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Y'all will see cis people of color say the most blatantly transphobic shit but they preface it with "white trans people" and y'all eat it up.
Saw some bs post by a cis tme blogger about how because white trans people ignored the murder of black trans women, they brought the current wave of anti-trans legislation on themselves.
The notes were filled with comments like "can't have empathy for white queers".
Maybe we were on different sites, but white trans women LOVED to talk about the trans murder rate as if it was all them. They LOVED to pretend they were the most affected by violence. White trans women would not shut up ever about how often they were murdered, to the point were a very common criticism was their erasure of how black trans women were the brunt of transmisogynistic violence. So I hardly believe this was because they didn't raise enough awareness.
There is an anti-blackness problem, a racism problem, in the trans community. But it has never been that it ignores violence against black trans women. It white-washed it, but never ignored it.
So to mock the current crisis as "finally affecting white people", even though it will assuredly still be applied disproportionally to trans women of color, and especially black trans women, is so fucking cruel.
Also go down ten posts and OP of that post was talking about how in "real life queer spaces" lesbianism is defined as "two naturally pussified individuals" so yeah maybe they're just a transmisogynist? But y'all eat it up.
#the reason the trans women murder rate was ignored was because of transmisogyny#not because white trans women didn't stand by their sisters#not because they saw it as black on black crime#and to pretend like it HASNT gotten worse#that it HASNT gotten more explicitly genocidal#is absurd#and so fucking transphobic#elimination of trans people was not a standard republican platform issue ten years ago#and yeah#white trans women handled that murdered brit poorly#cause they saw a pretty white woman murdered and it got more attention#but pretending like white trans women have any power to prevent transmisogynistic violence is stupid#pretending like people are only resisting the current wave of legislation because it affects white people is stupid#to compare it to the war on drugs#means that white trans women approved of the violence against black trans women because they saw it as affecting the appropriate targets#there probably are a few white trans women racist enough to believe that#but from what I've seen#they have always seen it as an attack on them as well#malding#seething#transmisogyny#this isn't limited to just transphobes of color btw#yes#being queer does not remove a white person's capacity for racism#but that is not an excuse to be blatantly homophobic and transphobic to white people#that is NOT punching up#at BEST it is lateral violence#and personally#i consider it punching down
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David Tennant for Prime Minister, please.
edit- Since this is getting so much attention, edited to include descriptions of screenshots.
This woman has lost her fucking mind.
Jo, are you okay?
#Fuck your Rowling#Fuck terfs#David Tennant#Fuck Harry Potter#And everyone who watches Rowling’s new Harry Potter show#little whinging fuckers#gender taliban?#have you completely lost your mind JKR#maybe just stop being a little whinging fucker JKR#if he's smart he would never want this job because it's a horrible one but we'd be so much better off with a sane person in charge#But seriously Rowling are you okay?#does she look tired to you?#well I guess this has broken containment#He didn’t actually say you’re name JKR#he just called out transphobes and you assumed he was talking about you#which says you know exactly what you are and identify as a transphobe#says a lot#described
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i need well meaning cis people to stop attemping to steelman trans healthcare conversations because it basically always ends with them just lying about easily checkable things "no minors are getting irreversible treatments" wrong not true "no minors are having surgery" also false, like instead just say the truth: currently some minors (few, but some) are able to access hrt that will have some irreversible changes on their body, some (even fewer) minors are able to access surgery.
the counter to transphobes screaming "these kids are being irreversibly changed" isn't "no children are accessing this care" it's "puberty is also an irreversible change" and "i think under 18s and even under 16s should be able to make medical decisions actually"
"no minors are accessing this care" means that transphobes can easily point to the examples of minors who are accessing that care, which just make us look like liars. sometimes teenagers and children need to make medical choices on their own. i think a 14 y/o should be able to get an abortion. i think trans kids and teens should be able to have the approriate care, which for some will just be like, picking a new name or haircut, and for some, sure, could be surgery.
#*m#so many journalists / youtubers / podcasters try to defend trans people but just like. say this shit that is basically a lie#i get why i get it's an easier convo to have but actually having the hard conversation is really fucking important.#not for the transphobes those people are fucked but like. for the well meaning libs who listen to x news piece or x podcast u know
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REBLOG TO EXPLODE A TERF!!
#sjonnie.text#saw i rb'd a post from terrifying evil retched transphobe and need to right my wrongs#god i wish these absolute oxygen wasters could at least tag their shit so NORMAL PEOPLE DONT REBLOG IT#remember kids: unfortunately the worst people can be funny too 💀 and the way you right that wrong is by blocking the OP and making an#explode a terf post about it!!!!#text post#image post#NOT TERF SAFE#FUCK TERFS
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yet another flop from the 'we can always tell' crowd
#ramble#my gender is so affirmed right now i'm kicking my feet#i should be sponsored by testosterone this is proof that it fucking WORKS#at least they think my art is good and that i'm pretty#by the way i don't censor transphobes' names. you're on a public platform spewing BS you get the consequences of that#there are so many layers to this
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i absolutely cannot believe people are trying to start discourse about whether nex benedict was actually nonbinary / whether it was okay for him to describe himself as nonbinary to some people if he didn’t actually identify that way as if he isn’t literally DEAD because he was KILLED. this is a MURDERED CHILD and these monsters are so busy getting mad at the possibility that he might have been a trans boy who described himself as nonbinary to his family because that was easier for them to take that they’re turning a CHILD who was MURDERED into fucking discourse. even when we die at the hands of cis people’s violence, our own community finds a way to make us the villains of the story.
and all of this bullshit on top of the ways that cis people are already trying to say our grief over his death is unjustified. all of this on top of people claiming he wasn’t murdered and speculating on other causes of death (i literally saw someone say he “clearly went home and took the coward’s way out” and i have never been more disgusted) or claiming that he started the fight as if any action on his part could’ve been enough to justify his death. i am haunted by the sound of his father screaming that his child was not filth because that is what people have been saying about this poor kid, that’s how cruelly his memory is being treated, and even the trans community can’t get it’s shit together enough to look past the stupid discourse and see the tragedy in front of us. did you all forget that it was supposed to be up to us to grieve him in the way he deserves when the rest of the world fails to care if people like him live or die? did you all forget that this child was our sibling, the future of our community, a life that we should have had the chance to know and treasure while he was still here but that we now have a responsibility to hold close to our hearts in his absence? nex’s life was precious and it was ended far too soon and if you truly believe that anything is more important than mourning his life and fighting for a world where no more trans people have to meet such an awful fate, you’re a traitor to this community and you do not deserve the place you occupy within it.
i’m so tired. i can’t even imagine how tired his family must be, to see the public treat the child they’re grieving so horribly, to see the world fail their baby again. leave him alone. he was already robbed of peace in life; the least you can do is let him finally have it in death.
#as a trans man whose family still uses they/them and neutral terms for me and would describe me as nonbinary#because that was how i initially came out to them and me being a man is a much bigger hurdle than i have the energy to help them get over#it’s SO deeply disturbing to know that if my life ended in violence#my own community would be more concerned with how my family referred to me in death than with the fact that i was killed#how fucking dare you turn this poor child’s existence into discourse fodder when they aren’t even here to defend themselves#when you only even know who he is in the first place because he was killed#tw transphobic violence#nex benedict#tbh it feels wrong to even add my usual tags to this but i need people to see it so. here we go#transandrophobia#transandromisia#transmisandry#virilmisia#virilphobia#anti transmasculinity#transmascphobia#exorsexism#trans men#transmascs
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sometimes I see vids of US highschools find their way to twitter and Europeans are like "you dress like this in public/to school??🤢 have some pride" and look there's a lot of things u can shame the US for but kids dressing comfy is not one of them lmao. because its giving jealous. how are you not jealous. I think you're jealous. "uniforms should be mandatory" it's socially acceptable to show up to school in sweatpants and slides and bonnets and you want us to change that to fuckin. mandatory khakis??? and you think that'd make kids happier??? whatever you say pal....
#senior year I dressed exclusively in sweatshirts tees and my baggy pants and I swear to GOD if I had#the extra burden of a fucking UNIFORM on top of everything it'd be the last straw...#I could also get into how ableist and classist and racist and transphobic the implementation of uniforms can#be but thats not as funny as dunking on random kids on twitter so I wont#to be clear: oh I hate defending the US online. fuck the US. but also take that enormous police baton out of your puckered up assholes plea
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idea after our convo in my post abt a fnaf tat with @miiilowo
#I couldn’t get this idea out of my head#I’m also dying my hair bright purple over the summer and I have a fnaf badge so#that poor fuckin kid#fnaf#fnaf fandom#william afton#tattoos#also yes that’s me in my binder#I do the power move of wearing it in public with nothing on top#fuck transphobes
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the line “the doctor is male and female and neither and more” is exactly the type of line ive been waiting for from the show for YEARS . a canon reference to the doctor’s non-binary identity and it’s done in the most nebulous-fuck-labels gendequeer way possible . fuck yes . im so damn happy
#doctor who#bitch has always been genderweird genderfluid since the beginning but it’s explicitly canon now ‼️‼️‼️‼️#FUCK TRANSPHOBES AND FUCK TERF ISLAND YOUR NATIONAL TV SHOW IS QUEER AS HELL 💪💪#if we get more casual references to genderfluidity like we got from 12 and 13 i will be so happy . so so happy#jay rambles#dw spoilers#1k
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I do agree with the people calling Somerton out for his misogyny and lesbophobia but I do want to remind everyone that him treating Becky Albertalli like that was an explicit act of biphobia. Like there is something very transparent about him insisting that lesbians have it easier than gay men only to turn to a bisexual woman and refuse to accept that she's queer at all. That was biphobia in it's purest form. It doesn't make the rest okay by any means and I'm not trying to minimize it, but as a bisexual woman I think it's important for everyone to recognize that he did not just treat her like that because she's a woman who happens to like women, he did that because she's bisexual and he clearly doesn't think bisexual women are queer at all.
Also don't gloss over the transphobia around ignoring ND Stephenson and Rebecca Sugar's gender identities as well. He's not just a misogynist and a lesbophobe, he's biphobic and transphobic too. Acknowledge all of it.
#I just dont want people to ignore the biphobia bcs so often people act like bi people are only hated#because we're attracted to the same gender and thus there is no biphobia in the queer community#but he didnt hate her for liking women#he treated her differently than he treated the lesbians he talked about#and it's because she's bisexual#same with how he treated ND Stephenson and Rebecca Sugar#he didnt do it just because he hates women/people he perceives to be women#he did it bcs he doesnt think nonbinary people count as queer either#and that's really fucking transphobic#Hbomberguy#james somerton
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I'm trying not to get annoyed at people because obviously not everyone knows! I'm particularly obsessed about it so I know the writers a bit but just for information, Krem was written by Trick Weekes, someone that came out as nonbinary 5 or 6 years after dai came out. So yeah I agree that some of the dialogues with him are unpleasant but he wasn't written by someone transphobic it was literally a trans person that probably wrote him when working stuff out with their own gender
#they probably would do a whole different thing now! and also it was 10 years ago and it was a fucking miracle to have a trans character#it makes me kind of sad when he gets so many criticism and the writer is accused of being transphobic when they're trans#and i repeat it was 10 years ago they probably had to fight a bit to have a trans character#dragon age
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WolfWren featuring real comments from the fandom. It's okay to have different opinions on fiction, but maybe let's all remember there are actual real life people having to read this shit daily
#sabine wren#shin hati#ahsoka#star wars#wolfwren#this is why i am so fucking tired of the “both sides are annoying!!!!” talking point#some people are straight up fucking bigots and you let them get away with too much by saying:#“oh all shippers are the same and you're all annoying”#yes we're all annoying 100% agreed#but some are ALSO fucking homophobic + biphobic + lesbophobic + transphobic#mayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyybe lets not say “everyone be nice :((((” and act like EVERYONE is the same#because it's fucking not#star wars wlw#tw homophobia#tw queerphobia#tw lesbophobia#sapphic star wars#star wars lesbians#mine#my edits
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btw since there’s like triple the amt of u there was before i’m gonna do a little housekeeping and say this very loudly: u have to be as transgender as possible and you have to do it as incorrectly as possible all the time.
#normally i’d weed transphobes myself but i also got like. maybe 1 follower every few months before this. so#fuck terfs and ppl who perpetuate terf content 👍 i don’t care how far divorced you think your marauders au is from jk rowling
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People on TikTok think mpreg is funny and unbelievable and weird like "imagine if men gave birth!" and "OMG MPREG REFERENCE???" it's like
BRO. THERE ALREADY ARE. IT'S NOT A CUTE YAOI/BL OMEGA VERSE MANGA, PREGNANT TRANS MEN EXIST??? THERE ARE MEN WHO CARRY? SEAHORSE DADS ARE REAL
#echo rants#pregnancy#lgbtq#transphobes#im sorry it's just legitimately so fucking annoying seeing normies talk about mpreg like its impossible#while not acknowledging that trans people exist#preg kink aside these are real people with struggles from systemic issues with prenatal care and discrimination#people who grapple with gender dysphoria to start their own family#real people go through this every day#even if you don't see it#get educated
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I found out some stuff about Oni's and I have a whole bunch of new headcanons for Lloyd and Garmadon..
#instead of lloyd being the shortest in the group. hes gotta be fucking TALL due to his oni blood#oni horns are sensitive.. the power this gives me for garmadon and lloyd...#ONI'S ARE CANNIBALISTIC?? DO YOU THINK MAYBE GARMADON ATE SOMEONE BEFORE...#I hope its not mistaké however you spell her name#hopefully lloyd doesnt eat people..#maybe in his oni form...#GARMADON AND LLOYD CAN GO INTO SPACE#Oni's apparently have a weakness of harsh smells and sharp objects too btw..#but in the ninjago universe apparently its the power of creation#Oni's also have HUGE fucking spikey clubs as their weapons im totally gonna give lloyd that fucking thing#also apparently female oni's are likely good with magic and dark spells does that make lloyd and garmadon a trans icon /JJJJJJJJ#transphobes dont attack me 🙄#oni's can have 1-4 HORNS im debating whether lloyd should have that unicorn horn#oni horns can be small or FUCKING HUGE too#so much potential headcanons...#ninjago#ninjago fandom#lloyd montgomery garmadon#lloyd ninjago#ninjago lloyd#lloyd garmadon ninjago#ninjago lloyd garmadon#ninjago lord garmadon#lord garmadon ninjago#lloyd garmadon#garmadon ninjago#ninjago garmadon#oni lloyd
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today, my coworkers’ refusal to see me as a man put one of our patients in a position where they felt unsafe for the third time. i’ve been at this job for less than two months total. i don’t even care about getting misgendered anymore, i just want the people we’re supposed to be taking care of to feel comfortable around me.
i work at a hospital where we have to supervise our patients in a lot of vulnerable situations. there are safeguarding rules in place for certain things that male employees aren’t allowed to be present for when it comes to female patients. and yet, the people training me and telling me what to do have repeatedly put me in situations where i’ve been forced to do things that the female patients aren’t comfortable with me doing. and because they have repeatedly failed to teach me the rules for doing my job as a man, i have no way of knowing when i’m crossing one of those lines unless one of the patients tells me.
i’ve had to watch a victim of SA stare at me in abject terror as my coworkers asked her to strip naked with me still in the room. it took several minutes for her to even be able to speak enough to ask if i could leave the room. i found out after that she broke down crying the moment i walked out. my biggest regret is that i didn’t realize what was happening fast enough to leave before she ever had to say something, because she shouldn’t have had to say it. i never should’ve been allowed in the room in the first place, because that’s not something male employees are supposed to be present for. but i didn’t know that yet, because i was training and i thought surely, they wouldn’t train me to do something that directly violated their own safeguarding rules. that moment was the first time, and it’s haunted me ever since, but it wasn’t the last time. not only did it happen for the third time today — it almost happened for the fourth, and would have if someone hadn’t spoken up to say they should pick someone else. i care for these people so deeply, it’s why i took this job, and i’m so tired of hearing the fear in their voices when they have to ask me not to do something i never should’ve been told to do.
i’m very used to the personal discomfort of being misgendered. i willingly deal with it a lot at work as well as in other situations, not because i’m in the closet (at this point in my medical transition that would be impossible), but because it’s such a frequent occurrence with my coworkers that we would never get anything done if i took the time to correct them every time. but to see it get to the point of causing such visceral discomfort in other people? people i’m supposed to be taking care of and keeping safe? that’s something else entirely, and i’m fucking exhausted.
and after all of that, some of them still look at me like i have two heads when they tell me what to do and i say “i can’t do that, only female employees can” because i’m learning now. clearly i’m already seen as a man by our patients, but my coworkers would still rather put them in an unsafe situation than just train me as a man.
#to be clear it’s four different things they’ve asked me to do that im not supposed to#as soon as i find out about one rule they ask me to violate a different one that i didn’t know about#i will never ever forget that girl’s face and i’ll never stop being angry for her#for all three of them but especially her#i hate my coworkers for a million different reasons#the patients are the only reason i didn’t quit this job after the first day#i just want to do right by them and sometimes it feels like i’m the only one working there who does#it kills me because the patients who know im trans have been so great about it too#most of them know nothing about trans people but they’re so willing to learn and so respectful and we’ve had such great conversations#they’re getting fucked over by someone else’s transphobia when they themselves don’t have a single transphobic bone in their bodies#i hate this place because i care about the people in it too much to stand by the way it treats them and it’s killing me#transandrophobia#transandromisia#transmisandry#virilmisia#virilphobia#anti transmasculinity#transmascphobia
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