#and then there's the pronouns issue
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ok so there's this phenomenon i have encountered with some of my mutuals and now im curious
no option for nosy english speakers come back in a week
#the thing is#i find myself assuming that the other person would prefer to speak english#due to past experiences + i dont always know if they're fluent in hebrew/feel comfortable speaking it#and then there's the pronouns issue#anyway. i think i speak english to about 50% of my local mutuals#now give me your answers#🤎
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I am back for a hot second with the baby! Let's be real, Geralt gets a lot of heat in this au, but I do think he was very clear about what he could and couldn't be for Jaskier when they started this thing. Listening to this song later, and realizing that Jaskier was already in love with him at this point ... uff. Also a song about sacrifices in this au, from Jaskier??? *chef's kiss* also let's not think about essi in this au let's not let's just ignore this
#jaskier#geraskier#geralt of rivia#the witcher#art#geraskier lovechild#omegaverse#I think this started out as 'helping Jaskier through his heats' and just escalated terribly#the part in the books with essi being in love with Geralt and Geralt feeling uncomfortable with it and realizing Yen probably feels the sam#about him#that still absolutely happens because at this point Geralt IS in love with Yen#to be fair I think he also starts to realise that he is in love with Jaskier too#they are both slipping there already#but Geralt doesn't want Jaskier to feel that way about him#my boy: a. has a very fragile heart b. has attachment issues c. doesn't think he can make Jaskier happy in the long run#and he IS insecure he warns Jaskier - but he doesn't think it could be more than a crush#oh boy are they messy#i love them :)#also Milek singing songs that accidentally punch Geralt in the gut is my favourite thing#ONE MORE THING. about this song and the pronouns?? EXCUSE ME?
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Unsurprisingly, people are already being fucking weird about Mizu's gender.
Headcanons are all well and good, but maybe we shouldn't be so eager to apply modern Western gender politics and terms to a character whose identity is so tied to the time, place, and circumstances in which she exists.
Please remember that Mizu was forced to present as male for her own safety and agency. Please remember that allowing others to see her as a man and call her he/him is not a choice; it's protection; it's a means to an end. Until we see Mizu talk about her gender in further detail, that's all the context we have.
Don't project what you want to see onto her and then treat it as fact.
#Blue Eye Samurai#BES#Svar rants#also as an enby who doesn't use they it super rubs me the wrong way to see people insisting on calling her they#even if she *is* genderqueer or nonbinary (and we don't know that she is) that does not mean that they automatically applies#and if you think that it does please go back to Gender 101 do not pass go do not collect $100#on top of that there's the whole issue of applying English pronoun politics to a Japanese speaker#like I'm begging y'all to consider cultural and historical context before y'all go gallivanting off with your readings of Mizu's gender#taking a baseball bat to a hornet's nest with this one I know but I'm Bothered
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I think it's a bit of a shame how Vivec's appearance changed in the games after Morrowind. I always got a sort of uncanny vibe from his Morrrowind appearance, like he's staring straight into you, that I feel like wasn't captured as well in his later appearances. I picture him with a round face (for a mer), and huge eyes and ears. Just absolutely big-ass orbits and ears big enough to move like a cat's.
The first set is from February (you can thank it for giving me hand/wrist pain), and so I'm not keen on finishing it, but liked it enough to post it anyway.
(AKA: vivec sketch dump)
#the eso design also has some masculinization/nonbinary-erasure issues but this post aint about that#used 'he/she' for the pronouns in the second set because this also aint the post for my vivec gender headcanons#morrowind#tes#the elder scrolls#vivec#my art#mine#i have put an embarrassing amount of thought into the tribunal's designs but ill spare you from all the details#some of my thoughts on them have changed since feburary so thats why the other two sets aren't going to be posted#you can see the change in quality between the two so well becasue i have had to limit how much time i spend drawing :(
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another rant post but why is it whenever theres nonbinary representation in a game everyone immediately goes to the "their gender is up to player interpretation" excuse?? like this has happened with Frisk, Chara, Kris, Lamb, AND Goat jfc
Frisk and Chara are nonbinary, they are their own characters and not reflections of the player, so is Kris (toby has also corrected multiple people for using pronouns for them except they/them)
Lamb and Goat are canonically nonbinary too. their gender is NOT up for player interpretation.
theres another post about this for the Goat that I can't find, but since they're a "dark reflection" of the Lamb i would imagine theyre also nonbinary.
why do so many people race to erase nonbinary rep in games?
#undertale#deltarune#utdr#cotl#cotl lamb#cotl goat#nonbinary#queer issues#nonbinary erasure is NOT cool#undertale frisk#undertale chara#deltarune kris#THEYRE ALL NONBINARY AND USE THEY/THEM#his pronouns are they/them! /ref
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I learned recently from family members that EMTs and paramedics are having trouble right now with people in accidents refusing to say whether they are biologically male or female, stating it’s “none of their business” and “doesn’t matter.”
Friends, IT DOES MATTER! Male and female bodies ARE biologically different and can exhibit similar symptoms for different reasons, and if the EMT doesn’t know which you are, THEY MAY NOT BE ABLE TO TREAT YOU because they can’t be sure what’s wrong! This is not a matter of gender politics, it is a matter of life and death! PLEASE, be honest with your healthcare provider, especially in an emergency! THEY DO NEED TO KNOW!
#trans#nonbinary#this post is not here to argue about other parts of these issues right now#this post exists to save lives#please communicate with emts#EMT#paramedic#health#accidents#your life matters more than your pronouns
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What are your pronouns?
I'm taking submissions
#ask#anon#yes this is real. i might do this for a week. i might do this till i die. idk. but i am doing it.#mainly i think the concept of croudsourcing pronouns is funny. and it solves the issue of me not having them
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vanitas my awesome bastard child.
#beep boop you want fries with that#kingdom hearts#re:kh#vanitas#ventus#i wanted to keep the dark mode suit motif because i think its funny that suit is basically#xehanorts awesome darkness suit for kids who have So Many Issues™️#but i wanted to change it enough so that it wasn’t Literally Just A Palette Swap#also if you couldnt tell. the lil beast head i gave it is similar to a flood unversed.#i headcanon/in my rewrite vanitas can change its face to what ever it wants. it can even mimic the voices of people it has seen before.#its original voice is still Haley Joel Osment Sounding Like A Dubious Little Creature ofc.#i headcanon vanitas uses mirror pronouns so its mirroring my pronouns rn.#just so yk.#vanitas still refers to itself as ventus’ brother (i cant say ven without thinking about venom bc of that one fic HELP)#even if it doesnt mean it in an inherently masculine way.#anyway thats about all i have to say really#tell me if this design needs more void gear references.
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The trans FTM experience of not knowing how to feel about your detachment from femininity and growing up a woman
#No cause how do I deal with it#I figured out I wasn’t cis YOUNG like I was 11 when I started experimenting with different names and pronouns#but at the same time#I was someone’s daughter#I was someone’s niece#I grew up a little girl#and to those I’m not out to (or those who choose to live in ignorance) I still am all those things#and so I’m still viewed as less than.#I experience ‘feminine rage’ (whatever the name is)#I experience my medical issues being undermined by doctors#I experience the same limited access to period products#I’m not old enough to medically transition in my state as a minor#So on most levels beside my very liberal big city and social life I’m counted as female despite living in Texas#But the threat of being trans here can be a death sentence#I have few protections as a biological woman and if Trump is elected I will likely have even less#And I can’t begin to tell you how many more I’ll lose as a trans man#Trans#Venting#FTM#Texas#Election#us elections#Transgender#Trans man#Trans male#Trans FTM#Queer#LGBT#LGBTQ#LGBTQ+
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Doesn't this just do the same thing at the end of the day?? "`Western view of their identities and manipulated the text in the process" lol??
#slow damage#shit gotta tell all the nb/gnc jp artists i follow that theyre westerners now#like i dislike the eyepussy shit as much as the next person but cmon??#you'd think maybe the gender ambiguous characters existing in rei's vincinity might be a commentary and contrast to him of some sorts#but no i guess those people cant exist in japan... for some reason#it just really results in a clunky text translation that ultimately has the same effect at the end of the day imo#the reasoning is the part that i have the most issue ofc#i think its valid to choose to avoid pronouns completely but ??? wtf do you mean by that#edit: apparently the tl is MTL rewrite. typical.
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The most annoying things when dealing with people talking about they/them characters:
"This character is always referred to with they/them"
"Erm, we don't actually know [Character's] gender, [Character] isn't non-binary"
"i wasn't talking about gender i was talking about pronouns..."
#196#r/196#pronouns#pronoun issues#gender issues#project moon#limbus company#dante lcb#yes this post is specifically about dante#but also like every other not explicitly nb they/them character
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DEADLOCH
Vanessa, Sam O’Dwyer sexually assaulted you as a minor. He blackmailed you into a relationship. By the sounds of it, [Mayor] Rod Dixon knew about all that and did nothing to help you. Trent abused you, Gavin and Jimmy sexually harassed you…
#deadloch#deadlochedit#tvedit#thing i made#I loved this character#yes her homophobia was awful#but her ending with the she her shirt and saying thats my rainbow family and asking pronouns was so believable and nice#cause her bigotry clearly stemmed from her own issues with her heterosexuality and having to deal with straight men all her life#like it actually had nothing to do with lgbt ppl at all#and im so glad she changed and skye seemed to allow her into her life and gain a brother like how sweet
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Trans hermits. You agree.
#i post abojt trans hermits a lot but shhhhh#listen im thinking about each of them figuring themselves out#some find out theyre comfortable as they are but just dont like certain lamguage used for them#some of them take a long time trying to figure everything out because everything seems to fit#some have issues figuring out how they feel about their gender and stuff#i think theres just a lot of potential with trans hermits#they all have different levels of dysphoria. some have none at all some have a lot#some wanna transition some dont#theres some hermits who like multiple pronouns. some hermits who just like one set of pronohns. theres hermits that dont care.#idk im ggoijg in circles but you get what i meannnn#im so starved for any trans rep that's not just a sad trans boi or whatever#i wanna see more trans people man i just wanna see trans people being happy and just living rheir lives#stiff talk#hermit posting#<new possible tag?
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I was disappointed that Haruhi was treated like a girl by the host club members. Anyway I’m trans now 👍
this is actually probably another example of cultural disconnect irt ouran! I don't blame you for it because if im right about where you're coming from, it's a linguistic thing and unless you understand japanese/how japanese works it's not a connection you're going to make. I think that much of what english-speaking fans percieve as haruhi being treated like a girl by the hosts, aside from tamaki's obvious Thing about her gender, is the constant use of she/her pronouns. Most of the hosts (sans tamaki) don't go out of their way to treat her like a girl in terms of like, social context, aside from a few bits that are implied to be instigated by tamaki (i.e. lobelia academy plot.) I will admit that the she/her-ing of haruhi is pervasive in the english translations of the show, but it's not actually an accurate reflection of the original content. Conversational japanese largely drops gendered pronouns from most sentences, meaning there's very little overt gendering of haruhi either way by most characters in the show. this is part of the reason why it's somewhat believable that she managed to pass herself off as a guy--it's actually entirely possible that she didn't KNOW that people were assuming she was male until the hosts made a big deal out of it, because it's unlikely she would be referred to by gendered pronouns in conversation with her peers. this is unfortunately one of those things that it's almost impossible to not lose in translation since english sentence structure relies so heavily on gendered pronouns, but i do think it's worth pointing out that in the original japanese the boys WEREN'T openly calling her a girl at every turn. except for tamaki who absolutely was but that's like his own whole seperate thing
#my least favorite anime scene is the beach episode argument bc i will never understand why they made that shit all about her being a girl.#in the manga it was very much more of an issue of her refusing to call for help when she needed it than a 'you are a weak female' situation#anyway. irt the japanese pronoun stuff the pronoun that IS commonly used on her is the one she uses for herself#which IS a traditionally male pronoun but is also stereotypically used by like. tomboy girls girls who dont care abt gender etc#which is another reason people assumed she was male. she was using a technically masculine pronoun on herself#but not in like a 'i am a boy' way in like a 'who gives a shit' kinda way. yknow#asks
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Where is Uzi's tumblr account, I need it.
#she's a teenage girl with purple hair and pronouns#while also directly targets the make up of society#pirates anime#and has daddy issues#she has a tumblr account#i know she does#murder drones#uzi doorman
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man I sure do hope people who say that trans people don't have to present hyper-binary or be passable are normal about masc/butch trans people, including trans women who don't want surgeries or hrt or use she/her pronouns. Man I sure do hope they don't just mean femme trans men and exclude trans women and nonbinary masculine people. Man I sure do hope that they aren't super fucking weird about masculinity, especially when performed by trans women.
#Just.#A lot of people are rlly saying the quiet part out loud when they make posts standing out for transfemme afabs#Lifting up their femininity and right to their expression#Then make posts about ew gross masculinity I hate mascs men eeww#And are dead silent about trans women#They hype up trans men that don't want hrt or surgery#But the only rare discussion they have about trans women is femme trans women#It's almost as if they just hate masculinity and want to preserve femininity#Idk it just rlly grinds all my gears#It's like. Almost TERF-lite#Like they're allies of the most vanilla order#Just hate it when they say they support genderfuckers#But then there's a butch person who uses pronouns other than she/her and still identifies with womanhood to some capacity#Or a trans woman who doesn't want to present femme in any capacity but still identifies as a woman#Then they get fucking confused#it's fine#transphobia#queerphobia#homophobia#trans issues#transphobes#butch#masculine#masculinity#Transmisogyny#I would consider this transmisogyny#Bc denying women's right to express themselves however the fuck they want is a form of misogyny
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