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I think violence is justified if the person is reeaaaalllyyyyy annoying
#you know I get conflict resolution#and being kind and empathetic#but sometimes#i think it would help#knock them down a peg#196#r/196#rule#r196#ruleposting#shitpost#shitposting#targeted post but EVIL
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I just found your Itty Bitty Au and I have to say, I love how you've written Perry and the other fairies to be... just a bit selfish? How Perry won't consider turning Dev into a Fairy- not because he doesn't really care about him or thinks there's a moral issue with it, but because if he turns Dev into a fairy it'll negatively effect HIM. Also, super excited to see more of Timmy (both)!
Fairies are not like humans in that they have “Good or Bad” morals. Fairies, by nature, are extremely selfish. They don’t care for human conflicts, human goodness, or human morale.
A fairy’s first priority is doing their job right for their court, and their second priority is doing what they want most. Selfishness is innate for Fairies as Compassion is innate for Humans.
Cosmo and Wanda are outliers in that they care about their godchildren to an emotional degree. It’s what made them the best fairies to be godparents!! Peri… doesn’t understand that quite yet.
Bitties Series: [Start] > [Previous] > [Next]
#fairly oddparents#fop#fop a new wish#fop peri#fop dev dimmadome#fop dev#peri#dev dimmadome#asks#itty bitties fop au#FAIRIES ARE INHERENTLY SELFISH. IT THEIR MOST BASIC TRAIT#COMPASSION IS SOMETHING THEY MUST LEARN#cosmo and wanda loves timmy turner!! but their love is entirely selfish!!!! peri wants to be a godparent!! for selfish reasons!#another reason timmy fits so well as a fairy is because their selfish ways of living doesnt bother him. he's JUST as selfish as they are.#hazel could never become a fairy she's too kind too empathetic too too human.#peri likes being dev's godparent! he wants to make his kid happier!! but its not for the same reasons a human caretaker would have#not to worry though. peri will slowly learn how to be compassionate as the story goes on!!! prolonged exposure to humans will do that to hi#(also if ur confused about the gold floating around dev)#(thats the wishes dev has inside of him. that he's not verbalizing out loud)#(aka: uncollected fairy food)
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flowey and chara's relationship is always so interesting to me. when flowey absorbs everyone's souls and gains control over the timeline, he just wants to bring it all back to zero. back to when chara first fell. but he's already changed so much by that point - his and asriel's personalities and attitudes are almost complete opposites. would chara even still like him, if they met him as he was now? what if asriel's qualities that flowey buried and got rid of were what drew chara to him in the first place? what would he do if he realised that the person he is now, which was molded largely due to his past failures and regrets, is not the kind of person that chara would be fond of? what then?
#undertale#utdr#flowey the flower#asriel dreemurr#chara dreemurr#i think what drew chara to asriel was his kindness. how he was soft and empathetic and gentle. and how it was seemingly unconditional#i think chara's life before falling down was not kind. so when they met asriel who treated them kindly without expecting anything in return#it drew them to him. because up on the surface they were used to people only being nice to them to get something from them. or being#terrible from the get go.#flowey cares about chara. but would he have shown them that same kindness that asriel did back then?#like. flowey. the same flowey that wanted to kill chara over and over again so they wouldn't leave him.#i feel like chara could possibly see Flowey as just another one of the terrible people they knew on the surface. nice with ulterior motives#i just think it would be interesting if all the bad qualities flowey saw in himself and tried to stomp out were what chara liked about him
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Thinking the awful thought of how much worse the curse could have potentially gotten if April and Splinter had been affected somehow.....or even just. If Donnie had decided to stay at April's for a while out of the belief that maybe if he was out of the lair things would calm down. Like, would they have eventually gone looking for him because the "dying" part of the curse wasn't fulfilled yet? Would they have eventually been willing to put APRIL in harm's way because the curse made them think she was trying to protect him or something? Like the fact that this could have easily been made EVEN WORSE by just a few small things is what's gonna keep me up at night OP (pos) (Also I'm so so curious to know what the trigger to the curse starting even was, if it was a spell that was cast or something that was a small detail in the fic that nobody's picked up on yet, and if Raph Leo and Mikey even noticed anything was off or not until it was far too late. I am connecting dots that haven't even been fully connected)
dude dude dude i think about it a lot. how if donnie had stayed with april, it would have been worse (and there's a very good chance they could've lost april in the line of fire, too, if he was safe with her for a long while. the curse doesn't change their feelings on each other, it'd just have to get bad to a point where they would GENUINELY put their murderous hatred for someone above her life). how if he'd actually gotten out instead of running for his dad, it would have been worse. the curse would get worse and worse and worse until he died, and the longer it was held off, the more aggressive the treatment. the exact situation he was in saved his fucking life. raph putting his hands around his throat saved his life. that was the best possible outcome short of him being consciously aware of there BEING a curse, and he was too far gone for that to happen.
its sososososo tragic. like they're more grateful than ANYTHING with april doing what she could while they couldn't, even if she was stumbling in the dark, but that had the potential to have been dangerous and i dont even think they'll ever realize that.
#ask#canary continuity#scene im sad i couldnt include in ME:#april lied to them. when they asked her where donnie went#after he ran off she said he never came to her. it was a direct lie#its not really important how they realized he went back to the lair#i dont have a concrete answer. doesnt need to be one#but april held them off#and i wanted her to admit this to raph kind of guiltily#say that he spent the night with her and that she did what she could#and raph just. throws his arms around her and in a tiny pained goes “thank you. thank you. thank you”#because he had SOMETHING. a night of sanctuary where someone actually held him close#and she held them off. that is so fucking important to him that she held them off and kept him safe#and april empathetically cracks at his despair and they just cry on each other... yeag#i couldnt include it because i couldnt find a way to but ive had a strong visual image of it for a while so. there you go#maybe one day ill include an april pov of the news being broken to her#or maybe i wont. its free game#im undecided <3
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Jaiden can recognize when someone else is playing Cucurucho. Just like the other Egg parents can differentiate when it's another admin playing their Egg, or if the Binary Monster is pretending to be their kid...
#i talk#qsmp talk#o(-(#I'm emo about Jaiden always being so kind to Cucurucho don't look at me#her empathy speaks to me I feel seen#Empathetic characters are a major weakness for me
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Begging people to stop seeing skills like compassion, care, kindness, empathy, patience, and whatever else less as inborn identities, but rather as skills. Essentializing "goodness" to the degree that you identify as kind rather than doing kind is going to destroy your self-image, but also what you think is kind.
#advice#i talked about this before probably but i hate when people essentialize Good Things to this degree#i would rather somebody try cultivating empathy rather than identifying as empathetic#because when you put so much stock into Being Empathetic you risk putting yourself in a space to rationalize when you aren't empathetic...#...you're not always empathetic and that is okay. quite literally we all do it. it's not going to send you to Hell...#...you aren't going to get a sentence in Bad People Jail until the sun explodes...#...you will learn what lead to the incident that you weren't empathetic about and you will learn what to do about it...#i just see essentializing these things as a mild red flag many times#anyway: you aren't a bad person because you're A Person. we all are. you just learn more about what that means#you don't have to be kind to do kind💛
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was reading the original saw script and:
WHAT THE FUCK THIS HURTS MORE THAN THE LINE THEY WENT WITH
#lawrence ‘you wanted to die’ gordon count your fucking days#glad that they made his character kind of more empathetic in the actual film#even if his lack of that was why he was in the trap in the first place#genuinely if they’d kept adam being suicidal in the film i don’t think i would’ve been able to cope#saw#saw franchise#adam stanheight#lawrence gordon#chainshipping
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fav kind of interaction is when a neurotypical comes up to me with "omg we are SO similar we're practically same" and then prove their point by listing off traits I only possess as a part of my masking
#'ur so kind and empathetic and social and smart and-'#yeah ik how to make ppl believe im not worth their bullying#but hey thanks for complimenting my mask#i erase my true self w this one just for you#and then they get offended when i try to tell them that im not actually like that lmao#either bc 'stop being so demeaning to urself' (bc being low/no empathy#and asocial is undesirable to them)#or bc they take my attempt at fitting in to a society that hates me by proxy of existing#as a personal attack on them#autistic#autism#actually autistic#adhd#actually adhd#neurodivergent#actually neurodivergent#masking#autistic masking#adhd masking
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hold on. i’m rewatching s1 ep1 of pd right now and i know i’m freaking out over the smallest details but come here.
i know jimmy was more of a side character/throwaway npc in the grand scale of prime defenders but he’s actually insanely interesting and amazing simply because of the context he provides narratively, mostly for the setting they live in and for dakota’s character. in ep1, he talks about dakota not being on the soccer team this year, and dakota mentions how “something happened over the summer, and i just don’t think it’d be fair [for me to play anymore].” this is a really good use of chekhov’s gun on dakota’s behalf (referencing his whole heart procedure), but also it got me thinking more about pre-canon dakota.
it’s established in the first episode that dakota and jimmy already know each other, and that dakota was going to centurion high as just a normal student before he met will and vyncent. given this context, and also the fact that dakota and katori were also implied to have been going to the same school when they were friends, i think it just gives dakota so much more texture and backstory when you Know everything else about him.
specifically it makes me think about dakota’s relationship with katori, and how he described her as “just another kid who was trying to get away from something, too.” i think that katori was kindhearted but pretty socially awkward, and thus was likely a target for being picked on by kids like jimmy, which explains dakota’s “strategy” of sorts where he acts friendly towards bullies and tries to defuse situations if possible, but if they won’t stop nagging on his friends then he’s usually throwing the first punch.
he was probably protective of katori since she was his closest friend, and this kind of thing reflects really well in episode 1 with his defending of william from that same bullying. i think that entire defense, combined with him trying to shoulder the grief/guilt of what happened to katori mere months before canon, as well as his likely anger because jimmy probably didn’t even notice when she was there or that she was gone because to him she was just “another random dweeb” (and the fact he doesn’t really care enough about dakota to notice either) is just. it’s a lot of amazing, semi-accidental context and texture and characterization added to this story and this setting that is so amazing. dakota shone so much in season 1 because the setting was his home; he was the only one in pd familiar with the city and the people within it. and this is known, and it’s used so brilliantly to tie into his backstory and his family and his relationship with his aunt. i just think it’s really neat
#also there’s some kind of message there with how katori is implied to be canonically japanese and how william is very queer coded#i think a lot of dakotas story can tie into systematic racism + classism because of how and where he grew up so he’s going to be empathetic#towards and protective of minorities. does this make any sense#(< also why i personally headcanon him as being mixed black and latino/native#vixen rambles#jrwi#jrwi pd#dakota cole#katori blake#jrwi katori#jrwi jimmy#jrwi pd spoilers#pd spoilers#jrwi prime defenders
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[oc] Too kind 🕊💐🌸🌺🌹
#art#digital art#digital illustration#original character#oc#concept art#concept design#artists on tumblr#character design#another concept update#character concept#kindness is a gesture not an invitation#hes actually not too kind canon wise fortunately#hes more on being wayy too empathetic to others#i also drew this in an artblock so :’D
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"damian is a murder and an assasin!" "Hes a sociopath" "he killed Dick!"
hes a little guy. he's just a wee lad. he literally looks like this
you failed to grasp the bare fundamentals of what it means to be human and you should not be allowed to spread your dereliction on the masses
#batfamily#batgirl#batman#comic books#dc comics#damian wayne#dick grayson#dcu#daddy issues#bruce wayne#robin#batman comics#Damian Wayne serves as an example of what it means to strive for perfection in a world where everyone has a different definition of what pe#perfection required being a faultless killer capable of taking lives without care or mistake. However#Damian's world was turned upside down one day when he was placed in a position where he had no concept of what being perfect meant. With Ba#perfection meant being optimistic#kind#and a light in the darkness - all traits that Damian was taught were weaknesses. Even with Dick#who desired Damian to be honest and empathetic#Damian struggled to reconcile the various definitions of perfection. Unfortunately#Damian could never be perfect in any situation. He would always be too much for his father and not enough for his mother. He would be too v#but too kind to be an assassin. Damian was too cold to form friendships#but too human to not desire them. The outright and purposeful ignorance of certain DC fans regarding Damian's valid traumatic experiences d#which itself was a traumatic experience. Dick's death was a tragic accident that Damian would mourn for the rest of his life. Damian has de#and I cannot accept it as a valid difference of opinion.
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I'm having too many thoughts about Pyramid Steve. what if I made another au
#gravity falls#pyramid steve#HEAR ME OUT#what if steve being there made bill more empathetic by nature because he felt responsible for the Single Other Euclydian#what if Bill put alllllll his mental health on Keeping This Guy alive and happy and thats like half of why he collects henchmaniacs to part#like. steve has to have buddies and Activities to do.#and what if this empathy meant that when he started connecting with Ford as a Real Friend instead of just as a puppet#(you cant tell me part of bill didnt think of Ford as a Real Friend cmon. just. look at the evidence.)#that maybe Bill would want to stay with him for real and not destroy his dimension but just kind of live there?#what if I did a grunkle bill au as part of this steve thing. what if I killed two birds with one stone#FUCK i think I talked myself into it. now it needs a name I guess#isosceles not isolated au
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me going anywhere without bellara: i wish bellara was here
#i love her so much!!!#her voice acting is so great and she's so empathetic without being a pushover#i love love love when women are depicted as kind with a strong sense of justice#i'm mixing up my party a lot because i know once i get taash it's going to be hard to let either of them stay back
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NORTHERN EXPOSURE 3.12 “Our Tribe”
#the way that this is empathetic-and-enduringly-kind-chris-in-the-morning speak for 'joel. stop being a whiny little baby. get it together.'#the inhale. the pause. the eyebrows even. like 'i'm sorry that people care about you? lmao?? what a nightmare!'#and his i'm-not-mad-i'm-just-disappointed face! underrated chris moment honestly#northern exposure#northernexposureedit#noexedit#uservintage#grandmastv#john corbett#myedit
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Sam is stubborn and outwardly reserved, holding his emotions in check. It’s a trait he learned at a young age. His dad and brother were emotional people, prone to explosions and maudlin moods, but they valued strength and stoicism above all else and would tease at any softness they found. By the time Sam was thirteen he knew better than to let slip in front of them. By the time he was seventeen he didn’t let slip even when he was alone. Instead he learned to dissect his emotions intellectually, to pick them apart and puzzle them out like they were a riddle that needed solving rather than letting them run their course. It was fucked up and unhealthy, but so was his life. As a grown man, he lived through or came back from trauma that would land most people in permanent psychiatric care and still he rarely breaks down. He flinches at certain types of noises, at fast or violent movements, he has nightmares that make him keen and weep in his sleep, and occasionally he sinks so deeply into flashbacks that he loses himself for hours. But even as a teenager he didn’t just burst into tears. Sure, he’d get so frustrated and angry that he’d end up with tears blurring his eyes sometimes, but that’s not the same as crying, not to him, even if his dad and brother would occasionally still give him shit for it. But he didn’t call them out on how soft and sad they’d get when either of them were three quarters of the way to the bottom of a bottle. At least not unless he was feeling particularly spiteful. Because that’s another thing about Sam, he seemingly exists for long stretches of time on a heady concoction of stubbornness and caffeine seasoned with a dash or two of raw spite. He has survived what would put most people six feet underground permanently because he’s got something to prove. And he is capable of literally walking through Hell and back to prove that he can, proving it to his brother and the rest of the world, but mostly proving it to himself. Proving that he IS good, that he does more good than bad, and that he cares enough to keep at it despite everything going against him. And even though he knows that showing emotions (or even just having emotions) doesn't equal weakness, he struggles with expressing them outside of an intellectualized way. He struggles with allowing himself to be vulnerable because vulnerability IS a weakness, one that can be disastrous.
#sam winchester#too often I see people characterizing Sam as being very sensitive as a teen#the kind that burst into tears and falls apart at the drop of a hat and I just do not see him that way#so I'm just trying to work out how I see him#to be clear Sam is a kind and empathetic person who is also very reserved and intellectual in his response to things
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i thought about it some more and while i hated the epilogue and despise the choice of killing toga i think horikoshi did an amazing job with ochako's conclusion. she fully became her own person apart from izuku and truly fought to spark some change in society. to me she's the greatest hero among all of them. she's what everyone should strive to be.
#she never stopped being kind and empathetic while still determined and just#she is what izuku should have been#i love her so fucking much. the ending made me love her even more#and i love (wow i actually love something about the ending) how horikoshi didn't make izuocha canon#people would reduce her to just that#anyway i have this pro hero ochako x nurse toga au i saw in my head 24/7 now#ochako uraraka#bnha spoilers#my hero academia
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