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I think violence is justified if the person is reeaaaalllyyyyy annoying
#you know I get conflict resolution#and being kind and empathetic#but sometimes#i think it would help#knock them down a peg#196#r/196#rule#r196#ruleposting#shitpost#shitposting#targeted post but EVIL
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shout out to the fan theory about alix and luka because they haven't left my mind in weeks...
#both of them being isolated by their miraculous#her being emotionally stunted as a stereotypical tomboy who rejects femininity and embraces toxic masculinity#and him being the most empathetic person in the show who is all about seeing people for how they are really feeling#i'm actually so obsessed with it not sure if it's romantic or not but i definitely see some kind of connection there#miraculous ladybug#mlb#alix kubdel#luka couffaine#viperion#bunnyx
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I just found your Itty Bitty Au and I have to say, I love how you've written Perry and the other fairies to be... just a bit selfish? How Perry won't consider turning Dev into a Fairy- not because he doesn't really care about him or thinks there's a moral issue with it, but because if he turns Dev into a fairy it'll negatively effect HIM. Also, super excited to see more of Timmy (both)!
Fairies are not like humans in that they have “Good or Bad” morals. Fairies, by nature, are extremely selfish. They don’t care for human conflicts, human goodness, or human morale.
A fairy’s first priority is doing their job right for their court, and their second priority is doing what they want most. Selfishness is innate for Fairies as Compassion is innate for Humans.
Cosmo and Wanda are outliers in that they care about their godchildren to an emotional degree. It’s what made them the best fairies to be godparents!! Peri… doesn’t understand that quite yet.
Bitties Series: [Start] > [Previous] > [Next]
#fairly oddparents#fop#fop a new wish#fop peri#fop dev dimmadome#fop dev#peri#dev dimmadome#asks#itty bitties fop au#FAIRIES ARE INHERENTLY SELFISH. IT THEIR MOST BASIC TRAIT#COMPASSION IS SOMETHING THEY MUST LEARN#cosmo and wanda loves timmy turner!! but their love is entirely selfish!!!! peri wants to be a godparent!! for selfish reasons!#another reason timmy fits so well as a fairy is because their selfish ways of living doesnt bother him. he's JUST as selfish as they are.#hazel could never become a fairy she's too kind too empathetic too too human.#peri likes being dev's godparent! he wants to make his kid happier!! but its not for the same reasons a human caretaker would have#not to worry though. peri will slowly learn how to be compassionate as the story goes on!!! prolonged exposure to humans will do that to hi#(also if ur confused about the gold floating around dev)#(thats the wishes dev has inside of him. that he's not verbalizing out loud)#(aka: uncollected fairy food)
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My OC Calyssa from the the game Touchstarved.
Fun fact about her name Calyssa (Καλλύσσα) – Comes from the greek words "kallos" (beauty) and "lyssa" (madness).
Her curse really intrigued me to mix some parts about her with Dionysus orphism especially having her route being an oracle. She can manipulate people with this madness and use it when necessary, but of course as a last resort, because she doesn't want to take advantage of people.
Many abandonment issues, many insecurities and of course... Being touch starved 😅
#she's a very empathetic person and sensitive but being an oracle has been in an environment where she learned to mask it#so the story is gothic dark and dystopic#a world where people more easily betray than show care#but i want her character to remain kind and compassionate in this dark world even if she tries to hide it#and to be honest i am kinda leaning into Vere#i know! a mischievous tricky fox god who's also very obvious he can kill? what can i say i like those dark characters xd#especially him meeting a person so unlike him 😂#my art#calyssa#touchstarved game#vere x mc#touchstarved vere#touchstarved oc#touchstarved mc#touchstarved
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Azula is fairly (way more than people give her credit for) empathetic toward people in her "in-group" and not very empathetic to her military and political enemies. Zuko is sometimes quite empathetic toward his "enemies" and strangers but does not tend to be empathetic to his "in-group," whether it be the Dangerous Ladies or the Gaang.
#Azula#Zuko#honestly i'm probably forgetting something#but the only time he sees really empathetic toward a member of the Gaang for me is maybe Sokka in the Boiling Rock episodes?#and maybe one scene with Katara in The Southern Raiders#with Azula Mai Ty Lee it never really happens#same with Toph Aang Suki#and honestly with Iroh#Zuko is obviously kind sometimes without being empathetic#but I never got a sense Zuko was ever understanding and engaging with Iroh's feelings for instance#even though Zuko did a few really kind things for Iroh
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#swear every time I see a video about gentle parenting and go to the comments#and see people bashing on or hating on gentle parenting#and they’re#saying things like ‘what kind of parent damages their kid by this horrible gentle parenting trend’#it makes me feel sad for this person#because my friend the basis of this parenting style and tactic is to be more understanding and empathetic with your child and allow them to#have a space for their feelings#while still maintaining boundaries#its as if they see the word ‘gentle’#and think wow you’re being to easy on your kids the world will be so much harsher to them#and yes the world will be harsh but you don’t need to be
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flowey and chara's relationship is always so interesting to me. when flowey absorbs everyone's souls and gains control over the timeline, he just wants to bring it all back to zero. back to when chara first fell. but he's already changed so much by that point - his and asriel's personalities and attitudes are almost complete opposites. would chara even still like him, if they met him as he was now? what if asriel's qualities that flowey buried and got rid of were what drew chara to him in the first place? what would he do if he realised that the person he is now, which was molded largely due to his past failures and regrets, is not the kind of person that chara would be fond of? what then?
#undertale#utdr#flowey the flower#asriel dreemurr#chara dreemurr#i think what drew chara to asriel was his kindness. how he was soft and empathetic and gentle. and how it was seemingly unconditional#i think chara's life before falling down was not kind. so when they met asriel who treated them kindly without expecting anything in return#it drew them to him. because up on the surface they were used to people only being nice to them to get something from them. or being#terrible from the get go.#flowey cares about chara. but would he have shown them that same kindness that asriel did back then?#like. flowey. the same flowey that wanted to kill chara over and over again so they wouldn't leave him.#i feel like chara could possibly see Flowey as just another one of the terrible people they knew on the surface. nice with ulterior motives#i just think it would be interesting if all the bad qualities flowey saw in himself and tried to stomp out were what chara liked about him
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Jaiden can recognize when someone else is playing Cucurucho. Just like the other Egg parents can differentiate when it's another admin playing their Egg, or if the Binary Monster is pretending to be their kid...
#i talk#qsmp talk#o(-(#I'm emo about Jaiden always being so kind to Cucurucho don't look at me#her empathy speaks to me I feel seen#Empathetic characters are a major weakness for me
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Begging people to stop seeing skills like compassion, care, kindness, empathy, patience, and whatever else less as inborn identities, but rather as skills. Essentializing "goodness" to the degree that you identify as kind rather than doing kind is going to destroy your self-image, but also what you think is kind.
#advice#i talked about this before probably but i hate when people essentialize Good Things to this degree#i would rather somebody try cultivating empathy rather than identifying as empathetic#because when you put so much stock into Being Empathetic you risk putting yourself in a space to rationalize when you aren't empathetic...#...you're not always empathetic and that is okay. quite literally we all do it. it's not going to send you to Hell...#...you aren't going to get a sentence in Bad People Jail until the sun explodes...#...you will learn what lead to the incident that you weren't empathetic about and you will learn what to do about it...#i just see essentializing these things as a mild red flag many times#anyway: you aren't a bad person because you're A Person. we all are. you just learn more about what that means#you don't have to be kind to do kind💛
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fav kind of interaction is when a neurotypical comes up to me with "omg we are SO similar we're practically same" and then prove their point by listing off traits I only possess as a part of my masking
#'ur so kind and empathetic and social and smart and-'#yeah ik how to make ppl believe im not worth their bullying#but hey thanks for complimenting my mask#i erase my true self w this one just for you#and then they get offended when i try to tell them that im not actually like that lmao#either bc 'stop being so demeaning to urself' (bc being low/no empathy#and asocial is undesirable to them)#or bc they take my attempt at fitting in to a society that hates me by proxy of existing#as a personal attack on them#autistic#autism#actually autistic#adhd#actually adhd#neurodivergent#actually neurodivergent#masking#autistic masking#adhd masking
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Love communicating with people who are actually positive and clear thinking
#empathetic and realistic positive thinking people are really nice#kind and sweet#being smart one of the things that really attract me#because i love talking about things#even simple things#for hours#discuss a topic and argue(ofc in a nice way) about it#respectfully#at all angles#so anyways#i also love helpful people#i love listening to people aswell#i like being this friend therapist#like yes tell me about your problems whats bothering you ill try to help give advice and hear you out
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in terms of how bossy ii characters are when they're playing together it goes from like marshmallow silver spoon and paper (ACTUAL playground dictators with a very specific vision for their games) to like goo suitcase and floory (literally dgaf what you tell them to do or what games they're playing. just happy to be there tbh)
#the idea of paper being SO BOSSY is very funny to me cuz like he basically is in canon??#he's empathetic and kind and tries to be friendly to everyone but he also has an incredibly short fuse#and i feel like running the hotel w/ oj has just enabled him. he's bridezilla coded i fear#txt#inanimate insanity
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the thing that rly frustrates me the most of this situation is like despite the #horrors im actually like kind of a very slay and capable person and like yes im figuring it out but its taken the better part of a year and i will likely live with consequences for some time and its largely like not even my fault like yeah there are things i wish i had done differently but most of it has been out of my control and like idk it just makes me sad thinking about how many people who get in these awful awful situations and can’t do as much as i can like i dont want this to sound like high and mighty or whatever but god I just don’t understand how so many people can see so much human suffering and be like yepppp that person definitely did that to themselves and deserves it and we should definitely keep letting billionaires control everything eyup like how do u live with the guilt like maybe this is just what growing up in a religious cult does to a motherfucker but if that were the case wouldn’t the people currently in the religious cult be feeling intense guilt????? idk man but whatevah I will make it out im actually quite hopeful and appreciative of most of my life experiences yup yup yup i do kind of think my family should maybe go to hell but rly I mostly just hope they can heal enough someday to see the harm they’ve done and better themselves #healing
#every time i see that like world of shirts or whatever guy in tiktok with people being kind of evil in the comments#like ok I don’t know anything about him maybe he has done deeply bad shit idk#but lolcows kind of just make me sad I rly don’t like seeing people’s descent into terrible situations like that…#I think sometimes I can be a little tooooo empathetic and forgiving#but if im being honest I would rather that than be like so hardened by my shit idkkkkk
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something about what fenris says when he meets orana, when she says everything was fine until today and he replies "it was never fine you just didnt know" (i think he says that but i could be misremembering the second part)
#like it mirrors a lot i think his story about how he killed the fog warriors#honestly i think fenris's perspective on how slavery messed up someones mind is very interesting#bc he talks about how like. his whole life was that - being danarius attack dog#he didnt have a will of his own he didnt know what a life really was until he was with the fog warriors and even still he killed them#and it was only then that he escaped#and he sees that in orana#bc yeah it was never fine she was a slave her father was one too#but when that is your whole entire life and all you've known its hard to see that#(and on a personal note i wouldn't put it past the tevinter magisters to do some fucked up blood magic shit#to keep them compliant)#also something about fenris character is that he is very empathetic and understanding when it comes to#some situations#like if you bring him along to do the magistrate's orders#when lia shows up he's actually pretty kind? like he understands that she's a child#that doesnt have a full grasp of the situation#idk i just really like him his character and the perspectives he brings
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the way i think about learning and education changed sm compared to when I was younger
#like i cared so little about school when i was younger (altough maybe now i might do a little too much)#but not just that... i thought i'm just not that person who can do well at school#i can't memorise stuff well enough and i'm probably stupid anyway but who cares about that stuff and school#and i won't need it for life anyway other skills are important in the real world anyway that's all useless#i guess i also had that idea that one day i will just come up with some grand idea or business type thing to make money#i mean that's also that kind of stuff u see all over the internet and i def saw too much of that#and sure that's possible but how often and even then is it even so great having that type of job where ur never off#and like other jobs which are achieved though education have a lot of beauty too and there are many great routes which require education#at first i didn't even want to go to uni because i was so sick of school and i believed i wouldn't belong there anyway bc of those reasons#and because i thought i was too stupid in that way to make it#i also had this weird view of looking at some smart people as know it alls or being pretentious and i didn't wanna be all that??#still don't know why i thought that?? it honestly sounds sooo stupid and i also thought i wouldn't fit in with uni students anyway...#like i'm so different... couldn't have been more wrong#i never felt more belonging than at uni like this is where i'm supposed to be - the great people i met there and friends i made#and my awesome professors#i actually admire some of them so much 🥺#like i wanna be like them - whatever path i will end up in jobwise#might become a teacher too or even a professor (dare i dream lol) or sth with media could also be a great option 🤭#but what i mean why i admire them sm they're so intelligent but also many of them such great people#like empathetic helpful and idk i just love smart people#they're so well spoken and i highly value people who really know their stuff well by now and they certainly do#but not only that also having such great general knowledge u can have such interesting conversation with such people#and many professors actually have opened my eyes to many issues of our our world and made me rethink and change some of my views#or just things i wasn't even aware of bc we all live in our little bubble at time at least i certainly did#only obsessing over my little life and sometimes turning the head away from cruelities elsewhere#and i feel being an intelligent person is actually so cool now and i wanna know important stuff on many topics but especially...#about what i then can use for my future job or whatever i do in life and nothing i learn feels pointless now or almost nth#but even then useless stuff in school it wasn't all for nothing if u had approached it the right way#just learning by itself can teach you important skills and knowledge like how to learn - how to memorise stuff the best way...#or finding out what ur capable of and growing ur self esteem it's all valuable in some way
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NORTHERN EXPOSURE 3.12 “Our Tribe”
#the way that this is empathetic-and-enduringly-kind-chris-in-the-morning speak for 'joel. stop being a whiny little baby. get it together.'#the inhale. the pause. the eyebrows even. like 'i'm sorry that people care about you? lmao?? what a nightmare!'#and his i'm-not-mad-i'm-just-disappointed face! underrated chris moment honestly#northern exposure#northernexposureedit#noexedit#uservintage#grandmastv#john corbett#myedit
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