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Happy "New Digital Circus Episode" Day have a Ragapom Sexuality and Gender Headcanon pic
#artists on tumblr#my art#the amazing digital circus#tadc#tadc pomni#tadc ragatha#pomni#ragatha#pomni x ragatha#ragapom#buttonblossom#jesterdoll#harlequilt#rambling in the tags#anyway I'm a Demiromantic Bisexual Pomni TRUTHER#Ragatha Like's Women#and is nonbinary#Pomni is MtF#and goes by she/her pronouns#And Ragatha goes by she/her and they/them
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"they" is a pronoun that has the same rules as any other it's not a 'get out of misgendering jail free' card yes it's gender neutral no it doesn't mean you're allowed to use it to refer to someone you KNOW doesn't use that pronoun
#they is used if a) the person wants you to use that b) you Do Not know what the person wants you to use#if someone's like ''hey i go by she/her'' and you're like Ok. They :) congrats that's misgendering !#if you know someone goes by she and you call that person 'he' everyone would fucking agree that's misgendering#why should saying 'they' be any different ?#this goes fucking triple for neopronouns btw#it's not a ''i can't be bothered to learn your actual pronouns'' card either#someone goes by idk ze/zir and you use they/them that's Still misgendering it's literally not hard to understand#underlines the 'if you KNOW what pronouns the person wants you to use' part in red#because that seems to be the bit most people get confused about or at least pretend to in bad faith
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thank you undertale for having lowk the best rep out there for they/them characters (monster kid, nabstablook, frisk, chara, etc). like can we acknowledge that. nobody does it like undertale. toby fox you are a legend amongst men.
and just rep in general. dress wearing lion (either gnc or transfem im unsure). mad mew mew being the transfem icon ever. mettaton. undyne being the best lesbian (says me her no.1 lesbian fan). alphys being a bisexual mess. guard 01 and 02 being gay and going on a nice cream date.
undertale does this all so casually and without bringing attention to it or spoonfeeding it to the audience or giving a single shit. and that’s fucking amazing. undertale did queer rep right. toby fox i love you thank you for including queer themes executed perfectly in your stories
#toby fox in 2015 had better non-binary rep than so much media in 2024 and that’s wild#undertale#ily utdr#toby fox nobody will ever replace you#nobody does it like you tobington vulpus#seriously though if you wanna include rep just do what toby did#don’t include a throwaway ‘dramatic gasp. they/them pronouns… are new and exciting to me. i must know about them!’ no just have they them#people exist#no attention drawn to it. they’re just vibing#mad mew mew is pre and post transition across the course of the game so her discussing how she finally found a body that felt right is#relevant#but nobody goes ‘why do you use they them’ to monster kid or try to explain things to the audience#it’s just people existing#which is what should be the norm in queer rep#just people living their lives without having to explain themselves to people or have it pointed out#that’s what i want for myself and other queer people#to exist without being seen as abnormal and something you have to learn to understand#toby fox nailed that perfectly
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have you ever considered...that identifying out of woman/girlhood because you don't relate to the societal implications, expectations, etc... contributes to making womanhood (feel) even more restrictive? maybe you feel better when thinking of yourself as anything but a girl/woman because you do not feel like a woman (what does that even mean?) but in my opinion you just added another brick into the prisonwall that is gender.
#just my opinion#i wish it was more accepted to question gender identity and to encourage others to question WHY they dont feel like#they “fit” their gender#and your actions have consequences for others too#there will be girls after you who UNDERSTANDABLY hate being perceived as female but their take away will not be that society sucks for wome#and needs to be changed and change happens with every gnc woman and girl who stands her ground and says fuck you to the gendered expectatio#placed upon her from the moment of her birth#but she will take away that as she does not fit the narrow societal definition of womanhood that there is no space for her in it and#that SHE needs to change and this goes on and on until womanhood is simply the label for people who present the most sexist stereotype of#what a woman is#and the fact that i get asked for my pronouns since having short hair and the girl with long hair next to me isnt is a fucking sign of that#and also i beg you to question why a pronoun a tiny word other ppl use when talking about you is SO loaded with negative/positive#implications that it holds so much importance for you#all this applies specifically for ppl without dysphoria btw#i also believe that dysphoria is at least heavily influenced by societal expectations too but its a bit more complicated#personal#you may send me death threats now lol i dont even care anymore#radfem safe#radblr#radfems do touch
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i’m probably nonbinary but i have a fruitless and ultimately self-destructing revenge plot to carry out so idc about that rn
#icarus speaks#thinking about cpurpled again can u tell#i think it’d be really funny if like for 90% of the smp he was just ur average cishet man#but then somewhere in the months he spent alone in the las nevadas arc#he was like. what if i used she/her pronouns#and then NEVER thought about it again bc he had a duck to roast#it goes against every cpurp identity headcanon i have however it’s such a funny image#him hunkered in his fuckass cave with only a corpse and his dog#and going ‘hm. i wonder about this neopronouns stuff’#then going back to fantasizing about wringing quackity’s neck
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Shoutout to trans people who keep their birth name, btw. I love you and you’re so fucking cool. You are no less valid just because your name doesn’t “match” your current gender identity. (the idea of gendered names is bullshit anyways but we can’t deny it’s very pervasive.) If you change it later, awesome! If you still feel attached to your birth name and use it for the rest of your life, also awesome!! (This is valid for any reason btw. Sentimental reasons, cultural/family reasons, safety reasons, you just can’t separate your name from your identity, literally whatever.)
#brought to you by my transfem friend who still goes by Michael while used she/her pronouns.#she also dresses very masc and I love her for it.#also by my trans woman dnd character whose name is Luca James Keeley#morrigan.text#queer#trans#transgender#trans pride#and ofc while I have yet to meet a transmasc person who still uses his birth name they are also included in this.
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how do I convince my friends to watch 7 full episodic seasons of a 90s tv show. do kids these days even know who ezri is
#she’s a LESBIAN and she’s a PSYCH GRAD and she’s BAD AT HER JOB and she DOESNT REMEMBER HER PRONOUNS#S tier character#She goes home for Trill thanksgiving and her mom microaggresses her for her short hair
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Transmasc Leo is cool and all but y'all are missing out on the absolute hilarious scenario where he finds out he's biologically female and go "Oh. Oh. This explains so much."
And also the absolute chaos of going from the first one to come out as gay to the token straight. HOW are we missing out on this???
#rottmnt#trans-not-trans leo#leo was in a teen crisis thinking she was transfem but turns out no she was just cis all allong#and now she's in ANOTHER crisis because she lost all her homo swag#so she just decides to go by the two genders to avoid confusion but wants to incorporate she/her#actually he goes by the two pronouns not bc genderfluid but just to fuck with ppl around her#like hueso goes oh pepino you're un chico loco#enters mikey calling GIRL WHERE DID YOU GO?? STOP PORTALLING WITHOUT TELLING US WE ALMOST DIED- oh hey hueso#so yeah everyones very confused and Leo's having a blast#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#tmnt#trans leo#rottmnt leo#hueso
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Femmes, mascs, fems, butches.
Maybe it's the tgirl brain but presentation just isn't that important to me.
What's really attractive about a girl is that they're comfortable and confident in their presentation.
Boy in a girl way? Enby? All of those things? None of them? Cool.
Does it make you happy? Yes? Do you want head about it?
#monamumbles#monamoans#lesbian#trans#wlw#sapphic yearning#lesbian nsft#sapphic nsft#wlw nsft#fem4all#switch4switch#this is NOT a condemnation of lesbians who have a specific preference#thats how brains work#thats cool#this goes double for people specifically looking for a femme or butch where the cultural heritage is important to them#this IS a condemnation of people who pressure others into certain characteristics or behaviours to better fit their label#or who micro-police how people identify#if they identify as a girl / woman / lady in good faith? thats a girl#if they identify as a lesbian in good faith? thats a lesbian#all of this applies to women and lesbians who do not use she/her pronouns if that wasnt damn clear#UGH I just love women#and people who get gender with it
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Hihi! For yours:
wound: How does your OC handle being wounded? Are their wounds mostly physical? Mental? Emotional? What's the worst wound your OC has ever experienced?
Thank you for the ask Seris! :D
Aurinelle: Hmm, Aurinelle handles wounds like a champ, at least physically. He could have a pretty deep wound and have basically zero to no reaction to it, though this is also rather dangerous considering it often turns into “I don’t need to treat it, it’ll heal on its own” situation almost all the time. He’s very dismissive about physical damage to himself and often refuses to go to the doctor or nurse, which could eventually lead to a major infection because he’s not getting proper treatment.
While he does have a lot of mental and emotional wounds, his physical wounds are far more abundant, even if they’re not visible at plain sight. He has several deep wounds and cuts on his back, his legs, a permanent bruise that circles his neck which he hides with makeup, and a especially massive gash wound on the left side of his stomach from a life and death confrontation years ago (yes this is all new info).
That gash is his worst physical wound to this time, and the worst emotional and mental wound was probably his separation with his family. His mental state was left permanently damaged and agitated after that.
Paige: Minor physical wounds? He’ll just walk those off. Major physical wounds? He’ll try to walk those off, but will probably start panicking if there’s a lot of blood or a broken bone and will start crying while trying to get his shit together.
Paige’s wounds are mostly mental, from being called a fake fae for not having wings like his mom, to having his trust broken by an adult meant to look after him and her carelessness nearly costing him his life, to being trampled on and almost killed by ignorant people with no awareness to their surroundings. Yeah, this guy’s mentality is as wounded as it can get without him absolutely fucking losing it. But music is therapy so we ball 😝
Worst physical wound experienced was when his leg broke after being stampeded over and having his little kid body absolutely trampled by several adults trying to get a picture with his mum. He walks with a bit of a permanent limp now.
Worst emotional wound? Probably the time his parents accidentally left him behind during one of their almost yearly movings (they thought he was in the backseat). Poor kid nearly lost his mind and swore his parents just didn’t love him, thankfully he knew the neighbors at least enough that they’d be nice enough to let him stay till his parents came back. Worst mental wound was probably the time he drowned, he’s basically hydrophobic now.
Yuiishi: She wants to cry so bad but will hold back tears because crying is fucking embarrassing. She’s not afraid of blood or anything, but she hates being hurt so she has a pretty negative reaction to wounds.
Her wounds are mostly emotional, coming from a toxic religious household where her own opinions are oppressed, she’s always in a constant emotional turmoil.
The worst physical wound she’s ever experienced was probably either accidentally twisting her ankle while roller skating, or that one time she fell off her bike and the handle pierced through her stomach and left a permanent scar.
Worst emotional wound was when she heard her mom being extremely homophobic and judgmental, any thoughts she ever had about coming out shattered right then and there. Worst mental wound would be…. Uh, actually I’ll leave this one out for now. A little too much lore drop.
Tagging: @thehollowwriter @elenauaurs @tixdixl @cyanide-latte @distant-velleity @lumdays (ask to be added or removed)
#Reminder that Yuiishi goes by he/she/they#I will often be alternating between pronouns with her#So excuse me if it gets a little confusing#twisted wonderland#twst#disney twst#twst oc#twst ocs#disney twisted wonderland#octavinelle oc#ignihyde oc#ramshackle oc#aurinelle sireiwen#paige pegasus#Yuiishi Liranzo#Yuusona#twst yuu#twisted wonderland oc
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I wrote a short one shot fic about Mizu getting a portrait of herself done by a female Painter!Reader. I thought it turned out decently enough for me to share here too. Please enjoy and lmk what you think!
I don’t use [Y/N] in this, reader is simply referred to as “the girl”, “the painter”, or “the painter girl”. Just so I could keep it somewhat vague. There’s maybe only one physical description of the reader’s height but that’s about it.
#blue eye samurai#bes#mizu x reader#mizu x you#female reader#reader is female#Mizu goes by she/her but the reader believes her to be a man#feel free to use whichever pronouns as u read tho#my dumb posts#my post#ao3#ao3 fanfic#blue eye samurai x reader#blue eye samurai fanfic#bes x reader#bes fanfic
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speaking using they/them pronouns for someone: all good and dandy, rarely every need to specify who exactly im talking about in the conversation even if a group is involved
writing using they/them pronouns: im talking about a group of people but also that one guy who's nonbinary and i keep confusing myself when im rereading it and it takes seven rough drafts of the same paragraph for it to make any sense to me
#this is in no way being transphobic or homophobic or anything#its just me expressing a small struggle i have with pronouns in writing#this also goes for he/him and she/her and all other pronouns when multiple characters are involved#dont try to cancel me because of that please#writing#fan fic writing#writer#ao3 writer#writing struggles#pronouns
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A mutual told me about a super short fic on AO3 a while ago, it was so good I almost cried while reading, I remembered again and knew I just had to adapt it.
#moomins#moominvalley#art#moominland midwinter#moomin fanfic#moomin fanfiction#moomin fanart#salome the little creep#moomin salome#the big hemulen#the skier hemulen#the hemulen#hemulen#mr frisk#hhhhhhhhh her little baby hand paws to show just how tiny and vulnerable she is#the blue cold hues of Frisk's warm fur against the red hot hues of Salome's freezing paws#the way Salome's pronouns grow to the size of the rest of the text as it goes on. as she feels safer and safer#I'm very proud of those details#the fic is like poetry to me. I hope OP is doing ok
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"dad?"
eddie looks up from his book at where his daughter is standing in the doorway to his bedroom. it's late in the evening, a little past ten. she's already dressed for bed; one of eddie's old anthrax t-shirts and pajama pants.
the look on her face and the way she's using the door frame to hide herself tells eddie there's something wrong.
"you alright, sweetheart?" he asks, setting aside his book and patting the space beside him. she immediately goes, crawling in next to him like she's still seven years old and not almost seventeen. jesus, eddie thinks, his little girl is growing up right before his eyes and he can't do a damn thing to stop it. she curls into his side and rests her head on his shoulder.
she's quiet, which isn't out of the norm for her, but she's clutching onto the front of his shirt like a lifeline. eddie combs his fingers through her curly hair and smiles as he feels her slowly relax.
"you wanna talk about it?" he asks softly, kissing the top of her head.
more silence.
"when..." her voice is small as she speaks, nervous as she takes a shaky breath. "when did you realize you were different?"
the question surprises him. it doesn't take a genius to figure out what she means. when she was born, eddie vowed never to keep any secrets from her, including the ones that could be considered confusing for a four year old kid asking why she didn't have a mom like the other kids in her class.
still, he needs to be sure so he can quell the curiosity growing in his chest.
"different as in...?"
she huffs and rolls her eyes, not unkindly, and puffs out her cheeks, not meeting his gentle gaze. "when did you realize you were trans?"
oh.
eddie's eyes widen. he feels like a cold bucket of water was just dumped on him. his brain kind of shuts off for a few seconds because that definitely wasn't the question he was expecting. he clears his throat and shifts slightly.
"well..." he starts, thinking back. "i was around your age, i think. maybe a little older. why? is that something you're thinking about, maybe, exploring?"
he looks down at her and his heart breaks at the tears welling in her eyes. "hey, look at me." he cups her cheek and turns her face toward him. her bottom lip wobbles as she finally looks at him, her green meeting his brown.
he holds her face in both hands like she's the most precious thing in the world. "you know you can talk to me, right? about anything, especially about this." he waits for her nod. "and you know that there is nothing in this world, and i mean nothing, that will make me love you any less, you hear me?"
he thumbs away the tears that stain her cheeks and he's not far behind, himself.
she sniffles and takes a sharp inhale, her eyes still wet and her voice unsteady, "i think...i think i might be a boy."
a fierceness alights in eddie like he hasn't felt in a long time. he beams down at her proudly. "okay. what do you want to do about it?"
she frowns. "i...i don't know yet."
"that's alright," he tells her. "sometimes just putting a name to the feeling is enough for that moment. but when you're ready, i'll be here to help you figure it out."
that brings on a new wave of tears from the both of him and they laugh as they wipe away each other's tears. they settle down into bed, the unspoken agreement that she's bunking with him tonight like she used to when she was little.
just before he shuts off the light, she says quietly from where she's burrowed under the blankets, "i love you, dad."
eddie kisses the top of her head and lays down beside her. "i love you, too, baby."
#me: lets write single dad eddie feels#my brain halfway through: SURPRISE BITCH it's single dad trans eddie#his kid's name is skylar and she'll use she/her pronouns until she figures everything out bc gender is confusing#especially for a teenager still going through puberty#but once he does he definitely goes to his dad to get his top surgery scars tattooed over#eds#eddie munson#ftm eddie munson#trans eddie munson#c.txt#c.doc
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Still thinking about when my first and only experience with fandom discord imploded and the group of dumbass idiots that caused all the issues were like “UM ACTUALLY it was so transphobic and biphobic when the lesbians said they didn’t like these m/f ships because what if the person meant t4t bi4bi” (something that was never to rarely specified lmfao) but then EVERY time someone talked about an f/f ship the same ppl would butt in to be like “WELL I THINK SHE PEGS MEN ACTUALLY SHE FUCKS MEN AND LOVES IT HERES MY EXPLICIT THOUGHTS ABOUT HER FUCKING MEN” and were too fucking stupid and stubborn to see how this was uncomfortable and lesbophobic even when explicitly spelled out to them lmfao
#sorry every time I think about this it BAFFLES me#also tjem assuming anyone who was wlw was cis lesbian and then assuming that automatically made them transphobic and biphobic…. crazy shit#esp cuz the main sapphic they were targeting wasn’t even cis#in fact he was frequently misgendered and ppl even when ‘UM SHE GOES BY SHE/HER’ if someone actually used he/him pronouns#lol lol lol lol#y’all think fandom on tumblr is lesbophobic and misogynistic?????#truly has nothing on the discord ppl lmfao#and this was just one specific thing I could sit here all day listing weird fucked up shit they said and did regarding women esp sapphics#kaz rambles
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hear me out. transfem duncan.
her name is sabrina and she is the transfem dream. badass blonde chick + leather jacket covered in pins + doc martins + eyeliner enthusiast (gwen showed her how to do it) + always has the cutest hairstyles, like, girl can pull of space buns and braids and everything.
chris tried to capitalize off it and make fun of her after her transition but the other contestants were not having it
she and the people she used to bully when she was a huge eggy bitch are friends. and like, even if they're arguing, if someone calls her by the wrong name/pronouns harold+noah+zeke will go absolutely feral
#total drama#td duncan#tdi#duncan#td harold#harold: “um actually sabrina goes by she/her pronouns. sex and gender are two different things. gender is a social construct.”#and noah would just death stare you like *you motherfucker*#ugh i love the idea of her being friends with all the people she used to make fun of#totaldrama#td noah#td zeke#oh my god i wish zeke went through a cool liberal arc instead of whatever tf the zombie thing was#td ezekiel#ezekiel: “SABRINA IS A TRANSGENDER WOMAN!!!"
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