. Realized he's very out of date with everything and#2. Remembered that these meetings sucked so much#Odysseus then quickly climbed into his wife's lap and was like penelopes been ruling for 20 years she's got this#The first time someone tried to insist that it wasn't acceptable for penelope to answer ody nearly killed the guy#Nobody tried to force the issue after that#The only time odysseus sits up to contribute is to be like 'no no we can take that route now I killed the monster that lived there years ag#This is not to say he isn't listening and paying attention! He is! He's just scoping everybody's out#Noticing who's more pushy when they're trying to deal with penelope than they are with him#He's got twenty years of politics to catch up on! And he's going to be sneaky about it#Odysseus post return gaining a reputation for being uninvolved and uncaring only to pull the rug out from underneither the other person#Penelope is a okay with this for many many reasons#First off her system is one of beauty and the fact that her husband didn't spend all her hard work to take back over the second he came bac#Is rare and penelope is grateful everyday for who she married#Second she gets to show off look at how well she did odysseus look at how clever she is ody ody watch as I scam these people isn't that hot#(It is and yes of course odysseus was watching)#Penelope enjoying how odysseus lays out over her like a lazy lion#It scratches her possessive side to show him off like this and she gets to play with his hair#Telemachus attending some of these meetings to learn (tm) and spending the whole time deeply embarrassed#Odypen being 🥰🤝 rat bastards in love
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Trailer fanarttt lets fucking go gang
#my ass simply can not sit still lately but! i got these done enough to be ok w posting them#wanted to draw all day but actually putting in the work to do so was hard#and i was calling w friends most of the day so#which i dont regret cuz all those mfs are so fucking funny#anyway#gangles ribbons are fun to render#i struggled w pom and jax tho#idk i think im a lil burned out#which sucks considering the trailer juuust dropped#my art#the amazing digital circus#tadc ep 4#jax#pomni#gangle#tadc#tadc jax#tadc pomni#tadc gangle#for you#fyp
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Wait you guys are actually buying Disney products I thought it was a joke
(READ TAGS FOR FULL CONTEXT Sorry it’s long dies
#Honestly I’m only bothered bc I feel partially responsible (WTF EGOMANIAC OVER HERE)#I know I can’t control other people’s spending habits and my own habits are. Less than ideal !!#But when I wanted to spread my love for Wreck it Ralph I didn’t want people to get that takeaway 😔#IMPORTANT NOTE ‼️It’s okay to express your love for something through buying official things !!! That DOESN’T make you a “bad person” !!!#Still ! I think we have to let ourselves feel bothered by things and we need to be more critical of exploitative companies#Of course I chose to watch inside out 2 with my mom in theaters so I’m not immune lmao. Also using amazon / Etsy … just as a whole#But if you need help finding Disney movies without supporting them please just ask me!! PLEASE don’t use Disney+ if you can avoid it#I know we are all capable of finding our fulfillment from better places. But sometimes it’s hard#Capitalism sucks and yet that’s how we are endlessly pressured to live :(#We’re all at different points in our lives. Sometimes self care involves consumerism#Be hopeful that it someday won’t have to#Txt#again I’m sorry if this comes off as horribly egotistical to even consider being single-handedly responsible for#Social media is bad …. numbers bad…. Distorts reality and your perception of yourself…..#Or as me trying to guilt trip people in any way. Genuinely do what makes you happy but WE CAN BE HAPPIER & HEALTHIER I KNOW WE CAN#Wreck it ralph#Rant#Also sorry I have huge beef with streaming services I don’t mean to enforce that on other people but also. Sharing my opinion
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Sol
#I’m just gonna put these here so I can rant about all the issues I see in the#so like I as an idiot was like let’s see if I can do a style study on qwille using my favorite boy right#but qwille a brain works in mysterious ways cause like I’m trying to hard to firgure out how they know where to put stuff#and of course the rendering is like that in between fully rendered and that more soft vague#which is gorge#but my brain when I do it is like you need to fix you need to fix this looks bad you suck blahblah#not to even mention the anatomy#which is completely fucked here#I can’t do shoulders to save my life#and he looks so dumb sitting on that box#like what’s wrong with his shoe#I know something’s wrong#I think I need to take a moment#I’m caught in one of those logic loops rn#blahhhhhh
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I know a normal amount abt waistcoats
#fantasy high junior year#riz gukgak#heard americans call those vests. deranged. thats not what that is#riz gukgak is a character made to target me specifically bc I am aroace and I love drawing formal menswear more than god#tho Ive been giving riz hard sole shoes which. wouldnt be good for stealth#I wear those I know. you can hear that shit through a meter of concrete#probably less important in a setting with real actual magic so its fine. but its something I do think abt#this kid is so fun to draw... its a Problem for me. I have to force myself to do my goddamn job knowing I could be drawing him instead#its a curse. I have to treat myself at the end of the day. sucks to be here so much
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Look, the bottom line is this. You're gonna be wrong and fuck up sometimes, that's just how being human works. No matter what you mean or how much you care, sometimes, you're gonna do something or say something that hurts someone or perpetuates bigotry you don't believe in.
The goal isn't to do no wrong, that's an impossible standard. The mark of "a good person" isn't that they always do good, it's that they're willing to admit when they've failed, done wrong, made a mistake, and they're willing to course-correct when they do.
It's important that you're trying. It's okay to be the bad guy. You don't need to get defensive, you don't need to stake your identity in "person who never does that kind of wrong." You just gotta be able to say "Fuck, my bad, I'm sorry," accept that your behavior didn't reflect your beliefs, and change your behavior so that it better represents who you mean to be.
The less time you spend lingering on whether it feels like people believe you are who you say you are, the more time you can spend getting better at being that person.
Some people will try to tear you down when you make mistakes, they'll try to pigeonhole you as a "bad person," someone whose very existence is defined by doing harm. This isn't your problem, and it's not your responsibility to prove anything to them. They don't have to believe you, and you don't have to appease them. So long as you're willing to accept when you *do* hurt someone, intentional or not, and you're willng to put in the effort to make reparations and change, you'll never "be a bad person."
Let yourself fuck up. All you have to do is course-correct when you notice your actions' impact have strayed from your intentions. The right people will notice that effort, and they'll be proud of you. And perhaps most importantly of all, they'll let you make that effort. Anyone who tells you it's too late to change, to discourage you from improving, or stop you from trying, is not your frend. You don't have to impress them. Ignore them, and let yourself change.
#I didn't manage to say it in the main text so you get it in the PS tag ramble#When you hurt someone by mistake‚ it's okay to feel bad and scared and want to make sure they understand you didn't mean it#But you need to set that aside for the moment. You need to let it be about the other person's hurt.#You can ask other people for support with your feelings‚ they don't make you a “bad person‚” but they're not appropriate to put on the#hurt party. When you accept that you can fix your mistakes and that you're allowed to be upset to‚ it gets less scary to make them#You know there's a protocol for this‚ and so long as you keep it together enough to follow it‚ you can mitigate the harm and fix things.#Don't get defensive. As tumblr says‚ that's the devil talking. Defensive is never the right move when someone says you fucked up/hurt them#You can maintain that it was a mistake‚ but keep that part short and sweet. Let them be hurt‚ let it be you that hurt them. It's hard but#I promise it'll make it better in the long run. People are more likely to forgive you if you let them be angry at you for hurting them.#It's normal to be upset when you hurt someone. It's normal to be upset when someone hurts you. These can and must coexist.#Let them be upset at you‚ apologize sincerely‚ and no more than three to five times. Let it be about them. It can be about you#with others‚ and when they've cooled down and approached you with a willingness to hear your side of things.#Sometimes you'll have to just sit with the feeling of having been wrong or seen as a hurtful person. It sucks‚ but i promise#it sucks so much worse when someone who hurt you is more focused on whether you hate them than if you're okay. Let them be upset#It'll be okay. I love you#mumblr#problemnyatic thoughts
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with the amount that the main series dunks on the forbidden cities i would just love for unraveled to be just an unabashed celebration of humanity. like yes there is poverty and pollution and crime but also there is dancing and music and rollercoasters and scary movies. let keefe discover the beauty here! the first book was all about the wonder of the lost cities but unraveled could be all about the wonder of the forbidden cities
#i just have such a hard time with how much the series dunks on humans#which understandably so#but i just want unraveled to enjoy the forbidden cities#like if i have to read a book of keefe just being like “this food is garbage and the air smells bad and it sucks”#it would get really tired#i think there is an inherent life to humanity that the lost cities lack#there is no drive to live excitingly when you live forever because you don't have to squeeze as much as you can in#let keefe get a taste of that!!!!#its something that would SO lend itself to his character#as someone who was chronically punished as a child for being too much#LET HIM BE MUCH WITH HUMANITY#maybe all these tags should be in the post but eh#this is where i prefer to cook lol#kotlc#kotlc unraveled
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More silly and fun practice sketches on the Victorian Era FOP AU lol. Just gonna post them here first while we're still developing this and busy with our real-life duties as students.
There's actually a ton of my thoughts in the alt text of these images lol. I hope it's still there. I will also include the links of the existing posts relating to this AU to keep track of what has been created.
Origin Discussion Posts
Updated Character Designs 1
Updated Character Designs and Concepts 2
Concept Art 1: Boy with a Parasol
Tumblr Asks 1
Credit: @keyintheeye-blog original creator and the default character designer of this Victorian Era FOP AU.
I will post my other thoughts (something like a what's happening update) on the repost of this later. Gotta get back to my unavoidable university duties... Have a nice day tho 💐
#victorian dark fae fop au lol#the fairly oddparents#fairly oddparents#fop#fop au#timmy turner#wanda fairywinkle cosma#cosmo fairywinkle cosma#fop timmy#fop cosmo#fop wanda#sketches#concept art#infinite painter#usagifuyusummerart2024#art#victorian era#an attempt lmao#i hope you're not squeamish with unrealistic depiction of blood on cosmo lmao. plus i hope you're doing well keyintheeye-blog!#uni stuff is really draining my energy. the dilemma of doing what you have to do versus what you want to do is real...#still can't be online but will be talking about some real-life stuff mixed in with some of my insane thoughts later here i need to sleep lol#redesign#fashion#cartoon fanart#nickelodeon#you can see i suck at a lot of things here lol. wings are so hard... plus scaling character sizes lmao. gotta continue with the tumblr asks#tags might change if formatting is fucked up#practice sketches
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I’m going to make exactly One (1) post about voting, because if I see another condescending post sucking harris’ toes and telling me the democrats are swinging right because lefties are stupid one more time I’m going to lose my mind
Here, here’s my voting post. There are way more people who need to be voted in than just the president. There’s state judges and governors n shit on there, maybe go make sure you don’t get some Q-anon lunatic as your governor or something at the Very least
You can look up a sample ballot for your state and see who the hell is on there and look em up, see if their stance isn't something like "dismantle public education". Also double check what certain policies actually Mean because there tends to be conservative shit worded in a way that will try to trick you into saying yes to something you Don’t want
As for the president? Idk man, the permafrost is melting and no one is killing oil executives with bricks yet, it might be our last joke of an election either way. maybe pick whichever grimdark overlord you feel will try slightly less hard to kill you while we wait and see if the gulf stream collapses, or don't
#Dross talks#there's no fixing the ghouls in charge but you can at least cut off some of the malignancies growing more locally#my feed out here like#“cant wait for my ideology to rise from the ashes”#“man this fucking sucks i hate it here. where do i unionize"#and “ounghhh mommy kamala im so sorry those stupid commies are making it hard for you queen”#in case it isnt obvious my main policy is i think oil execs and the stock market should be removed from this earth#which as you can imagine is not popular with anyone in politics
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