#and like idk how to tell this to my grandparents
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୨ৎ CHRISTMAS TREE FARM — 🌲
summary : christmas for your girlfriend is uneventful and frankly boring, so you invite her to come with you to your grandparents' christmas tree farm for the holidays
pairing : natalie scatorccio × fem!reader
not proofread and uhhh 1.6k words jesus christ
a/n : uh uh uh this is my first fic so don't make fun of me... this is like a montage thing because i got bored when the scene was too long. ALSO tell me if nat is ooc pls. like I TRIEDDDD but idk. this is absolutely a taylor swift reference, but it's very loosely based on the song itself but I tried
you tap on nat's shoulder before the beginning of class, her head whipping back as if she didn't notice you beforehand.
"what are you doing for christmas?" you asked curiously, leaning over the desk with your knees on the edge of the seat.
"nothing much..." she shrugged.
"really?" your eyebrows quirked up, not really believing her. there's no way she was doing nothing at all for christmas.
"really." she nodded. "we didn't even put a tree this year."
your face contorted into one of surprise, not even a tree? "seriously?" you questioned again, to which she just nodded.
you felt bad for nat. she seemed so okay with doing nothing to celebrate, like it was normal.
she noticed the sympathetic look on your face, sighing as if she were used to it. "it's fine. I don't like christmas that much anyway." she assured, shrugging again.
you scoffed, immediately jumping to offer her a better christmas. "how about you come with me for christmas?"
"every winter break, my dad ships me off to my grandparents in pennsylvania. it's fun." you smiled, hoping she'd say yes.
"I don't know..." she repiled, trying to let you down gently before you cut her off quickly.
"come on, pleaseeeee!!! it'll be so much fun with you there!" you plead, leaving no room for interruption as you continued. "there's so much festivals and parties, and I never have anyone my age to be with pleasepleasepleaseplease—"
as you berated nat with pleases, the bell rung signaling class has now started, the class silencing, you now getting stares for your loud voice.
you found yourself blushing with embarrassment, sitting back correctly in your seat before the teacher started talking, nat stifling a giggle as she looked back to the front of the class.
after class and not very much convincing she agreed to go, and a week later, you two were in pennsylvania.
"so, what are we doing today again?" she asked, stuffing her hands in her jackets pockets, watching you tie your shoes.
"uhh well, first we gonna go eat and then go run errands for the party." you explained, standing up, meeting her at eye level.
she nodded with a grimace at the mention of 'party'. "do we really have to be at the party? can't we just stay in your room? we can watch that one movie with the turbo dude." she asked with a chuckle.
"what's with the push back on the party? you like parties." you smiled back, walking to open the door, letting her walk through first.
"christmas parties are completely different. It's just fruitcake and awkward questions about school." she scoffed, walking past you.
"it's not that bad." you followed behind her, closing the door and walking beside her. the cold biting at your faces and snow crunching under your feet.
you two made a b-line for the car, rushing in and turning the heater on.
"can we at least leave if it's as bad i know it will be?" she asked sarcastically with a shiver in her voice as the warmth hit her, her back hitting the passenger seat.
"fine. but you will enjoy it." you answered, relaxing in the car before you started driving. "sure i will." she scoffed as she smiled.
all you could hear was christmas songs on various speakers, adults chatting, and kids screaming and running like animals.
some were in the barn where it was warmer and smelt like food and pine, others we dancing under the pretty warm string lights hung on the trees and pillers.
nat clung to your side, only talking when it was to you or when your family members pestered about who she was in your life.
"y'know, I'm not sure how I feel about you call me just a friend." nat taunted, sipping on her apple cider that was still warm.
you scoffed and rolled your eyes at the tease. "shuddup." you push her with no real force.
"so you like it?" you asked, changing the subject. she tilted her head slightly in response. "the party." you clarified, making her click her tongue and nodded as she understood.
"its pretty, I guess." she shrugged nonchalantly. you looked at her with unimpressed expression. "nat."
"it's cute! not as annoying as I expected." she answered. "so you like it?" you raised your eyebrows with expectatance, and she sighed. "just a little." she smiled, looking around before quickly kissing your cheek.
after a week filled with christmas movies, parties, and festivals, it was finally christmas morning, and you were awoken by nats body warmth contrasting the cold of your room.
you sat up with a yawn, rubbing your eyes as the holiday spirit waited to invade your brain. you turn your head to look at nat sleeping comfortably on her side, and you had half a mind to just cuddle back to her and rest for longer, but you know your grandparents were early birds and would come to wake up any moment.
"nat." you croak out, your voice soft from just waking up, shoving her lightly in a half assed attempt to wake her.
"nattttt." you continue, shaking her shoulder before she started whining, waking, curling more into the blanket to where her fried blonde hair only peaked out.
"come on. it's christmas." you stated, shoving her again. you moved your body so you were sitting on your legs, facing her. "come onnnnnnn." you murmur, laying your body weight on top of her, hearing a muffled groan from the covers.
she poked her eyes out of the blanket, looking at you with a sleepy look on her face. "fine. get off." she mumbled, pushing you off of her with a smile, sitting up.
"I don't even see the point of me going down. you're the one opening the gifts." she argued, stretching her back.
"I got you plenty of gifts. obivously." you scoffed, acting offended at the notion of you leaving her giftless on christmas.
"okay, my bad then." she grumbles with a smile, giving you a quick peck on the lips.
the whole scene was pretty domestic. waking up on christmas together, getting her loads with gifts? adorable, right?
you sat back up with her, getting out of bed, urging her to do the same. she followed suit, the cold hitting both of you.
you both made your way downstairs, the warmth of the fireplace growing as you stepped closer to the living room.
getting gifts for nat wasn't that hard, not when all she talked about was rare cds and merch from artists that she couldn't afford to get herself.
"holy sh— moly..." she stuttered, whipping her head behind at your grandparents watching you two open gifts and the game simultaneously.
she looked back at the signed cd copy of 'bleach' from nirvana. "how did you get this?" she asked with wide, grateful eyes. "I dunno ask santa." you shrug with a proud grin.
she rolled her eyes, setting the cd next to her like it was made of glass. "well, thank you, santa." she played along.
you and nat glanced at the tree, and the torn wrapping paper and gift bags around you. "I think that's it?" you guessed with a shrug. your girlfriend copied you before gasping, scrambling to her feet. "wha—"
"just wait a sec!" she yelped, running back up the stairs.
"she's odd." your grandpa mumbled once she was out of ear shot. your eyebrows furrowed at the criticism. "don't be rude." your grandma scolded, hitting his shoulder lightly.
nat came rushing back, sitting back in her former spot in a huff. holding out a tiny gift bag. "it's just a little thing." she shrugged off before you got the chance to say anything.
the edges of your lips quirked up at the bag now in hand. "thank you, nat." you smiled. you took away the tissue paper, digging your hand in the bag and pulling out some of your favorite candy.
"that's not it." nat pointed before you could react. you continued digging in the bag, finding various trinkets and small toys that reminded nat of you. honestly the bag was pretty stuffed with things.
but the main thing that caught your eye was the cd that had a printed picture of you and nat, posing while you were mostly likely tipsy or high. or both.
nat watched silently as you looked and smiled at the gifts, trying to act calm, yet she looked at you with approval seeking eyes.
"I know it's kinda dumb bu—" she admitted before you cut her off. "no no no! it's great, nat. I love it." you assured with a chuckle, opening up the cd to see a handwritten track list of sings from various artists.
the gift was obviously very heartfelt, and you found your checking warming at the songs she chose.
she sighed and nodded in relief at your approval.
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you sat on the couch, as nat laid her head on your lap, both of you bundled in blankets infront of the fire as you watched home alone.
"hey nat?" you murmur, breaking the comfortable silence.
nat picked her head up, looking at you. "hm?" she hummed.
"did I give you a good christmas?" you asked softly, your hand continuing to play with her hair.
a smile appeared on her face before nodding. "yes. you gave me a pretty good christmas." she admitted.
"do you still not like christmas?" you questioned more with a slight smile.
she grin grew as she nodded again. "I like it a little more now." she she sighed. you couldnt help hut feel a little proud that you were the reason she liked christmas more.
"I love you." she blurted causally, and you couldn't help but laugh a little at the sudden declaration.
"I love you too, nat." you smiled back, running a hand through her hair. she hmed and grinned before moving to lay back on her lap, content with your response.
you furrowed your eyebrows in amusement before sighing and going back to the movie.
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okay boom done go away. I didn't even mean to post it rn my app just glitched whatever I'm gonna kms bye
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thinking about opening art commisions bc i want moneeyyy,, but i dont even knwo how the heck payments work rggrrggr
#and like idk how to tell this to my grandparents#<<they tell me i can like sell my art n stuff but they arent telling me how‼️‼️😭#idk wgar a paypal is....... im too scared to even do anythin abt it#mjght ask my grandparents abt it soon!! for now im just going to think ways to earn moneeeyyyy (i have no other ideas how)#cus like i saw a really cool plush i want.. is liek huge and i love huge plushies (its a pokemon plushie :3)#i keep on taking a bit too much whoopsies!!!! jus wanted to let this out there bc ive been thinking abt this for years now
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Hnngg
#im so stressed ughhhhh#this divorce is gonna end me man though im probably stressing out over nothing AGAIN#like tomorrow my dad's bringing some expert to the house to put a price on the house#and i literally have no idea whatever that's gonna be how we are gonna pay that shit lmaoo#also i just really don't wanna be there or be with them in the same house god i hate it when they're near each other#i am..... going through it more than i probably should since I'm an adult now n stuff but whatever#it's not like i can just stop feeling all this distress and grief n shit especially since he's already found a girlfriend#with kids and stuff and they've already been going to my grandparents ughhh i feel thrown away you know#it hasn't even been a year it's pissing me off so badly#i feel like killing myself every time i think about tomorrow and then I feel even worse when i think about later ughhh#i shouldn't be so distressed i really shouldn't#especially since I've been living my life on an incredible streak of luck so.#whateverrrrr#uhh like comment and subscribe#vent#i just gotta. cause there isn't anyone here i can really talk to since#everyone sees this so much more differently and sis is just always telling me im making it into something bigger than it is#but it's really stressing me out#idk i fear this is not gonna end nicely I don't even see him anymore#and it literally hasn't even been a year but he's not really talking to me but at the same time i don't really#feel like talking to him either so who knows uhh..
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im so tired of being a sleepy boy
#i napped for 2 hours bc i was so sleepy and still am. why.#i hydrated enough im not having an episode im not sick and no meds are causing it (i think) and the sun is not out so why!!!!#what am i supposed to do aaaaa!!!!!!! sleep for an entire day until i had sm sleep im sick of it?? 😭#i dozed off in the middle of sketching like cmon!!!#looking it up will tell me i have some rare kind of deadly disease and i dont wanna go to my doc and tell him im a sleepy googoogaga#this man is funnily enough my childhood doctor i went to before my adoption so he knows well enough how sleepy i am#considering my grandparents always tell i was fhe quietest baby ever and never screamed or cried they thought i just passed away or#was sick bc i just slept all day#so yss hes well aware of youn and his chronic sleepy sleepiness since baby times#actually thats over 20 years ago and my doc still looks the same#meaning super hot#which is confusing#this man did check ups on me when i was like 6 and 20 years later he kneads my popped out vertebrae back into place like im an old man#and he just looks exactly the same#this messes wifh my brain i think i need to nap on this#personal#tbd#idk why i rambled so hard while in the process of waking up my condolences if anyone read this far#im not even sleepy anymore bc i thought so hard about my doctor and his secret immortality my brain is actually working#🤔 ah
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reblog for a bigger sample size and please feel welcome to talk about your culture in the tags !!
#for me i think it might be social dynamics#im italian and slavic and theres like. nothing better than when i get together with family#and my grandparents (both the italian and slavic ones!) are like. overbearing. and tell me stories and make food#and my cousins and i are close. ajd we laugh a lot and !!! idk i just think its great#and i love that all of the other options are part of the social dynamics.#like. food brings us together. i cook with my grandparents#we can listen to music together!! if i we wear certain clothes we can all feel closer to our culture and therefore closer to one another!!#eurmm ueah! just wantwd to see how tumblr dot com felt :3#polls#my poll
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i’m gonna be real if my grandmother can understand “the people of israel aren’t at fault for what their government/military is doing, in fact many of them are actively against it, and both israeli and palestinian people deserve to live in peace in their own homes” then idk why so many online leftists can’t grasp that same concept
#.txt#visited my grandparents today and we got into talking about this#way too much shit treating israeli people as inherently suspicious#but then like i’ve seen the same shit against russians so idk why i’m surprised#idk how to tell u this but someone being from a country whose government/military does bad things#does not mean they support those bad things#if this understanding can be extended to usamericans why can’t it be extended anywhere else
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i honestly love having arguments that escalate to the point where the sensitive parent yells something incredibly disturbing and it's not even the first time this has happened but when it does happen you know shit's bad
#:-)#the nature of my autistic adhd is for some reason i attract fights like a magnet#if i'm too honest i cause fights if i'm not honest enough i cause fights if i don't say anything then why-didn't-you-tell-me oh idk.#maybe because you were busy telling me how i'm wrong#audhd#demand avoidance sucks ass. i can't tell if i don't want to do the thing because you're asking me or because i genuinely#don't have the capacity#it's probably both#it takes me such a fucken . long time to do anything. my processing speed is ass#i have to work slowly on anything to avoid missing details and#i don't know what counts as an average acceptible quality before moving on#im the only grandchild who has helped with rennovations on the late grandparents' place and yet#im a disappointment when i dont want to help#i just. i detest when i get given a false choice. then the choice i make is the wrong one.
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#really randomly fell down a weird rabbit hole today#i was watching the X-Files and finally felt like reading up on david duchovny#like i see u fellow slav what kind of slav are you#so i opened up his wikipedia article and saw that his dad was jewish and from ukraine and went like AHA WE ARE THE SAME#and just out of curiosity looked up the place he's from because im curious about jewish shtetls in the ukraine#because my whole family except my biological father is from several of them and i thought hey maybe they were neighbors#which they fucking are omg theyre just 20km apart#my greatgreatgrandma is from makhnivka which i even found articles and history about and how the jewish population grew & declined#even though i did not find any steinbergs in the archives#anyway when i read up on Berdychiv where duchovnys family is from it said#early settlement by the Chernyakhov Culture#which was an archeological culture between 200 and 500 CE existing at the same time as the roman empire#....... is this how i finally find out where my name is from??????? like?????????#i wish i knew so much more than i do#like i only found out that im not russian i was just born in russia like 7 years ago or so??? because my mom never tells me anything#all the information about my great great grandparents and where theyre from is from my grandma#and her dementia is really bad now and shes just angry and screams and calls people names#my russian is too bad to properly read up on stuff like that and theres barely anything in english or german#i just want to know idk#but genetic testing is too expensive and also very america centric and the only family i have in the us is super conservative#i had to block them on facebook when my grandma made me write to them once over 10 years agl#and i know a huge chunk of my grandmas family moved to israel too so i dont want anything to do with that either#although id be curious if it would actually find my half siblings i found out about also like 8 years ago#i just wish there were more archives and more people i could talk to about this#on my grandfathers side theres nothing really left#my grandfather passed suddenly and apparently before he did he took ALL THE FAMILY PHOTOS AND DOCUMENTS somewhere to maybe digitalise them#but we dont know where so theyre literally gone for ever#but his whole family was from kiev and is apparently named after this culture era#his dad was a higher up at a sugar factory and i still cant find anything#my grandma had so many cousins and they were so interconnected and knew so much and i literally just have my mom and no one else
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so nervuos for tmrw bc im seeing my cousin
#i love her so much But#Its my dads side of the family and i dont see them often at all and everything is always so awkward and#they dont know i dropped out of school and everytime my grandpa sees me he asks about school#and i havent seen him since before i Would have graduated this past may#like i would be graduated hs right now but#im not SO IF AYNYNE ASKS ABOUT IT IM GONNA LOSE ITTTT#god#hopefully my grandparents just wont be there Idk why they would bc im just going to hang w my cousin#but they tend to jumpscare me sometimes when i go out to see her#Gahhhgaaahhhhhahhaooouuoououou#i could just tell the truth bc idec about them knowing i dropped out its just embarrassing bc i lied for so long#buti just did bc when i first stopped going to school my mom told me not to tell anyone on that side of the fmaily..so..#i dont think shed care anymore either but its just been so long and ive never told them Augh#and my grandpa really wants me to go to college which i straight up just dont wanna do. not rn at least#and id need to get my ged first which ive been procrastinating on the entiire year Oopsies#my aunt always tells me not to listen to him thoughand that i dont have to go to college if i dont want to i am grateful for her..#shes always protective of me from him LOL i love my grandpa and he means well and stuff but#he will just say anything#and he always makes me cry in public or at family gatherings bc he starts talking to me about my dad#i knowppl just aska bout like school and plans for the future and stuff bc they care but i wish they wouldnt bc i do not know anything#i dont know a single thing about how my future is going to go or what i even want it to be or how im going to live and its stressful enough#already when im not being interrogated about it#Like lets just talk about something else. Lets talk about enstars#Isnt it crazy that shinobu has gone going on 15 months without a new 5*?..i think its a little crazy and i miss him
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yknow realizing my family was super fucking mean to me for no reason before i turned 18
#no cause. why did my parents threaten to beat me for having a low C almost D/ any missing assignments. but now whenever my mother finds out#about it she like. actually asks if i'm doing alright and not yelling at me to turn them in (she still wants me to do good but like. there'#no more threats?) i mean my bio dad might still do that but i don't tell him anything about my classes anymore#AND ALSO HOW I USED TO BE PICKED ON BY MY BIO DAD AND MY GRANDPARENTS WHEN IWAS YOUNGER FOR HAVING TEXTURE ISSUES BUT NOW THEY'RE LIKE#“oh yea i can't eat this food because i just don't like it” AND UNDERSTAND ME WHEN I SAY I CAN'T EAT CERTAIN THINGS.#i just GAHHHHHHH WHAT THE FUCK#i still remember when my mom and bio dad thought i was lying to them about losing my glasses when i was FUCKING 9-10. they thought i#hid/threw them out!!! and when i found them like a few years later because they were in a spot in my bag young me never really used#MY MOTHER STILL THOUGHT I PUT THEM THERE ON PURPOSE. THIS WAS YEARS AGO BUT I'M STILL MAD ABOUT IT#I HAVE BEEN TREATED LIKE A LIAR ABOUT THINGS FOR SO LONG TO THE POINT THAT I CAN'T HANDLE JOKES ABOUT LYING AND ALSO GET SCARED THAT#I'M NOT BEING TRUTHFUL EVEN IF I AM!!!#anyways :D#i'll probably delete this later idk i feel bad right now
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new challenge: how close can i get to getting a hysterectomy before my mother catches on that im trying to get a hysterectomy
#bc i asked her about gynecologists and insurance#i can’t imagine she’ll be like thrilled or even remotely okay with the idea#idk how to tell those two that they aren’t getting bio grandkids lol#they’re old enough to be my grandparents that’s just what they get
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my grandparents have never ever left their dog with anyone or left him alone at all and he's soooooo sad that they're gone. so I took him to the lake today to cheer him up and we splashed in the water (he cannot swim).. what I noticed about him tho is that everyone will stare at him but no one will ask to pet him. they'll just be like "cool dog" and nod their head at me like they respect us or something.... and I'm like... okay..... he's literally a gremlin......
#i know a lot of ppl love frenchies#and he IS rlly cute#but my grandparents got his whole akc badges and shit#and idk like... i get it... i feel like i should respect them when i see them in public too#like... this buff little guy can be appreciated from afar but i shant disturb him#hes got more important things to attend to rn#this is jarring though#because I used to have a teacup Pomeranian#and no one respected him or his space#they would just run up to me on public and start touching him and telling me how cute he was#it was terrible for the both of us
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im ... speepy :(
#thanon.txt#visiting family. grandparents and parents#but like i expressed frustration in how i didnt get a new job yet#and while the advice they gave me was like valid#and actually relatively useful#i got rly stressed out and frustrated over a couple of $100k job having bitches telling me#that i need to Get My Priorities Straight and all this other jazz.#WELL janet you see i am LITERALLY always busy.#because i work TWO jobs in this fucking economy#and im disabled (phys and ment)#but noooo i just dont have my priorities straight#maybe self care is my highest priority fuck you?#like i get it . i get it . in some cases ive been given alternatives to make things easier n stuff#but i straight up cried yesterday and have a headache today#ive definitely learned some things. like im gonna research keywords for different jobs and yada yada#but idk. the way i felt like i was being talked down to hurt#they arent dealing with the shitty job economy + living below poverty wage in this economy#i dont discount they did yada yada to get to where they are now but#fuck off? lol?
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I loooove my family because they are the reason I want to drink but the reason can't (alcoholism is on both sides and these people are messsay) : )
#my mom told the whole table that i have issues because i grew up with only one set of grandparents meanwhile the table had dead parents and#grandparents that abandoned them. so like idk man maybe this isnt the best venue#then my dad helpfully (not a lie) tells my cousin he really wants to punch my coisins dad and that my cousin should punch that old man#jesus fuck dude simultaneously im so lucky to have them and be in this place on the other the addiction is really bad so its not good#and like its not as bad as other people so im like omg I'm complaining. no these are real issues no matter how vanilla they may seem to some#anyway oh my gos
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walked up to my cousin’s step son after the wedding to see if he was doing ok & i was like ‘what u up to :D’ & he said ‘i got a new pet !’ & we looked at the table to see a yellow jacket he caught under the cup, which he described as a bee …. APPALACHIA
#stream#ALSJALSKLAKSLAKSALSKALSJALS#i fell in love w him then & there like ok …. ME AS FUCK#he’s 8#loveeee my 2 new cousins ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ the child & his father !!!!!! 😭😭😭😭#hicks & animal enthusiasts !!!!#also so my new cousin’s brother (my cousins new husband’s) died like 10 years ago (i’m not sure how maybe it was an overdose ? i didn’t ask#it’s not my business at the moment i’ll let the new cousin tell us when he’s ready to talk abt him which he does talk abt idk we just didn’t#know him so it’s not like ‘relatable’) BUT the mother at the wedding saw a dragon fly & took the stepson over said ‘look it’s xxx ! he’s at#the wedding’ like u know how u continue to see the spirit in animals after they pass - or pennies that’s another major one - or 2p coins too#bc it’s both our grandparents or maybe it’s just one w us then u know but our grandfather shows up in hummingbirds & i find my grandmother#in frogs so it’s like especially nice bc idk if the new cousins family knows that abt us but my auntie was telling us at lunch the other day#like it just means a lot like i found a 2 cent euro in the airport & i found a pair of pennies on the way to the airport i found a 2p a#few days prior & then i found a pair of pennies together when i was moving in so like im ON THE RIGHT TRACK I KNOW I AM#also my new cousin gave me a dollar & i’ve kept it next time i see them i’ll show them the dollar i think it’s funny#idk im sentimental like my bestie from highschool gave me 2 1$s saying ‘im poor i love u this is all i have & i want to show u how much i#love u’ we were probably drunk like also when she touched my bare foot bc she HATES feet like i’ve taken these DOLLARS EVERYWHERE#& now i’ve one of the lil like u know wallet photos that kp had for one of his visas so he goes w me too lol#i flat stanley him#anyway#I BELIEVE IN CHARMS IDK SUE ME FUCK U#IM SUPERSTITIOUS NO I DONT OPEN UMBRELLAS INSIDE NO I DONT WALK UNDER LADDERS NO I DONT WEAR A HAT INSIDE (UNLESS ITS A PUBLIC BUILDING LIKE#A SCHOOL OR WHATEVER IF ITS AN OFFICE ITS COMING OFF) ALSO I DONT WALK UNDER THOSE ROADS SIGNS ON 2 POLES IF UR IN THE UK U KNOW WHAT I MEAN#BC THATS LIKE BASICALLY A LADDER W 1 RUNG but i do make exceptions & it only took me 8 months to make them#see a magpie u salute
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My mother tells a lot of stories and admittedly my memory is undependable but every now and then she’ll start an anecdote like “as I’m sure you’re tired of me saying” as tho it’s going to be the most boring fact ever conceived and then drop “i met Tommy Douglas multiple times as a child”
#for those who aren’t Canadian or who were asleep during that social studies class#he was the guy who spearheaded our whole free healthcare Thing#after being on the ground for how brutal the 30s were for rural folks in the prairies#and apparently he was just a very kind man#he moved out west towards the end of his life and my grandparents were Politically Active so that’s how they crossed paths#Mum wouldve been just a little kid at the time#but apparently he would talk to her like he took her seriously#like this weird little kid living in poverty could have opinions and ideas that mattered#some people are capital-P Politicians in the sense that they’re slimy all the way to the tips of their toes#and some people are capital-P Politicians in that they’re genuinely interested in the people of their city/province/country#and want to find ways to make those people’s lives better#and you know chaboy is a staunch leftist but I truly believe that transcends ideology#anyway idk. it was like my equivalent of someone dropping that they hung out with an Olympian or whatever#which tbf my mum also does#also i keep telling her: i love hearing stories over and over again#BECAUSE my memory is not great and also bc im adhd and I literally!! don’t mind having the same conversations#also there’s always some new angle to it#it was fascinating years ago to do an assignment where I interviewed her about my (and my siblings’) births#and compare my recollected Tale with one particular telling from her#some of that’s telephone. some of that’s that the way she tells the story when trying to Provide A Factual Account#might be different from when she’s trying to emphasize the magicalness of it#or her frustration with my father#or what a comedy of errors it was#tell me stories fifty times. then tell me them again. i love you.
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