#and now i am tired

[dare-g]

Drummed to cheer on the marathon runners today it ended up being around 5 hours which is tiring but it was a lot of fun!

[x22817]

Still a wiggly worm even after almost a full 6 miles today!

[holly-fixation]

I'll stop with the random posts soon but I gotta say this:

I have no idea how so many of you get so many asks. Like really. Weekly? DAILY? What are you DOING? How?! Teach me your ways!

[wheeboo]

thai tea w boba + banh mi >>>>

[lock-my-feelings-in-a-jar]

imagine me actually having things to do, i've barely been on tumblr at all today except checking in for 1 minute every so often

[mysillycomics]

[onceuponaladye]

I was being so good and productive

And then when my break was over I looked at how much I have left to do and now the motivation is gone :(

[firefrightfic]

to anyone missing my writing please know i am also missing my writing

[suntails]

growing up!

[bean-spring]

Hot take and not to be a killjoy or the shipping police but people treating Viktor or Jinx's aroace headcanons as if they were canon is not the revolutionary take people think it is.

Headcanons are always all right but we have to acknowledge that they are somehow damaging when they apply to stereotypes. It might not be the case for everyone but most of the time people unconsciously assume that disability/mental illness=asexuality. These headcanons erase the freedom of attraction from people who are already seen as unable to have sexual/romantic experiences/desires, when it's completely untrue and harmful.

You can headcanon Viktor and Jinx as aroace, but I have seen people changing their minds once Viktor is no longer disabled (s2 with all of his other forms) and Jinx is no longer as mentally ill (alternate universe Powder). And it speaks wonders of how people see these characters.

"I never thought about Jinx being able to feel romantic/sexual attraction until s2!" To believe she's actually only capable of that when she's not "damaged" is incredibly disturbing. Especially since Jinx has always had a bit of a flirty personality too.

"I've always seen Viktor as asexual, I don't know why!" That's fine. You can headcanon him as ace. But I believe there is a reason behind it, most of the time, if for some inexplicable reason the "vibes" of the disabled character are making you think he's ace.

I say all of this being aroaspec myself, by the way. Headcanon all you want but going to people's posts commenting how "it's weird for you that they have romantic/sexual plots when they're clearly aroace" is not a win at all. It's a headcanon, after all, and it should be treated as such, and that's fine. But it also is damaging to spread stereotypes like these.

Of course the disabled character is asexual. Of course the mentally ill character is aromantic. It's not as revolutionary as you might think, tbh.

Fandom is not activism and it's all right to have any headcanons you want BUT some of them are filled with damaging stuff and perhaps we should look into ourselves more before treating these assumptions as something canon.

[transthatfag]

destiel forehead healing kiss. what more could u want.

[mythicalcoolkid]

You don't wish your disability was worse or more visible, you wish your disability was taken seriously. Please stop confusing the two, I guarantee you would not get the support you need JUST by being more severe or more visible. Please listen to visibly disabled people when we tell you it isn't better on our side

[joshuamj]

Hero.

[pangur-and-grim]

Pangur is THRILLED that I have mono! her favourite thing in the world is napping with me

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

genuinely is my brain erasing itself or is google/tumblr censoring that post about notre dame and old growth forests.

[bostoncreamdonut]

“Viktor and Jayce have a brotherly bond, not everything has to be gay.”