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kingkrillin · 3 days ago

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just need to share how much I dislike this post lol

people will fully expect trans men to put ourselves on the line for everyone else and meanwhile the only time they acknowledge our existence is to talk about how "low risk" we are (obviously untrue) or to volunteer us out as a community for potentially dangerous activist endeavors that they wouldn't risk doing themselves

"we need to get uncomfortable!" and what's actually being discussed is convincing a subset of the community to be uncomfortable on your behalf while you do nothing to show solidarity with us

#transandrophobia #also all it does is reinforce passing privilege #because the assumption here is trans men automatically pass so well that it's dumb to be transphobic against us #like what does this accomplish it's so insanely misguided #also the climate of reproductive rights in the US is a mess right now and telling guys who are potentially at risk in that area #to go rile up cis people for basically performance art #is a terrible idea #not even suggesting how you would go about this in a way that would keep the protestors safe #just being like GO DO IT BOYS LOL #and then being resentful when people point out how stupid this is #this person literally never even talks about transmasc issues btw #they've brought us up entirely Once and it was to imply we face no transphobia and should protest on their behalf #it frustrates me how disconnected the rest of the community are from our issues and they mostly ignore us then talk about us like this #if you're not capable of showing solidarity with us then just don't mention us honestly!#idc if you don't center us in your politics but leave us alone lol!#we're not your pawns or tools in activism we are a vulnerable community who faces much of the same problems as you

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drrav3nb · 5 months ago

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AYO EDEBIRI as Sydney Adamu WILL POULTER as Luca THE BEAR SEASON 3 | Episode 10 - Forever

Are you close? Yeah. Kind of best friends and kind of lost touch, so. It's nice to reconnect. Yeah, especially when it literally is like a best friend that you saw every day of your life and you kinda went through this sort of battle together.

Bonus:

#the bear spoilers #the bear s3 #the bear #sydney x luca #sydluca #sydney adamu #luca the bear #ayo edebiri #will poulter #the bear fx #tvandfilm #cinematv #the bear hulu #sorry y'all but bye sydcarmy and i am now a sydluca shipper!#cuz how these two have more warmth in one scene than anything sydcarmy had all season????#i need sydney to get a partner that actually listens to her instead of arguing #and she radiated such feminine energy in this scene and omg if that don't show how relaxed she felt around him and safe too omg i need more #next season i better see him courting her cuz i'm done with whatever was up with carmy this season #they've literally destroyed any hope of sydcarmy even happening at this point :(#and look how he reacted when the other guy walked in - he wanted to be alone with sydney!!! T_T #AND THEIR HEIGHT DIFFERENCE OMGGG MY BIGGEST WEAKNESS!

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cut-n-snared · 6 months ago

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looking back on stuff and realising you don't actually have any friends

#actually bpd #bpd safe #bpd vent #actually borderline #actually mentally ill #bpd problems #bpd thoughts #bpd #mental illness #depressing life #i hate it #feeling alone

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3m0g1rlyyy · 5 months ago

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am i just too much?

am i not enough?

am i too hard?

am i too soft?

am i too normal?

am i too weird?

am i too loud?

am i too shy?

am i too cold?

an i too nice?

am i too depressed?

am i too happy?

am i too serious?

or am i too unserious?

Tell me what am I? What is the real me?

What is the me people will like?

What is the me people won’t leave?

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batcavescolony · 1 year ago

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Tim: I love Christmas

Jason: did your parents celebrate with you or something?

Tim: no, but while at boarding school my roommate wanted to watch Home Alone and I just loved the idea.

Steph: oh this will be fun

Tim: so I forged my parents signature and signed myself out. Took a cab home and set trapps all throughout my house. Now that was fun but I wanted to whole experience so I hired two goons to break into my house.

Jason: what the fuck?

Tim: they didn't get permanently hurt, I wasn't cruel. I did give them payment and obviously I didn't want my parents knowing so I just let them go after. It's was fun

Steph: sounds like you.

Tim: hey, we should do that! We have better training and traps! It could be Family bonding!

Steph: YES!

Jason: ...that does sound fun. I'm game.

#comics #dc comics #robin #tim drake #batman #bruce wayne #red robin #jason todd #red hood #spoiler #stephanie brown #batfamily #batfam #home alone #then they build a safe house into a home alone style trap #the goons were fine they got money for the price of doing a giant excape room which isnt really ooc for gotham.

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kinz2007 · 26 days ago

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Them: simplify packing for the trip by only taking things that are necessary

Me: say no more

#went to my parents house like this. unavoidable #I'm always like I can't leave them alone its not Safe for them and they will be sad #plushies #plushblr #webkinz #kinzblr #kinzposting #toys #plushie #stuffed animals #stuffies #toyblr #toycore #comfort object

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met4lwhore · 9 months ago

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I killed a part of me to keep you alive.

And u never noticed

#borderline personality disorder #bpd #mental illness #borderline culture is #bpd safe #bpd splitting #bpd thoughts #depressing shit #actually borderline #attachment #alive #survivor #notice #leave me alone

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heavenscapes · 2 years ago

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HARD LATIN - SoundCloud

Listen to HARD LATIN by ⓒⓗⓡⓘⓢ ⓢⓐⓝⓣⓞⓢ on #SoundCloud

#the way it's literally just called hard latin #it's not hard tho it's a pretty chill dance mix #i literally found it by accident trying to find a track I'm p sure got wiped off the face of the earth 🌎❤️‍🩹#but it's the face washing soundtrack for tonite dolls #SoundCloud #the beats/riddims with the melancholic melodies is giving hot late night as a kid waking up to music videos on tv with nobody else home #sense of bittersweet safety #alone but safe but alone but safe #it's also giving kermes #late night at school #times and places you usually aren't #i miss kermeses so bad real talk #except for when i don't #shout out to moms selling homemade tamales and atole and ice cold coke you gotta fish out from the bottom of big meat fridges and carnival #and carnival games #shout out to jumping the fence into the kindergarten side to chill with the outcasts #shout out to one of my best friends holding me down to get my ass kicked by his better friend in the middle of the courtyard in front of #everyone #shoutout to dim lighting everywhere from hanging string lights and veladoras recasting the same places you know every day in literal #new light #memories from five lifetimes ago #only not really #i really can't belive i made it to adulthood #and now I'm a hustling trans dj in a strange land #I'd say life takes you places but it was all on me #anyways i wish the mix had more front and center latin inspiration like if you're gonna name it that step your game up girl #got me mad introspective tho to the beat of my cleansing hands #it's mostly house

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bedazzlecunt · 9 months ago

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i really do have to emphasize that like. horny tumblr is a fucking horrible place to learn about kink. at least half the people here have never had sex (or done kink without sex) beyond sexting on omegle, and even the ones who do have any experience with sex and and kink and IRL kink spaces (including myself!) are mostly engaging in fantasy and theatre and performance. that's fine! that's fun! there's nothing wrong with that. but i do worry so much about all the 18 yr olds i see on here who've never had sex, many of whom have never been in a relationship, and who are building ideas about kink and sex and health based on the most deranged fantasy-of-the-sort-you-literally-cannot-do-safely-irl tumblr posts. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not take any tumblr posts as actual kink education, including and sometimes especially the ones claiming to be actual kink education. there are actual books and groups and dungeons for that.

#wren speaking!#im not saying that theres 0 good advice but i am saying that like #there is so little good advice compared 2 the utter nonsense #'how to safely choke someone' you cannot safely choke someone. it is literally impossible #'aftercare guide!' clearly written by someone who has never so much as gotten 2 third base let alone done aftercare #'what to do if you cant communicate with ur dom' the only thing To Do in that situation is not 2 play

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 11 months ago

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Bare skin, bare feelings.

[First] Prev <–-> Next

#poorly drawn mdzs #mdzs #lan wangji #wei wuxian #blood #Imagine coming off as homophobic to your crush so bad he weaponizes a strip tease against you.#LWJ is just having a storm of bad emotions. His tummy hurt real bad and he was just trying to be brave about it!#WWX is just trying to be a good bro and heal his friendcrush. It worked but not for the reasons he thinks it did.#LWJ's shyness is also hilarious here considering they have bathed together before. Literally nothing there he hasn't seen before.#Granted it was a few years back and before he was left to stew in his feelings.#LWJ is more focused on his pride than being responsible and reasonable (getting is wounds treated).#His arc really is about accepting that he can't be perfect. That there is importance in being honest and vulnerable.#The tragedy is that he realizes this way too late.#Pride is the worst sin because it destroys your ability to protect anything other than the smallest crown in the world.#When everyone is gone and you are left alone - was it worth it to feel safe and protected from showing your flaws?#Control over oneself is in conflict with connection to others. You cannot pick both.#Hanguang-jun appears to us as a 'perfect guy' but the truth is that he is the version of LWJ who is done with *needing* that validation.#And this time - He can properly reach out to those he wants to be close with.

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pien-art · 11 months ago

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Little Moiraine and baby Anvaere 💫

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prints available here !

#i can just imagine moiraine as the best big sister when they were growing up #protective and patient and eager to do right by anvaere. to keep her safe. to make her laugh and smile. reading to her and playing with her #and teaching her how to survive #and then she learned to channel #and suddenly anvaere was all alone #my art #wot #twot #wot fanart #fanart #the wheel of time #wheel of time on prime #wot on prime #moiraine damodred #anvaere damodred #art

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vaguely-concerned · 5 months ago

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purple hawke who, at malcolm's death, lost not only a father, a mentor, the single most stable and safe point in their world up until this moment. but also the only person in their life who would consistently, gleefully 'yes, and — ' them. the loss, in one fell swoop, of both a beloved parent and your sole willing — no, not only willing, enthusiastic — improv partner. truly, the most unkindest cut of all that the maker could have seen fit to deal. (there's always so much less laughter in the house, after malcolm's gone.)

and then after all the horrors of the blight and trying to make a new life in the shithole turned shithome of kirkwall....... they meet varric. and something that's been slumbering deep within their soul dries a tear of relief and joy and whispers 'oh we are so back'. and they are so right

#bound together by an oath more solemn and more sacred than any vow of marriage #(I'll be your yes and for life bro. I really mean it bro. your nonsense is safe with me bro./*bro*)#commitment to the bit. and also our friendship. queerplatonic life improv partners & bullshit enablers. a beautiful thing tbh #dragon age #dragon age 2 #varric tethras #hawke #purple hawke #on second thought let's not go to kirkwall; it is a silly place #purple hawke seems in some way especially alone in their family to me in some ways? there's no one to 'match' them #blue hawke and bethany seem to understand each other quite well; red hawke and carver are kind of uh 'on the same wavelength'#for all that that wavelength involves constantly butting heads and being shitty to each other haha #with malcolm gone there's really no one else in the household who seems to resonate even in that way with purple hawke #varric seems to have a similar situation going in his own family too which like. I'm so glad these chucklefucks found each other haha #oh to have a best friend you could just play effortless nonsense tennis with for hours at a time again. I miss that in my life

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zu-is-here · 4 months ago

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